Obituaries

Kathleen T. Sullivan, 76

October 25, 1943 - April 04, 2020

Lieutenant Colonel Kathleen T. Sullivan, aka ‘sucker lady’, 76 years young, dropped the mic peacefully in Lititz, Pa. It is believed she succumbed to the years of raising 3 kids: 2 fairly normal, and 1 completely off her own rocker. Sorry COVID-19, we beat you to it on this one!

Kathy was a great woman, mother, mom-mom, friend, aunt, sister to some, not so much to others, wife (at one point)/ companion/ buddy to one. Born on October 25, 1943 in Collingswood, NJ, she was the oldest daughter of the late Anthony & Catherine “Kitty-Kat” Visgil. She leaves behind a dysfunctional family, and while we believe we put the ‘fun’ in dysfunctional, Kath was quite frankly tired of dealing with our shenanigans.

Kathy served this great country as a Lieutenant Colonel Army Reserve nurse. She secretly enjoyed the escape to serve one weekend per month and 2 weeks each year. Her kids did too! Our friends would send Christmas cards to the military, thanking them for sending mom to boot camp. While she did not like the idea of parties at her home, she did enjoy a clean, spotless house upon her return.

Cooking was not her greatest skill, unless it was Hamburger Helper, but the heart shaped toast in the morning let you know she cared. It was a guarantee that at Thanksgiving, the Pillsbury rolls would be burned, but she did make a mean walnut apple pie.

Mom was so grateful to the fellas of the NJDOT who completed Route 55 so she could get to her happy place in less than an hour: “The Lake” in Millville, NJ became our family haven. The whole family jammed into the cabin – awesome times were had by all and we would like to thank you, Mom, for introducing us to such a wonderful place.

We will miss you every day. Even though today may be a rough one, we will remember your strength through the tough years and keep going. You made our lives, Mom. We love you so much. Say hello to mom-mom and pop-pop for us.

Kathy is survived by sister Mary (Jim), brothers Tony (Mary Lou) & John (Terry), children Kelly, Ryan (Meagan), Kristin, companion Whitey, grandson Tanner, and granddaughter CC.

Because of the recent COVID-19 outbreak, we will be postponing the celebration of life until October 23, 2021 at 11:00 AM at Charles Snyder Funeral Home 3110 Lititz Pike, Lititz PA with military honors. Guests will be received prior to service at 10:00 AM. Please put it on your calendars, come celebrate her life with us and join the family for lunch afterwards. Unfortunately, due to the COVID-19 circumstances, researchers were not allowed to retrieve Kathy’s brain tissue to help advance the study of this disease and improve the clinical care of patients. In lieu of flowers, please make donations in Kathy’s honor to the Lewy Body Dementia Association at https://www.lbda.org/donate.

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May 06, 2021

Jerry and I are saddened to discover that your mom passed away. We always touched base with one another at Christmas with a note written in a Christmas card. The last card I sent came back with her new address but never received one from her this past Christmas. Please accept our sincere condolences. Our prayers go out to your entire family. Sincerely Anna May and Jerry Magilton

April 17, 2020

Kristin- I feel priveledged to have met Kathy once in Philly and to have experienced the humor charm and wit shared through you. I am sorry for your loss and thank you for putting a smile and a laugh into the obit.  Hugs to you and all of your family.
 
Fredda Lippes

April 16, 2020

Kristin, sorry for your loss, but she’s in a better place.  Hopefully she’ll find your decoder ring up there and send you a message.
Joe Turk

April 10, 2020

So sorry for your loss, will keep your family in prayer for peace.  I didn’t know your Mom but in reading her joyous obit wish that I had that honor.. You presented her absolute humanity & I am greatful for her service to our country.  I too am an RN & appreciate her continued service in the Reserves.  She embued her family with a wonderful sense of humor & warmth. It was heart warming to read her obit, especially in this stressful time of Covid-19.  ‘Sucker Lady’ is making Heaven a place of even More peace, joy & laughter.  God bless  you all & thank you for encapsulating Mom’s joy in family & life & continuing her legacy of joy.
Florence McDade

April 08, 2020

I did not know your mother but what a wonderful obituary. It made me laugh, it made me cry. So much love and what was written. I’m sorry for your loss. She must have been an exceptional woman. 
 
Linda Frye

April 07, 2020

Kristin and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Though I never got to meet Kathy, I did get to ride in her beloved Lexus one time, which I feel like has to count for something, right?! I loved getting to know her through all of the stories I heard over the years, and I empathized with her from a distance whenever Kristin got up to something crazy.
May we all be so lucky to live lives immersed in laughter and love. 
Katherine Gajewski

April 07, 2020

Please accept my loss for your beautiful Mom.  She has had the same fun dysfunctional life that I have.  I know she loved you with all her heart and soul.  She reminds me so much of how I am living with my family.  She raised her children to be sensitive, loving and with a great sense of humor.  Your loss is unimaginable and I know she will be missed by all who knew her I only wish I had known her.
Sharon Mellor

April 06, 2020

i do not know your family nor did I know your mother but to raise 3 kids with a sense of humor say’s alot about your mom.  Sorry for your loss. I’m sure Kathy will be missed in more way’s than one.
Maryann J.

April 06, 2020

Kristin and family –
What a great way to remember and celebrate a wonderful well-loved woman.  May her memory be a blessing to those who knew her.  And to those of us who did not have the privilege, know that her spirit seems to live on in at least the one daughter I do know.
Rob Graff

April 06, 2020

The greatest obituary ever,; I think the ground trembled a little when your mom read it over your shoulder. Kathy was a wonderful woman and loved you all greatly. Your former neighbor and babysitter.
April Whitley

April 06, 2020

S000 SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.  I AM NOT KNOWN TO YOU BUT MY THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU IN THESE REALLY TOUGH TIMES….JUST WANTED TO JOT SOMETHING DOWN TO LET YOU KNOW HOW MUCH I REALLY LOVED READING YOUR MOM’S NEWS IN THE COURIER, (BRISTOL) I WAS BORN IN THE SAME YEAR OF YOUR MOM, AND IT TOUCHED ME AND GAVE ME A REAL CHUCKLE (IF THAT IS OK TO SAY) TO READ ABOUT WHAT A WONDERFUL WOMEN SHE WAS….AND PLUS THE FACT YOUR REALLY LET IT BE KNOWN OF HOW MUCH YOU LOVED AND APPRECITED HER……….THANK YOU AGAIN AND MY CONDOLENCES, SINCERELY, REGINA

April 06, 2020

Dear family of my dear college friend who shared our younger and older times sporadically between busy schedules with our work and fondly with our cherished children, hearing about the parties much later than we might have suspected. You and yours are in my thoughts and prayers in remembrance of a life fortified by your love.
Terri CutilloSchmitter 

April 05, 2020

How do you tell a family that has just lost a beloved Mom and Family member that her obituary brought smiles to so many of us ? Times are so bad — we are all on lockdown– so many phone calls –what did you see on TV etc. — This day there was something that brought a happy chuckel ” did you see the obit in the courier ” and for those that did not get the paper it was passed on by word ! Mom must have been So loved for someone to create this wonderful obituary ! In your pain you brought laughter to so many strangers ! Heartbreak , Sorrow , Prayers ! Bless everyone of you !
Kathryn F. Hartman

April 05, 2020

My condolences to you Kelly,along with your whole family.  She sounded like a wonderful woman with a lot of spunk.  The apple doesn’t fall far from that tree.  Virtual Hugs to you all!
Chris Bailey

April 05, 2020

So sorry to hear of her passing. She was a terrific neighbor and she will be missed. My family’s prayers are with you. The humor of your notice is not missed. 
Glenn Proven

April 05, 2020

My heart goes out to your family.My Mom died of dementia a few years ago. I don’t know
you or your mother but I am sorry what you all have suffered.
 
                                           Bob Hohman

April 05, 2020

I did not know your mother but i read your beautiful obituary.  Such a wonderful tribute to her.  It brought a smile to my face.  She certainly was well loved and greatly appreciated.  i can only hope that my children remember me so fondly.  Please accept my condolences.
Elsie Watts

April 05, 2020

I did not know this lady but love her family just from the ob in the Inquirer.  Thank you for putting a smile on my face.  
Michelle Maucher

April 04, 2020

Loved your mum and enjoyed every visit we shared with her, from dinners at ours and yours to carrying her — like the queen that she was — on a makeshift palanquin down onto the beach in NJ. (Oh wait, maybe I loved that because I wasn’t doing the actual carrying!) Sending much love to you all and peace to your lovely mum. Litty & Dan.

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