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Ruth E. Parmer, 95

September 29, 2024

Ruth E. Parmer, 95, formerly of East Petersburg, passed away on Sunday, September 29, 2024.

She was the wife of the late Robert L. Parmer, who passed away in 2002. Born in Lancaster, she was the daughter of the late Elizabeth Ober Ruhl. Ruth was a descendant of Peter Gotshall, a prominent landowner who sold parcels of land to Daniel Wolf, who was the founder of East Petersburg and named the town in Peter’s honor.

Ruth had been a homemaker, and a long-time member of Grace EC Church of East Petersburg (formerly Lancaster) where she taught Sunday School for 25 years, served on the board, and was very involved in missions support.

She loved flowers and her flower beds, making bouquets that she sold at her house over the years. Ruth also had worked at the voting polls in East Petersburg for 25 years as well. She also enjoyed spending time with her family and babysitting in years past.

Ruth is survived by her children: Donald married to Sue Parmer of Columbia, Dennis married to Sue Parmer of Ephrata, and Brenda married to John Worden of Landisville; her 7 grandchildren, her 15 great grandchildren, and her 2 great great grandchildren. She was preceded in death by her son, Robert Parmer Jr. and her 2 brothers: Lloyd and John, and her 2 sisters: Blanche and Arlene.

Family and friends are invited to attend the Graveside Services at Conestoga Memorial Park, 85 Second Lock Rd., Lancaster, PA on Thursday, October 3, 2024 at 2PM.

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Condolences to the Family

October 03, 2024

Sorry for your loss Brenda I can’t make it just found out she will be going home to be with Uncle Robert she was a great aunt   Carl wolf 

October 02, 2024

We were lucky enough to have Ruth as our neigbor for over 6 years.   I will never forget how she would be outside weeding her flowers for hours, and at that time, she was in her 80’s!  She was a strong woman, with a big heart and great faith.  She will be forever remembered fondly by us.  With lots of love:  Emily, Steve, Mary and Joe Bukowski

October 02, 2024

So sorry for your loss. Your 
mother was a great lady. We had many great times together.  our Sympathy goes out to Brenda and all the family.
John and Alberta Steffy

October 01, 2024

So sorry for your loss!  Our prayers and sympathies go out to Brenda Worden and family!   
Interstate Aerials, LLC

October 01, 2024

I was sorry to read of Mrs. Parmer’s passing.  She was a sweet lady and very involved at Lancaster Grace EC when I attended there.  Sincere sympathy to all of the family.
Tina (Dimitris) Bicksler

October 01, 2024

So sorry for your loss. Had the pleasure of meeting this young lady. Hope you’re family finds peace in these tough times. You cared for her so well . She was blessed. Love you all
Brenda McDonald
 

Services
Thursday, October 03, 2024
2:00 PM
Conestoga Memorial Park
95 Second Lock Road
Lancaster, PA
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