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Melissa “Missy” Ann Wenzel, 43

October 26, 1981 - May 14, 2025

With profound sorrow, we announce the passing of Melissa “Missy” Ann Wenzel, cherished daughter, devoted friend, and compassionate soul, who left this world on May 14, 2025, at the age of 43. Born on October 26, 1981, in Lancaster, Pennsylvania, Missy spent her life in the loving community of Millersville, where she touched the lives of all who had the privilege of knowing her.

Missy was a loving and devoted member of Manor Church, where her faith shone brightly in all she did. She participated in various ministries, profoundly impacting the lives of those around her through her warmth and unyielding dedication to helping others. Over the course of her life, her uplifting spirit radiated from her involvement in programs like Joni and Friends, and her previous role as an Easter Seals Ambassador showcased her commitment to serving the community from a young age. For over 18 years, she volunteered at St. Anne’s Retirement Community, where she became a beloved Activities Assistant, showering the residents with love and joy.

A proud member of the Penn Manor class of 2000, Missy possessed a heart of gold and a smile that illuminated even the darkest days. Her exuberance for life was matched only by her ability to connect with children, as she found immense joy in singing and nurturing the younger generations. She mentored youth classes at Manor Church, sharing her immeasurable gifts of hope, love, and peace with countless children, including her nieces, and nephews whom she checked on daily.

Missy’s legacy is one of love and compassion, as she regularly ministered to and comforted her caregivers, showing strength and grace even in her most challenging moments. Her family extends heartfelt gratitude to those at Margaret E. Moul Home in Shiloh, who provided care during her final weeks, demonstrating the same love and care that Missy shared throughout her life.
Her spirit and memory will live on in all who knew and loved her including her parents, John and Linda (Neff) Wenzel of Millersville, her brothers, Josh Wenzel, husband of Brooke and Mike Wenzel, husband of Leah, all of Lancaster, her nieces and nephews, Lincoln, Jaxon, Maximus, Elle, Otto, and Hannah, as well as loving aunts, uncles, and cousins.

A Memorial Service to honor Missy’s remarkable life will take place at Manor Church, 530 Central Manor Rd., Lancaster, PA 17603, on May 31, 2025, at 11:00 am, with visitation starting at 10:00 am. She will be laid to rest at Masonville Cemetery. Memorial contributions are encouraged to be made to Margaret E. Moul Home, or Joni and Friends of Eastern PA, 340 Highland Dr. Ste.200, Mountville, PA 17554.

In remembrance of Missy, we encourage everyone to cherish one another and continue her legacy of love and compassion through acts of kindness. Her memory will live on in our hearts and in the lives of everyone she touched.

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May 22, 2025

My name is Vika Staub and I was so glad that I got the opportunity to meet Melissa Missy at Manor church Bic. 
 
I am so thankful and grateful for Missy and the way that she would have a huge smile on her face. I am so thankful that I got be a great friend to her. I thank God for her each and every day. Her smile would always brighten up my day. Every time that I would see her she would always have a smile on her face and it really encouraged me to smile even more. 
My prayers continue for the family. I loved the way that she would display her love for the Lord. It has been an emmence joy of getting to know her through the Manor Church disability ministry. 
 

May 22, 2025

She is Amazing Person I am Sorry for your loss cost pain is hard Friends family 
Emily Hartmann

May 22, 2025

Myself and my office staff are only just today learning about this, and we are shocked and deeply saddened. It was such a pleasure to know Missy. She was always a beaming light of positivity. Any nurse that had the privledge of working with her instantly fell in love with her personality. All we can say is thank you Missy for always being “you” and allowing us to have been part of your life. Our thoughts and prayers go out to Mom and Dad and all the family, what a profound loss, she will be missed greatly. 
Faithful Nursing LP

May 22, 2025

Even though Missy is no longer physically with us she will be forever in our hearts. My daughter Stephanie will miss her deeply. She said that Journeys will never be the same. We rejoice that she is with her Heavenly Father and free from suffering. Prayers for her family in the days that follow. 
Eleanor Heagy

May 21, 2025

Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Wenzel family. 
Craig and Morgan Shrom 

May 21, 2025

I was so sad to hear of Missy leaving her earthly life but I know without a shadow of a doubt she is praising her Lord and Savior in the heavenly choirs with jumping and dancing too! Missy impacted so many lives and pointed us all to Jesus! She was a good and faithful servant. Praying for her parents and family as they grieve in the days, weeks and months ahead. Love to you 💕from the Haldeman’s 

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Saturday, May 31, 2025
10:00 AM - 11:00 AM
Manor Church
530 Central Manor Rd.
Lancaster, PA 17603
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