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Robert M. “Bob” Going, Esquire, 88
May 04, 2016
Robert M. “Bob” Going, 88, of Lancaster, PA, passed away on Wednesday, May 4, 2016. He was the loving husband of Margaret M. “Peggy” (Gunselman) Going, to whom he had been married for 63 years. Bob was born in Amsterdam, NY to John J. and Marion (Morton) Going.
Bob graduated from Lancaster Catholic High School in 1945 and then enlisted in the US Navy. He was stationed for three years at the Naval Air Station Whidbey Island, Washington, where he served as Director in a Ground Control Approach “GCA” unit. He remained in the Reserve for an additional four years.
After the Navy, Bob graduated from Franklin & Marshall College in 1952 with an A.B. degree in History. He then attended Dickinson School of Law, Carlisle, from which he graduated in 1955.
Bob married Peggy in 1953. They had five children, three of whom followed him in his profession, becoming lawyers.
Beginning the practice of law in 1956, Bob practiced in Lancaster for over 50 years – retiring from Going & Plank at 140 E. King Street. During that time, he was Executive Director and Solicitor for the Lancaster Redevelopment Authority and Director of the Adams-Musser Township Project. He also was a member of the Lancaster City Planning Commission and Assistant City Solicitor.
A lifelong Democrat, Bob served the party in many ways, including running for U.S. Congress in 1968 and acting as Chairman of the Lancaster County Democratic Committee from 1972 through 1975.
Bob was a member of the Knights of Columbus, American Legion, Hamilton Club, US Navy GCA-ATC Association of Lancaster and the Lancaster and Pennsylvania Bar Associations.
Surviving Bob are his wife, Peggy, and their five children: Pati Going Frey (wife of Phil Frey) of Lancaster, Robert Going, Jr., Esq. of Lancaster, Thomas Going, Esq. (husband of Nancy Goldman Going) of Rosemont, Julia Going Becker, Esq., (wife of Eric Becker, M.D.) of Center Valley, and Marian Going Grill (wife of Todd Grill) of Lancaster. Bob is also survived by 15 grandchildren, of whom he was extremely proud: John, David, Olivia, Joseph, Andrew, Molly, Kevin, Hayden, Ben, Emily, Sam, Alex, Ian, Jesse and Brody. Bob was predeceased by his sister, Elizabeth Going of Lancaster, but is survived by his brother, John E. Going, of New York, New York.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at Sacred Heart of Jesus Catholic Church 558 W. Walnut St., Lancaster, PA 17603 on Tuesday, May 10, 2016, at 11:00 a.m. with the Rev. Michael Messner as Celebrant. The family will receive friends at the church on Tuesday from 10:00 a.m. to 11:00 a.m. Private interment will be in St. Mary’s Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Music for Everyone 42 N. Prince St. Lancaster, PA 17603
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Condolences to the Family
May 19, 2016
We send our condolences to the Bob Going family. He will certainly be missed by his family and the business commuity. We remember the times we shared, and the years at Catholic High. Paula and George Schott, Punta Gorda Fl. Formerly of Lancaster, Pa
May 09, 2016
Dear Julie, We’re so sorry to hear of your Dad’s passing. He was a very accomplished man and passed his values to his children ~ a tremendous legacy, indeed. Sending you our deepest condolences across the miles.
Love,
Charlann and David
May 09, 2016
Pati…you and your family are in my heart and prayers.
May 08, 2016
The Bob Gunselman family extends the most heartfelt sympathy to the Going family. Job well done Mort, a wonderful life and a beautiful legacy. May your many memories bring a smile and a joy not to be forgotten.
May 08, 2016
Julie,
So sorry to hear about the passing of your father. While we never knew him personally reading about him gave us insight into what a brilliant and influential man he was. You must have been very proud of him and of the wonderful family he raised. Please extend our deepest condolences to the family.
Love, Eileen & Al
May 07, 2016
Julie,
i know you must be heart broken. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Such an accomplished man. The space he left will impact a very broad community. I hope you will find some comfort in remembering what an incredibly long and rich life your father lived. Love to you and all of your family.
Jodi Dumas
May 07, 2016
To the Entire Going Family,
Our deepest condolences to your family.
You are being remembered today and always
for all the happy and memorable times shared with your family. You were all part of what makes growing up in Lancaster a great place. We will never forget you and all the happy times shared.
Mr G you will truly be missed.
peace and love
Josette Dannessa
May 07, 2016
Dearest Pati,
vickie told me about your dear Dad and I am very sad for you. I miss my sweet Mother every day and can empathize with you In a personal way.
May God bless you and your family and I will remember you all in my prayers.
Vee
May 07, 2016
Our deepest condolences to you all.
With kindest regards
Selena Going, of Opotiki New Zealand.
May 06, 2016
Todd, Meg and family, so sorry to hear of the loss of your father. Take comfort in the many wonderful memories you have. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Love you. Steve and Missy
May 06, 2016
Pati and family,
I am so sorry about the loss of your Dad. I have many fond memories of sleep overs at your house and your Dad telling us to keep the volume down on our laughter and talking because we might wake Marian! : ) Keep close to your heart all the loving memories you made with your Dad because he will always be there!
Love you a bunch, prayers and warm thoughts,
Barb Miller
May 06, 2016
Pati, I am so sorry to hear of your dad’s passing. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers … prayers for peace and comfort as you go through the days ahead. Hugs, Marilyn Landis
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- Lancaster, PA
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