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John P. Ruffino, 57

July 10, 2014

John P. Ruffino, 57, of Lititz, died on Thursday, July 10, 2014 at Hospice and Community Care in Mount Joy. Born in Brooklyn, NY he was the son of the late Guiseppe and Anna Lina (Buffa) Ruffino. He is survived by his loving wife of 37 years, Linda Ruffino.

John was the owner of Ruffino’s Pizza & Pasta in Centerville Square for 24 years. He was a member of St. John Neumann Catholic Church and American Legion, Post 34, where all his friends fondly called him “Pizza John.” He was an extremely hardworking, generous man with a huge heart. Nothing was more important to him than taking care of his family. As a former DJ, he possessed an unbridled love for music of all kinds. He met his wife on the disco dance floor, and they have been together ever since. He loved to watch sports with his son, especially football, boxing, and basketball. John was seminal influence and mentor to his many adoring nieces and nephews.

In addition to his wife, John is survived by a son, Joseph M. Ruffino and his girlfriend Ashley Shank, of Lititz, four sisters: Anne Trotta, wife of Al, of Harrison, NY, Sue Apap, wife of George, of Port St. Lucie, FL, Josephine Marchiano, wife of the late Frank, of Staten Island, NY, Anna Randazzo, wife of Lino, of Staten Island, NY, brother Sal Ruffino, husband of Olinda, of Durham, NC, mother-in-law Marion Sodaro, of Bayside, NY, step mother Maria Ruffino, of Brooklyn, NY, and numerous nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by a sister Marie Mannino and brother Philip Ruffino.

A viewing will be held on Sunday, July 13, 2014 from 6-10PM, with a Christian Prayer Service at 8:30PM, at Charles F. Snyder, Jr. Funeral Home & Crematory, 3110 Lititz Pike, Lititz, PA 17543. A Mass of Christian Burial will be on Monday, July 14, 2014 at 11AM at St. John Neumann Catholic Church, 601 E. Delp Rd, Lancaster, PA 17601, with Rev. Michael Culkin as Celebrant. A viewing will take place the hour before the service from 10-11.

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August 18, 2014

Sorry so late with this, but better late than never. John and I go back to the days of the old Landis Valley Inn. Always enjoyed conversations with John over a variety of subjects, which John was well versed in just about everything it seemed. I tried to stay away from talk about Pizza, as everyone used to pester him about that stuff. But then seeing him again at the American Legion, Post 34 was a nice surprise! John was a great guy! WE will all miss Big John.
Brian Rylee

August 01, 2014

Linda & Joesph, we are truly saddened by John’s passing. He was a great guy with a heart of gold.  We will always remember the happy times we shared together way back when in Durham.  His soul lives on forever in your hearts.  May God Bless you both with peace.  With our deepest sympathy, Nick & Sharon Masino ~ Cary NC

July 20, 2014

I never got to get to know you, but wish I had…I would listen to your jovial voice and just knew you were a good guy…hard working, fun loving, enjoyed music and a house full of friends and family.  I know your wife, who was always by your side…will miss you deeply.
Rest in Peace Neighbor
 
 

July 20, 2014

Dear Linda & Joe,
I am certain that God has welcomed John into his arms and heaven will be a greater place.  We are so sorry for your loss and will deeply miss John.  Peace and Love,   Joe (GOB) and Barb Golden

July 17, 2014

Linda and Joe,
I’m so sorry to hear about John. I wish I would have heard earlier, I would have come to the service. I miss you guys since we havent seen you in awhile. Much love and many prayers to you both.
Christina and Dorian Edsall

July 17, 2014

To the Ruffino Family. I am so sorry for the loss of such a wonderful man. I just found out yesterday and was devastated to hear this. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. If you need anything you know how to reach me.
Beth Brandt

July 16, 2014

Linda and Joe,  I am so sorry that John has passed on.  His energy and his great heart will surely be missed by you and everyone who worked or patronized the shop.  I will remember John fondly whenever  I stop by the shop.  Mark

July 16, 2014

Joe and Linda,
Wishing you peace during these difficult days.  John and your family were and always will be a support in people’s lives. Thanks.
love,
the DiPaolo’s

July 15, 2014

Our deepest sympathies on your loss. We loved coming into your shop god bless.  Jesse &Lisa

July 15, 2014

Linda and Joe,   So very very sorry for your loss.  John was way too young.   You and he will be in our thoughts and prayers. Bruno & Sylvia Schmalhofer

July 15, 2014

Linda & Joe:  Our heart felt sympathy to you and your entrie family. We’ve been bring our five kids into the
shop for the last 10 years, and will miss see John.  Could always count on a big hello and smile from John when we
wallked in.  We’ll pray for peace and comfort at this difficult time.
Mike & Denise Way  Brooke, Logan & Alexis Ryan & Mikey & Lexie Way

July 14, 2014

Ruffino Family: May God be with you during the difficult times. John was a good man with a great heart. In meeting him several years ago, he made our Intraumural Activities Team feel at ease. He provided us with respect, sincerity & honesty. You will be missed, but you are in a better place walking side by side with the almighty…
Watson Family

July 14, 2014

Linda and Joe:  So sorry to hear about John’s passing.  We will definitely miss seeing him at the pizza shop.  We pray for peace and comfort for your entire family. 
The Wintersteen Family
 

July 13, 2014

Dear Linda and Joe,
So sorry for your loss. May special memories comfort you at this most difficult time.  Thoughts and prayers. 
Sincerely,
Michele DeBord

July 13, 2014

Our hearts are broken for you and your family.  Know that although we are far away, we are with you. John was a fine man who will be missed by many. May God grant you the peace and strength you need at this time.
                       With love,
                  Betty, Santina and Francesco Pagano

July 13, 2014

Sorry for your loss My thoughts n prayers for the entire  Ruffino family  during this difficult time
The Johnson’s

July 13, 2014

Linda & Joe…So sad to hear of John’s passing. we will keep you in our thoughts & prayers.
Jack & Marge Weinlein

July 12, 2014

We are deeply grateful to have shared time with John. Please accept or condolences and let ua know if there is anything we can do to help during this difficult time 
-Ryan & Kristin LeFever

July 12, 2014

Linda and Joe, we are so sorry for your loss. John lived life large and loved even larger. My life is blessed because he is a part of it. Our prayers and thoughts are with you,
Much love, The Bird Family
 

July 12, 2014

We are so sorry for your loss.  We’ve been blessed to know and spend time with you and your wonderful Ruffino family.  We pray you’ll find peace and comfort from God as you’re surrounded with your family’s love and joyful memories of John.  You’re in our thoughts and prayers.
Duck & Shirley Rufty/Durham, NC

July 12, 2014

Our deepest sympathies to the entire family, we share profoundly your pain, God Bless all and May John rest in eternal peace love your cousins Josephine and Anthony Pagano and family.

July 12, 2014

Linda ,
We were so sad to hear of your husband’s passing.  Our deepest sympathy to you & your family.  You are in our prayers.
Lizz & Mike Keppel

July 12, 2014

BIG BROTHER.  YOU ARE TRULY ONE OF A KIND.  THE BEST OF THE BEST.  YOUR IN A BETTER PLACE.  OUR FAMILY WILL MISS  YOU FOR EVER AND ALWAYS LOVE YOU.. YOUR FRIENDS JOEY D,  SHEILA D.   AND NIKKI D..
JOE D’ANGELO

July 12, 2014

Linda/Joe, I am so sorry for the loss of you husband/father. You both are in my thoughts and prayers. in time may you find comfort knowing he is with our lord.
Sincerely,
Dotti Milburn and Family

July 12, 2014

Our deepest sympathies to you, my dear friend, Joe and to your families. John was such a positive, good natured, man with a smile that could light up the world. Our world has lost a great man but heaven has gained a beautiful soul! You are in our thoughts and prayers. May God hold you close, comfort you and guide you through this difficult time. We love you!  Lonny and Debbie Black.

July 12, 2014

marie lyons

July 12, 2014

Dear Linda and Joseph
James and I are truly sorry for your loss.  John was a wonderful father and friend. He will be missed.  You both are in our prayers.
Love James and Jenny

July 12, 2014

way way too young!!!sending hugs and prayers and thoughts your way Miss Linda and joeseph!!!!xoxoxoxo I know your dad and hubby will be missed by you and the whole community!!!What a beautiful man!!! we were blessed to have known him all of these years!!!! nay you both be strong in this time of confusion and anger and sorrow  and disbelief and know truely john is with no pain and he will be with you again!!!!!!! xoxoxothinking of you with love!!!!xoxoxoxCammyjoy & Jamie

July 12, 2014

Ruffino Familia, we are so saddened for your loss! You have an amazing, loving family and we know how hard this is. Please know you all are in our thoughts and prayers. We are so glad we got to know John, during his visits to NC. We will always have fond memories. We know what a great losss this is to your family, but know that the love & support you all will give each other and your faith in God will help get you through. 
Love to all,
Michael & Cindy Salerno

July 12, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones.  Alwin and Debi Violante-Philippa

July 12, 2014

To Linda and the entire Ruffino family please accept my deepest sympathies. As a former patron of your restaurant on Centerville for many years who enjoyed 2 slices at lunchtime, your hospiatlity and conversation, let me  say thank you and John for your generousity and kindness. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Tom Rymar

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Monday, July 14, 2014
10:00 AM - 11:00 AM
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