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Arthur D. Bender, 61

October 15, 2018

Arthur Bender has left the building. Born November 25, 1956 in Quantico, Virginia, he was the son of Eliesa Nora Downing Bender and the late Claude Bender CWOII USMC Ret. He was also the brother of Paul Bender and Claudia Sciarretta. He is survived by his wife and soulmate, Rebecca “Becky” Bender; the proud father of four of the finest young men there are; Shawn, Matthew, Ryan, Brandon; four remarkable daughters in law, two step daughters, ten grandchildren and a great grandson.
Arthur’s colorful employment history included Tait Towers of Lititz, Atec and PSI Environmental as chief inspector and microscopist on the eastern airline’s hazmat cleanup project. Arthur was employed by Merk Construction and greatly appreciated the friendship and never-ending support of Mike Riehl (owner) and Mark Wolgemuth (co-owner).
There will be a memorial service honoring Arthur’s life and legacy at the Charles F. Snyder Jr., Funeral Home & Crematory, 3110 Lititz Pike, Lititz PA, on Friday, October 19, 2018 at 1PM. Friends and family will be received from 12 to 1PM. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be given in memory of Arthur to Vickie’s Angel Foundation, 511 Bridge St., P.O. Box 174, New Cumberland, PA 17070.
Arthur passed on Monday, October 15, 2018, after a ten year on and off battle with cancer. He never quit fighting that battle and will certainly have his hands full as a guardian angel to all those he loved.

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October 19, 2018

My thoughts and prayers are with everyone. Art fought a hard battle and now he gets to watch over all of his family. Hold him in your ❤
So sorry for your loss, Lynn Wilson

October 18, 2018

Our deepest condolences and prayers for you and your family. 
 

October 18, 2018

Art it was a privilege to know you! You always had me laughing about something with that witty sense of humor of yours! They’re lucky to have you up there! I Hope they’ve got a Mustang up there you can Motorhead around in for fun, that will fly like the car in the movie Back to the Future!

October 18, 2018

Our prayers and blessings are with all of you at this difficult time. 
Gary and Linda

October 18, 2018

So sorry you lost your battle buddy, you were an awesome warrior, but now you are pain free! May you soul Rest In Peace. Heaven gains another angle. 
Your Facebook friend 
Bob

October 18, 2018

Our thoughts & prayers are with the entire Bender family. Such sad news.
Jeanne, Eileen & Marsha Monteith Parke

October 18, 2018

You will be missed buddy..they probably took your harmonica at the gates.. 

October 18, 2018

We are so sorry to hear this.  We haven’t seen you in quite a few years, and have many fun memories from the LTI years.  I’m sure you are kicking it up a notch in Heaven.

October 18, 2018

I love you sorry i can’t be there you are in my heart 

October 17, 2018

RIP Arthur 

October 17, 2018

RIP Uncle Art…your sense of humor will be missed. 

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Friday, October 19, 2018
12:00 PM - 1:00 PM
Charles F. Snyder Funeral Home & Crematory
3110 Lititz Pike
Lititz, PA 17543
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