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Jere D. Stabley, 97

March 09, 2025

Jere D. Stabley in his ninety-eighth year passed away peacefully on Sunday March 9, 2025, at Hospice of Lancaster County.

Jere was born in York, PA to the late Guy and Isabella (Benson) Stabley.

Jere served our country with honor and distinction, joining the U.S. Navy in August 1945 and serving until September 1948. He served on the U.S.S. Spokane, which after World War II provided humanitarian aid to countries including the Netherlands, Scotland, Ireland, Norway and Denmark.

Following his military service, Jere attended DeVry University in Chicago, Illinois where he majored in engineering. In 1949, Jere met Irene Kuszyuski; the two were married on August 12, 1950, in Chicago.

Soon after marrying, Jere and Irene relocated to Lancaster, Pennsylvania to begin their life together. While raising a family, Jere worked for RCA as an application engineer for thirty years. He traveled the world working in the company’s tubes and fusion program. He was a critical member of the team that worked on the first microwave oven and after retirement continued as a consultant at Los Alamos National Laboratories and Fermilab in New Mexico.

Jere lived a long and wonderful life filled with friends and family. In retirement he could often be found on a golf course. He was an excellent golfer who played with the “Parsomemore” group at Overlook Golf Course and had multiple hole in ones; the 7th one at age 91 playing golf with his daughter on her birthday.

As an incredibly friendly, social and kind individual, he loved engaging in conversation and giving to local charities and causes that helped individuals in need. Jere was one of the original founding members of the Gatehouse in Lititz which continues to support people who are working to maintain sobriety after rehab.

In his later years he lived at Brethren Village where he was involved in many activities and was always seeking new friendships and meaningful connections with others. His signature red cap was a symbol of his boundless energy and kind heart. For many years Jere was a member of Grandview Church where he enjoyed socializing with friends and attending Sunday school.

Jere also enjoyed traveling and taking family vacations. Every winter Jere and Irene would spend several weeks at the Villages in Florida to enjoy golf and spend time with friends and family. Throughout the years Jere’s entire family took multiple summer vacations together to various destinations, such as Wildwood Crest, NJ and Deep Creek Lake, MD.

Jere is survived by three children: Nancy, wife of Dennis Balmer of Lititz, PA, Linda, wife of the late Timothy Landis of Lititz, PA, David, husband of Deobrah Stabley of Muncy, PA; six grandchildren and six great grandchildren, and his beloved companion, Sue Scala. He was preceded in death by his wife Irene Stabley and younger sister Doris Labarr.

Beyond the numerous contributions and achievements he was a dedicated father and grandfather who always put his family first. He was the heart and foundation of our family and he will be deeply missed.

Jere’s family would like to thank the staff at Hospice for their dedicated care during his time as a patient.

A Memorial Service will be held at 11AM on April 5, 2025 at Grandview Church, 888 Pleasure Road, Lancaster, PA 17601. Family and friends will be received from 10AM until the time of service. Contributions may be made in Jere’s memory to Hospice of Lancaster County, 685 Good Drive, Lancaster, PA 17604 or Milagro House 941 Wheatland Avenue Suite 205, Lancaster, PA 17603.

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May 05, 2025

Jere was a loyal donor and supporter of Angel Flight East since 2019.  While we coorosponded with Jere monthly via mail, we had very few opportunities to speak with him personally.  When we did, he was warm and concerned about the best way to help the individuals we serve.  Our thoughts and best wishes are with his family and friends.   
Andy Sears

April 05, 2025

Jere was kind and generous with his time and contributions into the recovery community. He helped me more than he will probably know. He was filled with compassion and love towards our community and I am grateful to have known him. 
Matthew T.

April 03, 2025

Although I never met Jere personally, I know him to be a very kind and generous person. He was a regular contributor to The A Week Away Foundation, for which I work. When I found out he was a veteran and a retiree getting along in years, I tried to talk him out of donating every month. He would have none of it! He said that there are a lot of organizations that will take your money but don’t use it wisely. It made me happy to know that he felt we were, as he said, “taking good care of his money”. Jere invested himself in people and the local community, and we are so much the richer for him doing so. He will be missed. 
Lynn Walker

March 24, 2025

I met Jere in Florida with his daughter Linda.  What a remarkable man! I’ll never forget him swimming in the pool with such joy.  It was an honor to have time with him.  
Debra Ronning

March 23, 2025

I met Jere in recovery. He was so very kind and an inspiration to me. The last time I saw him was at Quest, and it was wonderful to see him again.
Anna Mary Wilkinson

March 23, 2025

I remember playing many rounds with Jere & another RCA retiree Bob Bare both who worked with my Father. Great bunch of guys to learn the game with/from. Loved Jere’s stand bag. Thanks for the memories Jere. Bill Schnelli 

March 23, 2025

Jere was a fellow golfer and a fixture at Overlook for many years.  I always enjoyed our interesting conversations at the club or in my back yard at the 15th tee.  Jere was such an engaging person with a wealth of knowledge and experiences.  I will always remember those times and Jere’s life was well served.
Kenneth McCullough

March 23, 2025

Jere was a great guy & a pleasure to know…xxxooo
Gwendolyn Bowers

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10:00 AM - 11:00 AM
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888 Pleasure Road
Lancaster, PA
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