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Stephen Haefner, 30

January 18, 2022

It is with great sadness we announce the passing of our son, Stephen Haefner, who died unexpectedly on Tuesday, January 18th. Stephen was born in Lancaster in 1991 and was a 2009 graduate of Manheim Twp. High School. He learned the welding trade at Thaddeus Stevens and had worked in Lebanon and in York, PA. He is the youngest son of Francis Haefner, Jr. and Lisa (Ward) Haefner, of Landisville, PA. He is also immediately survived by his brother Andrew Haefner (husband of Ashley), of Lititz, PA and sister Kathleen Kane (wife of Jason), of York, PA. Stephen is also survived by his grandfather, Francis Haefner, Sr. (Lititz) and great-grandmother Gloria Horner (Lancaster).

Stephen was very close to his brother and sister, as well as his cousins. He loved everyone in the family, so very much, and that love never wavered or was withheld. He was sensitive to the well-being of others; always demonstrating concern for their welfare.

Stephen was also a thoughtful person, someone who was naturally inquisitive. He had a wonderful sense of humor and what’s been described as a contagious laugh. He enjoyed family vacations, volleyball & basketball, video games, and watching true crime stories with his father. He always looked forward to our family gatherings. Stephen was very much beloved, by all who knew him.

A viewing will be held on Wednesday, January 26, 2022, from 5:30PM – 7:30PM at the Charles F. Snyder Jr, Funeral Home & Crematory, 3110 Lititz Pike, Lititz, PA 17543. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 11:30 AM on Thursday, January 27, 2022, at St. Anne’s Catholic Church, 929 N. Duke St. Lancaster, PA 17602. Friends and family will be received from 10:30 AM until the time of service. Interment will follow at St. Anthony’s Catholic Cemetery, Lancaster, PA.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Organization for Responsible Care of Animals (ORCA).

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February 03, 2022

Fran and Lisa,
I am so terribly sorry to hear about your son’s passing.  I am praying for you and your entire family, for strength and comfort from the Lord, as well as the peace that passes all understanding.  Please know that you are in my thoughts!
 
Leslie Smith (Kohl’s)

February 02, 2022

Fran and Lisa, so sorry to hear about Stephen…our hearts go out to you and your family after this tragic loss.

February 01, 2022

Fran and family…I was heartbroken to learn of the death of your son Stephen. May time diminish the pain.
Your volleyball friend      MAC
 
 
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February 01, 2022

So sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved son.  You are in our thoughts and prayers.
 
Doris and Alan Levin

January 31, 2022

Fran and family- Deepest condolences on the loss of your son. May the loving memories help you through this tragic time.
John P. Moore

January 29, 2022

I’m sorry to hear about Haef! I’m an old friend from many many years ago and just found out. I’m terribly sorry for Haefs death and lose of your son!! He was an excellent man raised by two fantastic people!! I’m gonna miss him.
 

January 28, 2022

Oh my Lisa, my college friend, and husband Fran! I am so very sorry to hear of your sons passing. 💔 My friend Tracey Helm had shared his obituary on FB. I clicked on it and it gave me chills when I recognized your names…my heart is breaking for you and your family. I did not know your son, but Lisa, I have known you since college!!  I’ll add your family to my prayer list. God bless you with his Comforter and caring. 🙏🏻🙏🏻Hugs!! 

January 27, 2022

To our cherished friends, the Haefner Family – We send our love and condolences to you all.  Our family has always been at the receiving end of your generosity, kindness, and loving support; please allow us to do the same for you and your family at this time.  All our love and sincere sympathy, The O’Sullivan Family

January 26, 2022

Fran, So sorry to hear of your loss; my sincere condolences. My thoughts and prayers are with you!
Thomas J. Kovach

January 26, 2022

Dear Andrew, Ashley, and all of Stephen’s loved ones…
I’ve been unable to find words adequate to express my sorrow and sadness. My heart is breaking for all of you. Stephen sounds like a great person that I would have loved. 💕
My sincere sympathies to all.
Barbara Beley Taber

January 25, 2022

Stephen,
Words cannot express how saddened I am to lose you. My heart will forever have a hole thay cannot be filled. I am deeply upset that my future children will never know their uncle who had such a loving and kind heart. Instead now I will only be able to share the memories of us growing up playing Star Wars, Beanie Babies, Power Rangers, Pokémon, and the so many things we three kids did together. I look forward to seeing you again one day. I love and miss you so much!!! ❤💚💙
Love,
Your Brother and Best Friend Andrew
 

January 25, 2022

Stephen, you left this world too soon. You were a kind soul, a loving man, and showed a caring heart. You were truly loved by your family and friends in this life and I hope you find the peace you deserve in the next. I love you Stephen and we all will miss you dearly.
To all of my family friends in mourning, there are no words to console a loss such as this but please know that Stephen will always be loved, always be remebered and will always be cherished by all who have ever known him. Stephen will live on in our hearts and minds and we will always be better for the time we had to spend with him. The love for family and loyalty to friendship demonstrated by Stephen throughout his life should serve as a model to strive towards for all of us in honor of his memory.
“The loss is immeasurable, but so is the love left behind. Rest in peace, my friend.”
-Justin
 

January 25, 2022

We are praying and hoping you find strength and comfort from your faith, family and friends during this difficult time. Even though Stephen has been taken from our sight, we still have our memories to cherish.
God bless.

January 25, 2022

There truly are no words adequate to ease your pain and heartbreak. Please know that Greg and I have been very saddened since we heard of Stephen’s passing last week. Unfortunately, we did not get time to know him well after we officially became family at Ashley and Andrew’s wedding. While reading his obituary and comments, we got to see what a wonderful son, brother and friend he was to everyone-how big his heart truly was.
I would have loved to have gotten one of his big hugs that so many talked about. I enjoyed listening to him speak at the wedding and welcoming Ashley (our daughter) wholeheartedly to the family.
Although not at all the same, your loss is our loss as well as our families blend together. We will continue to pray and support all of you in the near and distant future.
All our love, Kimberly and Gregory 

January 25, 2022

Stephen, 
It breaks our hearts that you were taken so unexpectedly. Your memory will never leave us and live long in our hearts. You were a very special nephew with kindness in your heart and the love we had together. In our hearts you’ll live forever because we thought the world of you. We miss you so much. We love you always and forever. Rest In Peace ❤️
Mike & Cindy Ward
 
 

January 25, 2022

We are so sorry for Stephen’s passing.  We hadn’t had the opportunity to know him well, but when he was in our company, Stephen was so friendly and easy to talk with – what a blessing for a son.  Our heart-felt thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

January 25, 2022

Fran and family, so very sorry to hear about your loss. Please know you are in my thoughts.
Karen Davis

January 25, 2022

So very sorry for the loss of your son. Sending my deepest condolences and prayers. 

January 25, 2022

Please know your Butts cousins and our families are with you all at this time. We pray for your peace during this sad time. 
 

January 25, 2022

Stephen, I am struggling with horrendous grief at losing you. You are, and will always be, my very precious and beloved son. “My little baby boy” who brought me incredible joy when you were born and who delighted us as we raised you. Our bond as father and son further deepened in an almost indescribable way as you and I talked about life and it’s challenges over the years. I saw in you “God’s beautiful creation.”  You were beautiful inside; everyone,  family and friends, recognized this through your love and kindness and by your caring nature. Stephen, you have sadly graced us with your presence for too short a period of time. I will personally miss our one-on-one time. I will tremendously miss your hugs. I will forever miss your voice. Rest peacefully now, Stephen. Dad 

January 25, 2022

Our hearts are broken for your family. We think of you every day and pray for Gods peace and comfort for the family.

January 25, 2022

So sorry for your loss.  Our prayers go out to your family!
Randy & Sherie Fulmer and family

January 25, 2022

It is with deep sadness that i must say goodbye to my beloved youngest child, Stephen Haefner. I am so very blessed to have you in our family. I love you very much and know that you are at peace now. I will always cherish our memories and forever have conversations about what you would have said or done. Please give us signs that your spirit is with us. I love you always and forever.  Until we meet again ..Your Mom❤️

January 24, 2022

We are extremely sorry for such a tragic loss. Your family is in our prayers. God Bless.

January 24, 2022

Everyone at National Associates Doylestown is so very sorry for your loss. We are keeping you in prayer. God Bless you and your family during this difficult time. 
Lisa Krol

January 24, 2022

I am so sorry for your loss. 🙏🙏🙏 for your family. MAY GOD bless you.  Nancy Zahm and family. 

January 24, 2022

I’m very sorry for your devastating loss. Praying for your family. 🙏🏽
Richards Family 
Dan, Samara, Bryson & Aliera

January 24, 2022

I am so sorry for your loss – I can’t imagine how difficult it must be. Stephen sounds like he was a fantastic and genuine person. You will all be in my thoughts. 

January 23, 2022

Lisa, Fran, Andrew and Kathleen, I am so very sorry for your devastating loss. There are no words to describe the heartbreak and no words to offer of comfort. Stephen will leave a huge void and I pray that time will ease the anguish and replace it with warm, loving memories. With deepest condolences,

January 23, 2022

Stephen was a fun-loving and genuine person who oozed love for his family. He has left behind many great memories for his family to cherish for years to come until they meet again. Stephen’s smile and kind heart will surely be missed on this side of heaven. 

January 23, 2022

You were always such a kind soul. Rest in eternal peace. You will be missed. 

January 23, 2022

We are saddened to hear of your loss and are praying for all of his family and friends.  May your wonderful memories comfort you during this difficult time.  Jeff,  Michele and Nichole Stanley – (Amanda’s in-laws)

January 22, 2022

Stephen, never in a million years did I think I would be writing this message to you any time soon. Not a single day will go by that I do not think about you or have you cross my mind. I considered you not only my little brother, but my best friend. There will always be a piece of my heart that feels empty knowing you are gone. That void in my heart cannot be filled because you are such a special, unique person that cannot be replaced.  I miss you so much already and would give anything to see you or hear your voice just one more time. I hope that you are happy and healthy up in heaven. I will forever cherish our many memories over the last 30 years.  We’ve shared so many special moments and many laughs together.  Thank you for always being there for Bailey and I and how good you were to us both.  Bailey will also miss all the fun times you’ve shared with her.  You always played with her no matter what that entailed – you would play Barbie’s with her or be her personal little pony and give her pony rides. No words can properly express the deep sadness I have because you’re gone. I love you so very much and you meant everything to me. You were my person. It pains me to say goodbye but brings me some peace to know that one day we will meet again. 

January 22, 2022

Steve, I will miss you greatly –grandpa 

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