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Jay M. Stauffer, 73

April 10, 2024

Jay M. Stauffer, born Feb. 21, 1951, entered into the presence of his loving Heavenly Father on April 10, 2024. He was the eldest child of Roy W. Stauffer, Jr. and Anna Mary Martin Stauffer who preceded him in death.

He was the husband of Janice L. (Sollenberger) Stauffer, with whom he spent 52 happy years. They have two daughters: Tanya (who preceded him in death) (Mark) Whiteman, Oxford, PA. and Kimberly (Joel) Ernst, East Petersburg, PA.; four grandchildren: Allysen and Evan Whiteman and Julia and James Ernst who were the delight of his life the moment he first held them. Also surviving are his siblings: Jere (Jo L. Miller) Stauffer, Jeffrey (Sandra Weaver) Stauffer, Joann (James, Jr.) Mellinger and siblings in law: D. Jean (David) Sentz, Gretta (John) Groff, Earl (Gwendolyn) Sollenberger.

He was employed by Stauffers of Kissel Hill, Wissler Motors and D&L Growers supplies.

His interests were diversified. He enjoyed hunting, fishing, camping, boating and traveling. He valued being spiritually challenged at Calvary Church, especially in his ABF and at men’s Bible Study.

A viewing will be held Monday, April 15, 2024 at Calvary Church, 1051 Landis Valley Rd, Lancaster, PA 17601 from 6pm to 8pm. An additional viewing will be held Tuesday, April 16, 2024 at Calvary Church from 2pm to 3pm with a service to begin at 3:30pm. Burial will be held at the convenience of the family.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Jay’s memory may be made to Global Ministries through Calvary Church.

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May 06, 2024

Dear Jan,
I was so sorry to read that your husband had passed away. I did attend the Lancaster Chorale concert in Lititz and so many choir members spoke of you. I always appreciated seeing you play for the Chorale. May the Lord comfort you and your family in the weeks and months ahead.
Sincerely,
Deb Hagey

April 28, 2024

Blessings to the Stauffer family. Cathy and I were saddened to hear of Jay’s passing! God bless you all!
Anton Spinelli

April 16, 2024

Dear Jan,  my sympathy, love and prayers on the loss of Jay.  You two were such an inspiration to me and many others.
Love and prayers,
Sheila Druck

April 16, 2024

Our sympathies and prayers during this time of grief.  Appreciated the interactions with Jay over the years.  God bless and keep you, Jan and family.
Eugene & Linda Beyer

April 16, 2024

So sorry for your loss but rejoice that you will see him again in Heaven.  Jay was an inspiration to all those he met.  God bless you and your dear family.  Carol

April 15, 2024

Jan and family, 
Sending hugs and love to each of you at this difficult time. Jay was a blessing to me from his teaching in Sunday school to his everyday godly walk. A great family man to be proud of.   Prayers for you at this time 
Rick Thompson 

April 13, 2024

My dear Jan and family,  My heart bleeds for you as you pass through this time of adjustment and grief. You have had your share of difficult times.  I am praying for you.
Loine Bert

April 13, 2024

Jan and Family,
I always enjoyed waiting on Jay at Stauffers. I will always remember his smile.
Prayers and blessings for you and your family. 
Love Bernie
 
 

April 13, 2024

Dear Jan and family,
Our deepest sympathies on the passing of Jay to eternal life.  We grieve with you, as we  pray for you to experience Gods grace and comfort.
Cliff and Raymonda Leaman

April 12, 2024

God welcomed another Angel home. Prayers that he will heal the break in your hearts & give you peace. His kindness & smile will never be forgotten.
Jere & Sherry Falk

April 12, 2024

Oh, Jan. I was so sorry to see that Jay has passed . May the memories of your years together sustain you. They will be with you forever. Hugs & prayers for you & your family.

April 12, 2024

Jan and Family:
Our sincere condolences to you in your loss of Jay.  He will be deeply missed and may your memories of your life together live forever in your heart. May God’s peace be with you, 
Robin and Brian Unangst 

Visitation
Monday, April 15, 2024
6:00 PM - 8:00 PM
Calvary Church
1051 Valley Rd,
Lancaster, PA 17601
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Tuesday, April 16, 2024
2:00 PM - 3:00 PM
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1051 Valley Rd.
Lancaster, PA 17601
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