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Troy “TJ” Jefferson Wallace, Jr., 29

January 18, 2023

Troy “TJ” Jefferson Wallace, Jr, 29, of Brownstown passed away peacefully at home on January, 18, 2023. He was the loving husband of his high school sweetheart, Alyssa (Koppey), and father to son, Troy “Trey” Jefferson, III, and daughter, Chloe Joan. TJ was the son of Troy Wallace, husband of Gail, Seaford, Delaware, and Robin Scales, wife of John of West Lawn.

TJ was a graduate of Garden Spot High School and West Chester University, where he majored in biology. He pursued his passion for science and learning as a production supervisor at L&S Sweeteners, a job he loved because the work always presented new challenges. He volunteered for third shift so he could spend days with his children. His favorite activities included hunting and exploring the outdoors with his father and building trains with Trey. TJ always had the most genuine smile when he was in the presence of his children.

TJ was very protective of family and friends and ran background checks on anyone they dated. While still in high school, TJ invested in a metal detector, a purchase that paid for itself in the first month with the rare coins that he found and sold. He also enjoyed flying drones and going on long country drives with his family. TJ could and did fix anything for his family. While under the care of Hospice a week before his death, he was soldering his childhood Game Boy for his own children.

In addition to his wife, children and parents, TJ is survived by sisters Shannon Butler, wife of Tom, Hershey, Brandy Dormer, wife of Kyle, East Earl, Tara Wallace, East Earl, and Corrie Leinhauser, wife of Ryan, Narvon.

He is also survived by grandparents, George Wallace, Leola and Esther Fox, Narvon, and his parents-in-law Wayne Koppey, husband of Carmella, Terre Hill and Lee Calibeo, IL, and by brother-in-law Matt Koppey, husband of Grayce, MI.

Friends and family are invited to attend a celebration of TJ’s life on February 11 at 2 pm at Weaver Markets 2610 N Reading Rd, Denver. In honor of celebrating TJ’s life, we ask people to wear bright and colorful clothing.

In lieu of flowers that the cats would eat, donations can be sent to the Bile Duct Cancer Foundation at https://cholangiocarcinoma.org

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Condolences to the Family

January 29, 2023

Troy,
Cindy and I are so saddened to find out about TJ. We will be holding you and your family in our prayers. 
Jeff

January 26, 2023

Alyssa, your Dad has kept us updated with pictures of you, TJ and your beautiful children. We send our deepest sympathy to all of you.
Coby & Cari Regehr

January 25, 2023

Prayers for Troy and his entire family. marge althouse

January 25, 2023

“Death leaves a heartache no one can heal; love leaves a memory no one can steal.” – Chris Readinger

January 24, 2023

May he serve as Alyssa’s and the kids’ forever angel, protecting and guiding them with every step. We know not the plans, but always will have faith in His plans. Praying for peace without understanding. 

January 24, 2023

“You have seen me tossing and turning through the night.  You have collected all my tears and preserved them in your bottle!  You have recorded every one in your book.”
Psalms 56:8Our Deepest Sympathies go out to the family, we’re still praying 🙏🏻 for you Robin & John. Allen & Deborah Earnshaw

January 23, 2023

Condolences to the family. May you find peace and comfort in our Savior Jesus Christ. Praying with love for all. Janet abel

January 23, 2023

I am so sorry for your loss of this beloved Man .I was blessed to have known him. May God grant you peace at this time of mourning.  Denise & Robert Geahr
 

January 23, 2023

This world needs more people like TJ. A great husband and father. Devoted to his family. It was an honor and blessing to have him be part of my life. While I will miss him I will treasure the many good memories of time spent with him and his family.  Michael Discavage

January 23, 2023

Our hearts go out to TJ’s wife, children & family. He was very loved by them all & shall be greatly missed. In sympathy, Bill & Pat Butler

January 23, 2023

Alyssa, Trey & Chloe…There are not enough words to say how much TJ will be missed. We’ve seen your love grow for each other through the years. This past year was challenging, but your strength and commitment for each other was so powerful. We love you all so much!! Aunt Sharon, Uncle David, Kaitlyn & Lauryn 

Services
Saturday, February 11, 2023
2:00 PM
Weaver Markets
2610 N. Reading Rd.
Denver, PA 17517
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