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Mary Elizabeth “Betty” McCaskey, 97

June 09, 2017

Mary Elizabeth “Betty” McCaskey, of Lititz, formerly of Lancaster, passed away peacefully at Moravian Manor on Friday, June 9, 2017. Born October 27, 1919 in Sunbury, PA, she was the daughter of the late WJB Smith and Estella Doster Smith. Her family relocated to Lancaster in 1933.
Betty graduated from Stevens High School for Girls, where she served as class president as a junior. She was employed as a secretary at Eshelman & Sons in Lancaster. In 1942 Betty married Thomas McCaskey who preceded her in death in 1994. Tom and Betty had two sons, Philip, husband of Mary Lou McCaskey, of Mission Viejo, CA and Kevin, husband of Susan F. McCaskey, of Lancaster. She will be dearly missed by her grandchildren, Kyna, Brendan, Claire and Libby, and great grandsons Rudy and Joaquin. Additionally, she will be missed by many friends, former coworkers, and nieces and nephews. She was also preceded in death by her two sisters, Sally Martin and Alice Egan.
Betty enjoyed sports, and was a loyal Phillies and Chicago Bears fan. A lover of music, she had an extensive record collection, and her favorites were Frank Sinatra and Tony Bennett. Betty also enjoyed travel, having made trips to California, Hawaii, Ireland, Bermuda, The Caribbean and Key West. In 1972, Betty began working for The Council on Drug and Alcohol Abuse, now known as Compass Mark, where she spent a 28-year career as an administrative assistant. During her time with the Council, Betty helped to establish the first chapter of Al-Anon in Lancaster. She was a lifelong member of St. John’s Episcopal Church, where she served on the Vestry and Flower Guild for many years.
The family would like to thank everyone at Moravian Manor who contributed to Betty’s care and happiness over the last 9 years. Additionally, they would like to thank Compassus Hospice Care, who provided comfort to Betty during her final days.
A Memorial Service will be at The Steinman Hall at Moravian Manor 300 W. Lemon St. Lititz, PA 17543 on Thursday, June 15th, 2017 at 11:30 AM. The family will receive friends from 10:30AM-11:30 AM. Interment will be at St. Mary’s Catholic Cemetery, Lancaster, PA. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Compass Mark 630 Janet Ave., Lancaster, PA 17601, St. John’s Episcopal Church 321 W. Chestnut St., Lancaster, PA 17603, or Compassus Hospice Care in Betty’s memory.

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June 12, 2017

I hadn’t been touch with Betty for years, but the period of time she blessed my life with her presence was truly a blessing.  Betty was smart, witty, and I loved her laugh.  I’d walk into what was then the National Council on Drugs and Alcohol and usually the first person I saw was Betty.  Here we are 40 years later and I still remember the vivacious woman that Betty was.  My condolences to all her family. There are not many individuals that you know for only a relatively short period of time that you remember with great fondness 40 years later.  Betty was one of those.  Wendy Wood
 
 

June 12, 2017

All my thoughts and prayers are with you, Phil & Kevin, as your mourn the loss of your mother. Betty was dearly loved and treasured here at Compass Mark. Sending you healing hugs, Phyllis Spencer

June 11, 2017

I WANT TO WISH MY CONDOLENCES TO THE MCCASKEY FAMILY, I HAVE KNOWN BETTY MOST OF HER TIME AT MORAVIAN MANOR,SHE WAS SUCH A WONDERFUL LADY,,,VERY THOUGHTFUL AND KIND TO OTHERS. SHE ALWAYS HAD A SMILE FOR ME WHEN I SAW HER, SHE WILL BE MISSED!                                            GOD BLESS YOU!            GEORGE

June 11, 2017

I am so, so sad.  My heart is with all of her children and grandchildren and great grandchildren whom she was proud of and loved so much.  When I would visit her she would show me the latest pictures or letters.  She was a very important part of my life since 1984 when I worked with her.  She had the “steady as we go” attitude that I so needed in my life.  Betty’s spirit and integrity will always be with me and I know that it will continue in the lives of her children and grandchildren.  I was priviledged to have had her as my friend.  Go with God, Betty.  I will always love you.  Sandy Baird

June 11, 2017

Phil,  I’m sorry to hear of your Mother’s passing. It sounds like she had a long fullfilling life.
                         Sincerely,   Buddy   
 

June 11, 2017

Phil,I am truly sorry for your Mother’s passing,she is in my prayers as is you and your family. My she rest in peace. God Bless. Brothers Always Gary Roda

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Thursday, June 15, 2017
10:30 AM - 11:30 AM
The Steinman Hall at Moravian Manor
300 W. Lemon St.
Lititz, PA
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300 W. Lemon St.
Lititz, PA
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