Patricia “Pat” M. Brehm, 92

August 11, 2025

Patricia “Pat” M. Brehm, of Lititz, passed away at her home on August 11, 2025, at the age of 92. Born in Lancaster, Pat was the daughter of the late Lawrence and Catherine (Hoffman) Phelan. She was a proud graduate of Lancaster Catholic High School, class of 1950 where she showcased her spirited personality as a cheerleader.

For 28 years, Pat embraced the adventure of life as an Air Force wife, traveling the world and living in diverse places, all while nurturing a loving home. She dedicated fifty years to a remarkable career with Mary Kay, where she thrived as a Mary Kay Independent Senior Sales Director, earning numerous accolades, including several iconic pink Cadillacs and Buicks. Her unwavering commitment and passion for the cosmetics industry not only defined her professional life but also embodied her vibrant spirit. When not working, Pat was an avid gardener and found joy in tending to her flowers.

A devoted member of St. Leo the Great Catholic Church, Patricia found purpose in serving others, particularly those with failing health, through hospital visits and community outreach. Her faith was a cornerstone of her life, and she touched many with her kindness and compassion.

Above all, Pat loved her family. She loved family gatherings and spent numerous memorable times with the Phelan family. Most of all, she loved her grandchildren and great grandchildren as her love for them was boundless.

Pat is survived by her son: Frank J. Brehm, III (companion of Barbara Robinson) of Hamburg, PA., Stephen W. Brehm (companion of Laurie Garrett) of Leola and Shawn E. Brehm of Lancaster; two grandchildren: Ginger Chase (wife of Shane) of Eagle Idaho and Frank J. Brehm, IV of Yuba City, CA; and two great grandchildren: Trevor and Ryan Chase as well as one brother, Ron Phelan (husband of Beverly).
In addition to her parents, Pat is preceded in death by her beloved companion and love of her life, Paul Dussinger.

Family will receive friends on Wednesday, October 1, 2025 at St. Leo the Great Catholic Church, 2427 Marietta Ave, Lancaster, PA 17601 from 10AM to 11AM with a Mass of Christian Burial to follow at 11AM. Burial will be held privately by the family.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Pat’s memory may be made to the American Alzheimer’s Association, https://donorservices.alz.org/.