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Stephen (Steve) E. Sohonyay, 84

August 22, 2017

Stephen (Steve) E. Sohonyay, 84, passed away in his sleep at his Manor Twp. home on Tuesday, August 22, 2017. Born in Győrasszonyfa, Hungary to the late Alexander and Helen Cseh Sohonyay, Steve immigrated to the United States in 1946 to live in a vibrant Hungarian immigrant community in New Brunswick, NJ where he quickly mastered English well enough to graduate from St. Peter’s High School.
Steve received an undergraduate degree from Mount Saint Mary’s College in Emmitsburg, MD, where he also played varsity soccer, before earning a Master’s Degree in Social Work from New York University. In between his studies, Steve served two years as a US Army Specialist at Fort Huachuca, AZ. Dedicating his professional life to the welfare of children, Steve worked for 32 years at the Lancaster County Children and Youth Agency, most of that time serving as executive director. During his tenure as director, Steve and the agency won many national awards for innovative programs and services, especially in the area of foster care. Steve also served as president of the Child Welfare Directors Association for many years. Even in retirement Steve continued to work part-time at the PA Department of Welfare as well as the Alumni Fitness Center at Franklin and Marshall College, where he enjoyed getting to know students and patrons alike.

Throughout his life, Steve pursued his profound love of nature, spending much of his free time gardening and tending to the yard at his home in Fairway Park where he and his wife of 48 years, Anna Marie (Re) Hussar Sohonyay, resided since 1971. His neighbors knew Steve well as someone always willing to lend a helping hand, a smiling face inquiring about their health and well-being while out on his daily walk around the neighborhood.

Steve had a deep religious faith that helped him survive a childhood of war and deprivation in Europe during World War II. He practiced his beliefs quietly as a member of St. Philip the Apostle Catholic Church, where he could often be found at daily morning service and helping out at the annual festival or serving as a leader in Guys and Dolls and the Men’s Club. Steve relished the simplest of life’s pleasures: feeding birds, pruning shrubs, talking to friends, evening walks, the taste of good rye bread, saying the rosary, spending time with his family. He will be dearly missed by his friends and family.

In addition to his wife Re, Steve is survived by their two sons, Stephen R. Sohonyay, husband of Bridget, and their children Madeleine, Jack and Molly of Mount Joy, and Simon P. Sohonyay of Silver Spring, MD; his twin brother Alexander Sohonyay of Hungary and his sister Marianne Sachs of Severna Park, MD; and several nieces and nephews.

A viewing will be held from 10 to 11 AM, followed by a mass at 11 AM with The Rev. Lawrence W. Sherdel as Celebrant, on Tuesday, August 29, 2017 at St. Philip the Apostle Catholic Church, 2111 Millersville Pike, Lancaster, PA 17603. Interment will be in St. Joseph New Catholic Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the soccer program at Mount Saint Mary’s University or to a charity of one’s choice.

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August 31, 2017

Dear Steve and family,
I’m sorry for your loss.  I worked for Steve at the CYA right after college.  He was truly a role model of an effective and kind leader.
Nancy Landis

August 28, 2017

Steve and family, 
I am so sorry for your loss but hope you find peace in all the great memories you have. Your dad sounded like a very actualized guy.
Sue Saupp

August 28, 2017

Re, Steve, Simon,
So sorry to hear about the passing of Mr. Sohonyay.  While growing up in the neighorhood I can remember how he always made me feel like part of your family.  He was a wonderful person and I know that he will be missed by many.  I regret that I will not be able to attend the funeral services, but please know that all of you will be in my thoughts and prayers. 
Marty Rusnak and Family

August 28, 2017

RE AND FAMILY, THE MEMORIES YOU HAVE TO SAVOR SHOULD SERVE YOU WELL , KNOWING THE FAITH STEVE SHARED WITH HIS MANY FRIENDS…AND I FEEL FORTUNATE TO HAVE SPENT TIME WITH HIM AND ENTERTAINED BY HIS OUTLOOK AND EXPERIENCES…MOST RECENTLY AS ONE OF THE “OLD MEN IN HEAT ” AT THE CAO. BUT HE ALSO HELPED WITH MY YOUTH VIOLENCE/PEACE COUNCIL…I ENJOYED HIS ANECDOTES OF HIS YOUTH…HIS LOVE OF HISTORY AND LIFE…HIS DEVOTION TO HIS GOD AND FAMILY…HIS KIELBASA AND ALL THINGS HUNGARIAN…AND I SHALL MISS HIM. UNFORTUNATELY, I AM HAVING KNEE SURGERY @ 7:30 TOMORROW AND WILL BE UNABLE TO ATTEND THE SERVICE…BUT MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS WILL BVE WITH YOU. REGARDS, RON CAULWELL

August 28, 2017

The entire Fulton family joins together to wish you peace and God’s comfort during this very hard time. We hope that the wonderful memories you have and the love you have for each other will help ease your way. While the loss of a loved one is never easy, we offer our sincere condolence and deepest sympathy on your loss. May the outpouring of sympathy, the kind acts of friends and strangers and the comfort in knowing that your loss is felt by many, help you through this difficult time. Many hugs, many blessings, many prayers to each of you.
Iris Ayala and the entire staff of Fulton Elementary
 

August 28, 2017

Steve was my first boss right out of college. He set the bar high for the rest of my career. My sincere sympathy to the family. He will be missed by many. 
Peggy Breneman

August 28, 2017

My thoughts and prayers are with the family at this time. Steve was a great man and a true role model in many ways. He is going to be missed.
 
Mike Fedor 

August 26, 2017

Dear RE, Steve and Simon and families;
Please accept our deepest sympathy for your loss. May you find peace in your faith knowing GOD is your strenght and salvation.
Carole, Lisa and Marty Rusnak Families
 
 

August 26, 2017

Those of us who frequently use F&M’s ASFC will miss Steve terribly. He was so friendly and interesting. We always loved to Steve at the desk or working out upstairs. 
Michael Billig and Heidi Wolf

August 26, 2017

My condolences to the family.  I worked with Steve for many years when I was with the School District of Lancaster.  We did a lot of “agency coordination” projects over the years.  When I lived on Bausman Drive, I was little league coach and young Steve was on my team along with my son – Rob.  Steve was a great person and I know he will be missed.
Kirk Fisher

August 26, 2017

Steve was a very enjoyable person to be around (always).   He always asked how you were doing.    I loved interacting with him whenever our paths crossed.   I loved hearing stories about Hungary.   He will be missed but I know he is going to heaven in an express elevator.  Tom and Kathy Larkin

August 25, 2017

Mrs. Sohonyay, Steve, and Simon,
So sorry for your loss.  I always enjoyed listening to Mr. Sohonyay read the scriptures at church and have fond memories of him cheering for us on the baseball sidelines.  He will be missed and is in my prayers. Ed Krow

August 25, 2017

Dear Re, My thoughts are with you and your family after the sudden passing of Steve.  I mainly talked with him at the F&M pool where he was always friendly. When some friends of mine returned from Hungary with 2 tins of paprika, I thought of Steve and you and brought one tin into ASFC to give to him-he really liked that.  The obituary showed how he dedicated his life to helping others (I had not known what he had done earlier). That is an excellent photo of Steve.  Shawn Carty provided the link to the obituary in an e-mail to FSA, and I am grateful for that as I no longer get the local paper.
Leslie Burlingame 

August 25, 2017

I worked with Steve at the Welfare Office in recent years.  He was a kind and interesting man.  One year, I had a bad cold that I just couldn’t shake.  He gave me his “Hungarian recipe for colds,” and it really alleviated my cold symptoms!  If anyone needs his “recipe,” I still have it!   My condolences to the family.  He was a wonderful person.
Debra (Kalbach) Weber

August 25, 2017

So very sorry for the great loss to the Sohonyay family. As a CYA employee, I have so many fond memories of Steve. He was a wonderful person to work for and I will always remember his smile and the accent he swears he didn’t have.
Mari Pugliese Himmelright.

August 25, 2017

Dear Mrs. Sohonyay, Steve & Simon,
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your husband & father. It was a great pleasure to see him again last April for Bert’s 40th birthday after many years. Thank you to all of you for being a support for Ray before his passing, and then being there all these years for Bert since then. You are truly a great family and my prayers and sympathy are with you all.  
Love, Amy (Childs) Nicholls xoxo

August 25, 2017

So sorry for your loss.  May you find peace in your faith.  Dennis Stuckey, Lancaster County Commissioner

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