Obituaries
Thomas M. Shay, 77
October 13, 2025
Thomas M. Shay, 77, of Lancaster, passed away on October 13, 2025, at 1:47PM surrounded by his wife of 48 years, Colette Shay and daughter, Brandie McAllister.
Thomas was a proud Vietnam Veteran who honorably served in both the United States Navy and the National Guard. He was a lifelong circus and train enthusiast and took great pride in his extensive collection that reflected his passion. Thomas was also a big animal lover. He dedicated many years as a Cub and Boy Scout leader for Troop 16 through St. Joseph’s Catholic Church. Thomas was known for his kind heart and gentle spirit that he shared with everyone.
He is also survived by an estranged son, TJ Shay; two brothers, Michael and Patrick Shay; six grandchildren and 10 great grandchildren.
He was preceded in death by his parents, Victor and Helen Shay and his sister, Sheila Shay.
Interment is being held privately at the convenience of the family.
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Condolences to the Family
October 24, 2025
Sorry to hear of Tom’s passing. I went to school with Tom and worked with him at the E. Pete auto auction. Not much more to say except he and I had a lot of good conversations at the auction. He was the lane captain on lane 5. Another HHS guy gone.
Barry J Kissinger
October 19, 2025
Colette, I was saddened to hear of Tom’s passing. He was a good friend and I enjoyed his many stories and working with him on the Ma & Pa. He and I especially enjoyed running the trains for the school groups where many boys and girls learned about trains during their first train ride. I will pray for God’s comfort to you and your family. Charlie High
October 18, 2025
Colette, Brandi and family
Sorry for your loss of husband and father. I remember Tom and you Colette as willing and enthusastic volunteers for the Cub Scout program. He was a huge help to me as prep cook for the carnival food concession for several years. In recent years we would have chance meetings at Weis Market and spend a few minutes recalling those times.
Jim Dougherty
October 17, 2025
Dear Colette,
I am so sorry to hear about Tom’s passing. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Ceil Scheetz
