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Jerry (Gerald) V. Lapp, 58
November 05, 2024
Jerry (Gerald) V. Lapp, 58, of Lancaster, Pennsylvania passed away on Nov. 5, 2024, in a mountain bike accident on the way to his daughter’s soccer game. Jerry was a loving son, loyal brother, beloved father, devoted husband and a true friend to many, and he will be dearly missed.
An ambitious athlete and a fearless explorer, Jerry traveled the world in pursuit of adventure all his life. He cycled across continents, hiked among the world’s highest peaks and once drove his car over ice roads to the Arctic Circle. A trailblazing cyclist, both on and off road, he was reliably glued to a TV for weeks each July during the Tour de France.
Gracious and unfailingly kind, Jerry had a light-hearted confidence and an instinctual faith in the universe. He was a calming presence. He delighted in doing anything, however goofy, to make his children laugh. He wore shorts nearly year-round, even in snow. He was a genius at trivia. He loved the color orange, the brighter the better, and worked it into his wardrobe at every turn.
Born Oct. 11, 1966, in Atlanta, Georgia, the middle child to Marv and Mary Lapp – between brothers Ernie and Glen – Jerry spent his earliest years in Honduras with Ernie and their parents, who worked at a school there. He graduated from Lancaster Mennonite High School and later from Millersville University with a Bachelor of Science in sociology, excelling in soccer at both schools.
After college, he launched a house painting business in Lancaster and came to be known for his meticulous lines and expert craftsmanship. In 1991, the three Lapp brothers cycled across the United States, a 3000-mile journey from Oregon to New Jersey. He later set out solo on a road trip to the Arctic Circle, traveling along the Dalton Highway in Alaska over hundreds of miles of ice roads, an adventure that would become the source of many of his favorite go-to stories. He spent a season in 1994 working at Yosemite National Park before earning his commercial driving license to become a long-haul trucker driving 18-wheelers all over the United States. In the mid-1990s, Jerry cycled more than 5,000 miles from Ushuaia, Argentina at the southern tip of South America to Quito, Ecuador, just north of the equator.
In 1996, Jerry began dating Mary Ellen Francescani, and in 1998, the couple flew to Kathmandu, Nepal. They fell in love with the region, began trekking and taking language classes, and decided to stay. Jerry worked as a manager for Yak & Yeti Enterprises, an import/export business dealing in handmade silver jewelry, while Mary Ellen worked as a Peace Corps Medical Officer. While at Yak & Yeti, his boss was an esteemed monk from Kopan monastery as well as a financial wizard – a passion Jerry absorbed and would later employ with great skill in managing his own family’s finances.
In 2000, Jerry and Mary Ellen were married in New York before returning to Nepal, and two years later, Anabelle Grace was born. The young family eventually moved back stateside to Lancaster in 2003, where Jerry took charge of primary childcare duties while Mary Ellen worked at St. Joe’s hospital. Henry Kailash was born in 2005 and Maisy Lucia in 2007. Jerry reveled in his role as a father, custom-building elaborate trailers behind his bike to wheel his trio of small children around town. Over the years, Jerry organized dozens of cycling trips, clubs and events, while developing a deep community of friends along the way.
In the late 2000s, Bhutanese Nepali refugees began resettling in significant numbers in Lancaster, and Jerry became deeply involved in helping them adjust to their new lives through his work with Church World Service. He served as a translator, home repairman and financial advisor, helping many refugees secure jobs at local hospitals. Jerry was especially enthusiastic about his work sharing lessons in financial literacy with newly resettled Nepali Americans. He hoped to one day turn it into a full-time business.
He and Mary Ellen founded a nonprofit dedicated to providing nursing scholarships for refugees, as well as a charity that collected hundreds of damaged or discarded bicycles — which Jerry repaired and distributed to refugees who didn’t drive. Jerry knew many people affected by the devastating 2015 earthquake in Nepal, so he spearheaded a day-long fundraiser in Lancaster which included speakers, live music, meditation and prayer, food and spirits, and family activities. The event brought together the local community and raised substantial funds for recovery efforts in Nepal.
Throughout the early 2010s, Jerry regularly organized trekking trips to Nepal, and in 2016 founded his own company Skychasers World, a travel firm that designs and hosts insider pilgrimage treks for people wanting to visit the High Himalayas.
It was on treks in the Himalayas and marathon bike rides that Jerry’s leadership shined brightest. He led by example, pushing himself beyond his own limits, and in turn and with gentle assurance, pushing his friends, family and clients to carry on far beyond their own comfort zones. After their legs stopped aching, they all thanked him. He believed in everyone he met and was always sure they could do things they never thought they could.
For all of his world travels, Jerry’s favorite adventures were at home in Lancaster – whether forging a new mountain bike route through the woods, winding his way through the city, or finding a new concrete culvert to ride through. He took great joy in bringing friends and family along for the ride.
Everyone who knew Jerry loved Jerry. He touched everyone he met with his warm smile, kind words and genuine interest in who they were and what they had to say. Jerry had time for everyone. He will be greatly missed, all over the world.
Jerry is survived by his wife, Mary Ellen Francescani and his children, Anabelle, Henry and Maisy, his father Marv, his brother Ernie, and sister-in-law Mary. He is predeceased by his mother Mary and his brother Glen.
A memorial service for Jerry will be held on Dec. 15, at 2 p.m. at Country Barn Farm Market at 211 S Donerville Rd, Lancaster, PA 17603.
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Condolences to the Family
December 22, 2024
Dear Mary Ellen, Anabelle, Henry, and Maisy,
To know Jerry, was to take a deep breath of fresh air. He was so kind and funny with a love for life and people that can be difficult to find these days. Savas and I are so thankful to have gotten to learn from him on our mountain biking adventures – I think we are all better people for having the gift of your beloved husband and Dad. May his memory be Eternal and the comfort of him surround all of you Always.
With love and our deepest condolences,
The Papadimitriou Family
December 17, 2024
Dear Mary Ellen,
My heartfelt condolences to you and your family and friends. Losing a precious soul like your husband Jerry is just doesn’t make any sense at all and one of those times that there is no answer to the why? May your cherished memories of Jerry help you heal and his larger than life footprint on this earth continue to help you and all who knew him live a full and blessed life even through the grief. He was an exceptional man and the legacy of such a person is powerful beyond this world. I am sending you lots of love and strength. This is really hard. I am so sorry!
December 15, 2024
Another phenomenal life lived for others in the name of Christ. Our hearts go out to the whole Lapp family. We especially send our prayers and love to Marv. Losing one son was more than enough. We grieve with you.
Charles & Mary Beckett
December 09, 2024
Dear Mary Ellen,
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your beloved Jerry. Much love, strength and breath to you and your family. With deep condolences, Jenny Schulder Brant
December 08, 2024
My condolences to you Mary Ellen, your children, and family. I will miss seeing Jerry’s kind face and friendly smile, as I walk past your house on my daily walks. I will hold your family in my prayers.
December 06, 2024
Mary Ellen,
I did not have the privelege of knowing Jerry, but knowing you for a few years now, I know the kind of woman you are and you are an amazing woman. No doubt your Jerry matched your greatness.
What a beautiful and full life he lived! As I read this record of his life and all of his accomplishments I was astounded by his life. I know that our words can’t bring much comfort in such a difficult time, but we love you and truly are praying for peace and comfort.
Yana & Chris Brink
December 06, 2024
Dear Mary Ellen,
I was devastated when I saw the announcement today. Having lost my husband at a young age, and having two young children, I know how excruciating painful such a sudden and unexpected loss is. There really are no words. Holding you and your children in prayer and love.
Joyce Kamm
November 22, 2024
Mary Ellen,
We were very saddened to learn about Jerry’s passing. He had many very special traits and simply made this world a better place. It was amazing how after every discussion with him, we always felt enlightened, peaceful and happier. He was an extraordinary person and we are thankful for having both of you as friends. Our prayers and thoughts with you and family.
November 22, 2024
My sincere condolences to Jerry’s family and all who considered him a friend. He was always such a great person and a real pleasure to be around. I feel fortunate to have known him. I’m so sorry for this sudden loss. May you all find peace and strength during this challenging time.
November 20, 2024
Dear MaryEllen and family,
I am so shocked and saddened to hear about Jerry. Everytime I interacted with him he was so kind. Always with a ready smile. Such a loving father and husband, devoted to his family. And so humble. As I read his obituary and all that he accomplished what I think is that some of us are here to learn lessons and others to teach lessons. Jerry was a teacher extraordinaire on how to live life and love large. I will hold you and your family in my prayers at this difficult time.
November 20, 2024
Jerry had such a peaceful presence and kind heart. I always felt a sense of calm when talking to Jerry. He was a wonderful human being and will always and forever be in our hearts. Sending love and praying for you Mary Ellen, Anabelle, Henry and Maisy.
November 19, 2024
Jerry helped my mom, after she fell in her driveway and broke her hip. He didn’t hesitate to get off his bike, and run over to give us assistance. His kindness will never be forgotten. Prayers and condolences for his family. May your memories give you comfort in the days ahead.
November 19, 2024
It was absolutely heartbreaking to hear this news. I had the pleasure of getting to know Jerry while working with him at atomic. We snapped grass together for a target Christmas party. Every time i saw Jerry out I could not wait to talk to him , say hi, and no matter high my level of social anxiety may have been in these moments, Jerry was a solid calm amazing person I basically felt honored to know. The obituary was beautifully written, and my heart just breaks for his family. Xo
November 18, 2024
Mary Ellen,
My heart is going out to you and the kids. I’m hoping the love of family and friends can see all of you through this terrible time. I dont think I ever interacted with Jerry and didn’t end up with a big smile, and I know that’s how others felt about him, too. Much love to you and Anabelle, Henry, and Maisy.
November 18, 2024
Dear Mary Ellen, I am so sad to hear about your husband. Although I didn’t know him personally I remember stories about him from you and Glen. I will be praying for you and your children.
November 18, 2024
So sorry for your loss. Jerry was a spark of light, leaving energy wherever he went. Please know that my prayers are with you and the whole family. He will be greatly missed. Although, Glenn is probably happy to have a bike riding mate up in heaven. So sorry.
November 18, 2024
My deepest condolences to you and your family. No words can heal the loss of such a warm and genuine soul, but please know we are thinking about you all and shocked and saddened at the sudden loss. Kim Wilson and family.
November 18, 2024
Jerry was an incredible inspiration to so many! He and his wife helped so many others and they were incredible. How he will be greatly missed and he was so amazing. Praying for all as this makes us all cherish things and making us want to focus on what we are called to do. 🥰
November 18, 2024
My heart goes out to you and your family. Such a loss is so heart breaking. Even though GIM is no more you are still part of a family! I will keep you in my prayers!
November 17, 2024
My deepest condolences for your loss. I did not have the opportunity to meet him, but through my friend Elaine Fitzgerald and reading his obituary, I learned about all his great qualities. My thoughts and prayers are will you in this difficult moment. Ines Cordero.
November 17, 2024
A kinder man than Jerry is rare. He was a joy to see and was a amazingly calming presence. Jerry was a wonderful son, brother, husband, Dad and friend whom we greatly admired. We are grateful to have had such a exceptional man in our lives. His kindness was endless.His love for Mary Ellen, Anabelle, Henry and Maisy was boundless.Love and prayers to all who loved him.
Lori Francescani, Jack and Nick LaMura♥️🙏
Love, Lori,
November 17, 2024
Though I did not know him personally, many I knew were dismayed by his passing and Jerry had made a very personal impression on them. Upon reading his obituary I was able to learn his story and felt compelled to provide condolences. He lives on through those he impacted, and he impacted many.
November 17, 2024
Mary Ellen, I am deeply sorry for your loss. Jerry was a truly remarkable person—kind, gracious, and selfless. He had a way of making everyone feel cared for, and his generosity and dedication to helping others, especially the most vulnerable, will always be remembered. (I know Jerry from his work with the Nepali refugees when I was at CWS.)He touched so many lives in a way that few can, and his absence will leave a profound void. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this heartbreaking time.
November 17, 2024
I barely knew Jerry, but met him over the years through Jean Sensenig and Daryl Snider. (I’m married to Jean’s young brother, Kent.) Each time I encountered Jerry he was relaxing after some extraordinary athletic event, which I learned was neither extraordinary for him nor for his brothers–but rather typical evening or weekend adventure. Thank you for sharing so beatuifully about his life in this obituary. I’m so sorry he’s gone. And I’m grateful to have known your husband, father, son, and brother., even a little bit. I pray that your grief will not destroy you or your family, but that you will day-by day find hope and courage for the beauty and peril of life. I pray that you will love each other well and rely on the best that Jerry gave to each of you for some of the perseverance and strength you will need in the days and years ahead. And I pray that the tender love of your community and the sustenance of creation, will be evidence of Divine love meeting your deepest need. Jerry was and remains a treasure. Peace, Jennifer
November 17, 2024
MaryEllen, my heart is breaking for you. You may not remember me but I worked at HACC at the front desk when you were an adjunct. I have fond memories of our conversations. Sending peace and hugs.
Patsy Lavinia
November 17, 2024
Dear Mary Ellen,
I am so very sorry to hear the sad news about Jerry. I remember well when you met him and fell so much in love. Take care of yourself and your three precious children. I’ll be thinking of you all. Love, Kathy
November 17, 2024
I can’t believe my eyes that Jerry left us so early! We can’t forget your selfless dedication to serving new Americans in Lancaster. Humans like Jerry are highly needed today, but unfortunately, fate has something tragic in store.
November 17, 2024
Mary Ellen, Anabelle, Henry and Maisy–and all the family: we send our heartfelt condolences. May your memories of his smile become a blessing . Jann & Tom
November 17, 2024
Maryellen, We are so sorry for your loss. May God Bless Jerry and your family. Tom & Chris Donovan (former patients from GIM)
November 17, 2024
We are shocked and so very saddened to hear about Jerry’s passing. Our hearts are with you all.
November 17, 2024
My heart goes out to you. Only god can understand a loss this great. He was a brother from my school days and regret not being able to keep up with him but I moved to Georgia. Grace to all of his family
November 17, 2024
Ann and I are so sorry to hear this. I am his dads first cousin and have been in touch with Marv throughout the years, primarily through serving at Worship Center. Much love and prayers.
November 16, 2024
Dear Mary Ellen and Family,
Our heartfelt sympathy to all of you for the loss of Jerry. Shocked and saddened by his passing. God bless.
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