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Sandra J. “Sandy” Smith Myers, 74

August 14, 1949 - March 22, 2024

With heavy hearts, we announce the passing of Sandra J. “Sandy” Myers on March 22, 2024, a resilient soul who graced this earth with her presence for seventy-four years. Sandra faced the challenges of a Parkinson’s diagnosis with unwavering grace and dignity for over two decades, embodying strength in the face of adversity. Born on August 14, 1949, in El Dorado, AR, she is the daughter of Barbara (Bridgman) Dixon of Willow Street, and the late Jack Myers.

A devoted mother to her daughter Sarah Bridgman Smith of Lancaster, and a loving wife to Charles E. Smith II of Willow Street, with whom she shared over 46 years of marriage. Sandra’s nurturing spirit radiated through her roles as both a parent and a partner. Known for her exceptional hosting skills, Sandy welcomed countless friends and family members into her home with warmth and generosity.

She graduated from the University of Colorado with a Bachelor of Arts and dedicated over 22 years as a purser for Pan American World Airways. In her leisure time, Sandy found joy in the simple pleasures of life. She delighted in playing tennis, solving crossword puzzles, and engaging in spirited games of bridge and Scrabble. Her collection of seashells from Sanibel Island, Florida, was a testament to her love of the ocean and the beauty of nature.

Sandra’s altruistic nature shone through her volunteer work at the Metropolitan Museum of Art in New York and her involvement in various charitable organizations. She was a former President of the Board of the Cathedral Gardens at St. John the Divine, a longtime member of the New York Junior League and St. James Episcopal Church, and an honorary board member of Health Advocates for Older People in New York.

Her memory will be cherished by her mother, husband, daughter, brothers Robert Myers of Houston, TX and Marcus Dixon (Karen) of Huntsville, AL, and all those who were privileged to know her.

A Celebration of Sandy’s life, love and spirit will be held at 1 PM on Saturday, April 27, 2024, at the Willow Valley Communities, Spring Run Auditorium, 950 Willow Valley Lakes Dr., 5th Floor, Willow Street, PA 17584. Interment will take place at 1 PM on Thursday, September 12, 2024 at St. James’ Church, 865 Madison Ave., New York, Ny 10021. In lieu of flowers the family requests memorial contributions may be sent to St. James’ Church at the address above or the Willow Valley Communities Charitable Foundation – In Memory of Sandra J. Myers, 100 Willow Valley Lakes Drive, Willow Street, PA 17584.

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April 13, 2024

Sandy was a gracious charmer, and a wiz at the bridge table.
Our sympathy to Chuck and Sarah.
Tom and Nancy Loane

April 09, 2024

Sandy was such a role model for all of us. She always had a warm smile & happy hello.
It was my Blessing to know her.
Kathryn Zigmont

April 08, 2024

This news breaks my heart!  I thoroughly enjoyed Sandy’s spirit and determination in the Rock Steady boxing program at WVC which was interrupted by the pandemic.  My condolences to you all.
Brenda and Bill Dorsey

March 31, 2024

I was fortunate to have first gotten to know Sandy by traveling to Italy with her and her St. James friends and then when she would visit Westhampton. Sandy was knowledgeable, generous and always thoughtful of others. She was courageous in the face of great difficulty, lived her life to the fullest and will always be a role model for me. 
Barbara Sartorius

March 29, 2024

Flying with Sandy was always such a treat. You knew your trip would be full of fun & laughter. I so enjoyed being with her. May her soul rest in peace & may her memory always be a blessing  Mary Ann Kearney

March 29, 2024

We felt honored to know such a gracious lady while she lived at Willow Valley.  Her presence and wit and spunk will be missed.
John and Doris Lyons

March 29, 2024

I am so very sorry to hear of Sandys’ passing.  I flew with her many times and always enjoyed our flights and layovers.  I wish I had known she lived so close to me.  I’m in Lititz and I would have enjoyed a regular visit with her. May she rest gently and may God hold her in the palm of His hand forever.
June Smith

March 29, 2024

I am so sad to learn of Sandra’s passing.  I will always hold dear the fond memories of flying with her over the many years at Pan Am. She was the epitome of grace, style and professionalism!
God speed dear Sandra…rest in peace!
Kevin Holley

March 28, 2024

I’m so sorry to read that Sandra has passed. Although I haven’t seen her in many years, I remember her well and fondly from her Pan Am days, an airline we both flew for.  She was so much fun to work with, she had a great sense of humor, she was smart, kind, and lovely. She has gone far too soon. My condolences to her family.
Romanie R Baines

Services
Saturday, April 27, 2024
1:00 PM
Willow Valley Communities, Spring Run Auditorium
950 Willow Valley Lakes Dr.
5th Floor
Willow Street, PA 17584
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