October 11, 2013

i think of my son everyday  and always loved him very much the lord is watching over him now  he is in no more pain  i just  wish i could of said good by no one knows the hurt i have in my heart  love your mom

tona and criss please stay safe and well its a terrable thing to lose a son to lose your husband and a father i will say a prayer for yous imy heart is sad he was a good person and i will mis s him love phyllis

I would like to send my deepest sympathies to Phyllis , Carl’s mother who carried him for nine months and gave him life. This is such a painful time for her. I am so very sorry. My condolences, cindy

I would like to send my deepest sympathies to Ike, my dad and carl’s father who was a part of him coming into this world. Cindy

i remember he had asma so bad and i and my dad would take turns takeing care of him hr came home the one time his face all swelled up had to take my sweet son to hospital now heis gone i cant take of him anymore i miss you my son i didnt get to say good by cindy this is for you you always try to heip carl and wayne by talking to them you were and are a great sister i am sorry for your loss love mom

i have so maney things to say about  one day i looked out to ssee where there were  i looked outside and to my dismay there goes carl and his inside a big inner tube rolling down the street and me runnie behind them  and wayne in front in a tube  i have lots of memories of carl and my other children in my heart  i just thought i share a little of carl  love mom

to tonys  and criss  i am so sorry for the loss of carl  god be with you  take care  i will miss my son i just cant beleive he gone  stay together and help each other  mayb ei will see you one day love nan phyllis

I can remember Uncle Ike’s trailer at Christmas, and also, the apartment on the second floor.  I used to sing Three Dog Night’s "Joy To The World" with Uncle Ike’s Band. I have fond memories of the family reunions we had before Pop-Pop died in 1981.  There were also some tough times as families fell apart.  The few times my brother, Steve, and I spent with Cindy, Carl, and Wayne, were always good times.  I remember them now, since Carl has died, almost every day.  Carl wasn’t married the last time I saw him, but neither was I.  My heart goes out to everyone who was touched by my cousin–those I knew, especially Uncle

My heart goes out to everyone who was touched by my cousin — those I knew, especially, Uncle Ike and Aunt Nancy, and Cindy, and Wayne; and those I didn’t know, especially, his mother, his wife, and his daughter.  May God bless us all.

Part 3   …..May God bless us all.    Bill Hohn

thank you for your condolence bill hohn i never met you but thanks my son is gone i cant believe it my heart is heavy and sad may god bless you bill hogn love carls mom

carl my son rest in pease your with god now he will take good care of you my heart is heavy with grief now because i didnt get to see you when you were alive i love you my son i will see you soon rest in pease love your mom

dear god in heaven the loss of my son  was very sad for all the famileys he was a good soul and he was sick now he will be sick no more he can be happey in heaven may god bless him dear god in heaven  dont let him hurt anymore  love carleys famley with all our hearts we loved you

dear son every night a light  candels foryou i loved you very muvh  and i hope you are at pease love your mother

tonya sorrey about your dad my son i love you tonya i hope your days will get better in time i rember when carl and wayne were little they both were behinde the sofa chair and carl traded his red fire truck for waynes bottle your dad had the bottle and wayne had the fire truck that was cute i thought id share that with you love carls mom i loved your dad very much

Chrissy and Tanya  our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. We know you two are very strong and will get through this you have each other and lots of family and friends who love you two. Don’t hesitate if you need anything to call us we love you two and will do anything for you two. Love Missy,Mark,Morgan, and Sean

To Tanya and Chris I send my deepest sympathies for such a terrible loss of a father and husband who I always new had so much goodness inside. My heart goes out to you at such a difficult time. Love, Cindy

Chrissy  my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this difficult time.  I am so sorry for your loss. Hold on to your fondest memories they will last in your heart forever.Love and sympathy. Lisa Myers

So sorry for you loss.My thoughts and prayers are with you all.Carl was a great guy.Everyone liked him a lot.From a old school friend.Krissy Hebensberger

In would like to reflect back to some good memories with Carl. His grandmother had a family reunion with Carl, his sister Cindy and Wayne, also family and friends, this was a good time. I remember when Carl was leaving our house with Little Tanya on the back of his motorcycle as they were leaving Tanya would turn and wave, I was worried for there safety. We went deer hunting in the mountains at a friends cabin, this was a very enjoyable trip. Carl and I would shoot bow together. I remember we had a sort of a contest together, as to who would hunt and get the most Fox. Carl would call me to say, hey! Dad I got three I’m one up on you! Carl was a excellant and sincere hunter/sportsman. He always strived to to his best at everything he did. Carl was my son, but he was also like my best friend. I was surly lookin for these times to continue. This is a terrible thing that has happen, he will surly be missed.  Love Forever, Dad & Nancy

Chrissy and Tanya our hearts go out to you both at this sad time. You are on our minds and thoughts. I send you this, You are not forgotten, loved one. Nor will you ever be,As long as life and memory last, We will remember thee. We miss you now, our hearts are sore. As time goes by we’ll miss you more.Your loving smile, your gentle face, no one can fill your vacant place.                                                                                                                                                                                                          Take Care with love, Dawson, Renee’ and Phillip

Dear Chrissy & Family,
                   I was saddened to hear of your loss! I am praying for you to have peace and strength at this time. Hold tight to memories for comfort,
lean on your family and friends for strength.
You have my deepest sympathies!

Peace be with you,
 Shelly DeVerter

my heart is heavey for my son  i didnt get to say goodby or hold him he was a good soul who suffered a lot now my son you can rest in pease please lord take of him and make sure he is nice and warm i just hope you received my letters   carl i am so sorrey for your pain and suffering i wish they would of left me come up i didnt know i could of held and confort you  my son  god bless you  i will see you soon my son love your mother phyllis

As a friend of Tanya’s, my heart aches for the entire family. For the past 10 years that I’ve known Tanya she has ALWAYS spoke very highly of her parents, always putting them first and loving them unconditionally. I know Tanya will miss you more than anything Carl…Many prayers and thoughts to the entire family during this time. God Bless!

Love, Amber-Sheldon and Alivia Martin

Our sincere sympathy to you and your family on the loss of your loved one.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Millie & Bill

Tanya, We are so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Take comfort in the memories you have with your dad. God has blessed me with you as my best friend! Love, Beth, Bert, Cameron, & Madison

My thoughts and prayers go out to you Chris and to your family.
I was thinking of you all day……take good care and God Bless.
From:
              Bruce B. Bair

Your family will be held in my prayers……..
God is with you during these times of sadness…..
God Bless,
Rob G.

Our deepest sympathies to your family.  I haven’t seen Carl in many years…not since I was little…I am his cousin…daughter of his Aunt Suz.  Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. 

Shannon & Matt Levin

We get so busy in our daily lives, miles separate us, the years fly by and we lose touch with each other. I am so sorry that I missed so much of Carl’s life. We always think we have plenty of time. I thought about Carl often, talked about him to family and friends and always wanted to know how he was doing.

Whenever I saw Carl he was always so sweet, very soft spoken and always very respectful. I never knew Carl to say a mean word. As a little boy he was quiet, polite, an all around nice boy who grew into a wonderful man who was still quiet, kind, polite, always respectful…a very good man who I feel anyone who met him would want to get to know him. I would often look at the pictures that I have of Carl with his dad, Nancy, Cindy, Wayne, Nannie, Pop-Pop, cousins, and family and they would always make me smile as I would remember our times together…happy times. I always thought Carl was a good family man with a wonderful wife and a beautiful daughter who I know he loved so much.

We should remember that we never know how long each of us will be on this beautiful earth and that we should always take time to be with our family and friends and let them know how important they are to us and how much we love and care about them.

Carl will be missed more than words can say and he will always be remembered.

My love, prayers and sympathy to all of Carl’s family, especially Chrissy, Tanya, and his dad.

Aunt Sus, Mary Laukhuff Albright

It’s with heartache that I am here to reflect back to the very good times I spent with my son Carl. Thinking back to the reunion that my mother had with him and relatives and friends. Or the day he left our house on his motorcycle with his daughter on the back as they were leaving Tanya would turn to look back at me and wave, We were in the Mountains at my buddies cabin for a deer hunt. We went canoeing, attended Indian Pow Wows. One of the more memorible thing we did was Fox hunting, we had a sort of a contest, he would call me to say, hey dad I got another one, that makes three, I’m up one on you! Carl was a very good sportsman, always did things the best way. I have video of these times together, and will treasurer them. I have always looked forward to the day we could do these things again. The times I have spent with him were surly a good time for Dad and his son, but he was also like my best friend. I sury donot have any answers for this terrible loss, but he will be sadly missed.

Love, Never Forgotton,
Dad & Nancy

I am so sorry to hear of your loss.  Carl and I had dated back in high school. The last time I saw him, was when my son, and his daughter were going to the same babysitter. I have many good memories of Carl.  My prayers go out to his family and friends.
Denise (Herrold) Sloyer      

My heart goes out to Chrissy and Tanya on the loss of Carl. I never got to personally meet him but heard so much about him in the years that I worked with Chrissy. I know how much he was loved and this will be a hard path but lean on your faith and each other as you walk through this time of sorrow.
You both are constantly in my prayers.        
                                        Patti and Mike Shay