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Brian M. Rhodes, 48

August 22, 1972 - January 15, 2021

Brian M. Rhodes, 48, of Lititz, passed away at Hospice & Community Care on Friday, January 15, 2021. He shared 20 wonderful years of marriage with his wife Jennifer “Nikki” (Haffler) Rhodes, and they were blessed with their children Lila and Jack.

Born in Farmingdale, NY, Brian was the son of the late Robert and Catherine (Hale) Rhodes. He graduated from Conestoga Valley High School in 1990. Brian first worked as a cook at Finley’s Restaurant, and then was a UPS loader and driver for over 25 years.

Lila and Jack were his two greatest gifts in life. Always supportive he loved loudly cheering Jack on from the sidelines and was always willing to hold a horse for Lila. He enjoyed family vacations, Marvel Comics, and the Atlanta Falcons. He had a witty sense of humor and spoke fluent sarcasm. Brian was a devoted friend gladly lending a helping hand.

Brian was a devoted member of Faith United Methodist Church, where he served as head Trustee and he cooked for many church events.

In addition to Nikki, Lila and Jack, Brian is survived by his sister Shavonne Hendrix and her daughter Cassidy of Ocala, FL, his brother David Rhodes and his son Sean of Indiana, PA, and his mother and father-in-law, Alan and Gail Haffler of Elverson. His parents and nephew Christopher Hendrix preceded Brian in death.

The family would like to thank the team at ABBC for their care. Please know he felt humbled and blessed by the outpouring of love and support from family and friends over the last year.

Brian’s family will greet guests from 2 to 3:30 PM, followed by the celebration of his life at 3:30 PM with Rev. Jason B. Perkowski officiating, on Saturday, January 23, 2021, at Lancaster Evangelical Free Church, 419 Pierson Road, Lititz, PA 17543. Masks and social distancing will be required.

The service will be streamed at www.faithumc.us and click on “sermons”.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Ann B. Barshinger Cancer Institute “Orange Team”, payable to “Lancaster General Health Foundation”, 2102 Harrisburg Pike, Suite 205, Lancaster, PA 17602 or to Faith United Methodist Church, 1290 Fruitville Pike, Lititz, PA 17543.

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January 23, 2021

Sincerest sympathies to Jennifer, Lila, Jack, Shavonne and David on Brian’s passing. We’re thinking of you all at this very sad time. From Tess, Kevin, Sean, Carmel, Paul, Imelda and Sinead Hale (Your cousins in Ireland)

January 23, 2021

I worked with Brian at UPS, are trucks were parked next to each and never a day went by when he would make you laugh. He was a good friend and well loved by everyone, he will be greatly missed, however, ” For the Lord himself will descend from heaven with a cry of command, with the voice of an archangel, and the sound of the trumpet of God. And the dead in Christ shall rise first, and we who are alive, we who are left, will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet with the Lord, so we will always be with the Lord” 1 Thessalonians 4:18
Dave Burkett

January 23, 2021

So very sorry for your loss.  My prayers are for God’s peace to rest on your family.  Nancy White

January 22, 2021

I was privileged to care for Brian during his lymphedema treatments. I came to understand how much he loved his wife and children. He had a wonderful spirit and soul. 
Eileen Herman

January 22, 2021

I am so sorry to hear about Brian’s passing.  I haven’t seen him in about 25 years.  We worked together many years ago at Finley’s.  He was always a lot of fun.  I am so sorry for your loss.  Thoughts and prayers
Trish Mountain

January 22, 2021

I worked with Brian at UPS as a driver.  Brian was always upbeat and created funny nicknames for his coworkers.  I’ll never forget he called me Hammer.  After a while I told him I don’t get it and he said because my initials are MC … it was for MC Hammer.  
My condolences to your family.  Brian was a great person and I’m glad I had him as a friend.  Hope you find comfort knowing he’s in heaven.  The last time I talked to him I said I’m not saying good-bye, but I’ll see you again.  And he said “for sure.”
Marv Charles

January 21, 2021

To Nikki, Lila & Jack,
We love you and may the good memories sustain you! Love,  David, Laura & Sean

January 21, 2021

I worked with Brian for 15 years at Ups and he was my neighbor up in Annville for quite a few years. He was a hard worker and always had a sarcastic and funny way of handling the heavy workload really miss having him around. RIP brother.   Neefe aka “Nature Boy”

January 20, 2021

Very sorry to read of Brian’s passing.I worked with Brian at UPS in Lancaster PA for 22 years. We worked on preload together many years ago.Then I had the pleasure of being one of the “girls in the office” when he was a driver.He was loved by everyone..co-workers and customers. Brian was indeed one of the best people I have ever had the pleasure to work with. Thoughts and prayers to his family. The world was made a better place because he was here.
Amy Pacana

January 20, 2021

I was sorry to hear of Brians passing. I worked with him for years and can say, with his big personality and his big voice that he was well liked and respected. He was a great co-worker and friend and was always around to lend a hand.     R.I.P.  brother    Coze

January 20, 2021

I am sorry to hear about your loss. Brian was our UPS man at the Tack Shop and was always smiling and happy. He had a wonderful personality.
Brenda Royer

January 20, 2021

My condulances to you Nikki, Lila and Jack. I’m so sorry in your loss. 
Your ole neighbor from 503. Rob Leayman

January 20, 2021

Dear Lila and family,  I am so sorry for your loss.  Sending prayers to you and the family.  If there is anything I can do please let me know.
Mrs Guyton

January 20, 2021

Dear Nikki, Lila and Jack,
I offer my sincere condolences to each of you. Brian was a wonderful person who always made me laugh. He will be greatly missed. May the memories that you have of him bring you comfort during these difficult times. You will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
Love, Heather

January 20, 2021

Lila, I am so very sorry to hear of the  loss of  your Father . May God grant you peace in this time and may you always feel his hand on your shoulder as you navigate through life . God bless .  Sending love and prayers Carol Welkowitz 
 

January 19, 2021

Jenn, Jack and Lila:  please accept my condolences on your loss.  Brian fought with courage and inspired so many with his faithfulness and positive spirit.  He will be sorely missed.  Love and hugs to you.
Amy Boughter

January 19, 2021

I got to know Brian at UPS. He was always good for a laugh. He was my big buddy. Brian was the only person I know who used “Jackass” as a term of endearment. I am so sorry to hear of his passing. Rest in peace “Jackass”
Bill Hawthorne

January 19, 2021

To Brian’s dear family, it is with such great sadness that I write this message to you all but it is with the surest hope that your loving husband and dad has been welcomed into heavens gates and has been relieved of all his earthly pain! May you find comfort in your memories and know that God is with you as you take one moment at a time. I will continue to pray for peace and comfort moving forward. Much love, Hope

January 19, 2021

Dear Nikki, Lila, and Jack. My sincerest condolences. Even though it was just a short amount of time for me,  i am so glad I had the opportunity to meet and become friends with Brian. I just want you to know my heart goes out to you. 
Joe (pops) Colaniro

January 19, 2021

Nikki—We are so very sorry for your loss! We know Brian was a wonderful & kind individual that will be greatly missed & thought of often. We wish you all the best &  we are thinking of you with heavy hearts!     Love,                                                         Linda & Denise Hudson

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Saturday, January 23, 2021
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419 Pierson Road
Lititz, PA 17543
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