Obituaries

Gregory Alexander Valentine, 31

December 03, 2019

Alex Valentine, 31, of Lancaster, passed away unexpectedly on Tuesday, December 3, 2019. He will be dearly missed by his family and the many friends he had made throughout his life. He was born in Lancaster and is survived by his parents Gregory Lee Valentine (Kathy Kirchgessner) and Jennifer Lynn Herr (David Liebert).

Alex was a pure, selfless soul who always put others before himself. Alex always found a way to help others, even on his journey to find happiness himself. He was filled with empathy, compassion, and love for anyone who entered his life. Alex touched so many people’s lives in such a way that he could never be forgotten.

Alex graduated from Lancaster Catholic High School in 2007, and briefly attended Harrisburg Area Community College for 2 years. Beyond schooling, he loved to learn on his own time about the numerous topics that he found interest in.

He loved performing card tricks and magic, watching movies, as well as listening to an eclectic genre of music. He loved to play games such as Chess and Yahtzee, share his unique sense of humor, and reading. Alex was always in search for the next level of happiness through spirituality, practicing Kundalini yoga, and writing. Above everything that he enjoyed, nothing made him happier than being with his family.

Alex was a dedicated employee for 11 years at the Hager Parking Lots.

Surviving in addition to his parents are two sisters, Brittany L. Valentine, of Lancaster, Anne Marie Valentine, of Philadelphia, an uncle Jeff Valentine, of Conestoga, an aunt Kathy Rosenzweig (Dean), cousins, Josh, of Ephrata, and Travis Valentine, of Conestoga, and Dan (Kathy) Burns, of New Danville, and a maternal grandmother, Sandra Herr, of Lancaster. Alex was reunited on the other side with his paternal grandmother, Katherine “Kitty” Valentine, maternal grandfather, James Z. Herr, and a step brother, Cory Denlinger.

Alex’s Celebration of Life will be hosted on Sunday, August 9, 2020 at 2:30pm on the Tented South Lawn at the Charles F. Snyder, Jr. Funeral Home & Crematory 3110 Lititz Pike Lititz, PA 17543. A visitation will be held from 1pm to 2:30pm.

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Condolences to the Family

August 07, 2020

Greg / Jen,
I am so sorry to know that your son passed away. May you always think about all the good memories of him and know you were blessed to have him as a gift!  Love to both of you!  Julie Duvall (Fulmer)

August 02, 2020

So sorry to hear you lost your son Alex. Praying for you and your family.
Brenda Thomson

February 02, 2020

Jen and Greg,
so sorry to learn of your son’s passing. I never had the pleasure of meeting him but I know he was a special person, I think of you both with fond memories, it’s been years and years! My deepest sympathy to both of you!
Donna Saunders (Colon)

December 23, 2019

Alex, I miss you more than words can say. You were a gift to all of us.

December 15, 2019

I didn’t know what to say, I just feel so bad that you have lost Alex.  I like you all very much & after 8 years at West End Market I can tell I will certainly miss seeing him in the store.  He was a love & I treasure having had him as a very special acquaintance in my life!
Jeanne Cope

December 15, 2019

To the family of Alex,
I did not get to know Alex really well but I wish I had.  I work at Central Market and we would see Alex most every week.  He was always so nice and recently even performed a card trick for me! I am so very sorry for your loss and pray for God’s peace and comfort for all of you! We will definitely miss seeing him at Market!
Margie

December 14, 2019

So sorry for your loss, Jenn, Anne and Brittany. You are in my heart and in my prayers.
With much love,Aunt Peggy

December 13, 2019

Jen,
I am saddend to read this news, and I am saying prayers for your, Brittany and Annie’s peace.
Laurie Gable

December 13, 2019

 Hi Greg and family. This is to let u know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. You were scheduled for your surgery but then this horribly tragedy befell you.I didn’t know your son but I know you and what an easy, funny,and great jokester you are. I hope all is well but this takes immeasurable time. Just remember I am a friend and in your corner in this horrific time. Gods blessings Hans Pate

December 12, 2019

Jen, Brittany, and Annie….all of you are in my thoughts and my heart. Please remember that if you need to talk or need help be sure to call. Keep memories close and you’ll always have Alex with you. ❤️
Ange

December 12, 2019

Your family is in our prayers- God bless you all and God bless Alex.
Brian and Wendy (Rebman)Lefever
 

December 11, 2019

Jenny, I’m so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family 
Vicki Kneisley Piersol

December 11, 2019

Dear jenny and family, I am truly sorry for your pain and sorrow.  I never met Alex, but I know he was special.  I do not understand why some people are taken so young!!  All of you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Hugs and Love, 
Lori Fitzgerald

December 11, 2019

Oh, I am so sorry I just figured out that this is my friend Alex, whom I knew from Kundalini yoga and would often see downtown working or walking his dog. I also work close to Hager downtown so would pass by him often and we’d share a wave or a brief chat. I haven’t seen him too recently,  but I wish I had. I will miss him. To his family, my heart goes out to you. Sat Nam, Alex, and may you rest in sweet peace. ♡
Maria Weaver

December 11, 2019

To the family and friends of Alex, I am so incredibly shocked and saddened to hear of his passing. He was one of my very first students at Lancaster Catholic High School and he was in my English class. He was always so loving and warm to everyone all the time; you have so much to be proud of. He was so selfless. I cannot imagine your grief. Please know I am so sorry for you all and am praying for your healing. I will always remember his kind heart and big smile. My sincere condolences to you all at this awful time, Rachel Brumbach (formerly Gainer)

December 11, 2019

Jenny & Greg,
            So sorry to hear this news of your loss. Sending Prayers and deepest sympathy  to both of you and your families.  I remember his beautiful eyes as a boy. Love, Deb

December 11, 2019

Condolences and Prayers to you Jen and the rest of the family, hugs and kisses. Cookie

December 11, 2019

My heart goes out to you all in this very difficult time. The loss of someone so young is so hard. Alex had so much more life to live. He now lives it in Heaven and will forever be in the arms of the angels, watching over you until you meet again.
All my love,
Sue <3 

December 11, 2019

I will miss you sweet boy
Donna Baer

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