Barbara Pacella, 63

Barbara Pacella, 63, of Gap passed away at her home on Monday, November 19, 2012 surrounded by her loving family. Born in Astoria, NY she was the daughter of the late Angelo and May (Daniel) Lombardo. She was married to Michael J. Pacella for 12 years.

She had worked for the Internal Revenue Service as a tax examiner, retiring in 2004 after 23 years of service. Barb was an avid card and scrabble player, but especially enjoyed spending time with her family.

In addition to her loving husband she is survived by 2 sons: Eric Weichert, husband of Jen of Bayshore, NY and Jason Weichert, companion of Christie of Middle Island, NY. Also surviving is a sister, Nancy Lombardo, of Lake Ariel, PA, a brother, Thomas Lombardo, of Holbrook, NY and one grandchild, Mia Weichert.

A Christian Prayer Service will be at 2PM on Friday, November 23, 2012 at the Charles F. Snyder Funeral Home & Crematory, 414 E. King St., Lancaster, PA. Friends will be received at the funeral home on Friday from 1-2PM. Interment will be private and at the convenience of the family. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions in Barb’s memory may be made to the American Cancer Society, 314 Good Drive, Lancaster, PA 17603 or to Hospice & Community Care, PO Box 4125, Lancaster, PA 17604-4125 or To send the family online condolences, please visit Charles F. Snyder Funeral Home & Crematory 717-393-9661

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Mike our prayers are with you and your family we are sorry to hear of your wife’s passing

God Bless
Michael and Roseann McGill

Mike, We just heard, and are so sorry for your loss, and that of her children and grandchild.  It always had to know what to say, but we’ll pray for you.
Richard and Alyce Heckler

Mike, we are so sorry for your loss.  You and your loved ones are in our thoughts and prayers.  Sincerely, Ed & Joanne

Ed Rafter

Please accept my sincerest condolences at the passing of Barbara.

Dennis Gallery


I am truly sorry to hear of your wife’s passing. May God grant you and your family comfort and peace during this very difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Linda Brown

Mike….please know that you your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I’m so sorry for your loss!

Don Wetherby


I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I am glad you spent the time you did with Barb…it is the ultimate gift of love and respect for her.



I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Mark Searle

Mike, I am so sorry for your loss. I pray you will find comfort in the thoughts and prayers of your friends and family.

God Bless,
Maury Sledd


Julie, Nathan and I offer you our deepest sympathy during this most difficult time. We will continue to hold you and your family in our prayers. God bless you and grant you strength.

Andy, Julie and Nathan Taves

Mike, please accept my deepest sympathy on your loss. Barbara will be in my prayers as will you.

All my best,
Wayne Tomlin.

Mike, I know you are a man of few words but I recall you always speaking lovingly of Barbara. She must have been a fine woman and I am very sorry for your loss.

May god be with all the family and friends impacted.

Larry Spanski

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