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Anastasja Rain Graffa, 18

October 18, 2015

Anastasja Rain Graffa, 18, of Lancaster, PA passed from this life on October 18, 2015. Her passing was sudden and unexpected, the result of a tragic car accident. Stasja, as she was called by friends and family, was the beloved daughter of Dustin Graffa and Keri Porter Eby, and the stepdaughter of Kyle Eby.
Born in Lancaster on July 1, 1997, Stasja most loved spending time with her family, especially her younger siblings Lily Graffa and Anderson Eby. She spent most Wednesday evenings cooking dinner with her grandfather and grandmother whom she called “Ji” and “Baba”, spending nights at grandma’s, frequently enjoying quality time with her “Dee Dee,” and will forever be her “Pap Pap’s” “ Little Darlin.” Stasja was kind, generous, and quick witted. She loved music, vacationing in Maine, and snuggling with her pet rabbit, Charlie.
Stasja was an employee at Salad Works and a senior at Hempfield High School. She was planning to graduate in June and to attend college next year. In addition to her love of babysitting for family and friends, she treasured her work with the pre-school program at Hempfield High School.
In addition to her parents and siblings, Stasja is survived by her grandparents Cris Graffa, Barbara Searles, Bonnie Hess, John Porter, and Suzanne Sweigart Porter, her great-grandmother Nancy Welch, and many aunts, uncles, and cousins. She will be sorely missed by her family and a great multitude of friends who held her dear to their hearts.
Relatives and friends are invited to attend Stasja’s Celebration of Life Service from the Charles F. Snyder, Jr. Funeral Home & Crematory, 3110 Lititz Pike, Lititz, PA 17543 on Monday, October 26, 2015 at 4:00 P.M. with Sonja Waltman, Executive Director of Ministries with LCBC officiating. The family will receive friends at the Charles F. Snyder, Jr. Funeral Home from 2:00 pm until time of service.
In lieu of flowers, and to honor Stasja’s love of children, contributions may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105.

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October 26, 2015

I worked at Rohrerstown Elem School when Stasja started there and knew her until she left for middle school after 6th grade. I’ll always remember her kind heart, contagious smile, and always happy and friendly personality. My sincere condolences to her family and friends. She will be sorely missed by all.  Jennifer Master

October 23, 2015

Stasja was the sweetest,kind and beautiful girl . She will be dearly missed by all who loved her . She also was a quick wit. I smile now thinking of the special times she came to visit,with her ” didi ” .  My heart is broken and sad . My thoughts are now with her family.   May god bless them.   Sincerely Faye Orcino 

October 22, 2015

I did not have the pleasure of meeting Anastasja, but I am a friend of Bonnie Hess. I see many pictures and memories of “Stasja” on Bonnie`s facebook page. What I see is a beautiful young woman much loved by family and friends. I see many happy memories, going back to Stasja as a little girl. I see that yours is a very close family. God Bless all of you as you cope with this loss. 

October 22, 2015

Suzanne, Keri and family,  I am so sorry to hear of your tragic loss. Please accept my sincerest condolences to you and “all” of your family.  No words can be said that have any true meaning at this time but perhaps knowing that you are in the thoughts of others will give you some modicum of comfort.  Sincerely, Emma Irvin

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Monday, October 26, 2015
2:00 PM - 4:00 PM
Charles F. Snyder Funeral Home & Crematory
3110 Lititz Pike
Lititz, PA 17543
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