Sharmistha Mallik, 75

February 18, 2021

Sharmistha Mallik, 75, of Lancaster, passed away peacefully at Susquehanna Valley Nursing and Rehabilitation Center on February 18, 2021. Born in Kolkata, India, she was the daughter of the late Sushil Kumar Das and Bivabhati Das. Sharmistha was the loving wife of Arun with whom she celebrated 40 years of marriage at the time of his passing in 2014.

Sharmistha will be remembered for her friendly, nurturing, and caring personality. She was devoted to God and loved her family very dearly. She absolutely loved spending time with Bampi, Donna, and Alex. This was one of the highlights of her life. Her hobbies included listening to Indian classical music especially music by Ravi Shankur, watching Bengali, Hindi, and English movies, and definitely cooking. She was known for her phenomenal restaurant-quality food. Sharmistha was quite the organized, tidy, Domestic Goddess. She loved gardening and planting flowers and many types of vegetables. She used to have a daycare business in her home and loved the joy of children and their laughter in it. Sharmistha will be missed for her warm and shining presence.

A loving mother and grandmother, she is survived by son Bampi Raj Mallik, daughter Donna Mallik, and grandson Alexander Johnson. She is also survived by loving relatives in England and India. She was preceded in death by her husband Arun Mallik in 2014.

Guests will be received on Saturday, February 27, 2021 for a time of viewing starting from 2:30 until 3:30PM at Charles F. Snyder, Jr. Funeral Home & Crematory, 3110 Lititz Pike, Lititz, PA. A Hindu Funeral Service/English Celebration of Life will be held at 3:30PM. There will be Indian food served afterwards in the hospitality room for friends and family to join for a time of fellowship. For those who would like and feel more comfortable, take out will be available.

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March 01, 2021

Dear Donna, Alex, and Bampi,
Sending a big hug to all of you. I have the fondest memories of Sharmistha Mashi from the old days in PA. I hope her memory brings you comfort and peace.

February 27, 2021

Dearest Donna ,
My heartfelt condolences to your bereaved family on the demise of Sharmistha(Misti) Jethima. “Misti” in bengali means sweet . She was our sweet ,beautiful and caring aunty. We will miss her and she will always stay in our memories .

February 27, 2021

Donna, I am so glad that Christine’s life brought us together. You are now and forever my sister. I am very sorry for your loss. I pray for your strength and healing. Love you always. Amen.

February 26, 2021

Donna I am so sorry to see that your mother passed.  Sending hugs and prayers to you and your family. 
Faye Hegener 

February 26, 2021

Dearest cousins Bampi and Donna, and young Alex,
You are in my thoughts and prayers. I will always remember your parents’s warmth and kindness towards me. Distance and time may separate us, but rest assured that I love you.
Sushmitadidi and family

February 25, 2021

My deepest sympathy to Raj, Donna and Alex.  Even though I didn’t know Donna’s parents I have seen a beautiful Woman, Mother, and friend created by both.  I am so glad I have become long standing friends over 20 years!  That says plenty.  BE STRONG!  💪for your son Alex and younger brother.
Robin Rollins

February 24, 2021

Donna, I did not know your mother but she must have been amazing to have raised a daughter like you 
Cheryl Mcevoy

February 23, 2021

My heart goes out to you Donna. Your mother sounds just lovely and I can tell you have many of her wonderful traits. Much love to you, Alex and Bampi. 
Rebekah Rothweiler

February 23, 2021

Sharmistha di, a motherly figure to me, always loved and appreciated my presence will be missed dearly. May her soul Rest in peace.  God will take care of all her pains from now on
My Sincere and Deepest sympathy to Donna and her Son, Alex. God bless you and Give you guys strength to overcome this loss . Prayers for the family
Partha Bose

February 23, 2021

My heart breaks for your family and finds peace in your mother’s passing as it eases her pain and confusion.  She and your father raised beautiful children.  Donna, I am always here whenever or wherever you need.  My thoughts and prayers for your healing
Shari Kurth

Saturday, February 27, 2021
2:30 PM - 3:30 PM
Charles F. Snyder Funeral Home & Crematory
3110 Lititz Pike
Lititz, PA 17543
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