Obituaries

Stephanie M. Evanko, 32

February 25, 2017

Stephanie M. Evanko, 32, of Lancaster, PA, passed away on Saturday, February 25, 2017 at the Lehigh Valley Medical Center, following at 17 year struggle with addiction. She is now at peace in the arms of Jesus.
Born in Lancaster, she was the daughter of Stephen and Mechthild Oetzel Evanko of Lancaster.
She had a big and caring heart, was an animal lover, and was very proud and dearly loved her daughter, Savannah.
She also loved to read, write poetry and believed deeply in her Christian faith.
Stephanie was a 2002 graduate of Penn Manor High School.
In addition to her parents and her daughter, Savannah, she is survived by her sister, Christien married to Jack Steele of Lancaster and by her niece, Allison, and nephew, Jack, along with aunts and uncles from the US and Germany.
Author: Stephanie Evanko (wrote 04/29/2013)
To My family and Friends: I’m sorry that I’m such a Mess, I deserve all the evil words spoken to me, and all the time I’ve been disappointed. I don’t know what to even say. I hope that I’ll change and once again be okay. I do all the things I say I won’t do, my dreams & goals (YEAH). I threw them away too. I always claim that I’m a Mother, when in reality I act like a child, and constantly chase “ONE MORE” another. Every time I look into Savannah’s eyes, my heart breaks more because of all the lies, I hate the person that I have become, running from life and wanting to be numb. I ask myself over and over what will it take, I can’t keep living this way, not only for me but for my daughter’s sake. “Mommy was a drug addict and that why she is Dead” my daughter will say, along with broken memories of me in her head. She’ll go & visit my grave and constantly question just why I couldn’t behave. Didn’t I love her, wasn’t that enough making her feelings and trying to be tough. The holiday will come year after year & pass after I die, all because I was selfish & wanted to get high. My parents will raise her and try to do it right, they’ll try their hardest & put up a good fight. All sorts of emotions my mother will feel, and at time ask herself can this be real? Everyday she’ll feel anger and sorrow, trying to reassure my daughter there’s always tomorrow. My father would probably be filled with regret, and do things with Savannah he didn’t do with me, until all his goals are met. My sister would be disappointed & cry, she’d pray to God for the answers to Why? My brother-in-law would be the backbone, and hold his family when they sob & they moan. I’m so ashamed to even claim I’m a Mother, all I’m really worried about is can I get “ANOTHER”.
If Stephanie’s words touch one person’s life, her life will not have been in vain.
Services will be private and at the convenience of the family.

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Condolences to the Family

September 23, 2019

Katd / Thanks for taking the time, to send a Condolence / especially for the time, that has passed. I WISH YOU ALL WELL ALSO!!! 
Steve Evanko

August 16, 2019

So very sad. Sorry for your loss. I didn’t know Stephanie but reading her poem brought me to tears. It’s most devastating to see she wrote it 4 yrs prior to passing & made me realize the enormousness of an addiction & how she must have been suffering to see this a her future. I grew up in that area but live on the west coast, fortunately healthy but am losing a close friend at the moment to an addiction she’s had for 20 yrs. it’s extremely heartbreaking to watch. I wish you all well!
Katd

June 05, 2019

We want to send our deepest condolences out to Steph’s family,friends,and her loed ones.she is greatly missed and in the hearts of many.she will never be forgotten.
Gary P. Fadule

February 20, 2019

To the unknown writer posted February 19 2019 / Yesterday I was sorting numerous cards, which I have received thru out my Years. One of which was presented to me by Steph……Birthday card from many years ago.. In this card, Happy Birthday Dad / Sorry for putting you thru all the hardships, but working on this……last paragraph stated , Dad I’ll always remember, when you took me fishing at Muddy Run….was a Special day for me! Brought tears to my eyes! BRAVO!! I’m so proud of YOU!!!! 5yrs & 6 month!!!! & know Stephanie is Too!! Finally Realized not a easy Accomplishment to Achieve such a GOAL…IF YOU EVER NEED SUPPORT…..my e-mail HD518steve@aol.com……For sure Your a Special Lady!  Savannah is now 9 yrs old, in 3rd grade…….growing up fast.. For sure has her Mother attributes of writing….I Miss Steph toooooooooo!
But sure is nice to know her life wasn’t in VAIN! Especially with people like you! In IT..
Steve Evanko 
 

February 19, 2019

I miss you so much everyday you were my best friend it’s been 2 years and I’m still  hurting.  I cry A lot when I know what Savannah has lost.  I’m over 5 years 6 months clean sis, I want u to be proud of me. 
I LOVE YOU 

November 02, 2018

My prayers your way . I have a son whose in the addiction web . It’s so unreal . My thoughts are with your family.  

October 06, 2018

Sorry to hear about your loss and hope someone can take something from this 😢

October 04, 2018

I have read this I’m so sorry.may God b with u n family.Im so sad to read this my daughter is just the same other than she has 3 girls.prayers b with  u

August 26, 2018

I read this over a year after Stephanies passing on. I did not know Stephanie but I am a recovering addict whom by the grace of God has been sober for over two years. That being said I feel as if all addicts are a member of the same family because only we know what the burden  of addiction feels like. Reading Stephanies story today helped me remain grounded in my recovery just for today. I want you to know that although you lost your daughter, today she helped me to live. I am so very sorry for your  loss. My sincerest condolences go to you and all that  knew your angel. God  bless.
A grateful recovering addict named,
Chaz 
 
Chazhipple@gmail.com

October 23, 2017

Stephanie I love you and I miss you everyday we’ve been friends for 15 years and when I heard of your death I fell apart you’re the most loving and kind person I know I’ll remember all the good times we had and the bad ones too we shared so much in our lives I just to let you know I will always remember you and love you and I won’t stray from the sidewalk anymore I wish this pain will go away in this hole inside my heart that I had from losing you please being angel for Savannah and I in your family thank you I love you so much I love you so very much and one day sis I’ll see you again but until then rest in peace and fly with the angels love always your best friend and adopted sister (we adopted each other) Sabrina Wilson

May 24, 2017

Dear stephanies family
As an addict in recovery with a 9 year old to raise.im 15 months clean. I promise you at any time i feel weak and want to be numb i will remember your girl Stephanie Evanko and her struggle and everyones loss. I dont want her story to be my story. Thank you for sharing! Charlotte ostrander

April 18, 2017

First / I want to express my Gratitude to all the Condolences received! Along with families sharing their struggle with this EPIDEMIC!
 just shows we are not alone, which helped me deal with many mixed emotion’s. Thank You Everyone. To the family that shared 04/15/2017 your words ( top dollar insurance ) couldn’t be more direct & real. 
I wrote our President Mr.Trump a letter & copied Steph’s Obituary along with over 200 pages of Condolences, part of which included.
Simple / Destroy the Poppy fields, with our modern Technology, shouldn’t be hard to locate and accomplish.Would elimate 90% of street crime, related to Drugs & Deaths!
To do so, a Inner Structure of Drug Rehab Treatment centers would need to be created.
Have since seen a Committee has been formed by Mr Trump/ headed up by Gov Christie to address the Opioid Epidemic / along with Gov Wolf getting involved . ( Gov Wolf and his administration are working to provide real solutions to save lives and help individuals and their families get the treatment they need to live long, productive lives )
It’s a start…….For has been sweep under the carpet for 17 yrs….Have a Long Way to go!!!! 
To date this year 2017 / 50 deaths related to Heroin in Lancaster County.
Steve Evanko

April 17, 2017

I feel your  pain. My sis passed to. She also was addicted and has 3 daughters.  If I can tell you  one thing please get grief counsel.  God bless you I’ll be praying for you.  

April 15, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. It is devastating to lose a family member,moreso your child.My heart aches for you and your loss. I lost my grandson,4/14/14 to this horrible addiction.  He was in and out of treatment centers,however, unless you have top-dollar insurance, you get maybe, 2 weeks of treatment. Seriously!!!!  This is not a proper amount of time to overcome an addiction.  Any person looking to seriously overcome drugs should be able to get the treatment they need, not be turned away for lack of expensive insurance or lack of money. We all tried every approach to get him proper treatment, all to no avail. It’s time for public servants to seriously get involved.  Help those that seek help.    

April 15, 2017

Thank you for sharing. God bless you all and give you strength.  You are not alone in your sorrow and bewilderment.

April 14, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine your pain and grief. Praying for you all.

April 14, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. Addiction has destroyed my family also. It’s time we channel our grief and anger into getting the politicians to start allocating money for recovery. Most people can’t afford this life saving treatment. How many times can a man turn his head and pretend that he just doesn’t see. Write your local congressman. This is truly a life saving opportunity. More resources need to be allocated to helping the addict. It has become a national health criisis. Don’t let your daughter die in vain. If enough people band together we can elicit a change. 

April 14, 2017

My condolences to all of the family and friends that loved Stephanie.  Reading her own words made it so sad thinking what she thought of herself.  I can see that her pain was almost too heavy a load to carry. My heart goes out to this poor tortured soul.  May God embrace you as the child of God that you are and ease your suffering.  Praying for her precious daughter and the wonderful family she left behind. 

April 14, 2017

This could have been written by my daughter who died 12 years ago at age 27. It brought back very painful memories. Hold close the memories and let go of the regret. It will be very hard for you to get back to some semblance of normal but with her child you will get through. You are in my heart and I feel your pain. much love to all of you.
Georgia Sheer – Louisville, Ky

April 14, 2017

My deepest sympathy for you and your family. What struggles these people face with addiction… we get so frustrated , longing to save them, wanting to heal them .. we almost become addicted ourselves… with all the pain and suffering they endure, we somehow try to take the pain away. There is no words for the loss of your child, only know in your heart her suffering is no more and she is at peace.
Mary Beth Day
OhioCan( Change Addiction Now)

April 14, 2017

Michael is my name and my only brother 18 months older, took his own life in 1979. I feel your pain, perhaps anger and guilt. There are no quick answers or fixes to relieve the burdens. What is key here is how each one of us cope when a tragic event like this occurs. Our hearts are broken and ripped from our souls- how does one accept something? The dreams some pleasant/ not so pleasant will continue, the voices you’ll hear are perhaps hautless whispers, something hard to this day for me is seeing someone who resembles my brother, still to this day, the only way I have found a way to cope was day by day & only through time. I know now that some of this anger, pain, & guilt is diminished , but always ask myself has something really changed, or over the course of time do things really change or simply fade away into the past ? I am not a church going man, but believe in a higher power of God, suicide is a ticket to hell under the Catholic rule? Hmmm I believe my brother had to pass a certain test to enter the eternal life of peace- the words were simple- ” I’m sorry ” – I will forgive, I believe that he realized how much pain he left behind when in his decisions  have brought to us here, eternal souls will all be together again one day- and I’m sure we’ll hear the words of ” I’m sorry ” from them when we all reunited, so sorry for your loss – God bless you, I feel your pain. It will not be any easy journey, I share your pain and wish I could shoulder some , be safe and God bless you.
 
so sorry for your loss, 
 

April 14, 2017

So so sorry for your loss, this touches us all. Rest in paradise, Stephanie….. Prayers for comfort and healing for the family. God’s speed, Stephanie 🌼🌹🌸

April 14, 2017

I am so very sorry for the loss of your daughter. It saddens me that she spoke of herself as selfish and appeared weak. The truth is that your lovely daughter lost her battle with addiction. Heroin changes the brain chemistry and it is all they can say think about. She wasn’t selfish. She lost to a disease of the brain. Those words of selfishness are what heroin made her become, not who she was. May God comfort you through this difficult time. 

April 14, 2017

I have just read what Stephanie wrote  I have no doubt she was a lovely girl who would have loved to have  won  To Stephenie  xx    To you her family  I am so so sorry for your loss  To all of you  I send my heart felt condolences xx    Valerie Harvey        England 

April 14, 2017

 I’m so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to the family and friends!RIP Stephanie

April 14, 2017

I’m very sorry for your loss and wish that Stephanie could have beaten this horrible disease. 
Pam Woodward 

April 14, 2017

So very sorry she could not win this fight. She really wanted to but addiction takes so many away from those that loved them. Thank you Stephanie for sharing your pain and anguish over another. Maybe it will help someone else fighting the battle. RIP you are your daughter’s angel.

April 14, 2017

You don’t know me but I want express my deepest sympathy for the loss of your daughter. Drug addiction is a sickness and that is how it should be viewed.  May you find strength in knowing that your daughter is at peace now.

April 14, 2017

 I’m so sorry for your loss of Stephanie may she rest in peace 

April 14, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss of Stephanie. I hope you find comfort from one another in this time of sorrow.  RIP Stephanie
 

April 14, 2017

I am so sorry.  There are no words
 

April 12, 2017

So sorry for ur loss.. My heart goes out to U💗..God has taken her home…. May GOD BLESS an R.I.P…….
Cliff Boggs..

April 08, 2017

 I am so so sorry for your loss try to have a blessed day Leslee peskin Hutchinson

March 30, 2017

God Bless you all and thank you for sharing your daughters words. I sit here this morning, drinking my coffee, reading Stephanies words with tears pouring out of my eyes. Like Stephanie my brother, John lost his battle with addiction. There truly are no words and the pain really is, at times unbearable. I can assure you that your daughters story will touch another, it has awoken my heart and touched my soul. It has helped me cry, something that is often hard to do. I thank you for that, i sincerely thank you for that. In the days, weeks, months and years that follow I will continue to pray for my brother, for my son’s father, for many dear friends and for Stephanie too. God Bless 

March 27, 2017

Dear Steve, Mechthild and family,
We are your cousins who live in Ligonier and Clearfield PA.  Our dad Joe and your dad George were brothers.  We are heartbroken to hear of Stephanie’s death.  Parents should not out life their children; and, I cannot imagine your grief.   Based on her letter, she was a dear and compassionate young woman.  Not wanting to hurt her family, she was corageous and brave to end her life to save her daughter and you.  We will keep you and her in our hearts praying for peace and blessings. Please accept our sympathy.  The Gary and JoAnn Evanko Thistlethwaite Family Ligonier, Pa and the Joseph and Flo Evanko family (Clearfield, Pa). If you would like to contact us my email is joann@thistlethwaite.net

March 26, 2017

God bless you all. Prayers for comfort and healing.  

March 26, 2017

My condolences to the family. This is a very difficult thing to go through. As I went through the same thing, I too lost my son to addiction last year .  There are never any right words to say… I can only pray for comfort for the family. And if need be , go to counseling.It does help. Go somewhere to vent, scream, or just talk.  Again my condolences to everyone. 

March 25, 2017

My condolences to Stephanie’s family praying for all and thank you for sharing her story it will definitely touch many people’s lives including mine .. Brandy in NC

March 24, 2017

No more pain, no more addiction.  You are in the arms of Jesus now.  Welcome home.  RIP 

March 24, 2017

I read this as Mother and my heart aches for Stephanie’s daughter and family. May she be with angels and smiling down with no more pain. Forgiveness is healing and powerful. God Bless, Donna Duggan

March 24, 2017

God Bless your family…. Addiction has effected my family too. Medical information about how
our brain and body is effected when we use any form of pill, alcohol , weed to “feel better” will
help you learn why and how this happens.  I hope you seek understanding of this nasty disease.
Anne Marie Lourens

March 23, 2017

My heart is with Stephanies family and Savannah. Its never easy to lose someone due to an addiction. Bless you all ❤

March 22, 2017

I am very sorry for your families loss.I know what it’s like to lose a loved one to an addition my brother passed away Christmas Day 2016 by a freak accident.sending thoughts and prayers for all 

March 21, 2017

I am so so very sorry for your loss. I can only imagine what your family is going threw.  I felt I needed to tell you that what she wrote, made me cry.  As an addict and a mother to 3 children I can relate to every word she wrote.  You said at the end if her words touched even one person then her life will have ment someone,  well it touched my heart and added another reason to wake up and fight for one more day.  What she wrote is one of the most real and honest things I have read in my life that shows what addicts really feel about what they are doing to themselves and their families.  She seems like she was truly sorry for what she put all of her family threw.  I’m sorry for your loss and your pain.  And thank you for being so open with strangers all over the world about her fight and your loss.  I hope you find some comfort in knowing she did touch at least one person she never met.

March 21, 2017

Even though I did not know your daughter, her obituary took me by surprise.  I am so very sorry for the loss of your daughter and mother to Savannah.  After reading her obituary I realized how much she had wanted to change but just didn’t know how.  Your daughter is now with God and is looking down on you.  It is such a shame that she had passed away so young.  I will keep your daughter in my prayers.  I will also keep your family and Savannah in my prayers.  God Bless

March 20, 2017

I am so so sorry…..yet happy for Stephanie.  And happy for you in a way for I too have lived on ‘both sides’ with a son.  He left Earth June 6th, 2003 with his first overdose at age 20.  He too loved Jesus more than most who sit on church benches hiding their sins and pretending that there is actually a ‘sin measuring stick’.  For some strange reason (and maybe it is because the addict knows they are not worthy of salvation but very humble) they are the kindest, sweetest and most generous of people.  I have walked in your shoes….all the negatives to having an addicted child and I KNOW.  I know what you are feeling now and how you felt when you first heard or knew.  You knew at that moment that your lives were changed forever….I remember when i heard….by phone and all alone 6 hrs away from my home in NC, that i just rolled off the bed and onto my knees and told the Lord “Father, I know my life will never be the same, but if you will take what the enemy means for harm and use it for Your glory and show me when and how this happens, I can live with this pain.  And Father if You would please SHOW ME THE LAND UPON WHICH MY SON’S FEET WALK for i have always chartered it out for him before and I cannot this time”…..God has been so gracious and sweet to answer that prayer which could only come from the Holy Spirit within me.  Oh the glories of Heaven I have seen in my spirit!I share with you a scripture (for i also know what the enemy tried to convince me of through horrid nightmares of my son’s whereabouts EVEN WHEN I KNEW DIFFERENTLY)…..but i tell you my faith was shaken to the core for I had laid on my face many hours BELIEVING for my Richard’s healing.  It is Psalm 18: 16-19.  Also know with your Father, there is no loss and in a moment or two you will hold her again!    From a mother’s heart, Cindy    if you like email me …it is   richard1of4@gmail.com.  I am here for you in spirit dearest family!
 

March 19, 2017

So very sorry for your loss. Sounds like she was a wonderful person. Addiction is an illness like any other, and very hard to overcome. God bless you all. Find peace in the Lord’s promise of everlasting life. She suffers no more.

March 19, 2017

I just to say I am so sorry for your loss, my son passed away on March 31, 2008 of a drug overdose so I know exactly what you are going through. My son did not have children fortunately but he had been on his drug roller coaster for 12 years with 3 other overdoses that he survived until the big one took his life at 28 years old. But he I know he took his heavenly flight on that day just like your daughter has ♡♡♡
It might take awhile but you will find peace and you do have her precious daughter to hold onto! Find the happy memories and relive those happy times every day!
Many hugs and prayers to your family
Debbie Brady
Atlanta, GA

March 18, 2017

My heart is hurting right, my condolences to you and your family, I pray you find peace. 

March 18, 2017

RIP Stephanie you’re able to rest now. 

March 18, 2017

Thank you so much for sharing the writings of Stephanie! She obviously was a bright woman. Her writings were tragic, but very true. 
Stephanie’s obituary has found me all the way in East Tennessee! I’m 22 years old, and my mother passed away of an overdose on February 28th, 2017- just 3 short days after Stephanie. My mother was only 46, but struggled with addiction for five very long years. I’m brave enough to speak freely about this over the internet, but  I do hate how taboo this is “in real life.” Please know you have given me courage to speak about my mother and reach out.to people who I know need some sort of help. 
Stephanie is so beautiful! I’m sure Savannah is also. 
My thoughts are with your family daily. 
Thank you again for giving me the courage I have needed. 
-Courtney

March 18, 2017

My prayers to family, What a sad time for you, please hold each other.and love each other. There is no greater healing power than family and God. Will keep in prayers. 

March 18, 2017

My name is Lisa and I want to express my sincere sympathy to your family. I know how hard it is for someone fighting this terrible sickness. They try so hard it makes them sick to not have there (?) They go to a doctor for help to recover from their addiction and he hands them another drug, but no one ever helps them with the depression, and in my sons I saw that they really needed to learn self worth, sometimes the hardest part of being a parent is seeing the look on your child’s face when you let them know that it has come to the point where they are breaking your heart and they laugh at you. This sickness makes them not seem to care about anything but getting high. I haven’t seen my sons in a few years now since moving away but I have talked and I am told things are better, they sound better, but I’m sure you know how deceiving they can be. I hope that you may find some peace and comfort in the coming days. May God bless you and keep you in his watchful eye to comfort and protect you. Thank you for sharing.

March 17, 2017

My husband and I almost lost our son to drugs about 3 months ago. We also lost a son before he was born. So, unfortunately, I do know what it is to lose something so precious. We are so sorry that this has happened to your family. Our greatest hope is that the Lord will fold you all in His arms and that you will look to Him for your comfort and peace.

March 17, 2017

Don’t know you or your family but my heart goes out to you all.?I know first hand along with many others that are suffering the same pain as I too are walking in your shoes my son is suffering with the same addiction and my heart and prayers go out to you in your next journey may god help you with every step.

March 17, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss I’ve got my 11 he. Old granddaughter right now due to my son and daughter in law being addicts they were bad they had hit rock bottom finally landed in jail which I might say saved their lives they are now both in Rehab and by the Good Graces of God my son has re dedicated his life to Jesus as has my daughter in law they have another good relationship with their daughter. Your daughters testimony was for other addicts to read and maybe get an awakening she will be a blessing to everyone that reads it I know she’s in the Arms of Jesus and no longer in pain may she R.I.P.

March 17, 2017

My name is Susan Chavis from South Carolina… I am a friend of Portia’s friend Becky… and I just want to say to her family and friends how very sorry for the loss of  Stephanie  … I did not have the opportunity to meet her but I feel I would have liked the person she was … she loved her daughter… her family and her friends… we all have crosses we bear some are more obvious than others … she fought to be the person she wanted to be and I admire her for that … I hope her beloved daughter will not remember her for the things Stephanie feared she would but for all the things that many Stephanie unique and wonderful!!! Many prayers for Hellen family and friends… and for her beloved daughter 

March 17, 2017

My name is Virginia Wilmot you do not know me but I related heavily with the words Stephanie wrote. I have been there, and today still struggle with addiction, depression and feel like I am more of a burden to my family here than I would be if I was not here. Tears fall down my face often and the struggle is hard but I must believe that there are reasons why God put me here. First and foremost my son Stephen, who turned 23 two weeks ago and struggles with depression himself. I blame that on myself because for those 23 years I have been in and out of hospitals, I had ECT treatments for 20 years ( for those that don’t know that is ” shock therapy’, yes they still do them and like Stephanie my son was raised mostly by my parents, I was a part time Mother at best, who we lived with since Stephen was born 2/24/1994. Stephanie’s words touched me in a way that only people like us can understand. I am very sorry for your loss and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I just said to myself the other day that yes I believe that the people who loved me would mourn, but I said ‘it probably wouldn’t for too long and they would be better off without me’. As I am writing this the tears are pouring down and I must take the strength that Stephanie gives to me, even though I did not know her, and work to be the kind, loving and giving person I know that is inside me and continue my journey day by day to reach that goal. Thank you for allowing me to see her story and again I am so sorry for your loss. Virginia

March 16, 2017

I did not know her but we are having the same situation in my family.  God Bless Stephanie and hold her in HIS arms today and for eternity. The drug problem in our country is in an emergent stage and it has to stop so we don’t lose more sweet people like Stephanie.
Peace and love to her daughter and to all of you.
Bobbie Cumpston ?

March 16, 2017

TerriLoving   Pacolet Sc Sorry for your loss to this terrible disease..I went threw the same thing  with my second child and it was also drugs.We didn’t hide this either.She also died of a overdose in the year of 2008.Your daughter has a good testimony and what she wrote was 100percent right. We don’t no why they get these diseases. I no we do all we can to help and thete for them.Sowhen I see someone  with the disease I don’t put them down.I just put my loving arms around  them and tell them I love you and so does GOD and I will be praying for you. If there anything  that I can do please let me no.So me saying this this is what I have to offer you and your family
GOD watching over  each and everyone  of you and taking care of you.Thank you for sharing your daughter  testimony 
 
 
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March 16, 2017

I am so sorry your family has to experience such grief!  You may never get answers to all your questions. I pray God helps you not to be angry with her- instead thank God drug addiction was not your thorn for it is one of the hardest things on the planet to overcome . I hate this happened to her and just because she lost the struggle Does Not Mean God Doent love and accept her!!!  May Gods grace comfort you all always.
Best RegardsSuzan Mobley

March 16, 2017

I’m Sorry For You Lost God Will Give You, Prace and You heart Don’t Question God.
he Always look After As god Bless.
and You Family it’s And our prayers ??

March 16, 2017

My sister Christine suffered drug addiction all of her adult life. She died Aug 26 1999 of a drug overdose at the age of 44, leaving behind 5 children and six brothers. 
We are all broken people with sharp edges and pointy corners. My mother was abused as a child and grew up to be an abuser. Christine was the oldest, I am the oldest male.
I became an alcoholic. I am 35 years sober. I have a brother that is under psychiatric care for 40 years, another killed himself in his 30s, leaving 2 kids, one is over achieving, antisocial, alienated from his two children. My other 4 brothers disowned the family, I haven’t heard any news of them for 30 years.
Christine’s 5 kids are all adults now, only one has any contact with us, they all knew my mother and were also subject to her abuse.
Mental illness is sometimes contagious, in my family it is epidemic. I learned in AA that slcoholism is a family disease, that insight was critical to my recovery. I now believe that all addictions are a family disease, that mental illness can be contagious, that suicide is a logical outcome for anyone that never learned self acceptance, or self love.
Children learn what they live, and then they live what they learned. Even if it kills them.
 
 
 
 
 

March 16, 2017

Please know that even though it may have seemed at times that your daughter didn’t care or didn’t try, she did if only in her heart. I am a recovering addict. Clean 6 years and I came close to death twice. God pulled me back. I am so sorry for your loss and your pain.I’m so proud of your bravery for allowing us to see Stephanie’s struggle. May the love of God penetrate your heart and soul.

March 16, 2017

Prayers for the family

March 16, 2017

I lost my daughter 5 years ago to drugs. She left me two grand children to raise. So sorry for your loss! Your granddaughter will ease the pain a little. But it never gets easier. You just learn to go on. My deepest condolences to your family!!!

March 15, 2017

Love and prayers to you all. May Stephanie find in death the peace that eluded her here on Earth.

March 15, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss, this addiction has taken too many good people. Prayers are with you and your family. 

March 15, 2017

i am so sorry that you could not overcome this did you give it to god and let him help you so sorry for your family and your little daughter you lefy bedind god bless the family
 

March 15, 2017

Thank you so much for this. Instead of being too embarrassed you had the guts to let this be seen in hopes of helping another, mother\ daughter\ sister/ friend.

March 15, 2017

My deepest sympathy to your family…it took so much courage for you all to share her letter with everyone and surely, we will all be touched by it in one way or another, we will interpret her story through the eyes of the family member or through Stephenie herself and it will provide understanding for us. This is so sad…you are all in my deepest thoughts and prayers…from Lynchburg, Virginia ❤

March 15, 2017

My name is Janet and I have three beautiful daughters. I had four but lost a precious baby at three months old. I can’t even imagine the heart ache your family feels at this time. My prayers are with your family and loved ones who knew Stephanie. I am really thankful to have read your daughters story and take many things with me from it, I hope to help my own family members fight addiction. Everyone has demons in their lives and we all have to understand and not judge. I hope her daughter Savannah remembers the good memories of her mother and when she gets older maybe talk and help others fight the addictions that take so many lives. I hope your family finds peace sometime soon. Again prayers and good vibes and thoughts for you all at this difficult time. Janet Betts – North Canton, Ohio

March 15, 2017

So sorry for your loss. Your all in my heart and prayers. Donna.Young

March 15, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss

March 15, 2017

I send your family my condolences! ?? Stephanie’s words really touched me. She sounds a lot like me. I totally understand Stephanie. I have.suffeted addiction for over 20 yrs. I can quit but always end up relapsing. It’s a wicked sickness. I am so sorry for your loss. I will try my best to think of Stephanie when I get  the.urge to use again. Much love,  God Bless you!!  Luann

March 15, 2017

Sorry for your loss.  I know it’s hard for a love one to let go of the one who has gone to be with God.  They say time will heal your pain but I can tell from my heart you will alwsys have them with you. Thinking and praying for the family. MAY GOD BE WITH YALL.                                                                                                                                                                                                      Anna Thompson Kelley of Lafayette,  Alabama 

March 15, 2017

Sorry for your loss.  I know it’s hard for a love one to let go of the one who has gone to be with God.  They say time will heal your pain but I can tell from my heart you will alwsys have them with you. Thinking and praying for the family. MAY GOD BE WITH YALL. 

March 15, 2017

Fly with the angels sweetheart. God bless your daughter and entire family. I’m so sorry they are going through this heartache. I’m glad you left her a letter to read and hopefully, one day, understand reason. Rest in paradise♡

March 15, 2017

So sorry for your loss so sad and so young praying for all.

March 15, 2017

So sorry for your loss..cried my eyes out but her an I are the same..been struggling w drug addiction for years hating the person I’ve became But her words touched my heart.. 

March 15, 2017

It is such a heartbreaking message that Stephanie has left behind and I  admire your courage to share it with all of us, Thank you. I truly believe she has a good spirit and is in the arms of the angels and someday the circle will be unbroken.
Please accept my sincere condolenses for your loss.
John Elder

March 15, 2017

My condolences to all that have the chains that bind them my prayers are with this family ,may God give you strength and guidance thanks for sharing -Christie Johnson 

March 15, 2017

I cried as I read this as I am also an addict, but thru the grace of God I made it out of the hell I was living. I know have over the years clean and also have to daughters. Thank you for sharing. May your daughter rest in peace. Prayers to the family

March 15, 2017

God bless the whole family. May she find the peace she was looking for. Take care.

March 15, 2017

Very sorry for your loss… May god comfort your loved ones …. God bless!!

March 15, 2017

So sorry for your loss i have also lost many family members to addictions its very painful . Her words were beautiful all my sympathies and prayers  to you and her family  godbless .. anne howard

March 15, 2017

I did not know Stephanie, but your loss is one of the saddest all the same. I grew up with a mother who struggled with addiction and have watched her and my sister go back and forth from straight to clean. While you feel helpless to help them and instead separate yourself, you can never separate, for there is always worry and an urge to just try to make them seek the help they need. I pray that you find peace and that the LORD helps her baby through this time. Her life is not in vain and her words live on. If her words help one person then she has accomplished so much more than she ever thought possible. Drug addicts don’t start using with the intention of becoming an addict. 

March 15, 2017

i am so sorry for your loss..it broke my heart to read this. I will keep your family in my prayers. We are raising our granddaughters because of my step daughters addiction..im praying for you snd your precious granddaughter hoping God wraps his arms around you through this difficult time. And i thank you for sharing Stephanies story…it will touch the hearts of many.  Shari and John.

March 15, 2017

Sorry for your loss my name is Samantha I am a mother of 6 I had a her I on and crack addiction born and raised in new Jersey I left my home state moved to Wisconsin got my self clean I have been clean for 4 years and all my kids live here also I know what your daughter was going threw it is very hard having a addiction I prayers go out to you all

March 15, 2017

Sending love and light to your family during this most difficult time. From our family to yours, peace be with you. -The Dukie Family

March 15, 2017

May God be with you and your family at this time. 
 

March 15, 2017

I am so sorry for your family and especially Savannah.  I am bawling tears as this cold be either of my daughters. Please God take this family in your arms and hold them. I will share with my girls and pray they read.  They are in recovery just for today. 
 
God Bless you Stephanie may you finally be at peace. 
 
Mary Bertram

March 15, 2017

So very sorry for your loss.  My  aunt has been an addict for about 40 years and my husband and I have adopted/raised her youngest 3 children (now 16, 17 & 19). She has 6 and didn’t raise any of them.  I’ve never used any type of drug or alcohol before, but I do know I have weaknesses/strongholds in other areas of my life that causes me to make poor choices, be emotionally unstable and affect the others around me…I think we all do.  And because I know we all fall short,  I’ve tried to never judge her.  But deep down I couldn’t understand why she just couldn’t get help after all of these years. No, I didn’t judge her, (so I thought), I just carried on with my life avoiding her toxic self and not really putting any thought into her feelings. Her deep down feelings.  Shame on me! ? 
Thank you for sharing Stephanie’s poem, her life story.  For this has convicted me and has certainly softened my heart towards my aunt and reminds me that she is not just a drug addict, but a person, my aunt,  one who is just hurting so much inside, one who can’t stay above water long enough to find ground. Today my aunt is so sick, her body is shutting down after all the years of abuse, and it’s a matter of time before she leaves this place. She is 58. I don’t even hold much of a conversation with her because she always seem to lie, manipulate or just say inappropriate things. Today I will.   I will call her to say I love her, and apologize for not taking the time to know her.  I will hold an actual conversation with her, no matter what, because she’s worth it.
Just know, as hard as it may be, that Stephanie’s life and death are not in vein. Her story is a blessing to many, will break bondage in families, and free many more.  My children will read her poem and gain another perspective about their biological mother.  Thank you for sharing your baby with us! May God bless and keep you all and may He be the one that fill your empty spaces!   Nikki Carter from Moon Twp. PA (Pittsburgh)

March 15, 2017

My deepest sympathy.  John Evanko, Curwensville, PA

March 15, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss. You all are in my prayers. 

March 15, 2017

Very sorry for your loss. I, myself struggle with addiction. I also have a daughter that is eleven and I love her with all of my heart, but still I continue to use. I know that I am a good person and will hopefully be able to stop using and still have a happy life. It truly understand where  Stephanie was coming from even she wrote this. So sad this all is. Julie from Philadelphia

March 15, 2017

We lost our grandson Brandon26 years old,he was a beautiful loving and sweet boy who was loved by all who knew him,I hope your family finds peace and know there was nothing you could of done to prevent it.I am so very sorry for your loss and pray God will grant you healing. May your angel forever RIP Kathy Decker

March 14, 2017

May god give you all the strength and comfort . I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter and beautiful mother. Addiction don’t only hurt them it hurts the whole family as I have had several family that is an addict and battle . I am praying for her daughter and family ! 
 

March 14, 2017

My heart goes out to you at this sad time, addiction is a hard tough road, who knows the answer, not any of us. Bless you and rest now that your dear girl is at peace.

March 14, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss I in first hand know what she dealt with I am a recovered addict of 5years her story is on point these drugs take over our life and we cant do anything about it unless we have commitment and a made up mind  to walk away from them we hurt so many people in our life if I would not have come to my since sitting in my bunk in tdc in texas i would have been in the spot she was in i will keep your family in my prayers always your daughter is very beautiful from carrie weber krause in victoria texas

March 14, 2017

May God Bless you all.  I’m so sorry for your loss.  Addiction is a horrible disease that controls your entire life.  I have a family member who is an addict and it breaks my heart.  I always wonder if the next phone call I get will be that they are deceased.  This is a horrible feeling.  My prayers are with your family during this loss.  Shelby Burrow, King, NC

March 14, 2017

Blessings to you all!!!! May her words and story help just one. I pray she is at peace….and her daughter feels her love from above. My heart breaks for all…
Mary from Richardson, TX

March 14, 2017

I’m sorry for the loss of you mother, daughter, sister, and sister in law. I understand her poem very well as I too have battled addiction and am now clean and sober. I’m glad she’s in a better place but feel for the loved one’s left behind. I hope my children don’t have to face this too because of me but hate that her daughter does. Fly high Angel in the sky, please watch over your loved one’s, help them get through the days years as they come. Your poem and story will touch everyone battling addiction or recovery and will help someone out there before its too late. Thank you once again for sharing.
INDIANA 

March 14, 2017

So sorry for your loss. May God continue to keep you and guide thru this life. May you peace and blessings in Savannah.  Please let God be your guide. Take not the burdens or the guilt upon yourself. God knew the outcome. He knows your needs. God bless you! Prayers. Virginia

March 14, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss but I know just exactly what you went through because I lost my son so you have my deepest sympathy he and I’ll keep y’all in my prayers.          My name is Dianna Linkenauger and I’m from Lillington North Carolina

March 14, 2017

I am so very sorry for the loss of your child, your family member, your friend. I wish you all peace. 

March 14, 2017

I’m from Rienzi, Ms. and I lost my only son 10 yrs. ago. Speaking as a parent that has lost a child I know that the pain runs so deep that there’s nothing no one can say to take that away. U must take one day at a time to get through this process in order to survive. I’m so sorry for your loss and may God bless your whole family. ???

March 14, 2017

My heart breaks for all of the family . Prays for her daughter, Mom and Dad and all family and friends . GODS blessings ! ❤️??

March 14, 2017

I can only wish you and your family strength in this very difficult time.  Drug addiction is taking far to many children.  Stay strong and know many were touched by this.  Wishing you and your family my sincere sympathy.

March 14, 2017

What a young beautiful lady to have died too soon. I’m so sorry for your loss. May she rest in peace. You will see her again in Heaven some day.
Bonita Sponsler

March 14, 2017

So sorry for your loss. Addiction has taken to many young lives. May she rest in peace and God guide her surviving family and friends to peace during their time of morning. God bless. Shawn from Jonestown, PA.

March 14, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss , God be with the family. 
Addiction is a bad thing and it takes a told on the family 
I’m sure her letter will help someone out there. God bless you.
                          Marilyn 

March 14, 2017

I’m so sorry foot your loss. Your family is in my prayers

March 14, 2017

I’m in tears. Recovered addict myself

March 14, 2017

My condolences to you and the rest of the family. I am a mother of an addict also who recently tried to take their life. I will keep you all in prayer :'(
Anna from Illinois

March 14, 2017

God bless you Stephanie and your family.  I recently lost my 33 year old nephew from addiction. It’s such a struggle for addicts and my thoughts and prayers go out to all of them including my own daughter. Rest peacefully with the Lord. 

March 14, 2017

God be with you and wrap His loving arms around you for strength and peace. I am the Aunt of a nephew that over dosed in 2011. He too struggled for years with addiction of everything imagined. He left behind 3 children, 2 of which had also lost their mother to addiction and the other child’s mother was also an addict. Addiction knows no boundaries…effecting all walks of life. May you find peace in knowing that you’re not alone…..and that she’s at peace herself now.

March 14, 2017

So sorry for the loss of such a beautiful life. Prays coming from Bert in Arizona.
 

March 14, 2017

Her words have touched my heart so deeply as a mother of a recovering addict. I haven’t really heard it from the addicts side before. I’m so busy trying to fix things and comfort younger siblings. Ty for sharing. I lift up these patient kind and strong parents and that sweet baby girl. Lord please help them find comfort in your unconditional mercy and love. ❤️??

March 14, 2017

So sorry for your loss. Though My Son was not and Addict, the First Time he Tried Liquid Meth, He had Taken Tylenol PM Earlier that day, it Acted as a Cocktail and stopped his Heart. He was 23 this Happened in 2010. My Life has Changed Dramatically. The Struggle just to get through Every Day. My Prayers and Thoughts are with you and your Family.??

March 14, 2017

So sorry for your loss addiction is a very hard thing and touches almost everyone’s life in one way or another I am a recovering addict for almost 11 years now and still the behavior is strong I just do not give myself permission to do the things I once did. I think a lot of addict feel just the way she did! 

March 14, 2017

I’m so very sorry, my daughter is also a addict and alcoholic.  My husband and I are raising our grandson. He was born with meth in his system.   We know exactly how you feel. We pray God will comfort you all and give you the strength you need.
JUNE, TENNESSEE. 

March 14, 2017

It is so sad is see someone you love go down this path that mostly has the same ending. May you find peace that you couldnt find here on earth and may your family find peace and comfort during this time. Its sad how addictioin not only ruins your life but those around you too.  Robin from Indiana

March 14, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. Hopefully she is at peace now even though you guys will suffer because of addiction. We have also recently lost from an addiction as well. May God be with you and your family
 

March 14, 2017

So sorry for your loss. Believe me I understand. I lost my daughter in May. There’s no answers to why ??? God be with you and yours .

March 14, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss. Stephanie has actually brought alot more awareness to this disease. I’m praying for y’all and especially her bby girl and Mommy.

March 14, 2017

This touched me in SO MANY ways!! I have had all of these feelings, I’m so sorry that she had to pass on. She could have truly helped many struggling people, through her experiences. Her obituary will hit home for many though. At least she isn’t suffering or struggling daily. Feeling horrible about herself. She seemed to be a very Awesome person and God has given her rest. Know 28th peace, she loved all of you, especially her daughter. The sad part, she didn’t feel self-LOVE enough to really get it right. To get straight and live! It’s so sad that addiction takes so many Great people. I’ll be praying for y’all.

March 14, 2017

My condolences to Savannah I did not know Stephanie but I would like you to know that I live in Denver Colorado and your story has touched me my heart hurts for your loss and I’m very sorry I know that this world will greatly Miss another good person my condolences and my prayers are with you always take care from Denver Colorado.

March 14, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss and will keep her daughter and all of the family in my prayers. Addiction has touched and devastated my family as well; you’re not alone. It really hurts badly. Sending prayers and hugs from Mississippi. 

March 14, 2017

My deepest sorrow for your family and prayers of comfort and peace to you at this most difficult time.
Donna Santora

March 14, 2017

So sorry for your terrific loss and what a True words letter, what a memory with such beauty written down that she probably could not share otherwise.
please know addicts love their Family with every. Ounce they have but addictions are just more overpowering.
i hope Savannah will alwYs know. In her heart her mom was a sick lady, and had so muchLove for her, regardless of what she thinks.
Mom and Dad please know it is nothing you done to make this happen, drugs are the ugliest thing in this world and destroys and takes so many kids from their loved ones I am so sorry this happened to you all.
Praying for god’s arms to reach down and hold you all tight and send beautiful signs from your daughter to let you know she is home now and drug free and is happy and not in no more pain.
when you look outside and see a beautiful Cardinal think of it as that is her letting you know she is Ok!
praying from Buckingham, Va
love her Letter!

March 14, 2017

I do not know you or your daughter and I’m usually one who would say that she did this to herself. However, her poem that she wrote was from her heart. She knew what she was doing to herself, her daughter and the rest of her family. She new that addiction would take her life. This saddens my heart. She knew but was not strong enough to get the help she needed. I think in life she was an amazing person that made some really bad choices. May you RIP and never have to worry about struggling again. My thoughts and prayers are with the family that is left behind. May you all find peace that she suffers no more.

March 14, 2017

My heart breaks for the family. I am so sorry. It can happen to any of us. Prayers are sent your way.

March 14, 2017

God bless you guys. Stephanie’s letter to Savannah is so sad and blessed. Its a cautionary tale repeated far too often in my hometown of Dayton, Ohio. I’m gonna go hug my boys tight, and love them that much more. I’m truly sorry for your loss, your new angel. God bless you all.
Aaron Barton

March 14, 2017

So very sorry for this loss and may God bless her and make her a beautiful flower in his heavenly boquet. Hope Welch

March 14, 2017

So very sorry for this loss and may God bless her and make her a beautiful flower in his heavenly boquet. Hope Welch

March 14, 2017

So very very sorry for your heartbreaking loss may God give you peace and comfort that only he can do Donna from Mississippi

March 14, 2017

I am a sister of a deceased addict. My brother died in 1991 due to overdose. He left behind a daughter who was 3 yrs old. She is now in her late 20’s and a mom of 3 that is struggling with her own addictions. Addictions touch all our lives at some point. I Love my brother and niece not matter what they have done. I won’t judge them that is God’s job. I don’t condone their behavior and will not bail out of jail or give money to a drug addict. But I will put my arm around them and hold them and they can tell me anything. I will listen. I know as a mother myself and watching my own mom bury her child, my heart reaches out to yours and say this is Not Your Fault. Your daughter loved her family or she would have not left you the letter. Praying for your family and God will take care of her now.

March 14, 2017

To her family, I am sorry for your loss.I know all to we’ll how it feels to have a loved one who is addicted to something. And her letter is so true, it just consumes your life. I will keep your family in my prayers.

March 14, 2017

So very sorry for your loss Jean Keenan

March 14, 2017

your worlds were very touching i do not know you but i am a mother of 3 grown children and i do have a grown daughter i wish no evil for you i wish your soul to rest in peace i just feel bad that you were not strong enough to get the help you really needed,and i truly feel sorry for your daughter who is left behind and your mother as a mother myself no parent wants to bury there child thats not the way life is suppose to be i pray the lord gives your parents strength may god be with you rest in peace
 
ms georgianna a sousa

March 14, 2017

So sorry for what you’re going thru and thanks for sharing.  I believe it will touch someone and make a difference.   God Bless!

March 14, 2017

Very sorry for your loss. Belief in Him will help you weather the storms of life. Your loved one is at peace. 

March 14, 2017

My heart truely goes out to all.  Thank you so much for sharing the COD but mostly the letter/poem.  Because of this alone her death will not be in vein.  Someone somewhere will have read like it is a story told about their own life and take a step in the right direction.  Prayers to this family especially the child left behind.  I couldn’t imagine and pray I never have to.

March 14, 2017

God bless all of you!   Thank you for sharing her letter…it definitely was not a selfish letter…praying that it will help her peers that who are also caught in the snare.   May she R.I.P. and her letter reach out to others before it is too late.

March 14, 2017

So very sorry for your loss.  Addiction is a terrible disease that is heartwrenching for everyone connected to the person with the disease.  It’s effects are long lasting for everyone.  I pray that your hearts will heal and you will find peace.

March 14, 2017

So sorry. I feel there is not a family  that isn’t affected by this horrible monster called drugs…prayers for all especially the little daughter…Anna Marie Arnold

March 14, 2017

Very touching i was a addict myself but got clean when i died in my daughters arms sober for 10 years now and its the hardest road i ever had to face with the exception of losing my son at 8……my mother and sister was my only support system so for anyone with this deadly disease plz get help cry out do what yoh need to do and yes i did it for 2nd onthe most partand seeing my mother’s day pain as well……….sorry for your loss god took another angel home

March 14, 2017

So saddened by the lost of your daughter,,,she was trapped with this horrible disease that we know as drugs…..God will comfort y’all during this sad time & knowing she’s at peace now & don’t have to fight the drug addiction any longer…..Praying for the family and l love y’all …??????

March 14, 2017

My sincere and heartfelt condolences to Stephanie family,  she has truly blessed me with her final words.  Good gives me just what I need when I need it. Rest in perfect peace Stephanie, your passing was not in vain, you’ve saved the lives of many I’m sure.  I’M ONE. THANK YOU❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

March 14, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss but the letter is sooo heartbreaking but true. Sounds like a good girl who got a hold of the wrong stuff probably with the wrong person. I pray God will give yhall comfort and that that letter touches someone…God Bless yhall..

March 14, 2017

To the family, her struggle is done, she is in peace. Our prayers are with her daughter and family. Sincerely Mike and Joan Brothers

March 14, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss.  Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

March 14, 2017

How insidious addiction is. She has not died in vain….hopefully her words, her passing will help others to live…we are all gods children…. she finally has peace…..

March 14, 2017

So sorry this has happened. You all will be in my thoughts and prayers.

March 14, 2017

Prayers for all of you during this time and the coming days.  I am a recovering addict, and realize today that Stephanie wasn’t weak and she wasn’t a bad person (daughter, mother, friend, sister)…she was sick with a disease that is recognized by the medical profession as a disease….I know that all of you are heartbroken and probably are wondering what you could have done…the answer is you could have done nothing…LOVE just isn’t enough for those of us with this disease…believe me when I say that she loved each of you so very much…she wanted to be different….and she lived with the guilt, shame, and remorse that comes with this disease…please seek support for families of addicts through, Alanon, Naranon, Alateen…so that all of you can heal from this disease that affects the entire family…only then will her death not be in vain. Remembering you all in my prayers…she has been set free and no longer suffers.  Shawn P. Georgia

March 14, 2017

Thank you for sharing.  Not in vain.  Prayers.
 

March 14, 2017

sorry lost

March 14, 2017

So sorry for the loss of this beautiful spirit.  She is at peace, though it is sad it had to come this way.  Her words were/are powerful into the thoughts of the disease.  She was a brave young woman who couldn’t fight the demon that took her away, even while she still walked this earth.  My prayers go out to her family and friends.  Through it all, I am certain she loved each and every one of you.  May God rest her soul and bring peace and acceptance to your hearts.

March 14, 2017

So sorry for your loss going down the same road with a loved in my family it isn’t easy and I pray they wake up before it is too late thank you for sharing what your daughter wrote plan to share with my loved one and see if it makes a difference prayers to your whole family 

March 14, 2017

I’m raising 3 grandchildren  that come from this same problem. Mom is 39, children are 21,19,14. I have had them since the 14 year old was 6 weeks old. They see there mom go up and down the same road of promising to change. But 2 months ago mom moved in with the 21 year olds and  in the last month. She and 18 year have found 2 home made crack pipe. The 21 year old daughter had to to tell her to move out. Which upset the 18 year old. But the 14 year old is saying don’t she realize the cops could get me for that crack pipe it was made from his medicine bottle. Saying all of this so that your granddaughter will realize she is not along. Find some other kids your age going thru the same thing.
North Carolina
T Barker

March 14, 2017

Stephanie, when you  awaken in a moments time, you will be transformed in the twinkling of an eye! You will put on immortality and bask in the eternal presence of God and the saints .My bible tells me this, and God Almighty promises this! You are one step away, precious child of God!??

March 14, 2017

Thank you for sharing your daughters words. I’m a recovering addict. 9 years clean by God’s grace! My prayers are with you & your family.  Again, thanks for sharing her words, they will make a difference in someone’s life. God Bless you & take comfort in knowing that Stephanie is suffering no more & she’s in the arms of our Lord & Savior Jesus Christ. 
Heidi, NC

March 14, 2017

I am so very very sorry for your loss. I know words are not much help. But may you find comfort in JesusI also almost lost a family member to this addiction Thank God People everywhere prayed and prayed for her   She has been clean 3 years   But I know she is still fighting this horrible disease   Again I am sooooo sorry. God Bless your family and help you day by day in Jesus name’ I ask. Amen …Brenda Pippin.  Henderson Kentucky….

March 14, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss, let her daughter know how much her mommy loved her. I know she did because I’m am a recovering addict I have been clean for 8yrs now. I loved my kids even when I was on drugs. It is a disease which she could not help. I’m sorry she was not able to kick it like I did but some can not. I will pray for your family and especially her daughter cause I know all too well how you feel. My little brother is still on drugs and we are trying to help him for the sake of his kids. Just please remember like myself, my brother and her we did not choose to be an addict but we are. God bless her daughter and her whole family.

March 14, 2017

She lies among a bed of dreams in happiness or so it seems for its been long since life began and her search goes on for holding hands what doesn’t kill you makes you strong and strength grows wings to fly apon. She flies on wings so white and pure for in her dreams she feel secure no longer will she lie in sadness and put on a smile to hide the madness lines of song and verses of ryhme will heal the wound of bitter time young souls that slip away in tears can strengthen hope through many years and with new strength she’ll rise above heal her wounds and learn to love.
~Kelly flansburg~ 1999©
I’m so sorry for your loss, and my prayers go out to your family. 

March 14, 2017

God bless you all.  So sorry for your loss.

March 14, 2017

God bless your family and God bless your beautiful daughter may  she be in the arms of the angels far away from here. She is not gone but just a memory and a smile away. From Elizabeth in new Zealand 

March 14, 2017

Thank you for sharing your families addiction that left a Child a Orphan,  and a Mother and Father without a child , a Sister without a Sister……….I Pray this helps touch someones life , if not many and turns them in them in the right direction away from addiction 
  Many Prayers for your family in the days ahead as you start trying to adjust to the loss. Extra Prayers for Savannah,  so much for a child to try to understand. I wish I could do or say more , my heart truly breaks for all of you . Keeping your family in my Thoughts and Prayers 

March 14, 2017

My love and prayers are with you and your family Stephanie ..  May God keep you all safe, and ease the pain of your loss .. 

March 14, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss. I am a recovering addict. I have been clean 15 years from drugs and 7 from alcohol. I don’t have the perfect words to heal your pain. She is with the Lord now. No more pain. Thank you for sharing this it couldn’t have been easy. I will be praying for you all. God bless you!

March 14, 2017

My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family bless her daughter our family is fighting addiction your daughter’s poem spoke to my heart prayers your way God bless Dottie Simmons

March 14, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss prayers wishes to the family and everybody around her
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March 14, 2017

Rest in peace your struggle want go unnoticed it is real ,maybe just one person will read and change if they go then it won’t go unnoticed . It is real .Fairanna  Epperson  Tazewell TN . Rest in peace 

March 14, 2017

Maggie V.
My thoughts and prayers to your family. There are so many families affected by drug use. May she rest in peace, and may sharing your story help someone else’s child.

March 14, 2017

I’m so very sorry for your loss, no word’s i can say will ease the burden, i lost a nephew just a few month’s ago to addiction, my thoughts & prayers are with all of u, even tho i never had the pleasure of meeting her, thank you. 

March 14, 2017

I am so sorry for the loss the family is suffering, especially her daughter. Thank you for sharing this very personal poem. The sad truth is addiction touches everyone in some way. My prayers are with you! 

March 14, 2017

so sorry for your loss prayers for your family as they go threw the grieving progress R I P

March 14, 2017

Thank you for sharing Stephanie’s story and poem.  My deepest condolences.  Dan Shenk

March 14, 2017

My heart and prayers be with all the family!!!

March 14, 2017

RIP Stephanie. May you rest in peace and fly high! May God give your family and daughter strength and many prayers for you alll..Tara C.

March 14, 2017

BEAUTIFUL, I wish I could have met your daughter! I wish I could have told her the strength she possessed within was strong enough to defeat and conquer the demons who tried to possess her! It doesn’t matter she won! God bless you all!

March 13, 2017

Prayers for all of you please know that addiction is an evil thing and their is nothing any of us can do about it to help someone unless they are ready to help themselves. My prayers are are with you all I have Family members with this problem it is so sad . Sorry for your Loss Pat Brown

March 13, 2017

I am so sorry for your lose. I to lost a daughter to an overdose. She left 2 daughters and 1,  2 year Granddaughter. She was an addict for 13 years so I KNOW exactly what you are going through and my heart breaks for you. She died Oct.22, 2015. I still find it difficult to speak of her without tears running down my cheeks. She never got to see her 17 yead daughter graduate high  school nor to watch her only Granddaughters 2nd. Birthday. It DOES get just a little bit easier but, you will forever cry at times for a daughter that left way before her time. Keep PRAYING and things WILL get better. May God Bless you.

March 13, 2017

Not in vain. God Bless you and your family as you struggle through this tough time in your lives! There are so many that need to hear this, Savanah keep your head up sweetie, God loves you and says that you are “Fearfully and Wonderfully made.” Mom and Dad, it’s never your fault, addiction is so much bigger that all of that. Lean on God’s Everlasting arms, he will see you through, and though you may not understand, our loving Father has a plan. His plan, no, we can rarely see, But praise God he has a plan for you and me!! I am a Loving mother of 7, addiction has Plagued our family since I was a small child, and I am an Alcoholic, Sober for 12 years now. God now fills my cup. Will be praying. God Bless.
 

March 13, 2017

 My prayers and thought are with the family and friends . So sorry for your loss. 

March 13, 2017

I don’t know you or your family but I am sorry for your loss. This letter literally says it all, and no matter what I say or other people say it does not make this any easier. I hope Savannah does everything opposite of her mom to break the cycle. My prayers are with you family during this time. 
Nicole McCallum

March 13, 2017

You have touched so many lives . So sorry for your pain , but I do understand what addiction can do. I just hope that your daughter can learn by this and go on with her life . Prayers to you and your family .

March 13, 2017

My deepest condolences go to the family. From one mother of an addicted daughter with three young boys to another mother of an addicted daughter with a young daughter, my heart is as broken as yours is. I am crying for you because I know what you are feeling is so heartbreaking. They don’t want help and it destroys families terribly. I will pray for you and your family. Marilyn from NJ

March 13, 2017

So sorry for your loss so many families are living with broken hearts because of these addictions. Prayers for your family and her wonderful little girl. Donna

March 13, 2017

God Bless.
 

March 13, 2017

Addiction aka addict is never asked for ….one does doesnot decide to be one.  Sadly it occurs and spirals out of control….god has taken her to rid the burden of addiction.. god bless

March 13, 2017

Your daughters note really touched me.  Im sorry for your loss.  God bless you all and her daughter.

March 13, 2017

She seemed like an awesome woman and a mother she will be in the hands now of Jesus Christ our savior. She sounded like a beautiful woman and a wonderful mother may prayers go out to your family and loved ones. 

March 13, 2017

so sorry for your loss keep your faith in Jesus and you will see your daughter again in paradise. Again im so sorry. Bankhead in NC

March 13, 2017

So sorry for your loss  please take your daughters words and share  with everyone that will listen. Stop the judgement start the healing,   one step one day at a time please hug your granddaughter and let her know she it loved and it is not her fault that addiction is a sickness .. prayers to all 

March 13, 2017

My heart breaks for you all. She sounds like a beautiful person when not in the grasp of her eventual killer. Perhaps remember the essence of her not what she became while under the influence.  

March 13, 2017

She had a  disease. She didn’t want it! she didn’t ask for it ! Just hang on to all the good and loving memories— she would want that. She is at peace now, find comfort in that! ?

March 13, 2017

Peace be her and her family.  She is in our prayers. 

March 13, 2017

It’s amazing how this Monster addiction grabs us and won’t let us go! When one thinks they got it licked, they are wrong it will never be licked, it’s a constant battle to deal with and will always be prevalent, Stephanie fought the battle, but as with most of us always went for one more and finally that one more became her last! Bless her!!

March 13, 2017

Blaine is my name let’s all pray shes in heaven.Not addicted to drugs anymore.God please have mercy for Stephanie.In Jesus name amen.

March 13, 2017

I am truly sorry for this LOSS. Addiction knows no boundaries & the devil takes hold of the hurting and uses all his evil to destroy good people. I hav had addiction within my family. It’s terrible  u don’t know what to say or do. Or you’ve tried everything & it hasn’t worked. God has control. I’ll never understand why some come thru this awful place & others don’t but I do know God & His angels are here with us all maybe someday we won’t hav to deal with drugs and how they destroy families. Until that day I will keep praying for ALL who are struggling with this disease. 

March 13, 2017

I realize words cannot express the pain your family is going through, but I do know of your pain. My son struggled for many years with an addiction and it finally took his life too.  That poem made me cry and brought back many feelings I thought were buried somewhere inside me.  May God give you strength and put his healing hands on your family to guide you through this terrible loss.  I’m just a stranger,  I don’t know your family ,but I want you to know My heart breaks for you and for this rough journey your about to face.  I’ve been there. May God bless you all.  My name is Mary Ann Goff, Missouri. 

March 13, 2017

Such a sad situation..I never could understand why people wanted to mess up their lives like this..RIP

March 13, 2017

Not in vain. Many are touched. 

March 13, 2017

My heart breaks for ALL of you. There are no words that can comfort you. Her words she wrote said it all. She left this world loving you all. God bless your whole family. Thank you for sharing. I pray this helps at least one other family. Have seen too many?
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March 13, 2017

My thoughts and prayers to your family.
Renee Rantz

March 13, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. May God watch over all of your family and friends.♡

March 13, 2017

My deepest sympathy with your loss. My heart aches for your daughter. She didn’t want this but she was weak. Please forgive her for all what she did and what happened. Remember it wasn’t your sweet daughter that moment she was using. But she had a good heart and a good soul. Keep all the sweet memories and cherish them. Hope the family will find peace  some day. Take all the time what you need to grieve. I’m so sorry for you all especially her little girl.
Theresia Calis .Florida

March 13, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. I’m sure she was a beautiful person. Yes there will be anger and whys. My heart goes out to you as I am a 115 year recovered addict. I wish she could have found her way. God please wrap your arms around this family. Comfort them and keep them safe in Jesus name I pray this . God bless and protect you all. Rest in peace Stephanie

March 13, 2017

And the Lord said unto him, My child, your suffering has ended, for I have called you to be with me in paradise this day, let not your tears flow, your faith falter, Stephanie is now here with me, for she is radient, alive and free, trust in me, you will see her again. And the angels brought her to be with the lord in his holy kingdom.
I didn’t know you, R>I>P. My deepest sympathy to you all. Kevin Molloy from England

March 13, 2017

So sorry for your loss. Addiction takes so many way too young. Prayers for strength and comfort for your family. God bless.

March 13, 2017

So sorry over your great loss. Hope this letter helps others going thru this addction crisis. May she be at peace now Donna Fanon

March 13, 2017

Sorry for the loss is so sad god bless you and your family praying ??????

March 13, 2017

I’m so sorry for pain. May God hold you in his arms and comfort you during this time. RIP 

March 13, 2017

I am a recovering addict, clean 5 months by the grace of God. Getting my life and family back. My heart goes out to you all and I pray you find peace and comfort in the loving arms of God and knowing that Stephanie suffers no more and is forgiven through the blood of Jesus. I look forward to meeting her when my time on Earth is through. May God bless and keep you all.
Tracey G.

March 13, 2017

I don’t know your family but I am a recovering addict so I can understand her pain. Addiction is so hard to conquer. I feel so bad for your family. Please be strong for each other. Theresa McManigal 

March 13, 2017

I am so sorry for your family’s loss.I lost 2 sons due to addiction and the pain is intense and non ending.my 3 grandchildren are left with out their fathers. my thoughts are with you.hugs from another mom who knows your pain.

March 13, 2017

This is heartbreaking.  My sincere sympathy to her child and family. God bless you.
 
Debbue Hughson

March 13, 2017

I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter. Some of us can truly say we know what you are going through. I pray for the peace and comfort of God enfolds you, and, helps you get through it. I don’t know any words that would really help except to tell you that you all are in my thoughts and prayers. God bless you all
Betty Byrd

March 13, 2017

God bless them all! I pray that her daughter is in good hands, and that the family speaks nicely of her when she asks questions about her mother!

March 13, 2017

Just heard Stephanie’s story on facebook & wanted to say that I am  praying for you all. I will share her story with others 
hoping that her life & death will help change other people’s lives. I pray that our Lord will hold 3each of you so close to him 
& comfort you as you grieve. Mindy in North Carolina
 

March 13, 2017

May the heavens above give her warmth. So she can watch over her daughter,in good times and bad! God bless to all that have fought,and will fight this battle!

March 13, 2017

My deepest heartfelt condolences to the daughter, parents and family. I too suffered from “chasing another”. I feel the horrible pain that goes with it. May God show mercy and compassion on her soul. Its not her fault!

March 13, 2017

I’m sorry for your tremendous loss.I want to thank you for sharing her words, if it helps one person that would be amazing.

March 13, 2017

So very sorry for your loss.The words that she wrote clearly shows that she loved Savannah .May Gods love help you through this .

March 13, 2017

My God above be with u and help u and your granddaughter I’m so sorry for your loss 

March 13, 2017

My is Deborah Morris I am so sorry to hear this my thoughts and prayers  are with you and your family. I have someone in my life I have been thought with it has gotten better but not stop. God Bless you

March 13, 2017

I am so sorry. I lost my daugher ashley two years ago in the same way. My heart goes out to you. You are in my prayers. Jeannie may

March 13, 2017

I can’t explain to you how much this hit home for me. I too was an addict and by the grace of God and a lot of hard work I have been clean 17 months. My heart hurts for your family and I wish you never had to experience the heartache of losing someone to addiction. May God bless your family with the comfort of knowing that she is in Heaven and not having to deal with the disappointment and pain of being an addict. ❤
woth 

March 13, 2017

I am so sorry for your family’s loss.You are to be commended for sharing your pain in the hopes of helping others.The world needs more people like you!

March 13, 2017

I am so sorry for the loss of your loved one my heart goes out to the family …. May she Rest In Peace . My heart goes out to you Stephanie may you be the angel that watches over your daughter everyday . An may you never feel pain again. Rip

March 13, 2017

So sorry for your loss. Addiction stinks.  I’m going to repost this, in the hopes that it reached one person.  God bless you.  

March 13, 2017

So so sad I have no words 

March 13, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss. Addiction is a disease of the mind. The initial choice was hers but then she became a victim of herself. Rest in peace Stephanie.

March 13, 2017

I am truly touch by your daughters words. I know you will help even more now. My heart goes out to your family❤️Chris Dobson 
                                      (Saw this on FB)

March 13, 2017

My name is Ronnie Carney, I am from Nashville TN. I didn’t know Stephanie, but for some reason I clicked on her obituary and started reading her straight from the heart poem, by the time I finished reading,I was in tears…..so sorry for your loss savannah. Please try to grow up with an understanding and not a conviction, being your mother know matter what,she loved you…..RIP STEPHANIE

March 13, 2017

So sorry

March 13, 2017

I’m very sorry for your loss.  God bless your family.  

March 13, 2017

so sorry for your loss.

March 13, 2017

So sorry for your loss! Sending up prayers! 

March 13, 2017

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. May God bless you all… RIP Stephanie, The Covington Family….

March 13, 2017

Thank you for sharing your story!  My hearts aches as I have a 33 year old niece who also struggles with addiction.  Perhaps these words will be of help to keep her on the path and road less traveled by addicts.  What a source of comfort it must be to know she knows Jesus and He has made her perfectly whole now that she is with Him.  My prayer is for her daughter that she and you not be angry but know that Jesus did for her that which she could not do for herself.  Thankful we have an eternal hope and a promise that He makes all things New!
  With Deepest Sympathy and prayer for you!

March 13, 2017

I’M so sorry for your loss people like us did not want to become this way not at all but the DOCTOR who is writing the prescription should be held responsible for their actions just like your daughter said about the way she felt is hard to say I myself am to ashamed of the things I have done because it is not the way we really are like I said I am so sorry for your loss pray for me and people who are like me my name is Lyle Britton and I am from KY May your daughter rest in peace God bless you and your family

March 13, 2017

So very sorry for your loss,my prayers and thoughts go out to the family and friends. 
R. I. P. Stephanie

March 13, 2017

Prayer’s for everyone.Addiction is so hard. God bless you all RIP Stefanie. 

March 13, 2017

I am so terribly sorry for your painful loss. Addiction is a monster, to say the very least. Our prayers are with you and your family. I pray that many will read her words and take heed.  God bless you and give you peace.
Penny Lea

March 13, 2017

Heartfelt pain for the family and friends. I pray for God’s comfort in the days to come. Nothing can take your pain away  other than  being in the comfort of Jesus. I pray for strength and courage to keep your daughters memory alive for your grandaighter Savannah. Thoughts and prayers.

March 13, 2017

So sorry for your loss, my son also struggles 

March 13, 2017

I am sorry for your tragic loss. Prayers for you and your family. I have been through a bunch of people dying in my life. If you ever need to talk my name is Alyssa Champagne. Look me up on Facebook I am willing to help people recover from things like this.

March 13, 2017

I am so sorryfor your loss May God bless you and the family.

March 13, 2017

Prayers are with you all. There are no words that I can say to extend the sorrow and heartbreak. Please in time know that someone cares and is praying for each of you. 

March 13, 2017

I do not know your family or your daughter. Reading her obit makes me so sad for her and your family. As a mother I can only imange your grief. I will be praying for all of you. D. Ellis

March 13, 2017

I am so sorry about the death of your daughter. My son passed away from this addiction 10/5/16. Spreading the word that it can happen to anyone is the greatest and sometimes the only thing we can do. Mom I want you to know that you are not alone.
Arlene Coates

March 13, 2017

So sorry for your loss!! prayers going out to her family!!

March 13, 2017

So very sorry for your loss. May you all find peace in God’s arms. 

March 13, 2017

Praying for Gods peace to cover the family..I’m so sorry!

March 13, 2017

I didn’t know her but I read your words her words and it truly touched my heart.  My condolences to her family and her daughter 

March 13, 2017

I too have a daughter like this. It breaks my heart each day. I raise her precious children.  Two little boys.  I am sorry very sorry for the loss of this young woman.  May she have peace now .

March 13, 2017

I’m am very sorry for your loss  . Sad prayers to your family  is know it very hard ,iam trying to get help for my son    , iwill pray for your family  sorry

March 13, 2017

As a Mother if an addict myself, who is helping to raise his 13 yr old daughter my heart broke when reading this. He is currently incarcerated which is probably a blessing in disguise. I stand beside him as I have come to learn more and more about his disease. I know in my heart it hurts him as much as it does the rest of us. 
Rest In Peace in the arms of our Lord, sweet girl. 

March 13, 2017

My Condolences. May God bless her child.

March 13, 2017

My heart is broken for Stephanie and her family. I am praying for peace in all the hearts of family, especially her daughter. Deepest condolences through the journey of knowing Stephanie is now in the GOOD LORD’s hands and will be living in all of your hearts forever………………..

March 13, 2017

Your daughter had a beautiful soul,it so clear in her writings. Her mistakes did not define her,not at all! It’s so sad when this demon gets his claws in so deep that some can never esape. Death is the only peace for them. She believed in God and he took her home. Please know that she is finally at peace and is being totally loved,not judged,by our Lord. I’m sure she’s a beautiful angel. My heart hurts for you,there are so many,too many of us dealing with the consequences and pain of this horrible epidemic. You are not alone and I will be praying for you. Hugs and love from Fremont,Ohio.

March 13, 2017

Im sorry for your Loss! As myself pray everyday that my son will quit before its too late.God has you now Stephanie. Kelli Spencer.

March 13, 2017

I’m so terribly sorry for your loss. Rest In Peace Stephanie!   May God be with you at this tragic time!  Debby Langevin

March 13, 2017

Steve & Maggie, so sorry for your loss…My prayers are with you and your family…Ann Weaver

March 13, 2017

May God richly bless this family. May He give you peace and strength and may He comfort you. I am Praying for your family.

March 13, 2017

My heart breaks for her whole family, especially her daughter. Addiction is a horrible disease and I am so sorry this disease took her life. Thank you for sharing this. God bless you all??????❤️

March 13, 2017

No words can express the sorrow. Sorrow that another is lost. Sorrow that the family is left behind to pick up the pieces.

March 13, 2017

I am so sad and sorry about this beautiful  young woman, God Bless her and comfort and be with her family!
I know from the experiences that my family has gone through that drug addiction is a horrible disease that hurts the entire family! They are in my thoughts and prayers!
                         Jayne Womack
Womackjayne5@gmail.com

March 13, 2017

So very sorry for your loss. Prayers for your family.  RIP Stephanie.

March 13, 2017

My heart goes out to this family God bless each and everyone of you and made her little girl try to remember all the good times we had with our mommy addiction is a terrible thing but it’s not the person it’s the demon that’s chasing them may he rest in peace in Jesus arms they meant

March 13, 2017

Prayers for the family today and always. 

March 13, 2017

So sorry about this. My heart aches for you. Margene Wilson

March 13, 2017

So sorry for your loss. Rest in peace . Amen

March 13, 2017

 I feel her pain .my prayers go out to her family

March 13, 2017

god bleess you and your family,,its not that you were a bad person you had a disease,,uncurable in some cases sum wont survive,,your in my heart and prayers and i hope you find peace some how and are able to come together as a family and come together so when savannah grow up you will know the signs and maybe save her,,your in my heart and in my prayers,,god bless

March 13, 2017

My prayers are with all of you at this time of loss. All I can offfer is hugs & prayers . Just remember addiction is not an easy thing to over come no matter how easy people may say it is. Just remeber don’t be to hard on yourselfs. It is up to all of us to try & help & love one another we all suffer from one type of an addiction weather you want to believe it or nor so don’t judge just love <3. Addiction is in many forms most think of it as just  drugs, alchol, smoking………… There is also over eating, etc love one another she is finally at piece after fighting something much bigger than her <3 <3
Mary Manwaring

March 13, 2017

I pray your family will get through this loss. Especially her daughter. My oldest son Matt us struggling with addiction as well. I understand. Praying for her to now rest in peace and her loved ones to find comfort..

March 13, 2017

Addiction is a disease just like cancer.  It’s a demon that many cannot beat and it does not make them a bad person.  Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.  We understand your pain and her struggle.  She is now at peace and no longer fighting this horrible disease.   Sending love and support.  
Deborah Shrieve

March 13, 2017

May this sweet spirit of Stephanie please thrive above, and give you all comfort that she has chosen this path to be free and at peace.  My heart is breaking for your entire family.  Sending you all healing love….PS Someone in my family also struggles daily with this to.  I feel your pain.  I thank you for sharing and caring.

March 13, 2017

I didn’t know Stephanie, and yet I know her very well. And I love her as a parent loves a daughter. Beloved. 

March 13, 2017

May God be with you all through this tragic time,Thank you for sharing your daughters touching poem that was written from her heart,She is with God now and not struggling with no pain or hurt.God Bless and Thank you.The “Rocuskie” Family

March 13, 2017

My heart breaks for your family! God bless all of you!

March 13, 2017

So sorry for the loss of your beautiful girl, this poem left me with an ache in my heart and tears in my eyes. Rest in piece Stephanie, My condolences to the family and her daughter Savannah 

March 13, 2017

This really touched me. She is in Heaven now. I’m sorry to the family. I will share this story and have it as a memory of aomeone I never knew. Rest in peace now Stephanie…sincerely the Rogers’ family

March 13, 2017

Hello!, my name is Odell, I don’t know you personally, but I do know your sorrow. With deepest heartfelt understanding, my sincere condolences for your tragedy!!!

March 13, 2017

Please share her story everywhere. Her words may save another family from suffering in the way you did and are. There is a huge epidemic of addicts. Your family will be in our prayers. Godbless

March 13, 2017

http://www.recordonline.com/article/20160111/OPINION/160119896
On December 6 last year, we too lost our beautifful son to addiction, and like you, posted that in his obituary. Like your daughter, Justin was an animal lover, a sweet and sensitive soul, who could not fight the demons of his disease.  I applaud you for your honesty.  If our speaking out can save one young life, then they have not died in vain.  Above is the link to a my view in our local paper that we posted.  I hope that it can bring you some comfort.  May Stephanie rest in peace. 

March 13, 2017

I don’t know y’all but I send my deepest condolences to your family…and want you to know the words she wrote where amazing thank you for sharing and may god bless your family now and forever. -Arrin-

March 13, 2017

December 6, 2015 our beautiful son lost his battle with addiction too.  We too posted just that in his obituary.  When I read yours, so much sounded like our Justin.  He too was an animal lover, a sweet and loving man, who also fought the battle, but sadly lost.  If everyone who has a family member that this awful family disease takes from them, posts the fact that it was addiction, maybe it will be a wake up call to the world, that this is an epidemic.  It doesnt just reach its devil arm into the gutters in cities, it surpasses poverty.  It has become a demon that is killing our youths.  I applaud you for your honesty and for sharing her poem.  If you want to read what we posted as a :my view” in the TH Record, google Parents of an Addict.  We too feel that if it reaches one person, then Justin’s legacy will be that someone else was saved.  They are no longer in pain.  May your daughter rest in peace. 

March 13, 2017

So sorry for your loss.  May your family mend and remember the Lord holds you in his arms.
Virginia

March 13, 2017

Wow!  My heart goes out to this family.  ? prayers!! 

March 13, 2017

May she rest in peace! As 4 the people left behind your pain will continue thinking wat could have u done different? So there was nuttin u could have done it was up 2 the person who continues this path! I, myself have been clean 17 years and let me tell u everyday is a reminder of wat happened 2 me when i chose drugs! So everyday live your life knowing there would of been nuttin u all wouldn’t have done but it wasn’t your choice it was hers! God bless the family who is left behind cause u will continue 2 hurt!

March 13, 2017

This letter was heart breaking!  May she rest in peace now!
Mother of 3 daughter in Pasadena MD.

March 13, 2017

I am very sorry for Your loss. I pray that God will wrap His Loving Arms around All of You and help You through this time of sorrow. May You find peace and comfort through Jesus Christ, Amen.

March 13, 2017

Very sorry for your loss.   May your family find peace and forgiveness one day for this tragedy. God bless you all.  Keep strong. 

March 13, 2017

She wrote a very touching letter.  I hope it gets through to at least one person, then it will have not been in vain. She is a brave girl!   May she rest in peace and I will pray for peace for the family.  God bless all of you.

March 13, 2017

May you rest in Peace!

March 13, 2017

So very sorry for your obvious pain. Life is surely hard for a lot of people on this earth now. Rip!!!!

March 13, 2017

So sorry for your loss praying for your family. I have been thur this also my son passed 9/6/09 3 days before his 26 birthday. He left behind 3 beautiful children that my daughter adopted cause their mother was and still is doing drugs I pray that one day she will quit.

March 13, 2017

My deepest condolences on your daughters passing  I’m sorry she had to deal with such difficult circumstances. My prayers are with you 
Kristy Lam 
Charlottesville, Virginia 

March 13, 2017

For the the first time I find myself speechless, that’s rare for me but her feelings and thoughts so real and genuine also hitting home, though I would never of had the courage to say or express as she did and that speaks Volume! Even being sober I don’t know if I could openly write the very same feelings that still fun through my head ! I’ve baby stepped it the entire way and still struggle daily not with addiction anymore but being the best I can be to make up for all my short comings from my past . I know I can do better so why am I not reaching my full potential? That struggle is still real, but I  know now I can’t change the past I can’t make people believe I am truly different all I can do is make myself believe it getting to the root of why and it’s nothing but my own weakness that holds me down, I don’t know all the details and having an addiction doesn’t mean you deserve less or should think less see that is one of the roots that can keep you trapped, but her words were bold  and strong which showed she desperately wanted to live up to her expectations I say this with a heavy heart that for some unfair reason she didn’t get the time she deserved to get well, bc she would of overcome and become everything she wanted bc in all my years of rehab NA AA I’ve never even heard anyone speak or words of remorse not saying they didn’t have them but living as an ex addicted it’s still hard to admit all of our true feelings and sadness it’s easier to focus on how good we are doing at the moment, never true words lspoken out loud and the fact that she was aware and exposed her weaknesses shows amazing character , I am deeply sotfor her loss to all family members! I know personally there are no words of comfort and yes it’s absolutely unfair for her and all loved ones. 20 years with out my father and this year March 1, I’ve finally made peace with his passing it’s still raw and painful but in a different way, I am who I am bc of the life I lived and I’m slowly becoming proud of who that person is, and try every day to find courage and strength I know that may sound cliche I promise I am writing with genuine words! Reading this has a chilling affect bc I don’t like to admit my wrongs but your daughter did and it’s inspiring but also makes it so real that one more could kill me I would be lying if I said it isn’t a real struggle bc it is but before reading this I would of never said it out loud certainly not went in depth , so please continue to share I don’t know how it reached my FB but it did and has given me a lot to think about, not only that but courage to stand up and confront my past issues bc The ghost is always just a step behind bc if fear but her courage to take responsibility even in sober living people can’t do, so in sharing her story of life will make a difference in so many ways I can’t find all the words to put together, but bless you and your family for sharing bc it ignited quite a few sparks in me to take extended steps to fully appreciate reflect & recover, until now it’s been an unspoken buried secret so I thank you for sharing it seems easy but it’s not easy! May her story continue to flow into more lives and open more eyes ! I get very nervous commenting on post so I often avoid reading it through and usually just send prayers and condolences but for some reason I stoped to read this obviously got more reasons then I expected for that I thank you. Awareness and Forgiveness is key ,there are not a lot of resources that are actually helpful with out a great income but inspiration like this is what helps an average person, and that we continue yo search for forgiveness in others bc maybe we or I haven’t forgave myself and this post has truly opened my eyes to that, again my gratitude and condolences to all of the family, I know words can seem so meaning less When loosing a loved one so short into life I just hope one day you may find a little comfort that you have unlocked a very important part in self wellness for me aiding me in understanding that bc I chose to keep it on lock & key as if it never happened , but her words of how she explains the feelings of others in her life that suffered as well , Well makes me realize I must be more patient with others feelings and at the same time realize that I may never get forgiveness or acceptance from all but I must forgive myself , to continue with a productive loving life. I hope many of the people I know read the Your post bc I’m very glade I didn’t pass it up due to my own insecurities. One day maybe you will see that her life will live on through this helping one share at a time. No one should loose a child or parent at such a young age but god bless the courage and respect that passes through this testimony of love life and a true testament to the Struggle’s of an Addiction. 

March 13, 2017

May God be with all of you during this time!
 
Snow Ressler
Ft Wayne In

March 13, 2017

I am so very very sorry for your loss. Many prayers

March 13, 2017

Even in this God is working for the good. I didn’t know your daughter but the truth behind her pain is clear. Amazing through her struggle others are reading this not evening knowing her but having a impact like few others can. I’m truly sorry for the pain your family will feel. I praying blessing will somehow come out of this dark place and your family will heal.
Sonya Cressionnie 

March 13, 2017

Love and Prayers, an addict in recovery, Wendy Romero❤️

March 13, 2017

I’m truly saddened by the loss of your loved one.  She was fighting her demons. I pray that she is at peace.  My brother died from alcoholism at a young age.  My sister died from an addiction to pain pills.  Sometimes life is a struggle but I make it knowing that God is always with me.  Just remember God is always with you and your loved ones.  I pray he gives all of you strength to overcome this loss.
Missouri 

March 13, 2017

Many in my family have struggled with addiction or alcoholism, myself included. We’ve seen many friends die. By the grace of God, my brother, my sister, and myself have somehow made it out alive. None of us abuse alcohol or drugs anymore and my sister and I are regular church goers. I am 61, my brother is 58, and my sister is 54.  We have less than 25 years combined clean and sober. Only God knows why we lived and others didn’t, but whoever you are, wherever you are, there is hope. You can get clean, with God or the12 Steps, whichever. I want to thank you for including her letter. It moved me to tears and hopefully will awaken some addicts and save some lives. You are very caring and generous people and your love shows. You will all be in my thoughts and prayers. God bless you!

March 13, 2017

So sorry for your loss .May she rest in peace and know she fought her demons well and was thinking about her family,sometimes. our demons win but that doesnt mean we didnt fight.Prayers for family and friends.

March 13, 2017

My heart aches for you.   I will send prayers to heaven every day. It is very hard I know my husband was an alcohol.  God Bless you and take care.  Sending lots of love to you.  She is at peace.

March 13, 2017

May God’s arms hold you close.  Many Prayers and Blessings. Susan Burns

March 13, 2017

Thank you for your words Stephanie, your death be not in vain. RIP xx

March 13, 2017

I read this twice. I have a sister myself who is struggling with this same thing and has children, and it makes me think deeply and saddens me a great deal. God be with you all I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing Stephanie’s letter, it has touched my heart and makes me think if my sister could be feeling the same way as Stephanie did. God bless you. Will keep you guys in my prayers. Stephanie doesn’t have to struggle with this anymore. 

March 13, 2017

My prayers are with you all. I pray God guides each and everyones steps and that He wraps His arms around you all and gives you comfort

March 13, 2017

My condolences for your loss. This touched me greatly. I have a brother that I have only spoken to three times in about 10 years. Addiction is a terrible disease. Your family has my sympathy & prayers. 
                                                                                                            S.G. Tennessee 

March 12, 2017

I’m so sorry for ur loss…what honest words she wrote,thank u so much for sharing this,i know a young lady that really needs to read this,maybe it’s just what she needs to see to get the help she so desperately needs! I know it will help some one,if not my niece,then someone else….thank u again for sharing this in a time where I’m sure ur heart is heavy with sorrow…plz tell Stephanie’s daughter that her mommy did love her,she really couldn’t help that she was sick,n that her words most definitely helped save another life! Again thank u for sharing this
 

March 12, 2017

There is no way I can say I feel your pain but I am so sorry for your loss. I barely addicts are people that have the biggest Caring Hearts and feel so much that they try to numb themselves because it’s overwhelming. I know she is resting in peace now I’m glad that her words help someone else that’s hurting as bad

March 12, 2017

SO SORRY FOR UR LOSS … MAY SHE RIP..Prayers sent for family an friends.

March 12, 2017

God bless her.  What a horrible life it is for an addict.  It could happen to anybody.  I am so sorry for your loss.
her words are so very touching.  It is a day-to-day struggle to not use.mm

March 12, 2017

I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter.  Please accept my condolences.  May God give you peace and strength in the difficult days ahead.  I have experienced the loss of a sister and brother to drug addiction.  I have a niece, my deceased sister’s child, that is also addicted to drugs.  I just want you to know that you are not alone in your anguish.  My prayer is you will find comfort knowing others deeply care and understand.  Please don’t blame yourselves.  God bless you!

March 12, 2017

I’m deeply sorry for your loss and I pray for strength your family in this time of loss. I read Stephanie’s words twice, in tears as I shook my head thinking “This is me almost to a T, why can’t I just change, I don’t want this life for me or my son” I pray I can change so I don’t hurt those that I love more than I already have. Addiction doesn’t discriminate, it takes its victims one fix at a time (of their drug of choice), always leaving them wanting another like Stephanie said. It’s not something we (as addicts) choose and until we realize & accept we need help we continue to live chasing that next “one more”. Again I’m so sorry for your loss and thank you so much for sharing her words and being honest about her disease of addiction. 
 
My condolences 
melissa
new york 

March 12, 2017

My heart goes out to you and your family. My daughter is 30 and fighting addiction for 15 yrs. Her Son and I pray for her every night before we close our eyes in hopes she will get the help she needs. Thank you for sharing as I also will share . Prayers and peace to your loving family and to Savannah. Addiction is so hard for children to understand they believe their Mom doesn’t love them. 

March 12, 2017

Please know that others care and yes..if her message can help another it will be a blessing. Sending our thoughts and prayers to you all. 

March 12, 2017

I to watch my daughter struggling daily with this horrible disease.  From the bottom of my heart I’m truly sorry for your loss. I will show her this. Maybe she’ll be the one your daughter helps to save. God bless you <3

March 12, 2017

Dear sweet Soul of  GOD, my prayers are even with you now in the time of your soul leaving your body! You were once was a child of GOD , and you always will be . In you death to this body , I am asking you to go to the Light of God !! You are his child and always will be . This life will lie to you , follow the light of God and Please call his name for help. Only The name of JESUS
will lead you to your home in Heaven!! GOD speed my friend, just Susan

March 12, 2017

My heart is aching for you all. This is such a sad time for you all. God bless you all and give you wisdom, comfort and the way to go on.
Ohio

March 12, 2017

Bless you all, prayers going your way.

March 12, 2017

My condolence to the family.  May she rest in peace.  I know the pain you are feelng but just bear in mind that She is now in God’s hands.  I am sorry fir yoûr loss!

March 12, 2017

Beautiful woman…she had a huge heart as it’s written in her words about addiction.  Thanks for sharing her words.  To her daughter I am sure she loves you immensely.  She wrote this for you in an attempt to give insight on her disease of addiction.  What it was like having the horrible disease of addiction.  Prayers for daughter and all her ? family.

March 12, 2017

So sorry to hear about your daughter.  Please take comfort in knowing you will see her in eternity and she will be whole with anew body that can never be addicted. That little bit of faith in Jesus Christ is our Salvation.  Give thanks for this Grace gift that we are freely given, could never earn or deserve, but that we have “in Christ”.  Looking forward to meeting you and your daughter in eternit. Mrs Terry Larson

March 12, 2017

So sorry for your loss … I have an almost 40 yr old step-daughter struggling with addiction. I Pray every day that she can shake the demon for her sake and the sake of her 3 daughters. Praying you all find Peace. 

March 12, 2017

I AM SO VERY VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. THIS IS SO STRANGE FOR TONIGHT AT CHURCH MY 18 YEAR DAUGHTER GAVE A TESTIMONY ON ADDITION OF A DRINKER THAT A MAN HAD SHARED WITH HER. AND HE HAD ALSO WRITTEN POEM ALONG WITH IT AND SHE SHARED THEM ALSO, SO BE AT REST TO KNOW THAT HER WORDS AND HER LETTER WILL NOT GO IN VAIN BECAUSE IF IT CAN TOUCH MY DAUGHTER LIFE FROM A COMPLETE STRANGER THAT COMES IN THE STORE WHERE SHE WORKS THEN SOMEONE READING THIS IT CAN TOUCH THERE LIFE TOO. THANK YOU FOR SHARING . MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AND GIVE YOUR FAMILY THE PEACE THAT YOU NEED.
 

March 12, 2017

Sorry for your loss of Stephanie. I have a brother that’s been an addict for many years. Thoughts of losing him as agonizing and I know one day I’m going to get the call that I’ve been dreading. I hope peace comes into your family or Stephanie is at peace now. Let her daughter know everyday her mother loved her dearly.  Prayers for All!  Sad in Salem,Virginia

March 12, 2017

That is so powerful…I am a recovering addict myself and mother but was able to somehow make it thru…God bless your angel and may she find peace.  May God’s grace and hope find your family always.  Thank-you for sharing this personal story, it gives me added strength to continue one more day. Hugs from a stranger.  

March 12, 2017

 I don’t know your family or your daughter but my heart aches for your family. Find peace and comfort in God. Your in my thoughts and prayers.
Trish Guraleczka 
 
 

March 12, 2017

So sorry for your loss. She is safe, walking with Jesus. What a heart break message,,Peace to all.

March 12, 2017

May God wrap his arms around his child and her family in their time of need. There are no words that can console you, I know, I lost my son in June 2016 and grieve as much today as I did “that” day. I am so sorry for your loss, May God bless you all??? Patti Beaman

March 12, 2017

Andy R prayers tmfor her and the family so very sorry 

March 12, 2017

May she rest in peace in the arms of Jesus my sister also passed away in February of this year from overdose and it hurts tremendously I wish I could say some comforting words but I am still trying to overcome the real skirt of my sisters passing it still don’t seem real it feels like she’s just gone on one of her two or three day ventures and she’s gonna come in anytime but she’s not she’s gone and I know she’s in heaven a better place but I miss her so bad so bad but I will keep y’all in my prayers and y’all please do the same for me and I’m so sorry for your loss amen love Tina from sc

March 12, 2017

I’m sorry to hear about your loss. Please don’t stop sharing this story!! I’m in recovery myself and this his so hard for me. I shared it in a few recovery groups I’m in as well. This poem/story may help save someone’s life!! Thank you for helping me stay clean/sober another day!!! Much love to you and your family!! 

March 12, 2017

Im so sorry for your loss. I didnt know Stephanie,  im in Florida.  I lost my sister 4.5 yr ago to addiction.  Her letter impacted me – im in recovery. Thank u for sharing.  God Bless u & yours. ? 

March 12, 2017

So sorry for the loss of such a beautiful person. Your entire family is in my prayers. Thank you for sharing the poem that Stephanie wrote. I did not know her personally, but saw myself in every word she wrote. This is a very powerful message and I hope you continue to share it for other addicts and their families who still suffer.  Missy S  Northern KY

March 12, 2017

She has met Jesus and at peace with God now. She is over any addiction now. My deep and sincere condolences to all of her family and friends. And I pray for her daughter, may God give her peace in some way as only He can.
Brian Angus.

March 12, 2017

Lillie Scott so sorry for your loss my condolences goes out to the family in prayers with Jesus keep strong and there believe
 

March 12, 2017

I’m so very sorry for your loss of your beautiful daughter. I can’t even imagine what your going through. The poem was from her heart Definitely touched the spot. Addiction is such a horrid illness. I’m pretty messed too up if I’m honest. I do know that Stephanie loved you all very very much.   The crazy things we do and the way we hurt our families is uncontrollable. We would never do it intentionally. It’s that devil on the shoulder, that changes you in to a person you don’t recognise. 
I know her daughter will be in good hands. You have many happy memories you can share with her when she’s older.  
God bless you all.  
xx

March 12, 2017

So very sorry for your loss. ?????Virginia 

March 12, 2017

Life is a blink of an eye. God gives each person a purpose. I pray your tragedy is able to help the other addicts before they met their deaths.  My step son is an addict. He is in a two year program. I pray your family find peace again & your daughter rest in peace without suffering . May God bless you and guide your family. 

March 12, 2017

My heart goes out to this family! I am so very sorry!  My thoughts and prayers are with you!

March 12, 2017

My condolences to you. 

March 12, 2017

I give the family all my prayers from deep in my heart . I am also an addict in recovery and have lost many friends to this battle. I just want to thank the family for posting the true person ur family member was. Cause this is things that people hide. Addiction is a hard and I say HARD to fight. I will keep this family on my prayer list at my church. I can say she’s in The Home of our Heavenly Father and may she Rest In Peace. No I didn’t know her but I know where she’s was coming from God Bless You All 

March 12, 2017

I did not know Stephanie, but as a 2000 PMHS grad heard of her passing.   After reading this, and as a mom too, I had to reiterate the strength and courage it must have taken for Stephanie to write this and her family to make it public. It sounds like she will have a beautiful legacy in her daughter! Thank you for sharing her story. 
Michelle Enders

March 12, 2017

My deepest condolences, thoughts and prayers to you and your family. I understand exactly where you are as my 29 year old daughter is suffering no more. Katie Jo Miller 11/27/1987 – 2/6/2017 left 2 children in my care, as well as 4 siblings and many more family members. 
I would like to leave you with these words….
Miss me, but let me go (author unknown)
When I come to the end of the road,
And the sun has set for me.
I want no rites in a gloom filled room,
Why cry for a soul set free?
Miss mlittle but not too long,
And not with your head bowed low.
Remember the love that once was shared.
Miss me, but let me go.
If you ever feel the need to talk, I understand and I’m hear. Kimberly Miller.   Kmiller@mhai.net or 317-410-1332. May God give you peace in these difficult times. Godbless

March 12, 2017

Prayers  for all. She is  with God. 
Thelma Branson 

March 12, 2017

So sorry for your lose . .My Son died of heroin od in 2015 . Not a day goes by that I don’t say ,what could I have done . After reading your daughter’s words . I realize nothing I could have done ,could have changed what happened . God bless you . May he wrap you in his love and glory . Amen 

March 12, 2017

Prayer to all of you!  Addiction just be a horrible thing!  Everyday we hear more and more of these stories?  I am socsorry?  Sharon

March 12, 2017

I am going to share this I know several people suffering from addiction and I believe this is the best spoken message to opens someone’s eyes!! Rest in peace beautiful girl!

March 12, 2017

Sorry sorry for your loss. Addiction is such a horrible disease…What she wrote was beautiful. I also hope it may save someone else.
 

March 12, 2017

So sorry for your loss. Prayers for her family and friends. Gloria Thompson 

March 12, 2017

So sorry for your loss . You don’t. Know me but my heart knows what you have lived through . I live it everyday with my daughter . Some day she will be at peace . I wait everday for the call she is gone and in the loving arms of Jesus . May God bless you and your family .  Your daughter was not able to watch over her little girl in life but now she is a guardian angel to her .Mary Cantley Charleston WV

March 12, 2017

 So sorry for the loss of a precious life. I also later to rest my son who thought his life wasn’t worth living. I feel your pain and know that time does help heal the pain. U still have a beautiful piece of her in ur grand baby.prayers to the family.
 

March 12, 2017

So sorry for your families lost. I have never lost a child so al cannot say I know how u feel and I never want too. My heart goes out to the family I know u all have to be heart broken. I ask Jesus to give all of u all peace in this terrible storm in your lives. I pray that all of u have accepted Jesus as your savior. If u haven’t I want u all to know that only Jesus can give your family the peace u all are looking for. God Bless all of u.             
Alice.   Indiana 

March 12, 2017

So sorry for your loss….. may she rest in peace

March 12, 2017

So sorry for your loss . You don’t. Know me but my heart knows what you have lived through . I live it everyday with my daughter . Some day she will be at peace . I wait everday for the call she is gone and in the loving arms of Jesus . May God bless you and your family .  Your daughter was not able to watch over her little girl in life but now she is a guardian angel to her .

March 12, 2017

Wow such a powerful and heart breaking obituary.. My sincere condolences to you all. No words will take away the pain you feel just remember one day you will be reunited. 

March 12, 2017

Her demons can no longer touch her. May she fly high and watch over her loved ones she left behind

March 12, 2017

Deepest sympathy for the loss of Stephanie.  Reading the words about her struggle is a powerful message for all of us who fight difficulties on a day to day basis.  Sending you love and loss during this difficult time 

March 12, 2017

May she rest peacefully in Jesus’ arms now. No more struggle.  May the family have Gods comfort and peace. 
Missouri

March 12, 2017

Amen,no more suffering no more chasing, been a drug addict myself, Jesus changed my life,heartfelt words, RIP

March 12, 2017

So, so sorry…this could have been ANY of us (I speak from experience). Please know that you did your best and that God’s plan for Stephanie’s life was fulfilled in her 33 years. He WILL bring beauty from your ashes and good will come from your heartache. Praying for peace for all of you…Kim (mom to an angel child and to a recovering addict)

March 12, 2017

So sorry for your loss, sending prayer to family?????

March 12, 2017

My heart goes out to her family and friends, to loose a loved one too soon. Praying also for her daughter that she’ll continue to have feelings of love for her mom.

March 12, 2017

Stephanie the letter you wrote touched my Heart I Pray that you are with Jesus 

March 12, 2017

So very sorry for your loss!! I pray all of u will find peace in knowing she is loved also by the Lord Jesus Christ and she is finally at peace and just know she will always be with u in that sweet grand child u will be raising!

March 12, 2017

I am so very sorry for your loss.  May you find peace and comfort in knowing your beautiful daughter is no longer suffering from her addiction.  As I was reading the posted condolences, it was breaking my heart to see so many other families are suffering the same with a loved one.  I pray your daughter’s shared words will become a break through to those fighting addiction.  May God bless you and your family.   … Karen Pauley from Hurricane, WV.

March 12, 2017

My heart aches for your family’s loss.  Prayers for all.

March 12, 2017

I wish I knew what to say to comfort your family, my daughter struggles with this demon. Stephanie shows her heart through her words but addiction is stronger than we know.  I pray for you all. God bless.

March 12, 2017

May you find some comfort & peace with your faith.  No other words can express the loss you must feel, I’m so sorry. & thank you for sharing.
Tina Swearingen ~ Ohio
 

March 12, 2017

My deepest sympathy to Stephanie’s family.  Our family is fighting the same battle you fought for her recovery.  I know how hard and heartbreaking it is.  Addiction is so evil.  It takes over our beautiful children and takes their lives away.  Forgive the precious child you have lost for the pain she has caused herself and others and forgive yourselves for not being able to save her. Only God knows the answers we all seek.  May you have the peace of the Lord.
Carole Oglesby

March 12, 2017

I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May the Lord wrap His loving arms around the entire family and  heal your hurt. I’m praying for God’s peace, comfort and strength as you go through this difficult time. Thank you for sharing Stephenie’s story. I will pass it on with the hopes that someone in the same situation as  your daughter will quit before it’s too late.  God Bless your family!! MB, Maryland

March 12, 2017

What a time you all have been through, I am so sorry for your pain.  Please accept my condolences.  I am a complete stranger to you and yet I care about each one of you.  I hope God comforts you as only He can. 

March 12, 2017

May Grace and Light Surround this Family and her precious Daughter!   Jan Fabio 

March 12, 2017

I am sorry for your loss, prayers for you all.

March 12, 2017

I myself am an addict and her poem hit hard I’m sorry for your lose just know that she did try this sickness overpowers us please know that it isn’t cause we don’t want it…..RIP Steph 
 

March 12, 2017

I think this hit me harder than it should have! My heart is broken thinking of your family. Prayers for the family and may she fly high♡
A.Gilbert
North Carolina. 

March 12, 2017

I send your family my condolences i am so sorry this has happened , i am at a loss for words as the letter you shared that she wrote is so touching she is so beautiful & young , may God comfort you all at this time & give you all the streagnth & courage you need . I am so sorry for her Mother .Daughter & Father & sister .

March 12, 2017

I am very sorry that all of you lost Stephanie. She’s sounds like she was wonderful. I hate what addictions do to people. I hope and pray for the Lord to comfort all of you.    God Love……

March 12, 2017

So sorry for your loss. I have lost friends and family to this terrible disease. And that is what I call it. May you find the peace and the strength that your family needs to get threw all of this. You are so wonderful to have been in her life when you was and she knew that you loved her. Diana

March 12, 2017

Prayers for the family , may God hold and lead  you all .  

March 12, 2017

Love and peace to the family especially Savannah. Tamara Gutormson

March 12, 2017

MAY THE LORD BRING YOU ALL PEACE AND MAY THIS PRECIOUS CHILD REST IN PEACE MY HEART IS WITH YOU ALL MY SON IS ALSO AN ADDICT I PRAY FOR ALL THESE YOUNG PEOPLE WHO ARE ADDCITED WHETHER IT BE DRUGS ,ALCOHOL ETC,, MAY GOD HELP US.
 
 

March 12, 2017

When i read this it broke my heart. Im very sorry that your daughter couldnt beat her addiction.it seems so senseless’ 4 yrs ago i also lost my daughter. She was smart beautiful witty and kind.she also wrote poem music and loved the lord,always reading her bible and praising him.they found her dead in my living room beside the couch with her bible open.she drank til she died.it was ruled suicide she left 3  children ,,a18 up to middle 20 s.i fought and prayed fervently 30  years against alchol and drugs. But this I know we serve a GOD THAT IS FAITHFUL AND I EXPECT TO SEE HER SWEET FACE AGAIN IN HEAVEN.MAY GOD SPEAK WORDS OF PEACE AND COMFORT TO EACH OF YOU ANDBRING RESTORATION.JESUS IS THE BRIDGE BETWEEN US AND GOD AND HIS BLOOD COVERS OUR SIN IREST IN THATASSURANCE AND RELY ON HIS MERCY AND ENDURING LOVE WHICH IS EVERLASTING AND NEVER FAILS .MY LOVE TO YOUR FAMILY ANN BUSH 419 348 9652

March 12, 2017

Thank you for sharing this letter from Stephanie. Addiction is a terrible thing that effects so many of our children these days. My prayers go out to you and your family and pray that Stephanie is at peace. Hopefully what she wrote will help others as well.

March 12, 2017

My heart breaks for you as I too lost a son to addiction. It has been 1 and half years. To say it gets easier, would be a lie. Because it doesn’t. I have learned to focus on my grandchildren and others. We are still learning to cope and to laugh at the good memories. My prayers are with you. Only He can comfort you like no one else. Maxine

March 12, 2017

Thank you Stephanie you answered so many questions I’ve carried and wondered for 47 years. My Papa passed 23-Feb-17 he used heroin 46 years of my life. He was the best Father a girl would want. I am who I am because of his awesomeness. Growing up in the projects all that surronded us was heroin, dysfunction, addiction & love. You were magical through adulthood but I been waiting for all my life. Stephanie answered those through her sharing for that I will be eternally greatful for. 
Daughter of Ines Rios ?

March 12, 2017

I am so sorry for you loss.I wish all who are struggling with an addiction could see the future and the grief they leave behind for all that loved them to endure after they are gone. May Jesus watch over your Beautiful Daughter Stephanie,  and give you the strength you will need at this time in your lifes.❤❤?

March 12, 2017

God bless your family.

March 12, 2017

My daughter isn’t a mother, but the pain of a drug taking over my daughter is Real! I pray I never get this phone call! My daughter is in jail currently. ( 6months) she may get another year. My heart breaks for this family! I send all my prayers to you for healing! God Bless ?

March 12, 2017

Peace be with young Stephanie and her family.  Addiction is just that, addiction; she could not help herself; it appears as though she tried.  Perhaps, she will be the angel of guidance that he daughter and love ones will need.  I hope and pray she is.  May she rest in peace knowing that she did what she could; trying our best is all, we mortals, can do.  It’s God who comforts us.  Blessings. ~Petey Browder, PA girl now in Virgina 

March 12, 2017

May God Bless this family. I’m so sorry! Cinderella 

March 12, 2017

Addiction is a horrible thing for everyone close it can destroy a family this woman’s fight is over but with some luck love and strength a family can move forward it’s what has to happen so sorry for your loss I don’t know your family but I wish you the best. RG

March 12, 2017

To the Evanko Family from Mississippi Gulf Coast. Your daughter was beautiful.  As a parent I know the story of Stephanie’s life could have been a story from one of my children, however by the grace of God he “came to himself” and the Lord was waiting on him. Stephanie, as a Christian, could never go too far from The Lord that He did not love her.  This must be your comfort to go on with out her now and then too, that precious granddaughter you’ll be raising will be a comfort to you also. Hurt comes to every one of our homes; I don’t believe a single home gets through this life without heart-pain, yet God if always with His own.  I saw this posted on Face Book, read it and moved to jote a note. “May the Lord bless and keep you” all~~~~

March 12, 2017

Please know how very sorry I am for you loss and how grateful I am for this post.  This could have been me! Addiction has a terrible hold on this country and we must come together to prevent these tragedies from continuing.   Feel comfortable in the knowledge that your Daughters words WILL HELP “Another”.   She will have saved “Another”.

March 12, 2017

So sorry,  may she R.I.P.  Prayers for all 

March 12, 2017

Hello my name is Laura and I’m a mother of two, one 19 and the other 7. I’m a recovering drug addict but in the past year I have slipped and fell back into it, nowhere near as bad as I was but I know it dont take much. I have read your babies story and souly my heart goes out to y’all.  I pray all the time that drugs b deleted from our lives and peace fall upon all. I wish I guys all the best in your struggles to come !!!!!

March 12, 2017

I’m sooo sorry for your loss. I truly & sympathetically pray that this young lady’s family realizes that she has had to fight her entire life. I can only imagine how many times she, herself, has kicked her own a$$. May GOD have mercy on her soul.   Sincerest condolences, Sherry

March 12, 2017

So sad a beautiful woman
from Mary Obst

March 12, 2017

Reading this makes me believe she did try to get better, she didn’t want to be that way. The struggle is over and maybe she can rest in peace now. 
 

March 12, 2017

My heart aches for your family. THANK YOU for sharing this powerful message. GOD BELSS!
 

March 12, 2017

I have no words for you, but the LORD has many!!!  Matt 5:4  & 2 Cor1: 3-4 – promises of comfort; Ps 147:3 – He heals broken ♡s; ; Isaac 41:10 – strength; 1 These 4: 13-14 – hope; Rev 21:4 – HE will wipe away your tears; 1 Cory 15:52, 54 – you will see your precious daughter again. Love, in Christ, Joyce T.

March 12, 2017

May you be at peace now, fly high with the angels! I pray for your family to be able to have peace in their hearts, but I know you’ll be watching over them!
Lisa Cree, Warren, Ohio

March 12, 2017

So very sorry for your loss. As a parent and a daughter my heart breaks for you. May God hold you close to his heart and comfort you in Jesus name. 

March 12, 2017

I do not know your family but I read your daughter’s obituary on facebook and I am so heartbroken for you and your family. My son has custody of my 5 yr old granddaughter. Her mother is in prison for drugs. Every time I read a story like your daughters I sadly make a copy and put in a box I have that contains stories of beautiful young women and men who got with the wrong friends, the wrong boyfriend or girlfriend and found drugs. I pray your daughter’s story helps my granddaughter not to take that path. I thank you that though your hearts are breaking you are able to share your story to save others from such unbearable pain. God Bless You and hold you tightly in his arms.

March 12, 2017

My condolence to the entire Family. I didn’t know Stephanie personally but I’ve worked with her situation over and over again and her last words are an amazing inspiration for someone who made be able to be a bit stronger. That letter to the family from Stephanie took LOVE and GUTS. To the family I wish you the best and may GOD give you the strength and comfort during this difficult time. I’ll be praying for you all with much love in my heart. 

March 12, 2017

So very sorry for your loss. I have family members that struggle with drug addition. It is a horrible thing that grabs them and refuses to let them go. I continue to pray for all the additions people are going thru and their famlies that love them.  God is good.

March 12, 2017

SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. I LOST MY SON 2016 FROM DRUGS AS WELL.
 
 

March 12, 2017

 so srry for your loss prayers be with you all. 

March 12, 2017

She wrote her testimony lord Jesus guided her heart to write such great spelt young lady

March 12, 2017

A lot prayers to the family may she rest in peace  touch my heart  so sad. Amen

March 12, 2017

My heart pours out to you all.  May God rest Stephanie’s weary soul and bless you all in this time of mourning. 
Chuck Roach
Reidsville, NC

March 12, 2017

Prayers for comfort and peace.

March 12, 2017

I’m so sorry.when my daughter read this I hope it make her think about her drug life can come to any end my your daughter rest in peace.Maryann Wilson salt lake city Utah 

March 12, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss.  I pray for comfort and strength during these times and the many to come.   I also pray that her story touches many lives who are struggling with addictions, too.  Again, praying blessings for you. — Janet Baise

March 12, 2017

I’m so sorry to hear about your loss… My condolences go out to you and your family.  Losing someone is always hard thimg to handle in life just remember all the good times… It’s tragic when someone close to you dies. You have to take one day at a time. She is at a better place without feeling the pain of how the addiction took over a person’s life. She will be loved in this life and in the next… 

March 12, 2017

So sorry for your loss.. Prayers for peace… Thank you for sharing her personal story… It touched my heart.
Wynn Schell
 

March 12, 2017

Hi. I don’t know you but my thoughts and prayers are sent your way. I too have experienced lots of drug trauma and lost a son. My heart cries for you. Odessa
 
 
 

March 12, 2017

God bless Stephanie and her family. You are not alone. Jesus loved her. For whatever reason she left us too soon. She gifted us with her wonderful thoughts; thoughts for another to build on and perhaps the strength to be saved. She is at peace in Jesus’ loving arms around her.

March 12, 2017

Heartbreaking story…and there are so many more.  God take her into your hands and heal her pain as well as the pain of the family.

March 12, 2017

Addiction is an Insidious  and evil thing thank you for sharing her story.  May she rest in peace.  
 

March 12, 2017

I didnt have the pleasure of knowing Stephanie 
but her obituary made it to my FB. I read her letter and it 
broke my heart. I pray her parents and daughter can find 
some comfort in the Lord. 

March 12, 2017

Prayers go out to the family and the little Angel She left behind, may God watch over you and give you the strength you need to cope with your loss.

March 12, 2017

So sorry! Addiction is a sickness that destroys so many lovely people like your daughter.  Prayers for you all!

March 12, 2017

I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart and prayers go out to all of you, including your daugher whose life ended far to soon.

March 12, 2017

So very,very sad I will be praying for your family. Stephanie is now resting in Paradise. And please try to remember and never forget that her addiction is what made her do wrong and we shall all meet again when it is our time to cross over until then let’s all pray for one another and God Bless this family 
Deepest sympathies,
R.A.W.
LFD (St. Thomas US Virgin Islands)

March 12, 2017

Don Dean Rockingham NC. So sorry for your loss. Hope and pray that God’s peace, and comfort will surround you at this time.

March 12, 2017

So sorry for your loss, Unfortunately Stephanie is 1 in thousands. Take comfort in knowing maybe someone will benefit from her words.

March 12, 2017

To her family, please don’t be angry with her, she did the best she could. Addiction is a force that belongs to Satan, alone. Without healing from God above, I’d today, be with her in my grave. She may not be with you all anymore, but I guarantee you all, Jesus caught her, and she is ok now. It was the only way to escape Satan when she didn’t know how long and hard to pray. I pray peace for her little girl, and wisdom to the whole world, don’t hit it the first time, it is evil, it is strong, and now, bless her heart, she is gone. RIP Baby girl to the family, remember the good times before the first hit!

March 12, 2017

I am an addict.  I am your daughter……or I was 30 years ago.  By Gods Grace, I found that elusive high, by saying goodbye to my best friend.  My only friend.  My lover.  For over 30 yesrs , one day at a time, it has not interfered with where I go, whom I talk to, what I do nor cost me a single penny. May your daughters soul rest in peace.  It is not the parent’s fault, it is a disease.  May you please explain to your granddaughter that a disease killed her mother, the disease of addiction.  

March 12, 2017

Prayers lifted❤..May the angels wrap their wings around you and hold you tight during this sad and difficult time. Find peace in knowing Stephanie was greeted by a choir of angels and loved ones. Her memory here is eternal❤………Julie Dunn-Michigan?

March 12, 2017

We are so sorry for your loss . We pray you are able to find some comfort . Just no she’s not a addict anymore . No more.  She’s resting in Jesus arms till you see her again ?            Gene & Polly Petty 

March 12, 2017

My son Roger died at 20 from a drug overdose 7 years ago. He thought he could get away with using the drugs-that it was a game he would never lose. He was loved by me and his family, and had every opportunity to suceed if that was what he chose. But he didn’t and he died, leaving us with a void that will never be filled. What I can do is be the best Mom amd Grandmother and share the memories of Roger’s love for family, nature, and laughter with those who are still here. 

March 12, 2017

Thoughts and prayer for her daughter and her family.RIP Stephanie.Addiction is evil and causes so much pain for them and their families.I pray god can ease their pain.

March 12, 2017

I’m so sorry for your lose. I’m struggling with addiction and it is so hard everything she said is so true and real. It broke my heart reading this cause I have 3 boys and I don’t want them to have to go through the same thing. RIP baby girl the struggle is over

March 12, 2017

So heartbreaking to hear of this young mothers death. Our family will be praying for yours. We also have a daughter who’s struggling while grandma and grandpa take care of her five children. Have faith in the Lord! He will get you through!

March 12, 2017

God has your Angel in his arms, Her Soul is finally at peace. I truly believe this. Sounds like she had a strong faith in God so you can rest assured her demons are gone now. I’m sorry for your loss, KEEP your faith strong & Remember Stephenie will Always be with you. God Bless You & Your Family & give you the Strength to get through this difficult time.. Nancy.

March 12, 2017

So so. Sorry for your loss I can’t imagine how you feel some of it I do my son was on drugs bad every kind you can think of then one day he hit bottom and got clean but I ask myself what did I do wrong but then I realize it wasn’t me.All I can say or do for you is to pray and I am so every sorry for none of this is y’all fought.
 

March 12, 2017

my sincerest condolences to the family for the loss of their daughter. I know the heartbreak as I am currently in the same situation, raising a little girl whose father died from a drug overdose 2 weeks ago today. In the span of a year and a half, this child has lost both her parents to heroin. I would urge anyone out there struggling to seek help with every ounce of your being. There are people who care and are willing to help you, just please reach out. I sincerely pray that the parents are able to find some comfort in their grief and may their granddaughter live a long happy life not defined by drug addiction and the legacy it leaves the children. Prayers and peace to the family.

March 12, 2017

Such a tragedy. All our hearts are with you in this tough time. Keep raising awareness in her memory 

March 12, 2017

I cry for your loss.  I thank you for your truth. My son also an addict. I pray for strength and healing, most of all courage for her all of you raising her daughter. 
Tammy

March 12, 2017

Don’t know your daughter but ran across this on facebook. Her word’s touched me I know the pain she was as my nephew passed May 25th 2013 from heroin . God bless your family 

March 12, 2017

May God take your Daughter in his arms and keep your Family at Peace.
My sincere Condolences,
Linda S. Hansen

March 12, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss!  I hope this reaches someone that struggles as Stephanie did before it is to late for them.
Donna

March 12, 2017

May she now find her answers, with the Lord. For she will now be able to guide her daughter, through our Lord, to understand the disease of addiction. Rest in Peace Angel.                                Debbie Robins 

March 12, 2017

Evanko family, I am so sorry to hear about Steph. I will always picture her as my friend in middle school, making everyone laugh and being so fun to be with. I pray that she is at peace now at the feet of God and pain free. Thank you for sharing her struggles.  Praying for strength for your family and Savannah.

March 12, 2017

This literally brought me to tears. Thank you for having the courage to include this in her obituary. I cannot express how I feel for the family but I can say I understand the physical hell she endured as well. I am glad to know she was a.Christian and this terrible disease can no longer torment her. God bless the family.

March 12, 2017

I FEEL SORRY FOR THE CHILD THAT  NOW HAVE TO LIVE WITHOUT HER MOTHER CAUSE OF THE CARELESS DECISION SHE CHOSE TO MAKE. SO SAD!!!!! SMH!!!! 

March 12, 2017

 May God wrap his arms around her daughter and parents .For the question u ask why how come can not be answered..God will comfort u..Just let him hold.anen in Jesus name

March 12, 2017

Thank you for sharing your daughter’s struggle in her own words.  I hope youare able to find some peace in this time of loss.  Addiction is so difficult to watch in our children.  We pray and hope for them everyday but also in the back of our minds is the fear of losing them to this horrible disease.  May you find comfort in the arms of friends and family.  May you raise her daughter in love!  I am so sorry for your loss and thank you for sharing with everyone.  Jean

March 12, 2017

So sorry for your lost God bless you all

March 12, 2017

Jesus i beg for the mercy of this family
 

March 12, 2017

I pray for you all….I have a very close family member and thier close friend who struggles and knowof a few deaths one is of a kid i have had babysat when a child….I pray for them and thier family….I fear of a loss everyday but thank God they are still here…bhut the fear is there…I’m very sorry for your loss . We all need to pray for those who struggle pray and tell Satan to leave these lives alone and the Holy spirit to enter thier hearts to give strength to fight this evil wrong…to not control their lives….to have strength to fight….in your name Lord I pray…Amen

March 12, 2017

So very sorry for your loss. May she Rest In Peace with her Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.

March 12, 2017

May the peace and comfort of God’s love be with each and every person that has been touched by this story. Others will benefit from this posting, and, God’s will be done. We need not mourn for Stephanie, for she is safe in the arms of Jesus. Let us turn our emotions into being ambassadors of even the slightest, for all those suffering from addiction and their loved ones.
Tennessee

March 12, 2017

Sorry for your lost. God give this family some peace and understanding in the days coming.  Marva Blake Lancaster 

March 12, 2017

My heart breaks for your loss! Sending prayers and love to heal your family! Christine Hiner 

March 12, 2017

God please take this family in you loving arms and heal their hurt and aching hearts.God please let them feel your love and presence in these days to come…Let them remember the good times and put the hurt behind them so they can move forward in love…Amen 

March 12, 2017

This is so heart wrenching, as I read the words of your babygirl, Stephanie..first I want to say thanx u 4 sharing her poem, I saying this through many tears…as the tears run down my face, I can not imagine the pain your whole family has had to bear over the years…I have been to way tooo many funerals of my boys friends, leaving behind a piece of my heart every time… I am dying inside thinking he may be next…never leaves my mind..I am so, so, sorry for your loss.. rest in peace babygirl, I know that’s all u ever wanted, u are truly an Angel for sharing, what it’s like to have an addiction.. Dar Stearns….

March 12, 2017

My heart. Goes out to you.Prayers for comfort and strength.Addiction is a terrible thing

March 12, 2017

I’m so very sorry for your family’s loss. I just wanted to tell you I am planning on sharing Stephanie’s story with my oldest son, who is in lock up as I type. He and his wife both got in trouble for addiction. I’m praying for your family and thanking you for sharing. It may save more than one life and family. May God bless you on your lifelong journey of healing. ~Michelle Woodman~ of Fulton, Mo. 

March 12, 2017

I am so sorry this happened. I have a 30 yr old son who is an addict. I am waiting for that awful phone call. I pray that he will get well, but am terrified he won’t.. I am praying for you all.

March 12, 2017

Hello my name is Tammy Rosario I’m so sorry for. You loss I saw the obituary on fb and wanted you to no .That it was beautiful and so perfectly written she was a very special  person I can tell .Im going to pray for you all in your troubled times again so sorry Troy ny

March 12, 2017

My heart goes out to you.You definitely are not a failure and your struggle must have been difficult. I know you are now at peace and that is as it should be. Your daughter, Savannah, will remember you loved her………not to worry about that. I share with you my heart’s blessings and everlasting love. Rest and be at peace now; your struggle is over. Ammi Stars

March 12, 2017

Thank you for having the courage to be open and honest about your daughter’s deadly disease. It was no different than if she had died of cancer. I have witnessed my son struggle the same for 12 years. No one chooses to hurt their loved ones. Once the disease grips their neurons their brains are hijacked. I don’t know the answer but I know she is in the arms of an angel and truly at peace. God bless her and her family ..you are brave

March 11, 2017

?? so sorry. ????

March 11, 2017

Stephanie’s poem could have been written by my daughter who is currently traveling the very dark path of her addiction. I am sorry for your loss. 

March 11, 2017

God bless you and your family through the years to come! I did not know you Stephanie or your family, but I will pray continually for your daughter and them as you wished! An addiction is an addiction! Drugs are evil! Wishing you peace in heaven and continued love. Hoping you are an Angel of faith! 
Praying for your daughter, mother, father, sister and brother Law! May you always know she loved you and you DID everything you could! 
Faith, Hope, Love and Peace wished for you all!

March 11, 2017

Bless your family. Thank you for sharing such a personal message. I believe a lot of families have a “Stephanie ” too. I pray that God puts peace in your hearts

March 11, 2017

Please accept my sincere condolences from your loss.  I lost my oldest son to heroin 3 years ago and have to fight to see his son, my grandson as his mother is an addict and has taken him away to another state.  I grieve every day , I constantly wonder where I went wrong if I had helped him one more time would he still be alive.  All along I was just helping him stay on the drugs.  Be strong remember her everyday and love.

March 11, 2017

Dear Mom n Dad, 
May I say that my heart cries for you. As a mother of 2  adult children who struggle with addiction and mental illness, I share your pain and tell you it is not your fault. You loved your daughter deeply and suffer such loss, but you made sure she had the gift of eternal life, the best thing a parent could ever do. 
God bless you. 
Linda Bilunka 

March 11, 2017

So sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers 

March 11, 2017

My heart breaks for your loss of your beautiful daughter.. I have two daughters and I don’t think I could go on if I  lost either one.
your daughter got lost , our world is really hard and it’s getting harder. You were good parents you still are. . Our children have been trapped in an era where their  senses are on overload day in and day out. Pressures of understanding ones self and not knowing how to do that leaves a hole inside  where  insecurities  grow and spread , to stop the spreading of these unnamed. Fears . They block them they numb themselves . My heart wishes that magically their fears were faced and their numbing was something that was never needed again.  
I do believe your daughter found peace and she will always be present in your lives.

March 11, 2017

Thank you for sharing, I am positive it has and will continue is to touch many. I know what you are going g through. I have gone through it as well. My thoughts and prayers  come to you your family and all who loved her.
 

March 11, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss. Praying for all of you. ????

March 11, 2017

These words are so heartfelt…. I am so sorry that we don’t know how to help someone who is fighting this disease… It is bigger than all of us? God Bless this family.. know she loved you all and her life was out of her  control… God speed??????

March 11, 2017

oh heavenly Father I come to you tonight and asking that you will wrap Stephanie in your loving arms and welcome her to your heavenly home. Touch her daughter Savannah’so dreams so that she grows up with no pain or anger but with the grace of God our Holly Father bring her peace and encouragement to use this to help herself and others. Give Stephanie’sfamily peace tonight and every day forward. Help them speed their beloved child’s store and use it to help others live with out this addiction. This I ask and pray in your Holly name: Amen

March 11, 2017

I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter. My husband had a long addiction with crack cocaine and pills. I never left him. He finally died at the age of 43 but from cancer. I know she loved her family more than anything. She can now watch everyone from Heaven as she is now free from addiction. God bless her and all of her family.
sincerely,Carol Worden Oregon,ohio

March 11, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss my condolences to you and your family;(sounds like she was a very smart young lady but was lost in the drug it’s just taking all kinds of ppl..This story has me in tears u hope it inspires others!!!R.I.P. Stephanie

March 11, 2017

I  am so sorry for your loss.  I will pray for your family to heal.  

March 11, 2017

thank you for sharing Stephanie’s poem….it will open many other hearts and minds to understanding the relentless torments of this disease.  She did not want to die, she wanted to live! I hava a 23 yr old daughter addicted for at least 5 years. Always strong and determined to live life to its fullest! and remembering her deep faith in God and the love of her family!  then it happens again. She is once again in rehab. I went to see her. I hugged her and gave her a kiss, and said this was what _I_ needed in case she doesn’t make it… May God comfort you as only He can do, even though the sorrow and loss is so great….   Margaret

March 11, 2017

I am soo very sorry. For you and your daughter, GOD take the pain away. Amen

March 11, 2017

May God be with you sweet girl. My heart breaks for your family  and  friends. Addiction is a very had thing to beat. God is good. 

March 11, 2017

REST IN PEACE….I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR STRUGGLES…. MARTA MIRELES

March 11, 2017

Thank you for sharing  your heartache and let others see the pain this addiction can cause so many to feel like they couldn’t stop it ! May God keep Savannah in his loving  arms of mercy ! jsais1 @nc. rr. com

March 11, 2017

SO SORRY OR YOUR LOST SHE IS GOD ARMS AND A ANIKNOW IT IS ON DRUGSGEL WATCHING OVER THE FAMILY.  I KNOW IT IS HARD WHEN A FAMILY MEMBER IS ON DRUGS. DO NOT FEEL GILTY . YOU DID WHAT YOU CAN DO . TAKE CARE OF HER BEAUTIFUL CHILD. MAY YOU REST IN PEACE ANGEL
 

March 11, 2017

I’m sorry for your loss! God takes us home for a reason! Prayers and thoughts to all of you! I pray that Stephanie is at peace now! Sometimes the addiction is just to much! If that’s the case? She has found her peace.?

March 11, 2017

Praying for this family!

March 11, 2017

I didn’t know your daughter or her family but I have a daughter who is an addict and just sobbed reading your daughter’s words and prayed for her family. I pray these words of hers will help others to fight addiction. God bless you all. So sorry for your loss.

March 11, 2017

Rest in peace. 

March 11, 2017

? So very sorry. I pray every day that this terrible drug problem can be overcome. ? Mary Fetsko, Greensburg, PA

March 11, 2017

I don’t know this young lady but this broke my heart. I lost a grandson to addition so I know what your struggles must have been. May Jesus wrap his arms around you now. I’m so sorry for your family and your little girl. God Speed

March 11, 2017

March11,2017
So sorry for your family in this time of sorrow. May God be with your family as they go down this long road.
Linda Long, Danville, Va 24540

March 11, 2017

So very sorry for your family in this time of sorrow. May God be with your family as they go down this long road . RIP

March 11, 2017

So sorry for your loss. May God help you thru this sad time and guide your steps as you move forward.
Alice Womack.
 

March 11, 2017

Wow, please understand how deep your words were to me as I’m sure they’ll go far and carry even further and encourages me to be the best, father, step father, friend, son ,brother ,uncle and husband I can. May GOD bless you and your family at this hard time in life and find   Peace in death Stephaine ???

March 11, 2017

So sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with the whole family. May God bless each of you one by one and give you peace and comfort as you go theough this saddened time. Marilyn Ware
 
 

March 11, 2017

My heart is breaking for you and family. Thank you for sharing this most personal obituary. I will share it as this could be any member of our family! By sharing this I hope we can reach out to someone who is experiencing addiction and get them help!

March 11, 2017

Dear Mechthild and Family:
we read of the loss of your beloved daughter and our hearts went out to you. We too lost our daughter to a heroin addiction;  she had been out of rehab for one week. Many mornings we still wake up thinking she is still with us and remember our loss all over again. Like Stephanie, our Julia was beautiful and kind and talented. May your heart grow lighter with time.
Tina and Michael

March 11, 2017

I am truly sorry for your loss. These words I read here could have been written by my beautiful daughter, now at peace in the arms if Jesus. My heart aches for you today and in the days to come. Share the beautiful and precious memories with your granddaughter as I do with mine. May you find comfort knowing your baby girl no longer fights the demonsi of this horrible disease but is finally at peace, the peace she could not find herebon earth. 

March 11, 2017

So sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to the family and friends. My name is susan

March 11, 2017

So sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to the family and friends. 

March 11, 2017

So sorry for your loss. May God be with youand comfort you and yours, through this horrible greving ftime.
Yvonne McEwen, St James, Mo 

March 11, 2017

Thoughts and prayers go out to your entire family. 

March 11, 2017

When will the public realize that addictions are a diease???  There is not enough places for help!
 
 

March 11, 2017

my daughter was murdered by her boyfriend who was on drugs, then he killed himself.  I know your pain and sorrow.  Please take comfort in your granddaughter, to whom she left with you.  You never get over the lost you only learn to live with the pain and the loss.  all my prayers are for you and your famiy.

March 11, 2017

My name is Pat I have never taken drugs so I can’t relate to that May you be at peace & may God heal your troubled soul.May you fly high with the Angels & may they sing ? you the most beautiful song you have ever listened too.

March 11, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss, may God bless your family

March 11, 2017

 My heart hurts for the people who will miss Stephanie.  Posting her letter is a very brave and selfless act that will touch millions (hopefully) of people and God will use it to start the healing in many souls.  Thank you for sharing Stephanie’s thought.  God’s peace and love for you all.
Tammy Campbell 
Ennis, MT

March 11, 2017

Im sooooo sorry for your loss!!! It is,heartbreaking .
I’m sending prayers & hugs to you all.
As I sat here reading her words. ..I cry for the brokenness she felt.
I cry for her…her daughter…her family & I cry for my husband!!
You see …we lost him 8 mn ago to the same battle & as I read her words I remember seeing that brokenness & those thoughts in his eyes for so long. 
I pray for healing for your family…it takes alot of tears…but it will come in time. 
As a stranger I’m sending you my love in hopes you know you are not alone in your struggles & feelings….Dawn
 

March 11, 2017

Thankyou for having the courage to publicize this insane disease, addiction. So many families will understand this and mourn for you..The addicts hell is real. They don’t want to live that way. Addiction is an ugly illness and takes the whole family down too. I’m very sorry she suffered so. God bless. 
Kathy Anderson  Milwaukee, WI

March 11, 2017

May she rest in  peace … horrible addiction . So sad ..so sorry for your loss

March 11, 2017

So sorry for your pain & so grateful for your courage in sharing this. I can’t say what’s in my heart because the tears keep blurring my vision. Just know that you are loved by a least one stranger who will be praying for all who loved your precious child.  Audrey in Greenville SC. 

March 11, 2017

Rest in peace Stephanie, along with all the others before you who could not overcome this hellish disease. Your long struggle is over now.

March 11, 2017

So very sorry for your loss Steve thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family

March 11, 2017

My heart just breaks for this Family. There’s so many awful things happening to our children but this has to be unconsolable,Praying for you all.????  Love the Lemans

March 11, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. I knew Stephanie through her working at Moe’s Auto Repair. I knew she was stuggling and having a tough time from our conversations there but not that it was herion. I pray for your family, for Savannah(whom she talked about often) and for Stephanie. God bless you all! 

March 11, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. Hopefully, this will be read by so many who need to hear these words. God will bless through your loss. His love is more pwerful than any evil

March 11, 2017

I was reading your daughter’s obituary with great sadness. But I am here to assure you, she is now healed and well, sitting at the right hand of God. I place people in Christian Addiction Center’s,, not only does the addict have to be headed, but the families as well. I am praying God will open up door’s, where you can help other addict’s, in loving memory of your daughter. My heart is torn for your family, but I also thank Jesus Jesus for your daughter’s Healing is complete. My richest Healing blessings are with your family. Please feel free to message me if you need an outside shoulder to lean on. God bless all!

March 11, 2017

So sorry prayers for your family

March 11, 2017

I am soooo sorry for your loss. I don’t know your family and didn’t even know your daughter ….. yet I did. I suffered from a deep addiction problem. It took me 25 years to overcome. I, like your daughter struggled with addiction to mask things that hurt my heart, scared me, couldn’t face, the hurt i was causing and the life i couldn’t cope with. I blamed all of those things on othets and let them fuel my addiction to opiates. But by the grace of God have been able to come out the other side. I’m one of the lucky ones. When i came around and got some clarity, i realized that my addiction had nothing to do with my family or friends. Maybe one day your daughter would realize that. Or maybe she wouldn’t have. But the important thing is that YOU REALIZE that. Don’t spend your days angry at her or yourself. Don’t spend count less night’s pondering all you should have or could have done. Dont use every breath to try and make up for what you may have missed with Stephanie through her daughter. Love her daughter by meeting the needs specifically of hers with what you can now at this time in your life. 
I can’t imagine as a parent how you are feeling at this time. I am deeply deeply sorry for your loss. For the loss your granddaughter will experience. Hopefully she will be able to learn from and find peace with one day. 
I may be rambling but know that when i read what your daughter had written it was like reading pages from my own life. It filled my heart with empathy as well as sympathy.  My prayers are with you and your family. 

March 11, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss! Thank you for having the courage to share your daughters addiction in hopesit will help others, my son is an addict and I pray every single day for God to help him. My biggest fear is that he will die from an overdose. God Bless you and your family.

March 11, 2017

So sorry this life was too hard for Stephanie….addiction kills the will power, it kills the talents and potential , it kills ambition. ….I do not bieve it kills love. ..it just numbs the soul…I  believe the love for others is the reason for some intentionally  taking that overdose.  They can’t bear the hurt they inflict on those they love…..God bless you all and don’t let guilt overtake you. Addiction killed Stephanie, ,,,not  mistakes of her family. ..  Beth H. Boyd. 

March 11, 2017

My thought and prayers are with you all may god help you all through this pain. I wish there was a way we could. Put her words that she has wrote or who did write it. Just wish we could put it out there for other to read. Yes I am a mother that is so afraid Im going to be going through something as you are know. I pray every day I don’t get that knock on my door. So if you could please take her words an put them out there for other ppl to read god bless your family 

March 11, 2017

So sorry for your loss we have laid to rest a lot of my friends children this past year because of these awful drugs,my granddaughter dad passed away the 4th of February because of them, I pray for comfort and peace for all of you,and know you aren’t alone in this my heart breaks for you sincerely Betty Monroe Maryville Tenn.

March 11, 2017

So sorry for your loss drug addiction is awful I watch a few family members battle the same monster I hope you don’t mind I share this with them. I pray they see the light before it takes the light from them.

March 11, 2017

 So terribly sorry for your loss. Your daughter’s words touched the deepest part of me. May your faith, whatever it may be, comfort and give you strength. Peace and love to your family. ♡ 

March 11, 2017

Thank you for sharing this very moving tribute to a troubled soul.Hugs and sincere sympathy.We all have people in our lives that can relate to ths,again thank you <3 Kathy Dunn

March 11, 2017

I’m so sorry for the loss of your loved one! May she be able yo rest in peace now. She is with God and He will keep her close.He will also be her families peace.

March 11, 2017

Wow. What an inspirational letter! There are no words to describe the hurt she suffered and her family. Prayers for the whole family. Addiction is so powerful. She wanted to quit so much but couldn’t. It’s so disheartening to read her story. Life cannot prepare you to bury your child. She will always be the little girl you remembered. God bless 

March 11, 2017

To Savannah, when you get older maybe your grandparents will let you read this. First and foremost, Your Mommy loved you with all her heart. Don’t let anyone tell you different. Her illness was bigger than her and she’s not the only Mommy to die because of this illness. Again, remember she loved you very much. When your older and you get angry because she left you, it’s okay to be mad at her. It’s okay to not understand why she did what she did, but more than anything else, Remember, Your Mommy Loved You.

March 11, 2017

My mother died from drugs when I was only 11 I’m 26 now and I still wonder why I wasn’t enough. Having dealt with addiction myself i know what she went through. I’m so sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing this with the world. I’ll remember your family in my prayers. RIP Stephanie 

March 11, 2017

So very sorry for your loss. Addiction is such a horrible disease. I pray for God to provide strength for you, the family and friends. You, who have suffered as a loved one of to the person inflicted by the disease and lost someone you loved deeply. 

March 11, 2017

My prayers  go out to you and your family . For me— this was what I needed to read today . My son relapsed last night – he is staying with us – anyways – I will show him this message from your loved one …I pray he will try again to help himself to survive … I will never give up , and I know you didn’t either . God will carry you now for as long as you need Him too .   His love will amaze you as you feel Gods  literal power and grace — My prayers are with you . Thanks for posting this … ❤??

March 11, 2017

So sorry for your loss may she have peace in Jesus Christ our Savior. ??

March 11, 2017

I don’t know her.  But once I felt her pain.  I too was an addict.  Addicted to meth.  I am a strong person and got myself to stop.  15 yrs clean.  I know her struggle.  Now my youngest daughter is addicted to meth.  In and out of prison.  There now.  I pray daily she will stop.  Been raising her 3 kids for the last 12 yrs. Off and all.  May your daughter feel peace in heaven knowing there was others like her.  Good Bless you and your family.

March 11, 2017

Struggling with addiction takes over their minds but God still has their hearts❤We also lost our 23 year old son 2 weeks ago to addiction. The grief is unbearable the pain is sever it’s hard to put one foot in front of the other. It’s hard to even breath with the crushing pain in our hearts. We seek comfort but it hasn’t come yet. Our prayers to your family. ??????
 

March 11, 2017

God give you all peace and her daughter only love and happiness

March 11, 2017

It is sometimes hard to recognize that everyone is trying the best that they can.  The mysteries of why one person acts one way in a situation and another persons acts another way in the same situation are too deep for any of us to fully understand.  I did not know Stephanie but I have been deeply touched by her words and I am grateful for them.  May all beings have peace.
Noel Heitmann, Lancaster

March 11, 2017

So sorry for your loss. She wrote something very well written and on point. Hope she can find peace

March 11, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. I to know the heartbreak you feel as I suffered the same loss with a family member, he had a daughter he left behind as well.  I pay that Stephanie has found peace that she was unable to find on this earth.  Prayers to each if you.

March 11, 2017

I am deeply sorry for your loss …i read this an tears still fall …i too have a son battling this problem an he also has a daughter who is still young an needs her dad very much …This devil drug has consumed so many ppls lives an i just still prsy everyday for some interpeace within my son an so many others an for them to realuze they dont need this to live ..again i am so sorry for your loss she looked like a beautiful lady ..i will keep u in my prayers an hope god will give u strength an courage an wrap his arms around rhst precious little girl ..god bless you all 

March 11, 2017

                      RIP LOVE

March 11, 2017

So very sorry for your loss.so many of us have family members that are going through addiction problems.just like Stephanie they aren’t bad people they just weren’t strong enough to fight their weakness.
 

March 11, 2017

May God surround her daughter, her family and friends with the arms of the comforter, help them find peace and get through each day with love for each other and her baby girl. I can’t imagine losing a child. I pray you know that although she suffered from addiction and you all suffered with her she loved each of you. She expressed guilt, sorry and pain in how she hurt those she loved. She may be gone now from the grasps of this earth but I believe she is the arms of our Lord watching over you all free from her addiction and no long bound to pain and suffering. May God be with each of you as you through your loss. I’m so very sorry.

March 11, 2017

my deepest sympathy to your loved ones especially your daughter may she always fill love and peace.
may you finally find the peace and love the addiction never promised you were loved will be missed and rest in peace
 

March 11, 2017

I am truly sorry for your loss! Drugs have claimed the lives of so many beautiful, loving people, Your daughter is with the Lord now and free from wwhateverwas troubling her. When I was in college one of the professors said that we would all know someone who would be addicted to drugs, I thought sure, I don’t think so….. But he was right! My son was addicted to drugs for many years through accepting the Lord as his savior and receiving salvation he was able to be free. I praise God for this.You are not alone. May God Grace you peace and strength during this time.

March 11, 2017

Im so so sorry for your loss. GOD Bless Stephanie and you all. Your daughters letter hit so close to my heart, see I lost my brother last year to addiction. He left 3 children behind. His pain was deep and there was nothing any of us could do or say to remove that pain. You all probably did everything you could for her I’m sure. But it was in GOD’S hands. My brother is in heaven as your daughter will be. He came to visit me and was healthy and pure. The pain hit even harder 12/30/2016 as I lost my mom too. She died thinking there was something she could have done to save him, but there wasnt. As I said it’s in GOD’S hands. Find peace and comfort knowing you did your very best, but her pain was to deep as my brothers was. Thank you.? for sharing her letter. Prayers for you all.

March 11, 2017

i am sorry for your loss and pray for comfort in the days to come
 God is with you  just take his hand
bonnie palomares  southern pines nc
 

March 11, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss.  My son goes thru a constant battle on a daily basis to stay clean and sober.  He has been clean and sober for almost 2 years, I pray everyday that God walks with him and halps him fight his demons and addiction.  

March 11, 2017

Such courage for the obituary you wrote along with Stephaniies’ poem.  Hopefully, it reaches one addict to get help & recover. Our many thoughts & prayers are with all of you. May you all be blessed with the added strength needed at this very difficult time. The last seventeen were very difficult as well. We do know that from experience; we too lost a daughter to addiction in 2014.
Gods Blessing, Barbara & Ed Krimmell

March 11, 2017

I Am Sorry for your loss God bless you it will take time one day at a time God will be with her she will be looking down at her daughter she is a angle

March 11, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss,, but maybe you can use her own words to reach out to torchered souls and just maybe, maybe, it might reach that person who could maybe survive???

March 11, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss.It is heart breaking what addiction does to a person along with their family.May she rest in peace.God bless you.

March 11, 2017

My prayers are with yall I lost my son at 17years old and it is so sad he die at 17 years old in march 15of 2005prayers for yall

March 11, 2017

This was on my FB page. I do not know your daughter but these words touched me to the very core. I lost my daughter to Heroin  OD 3 years ago, lost my Son 5 years ago. I have been raising my granddaughter for 8 years. She will be 10.
My heart goes out to the parents and Savannah! It’s a tough road. Put one foot in front of the other and remember to breathe!! 
God comfort you during g this time!

March 11, 2017

So sorry for your families loss of a loved one. I praise you for putting Stephanie’s letter out there hopefully reading her letter will help someone overcome their addiction. 

March 11, 2017

God bless your family, my thoughts and prayers. My heart aches for you.  I have three daughters on drugs and it is so hard on families and everyone.???♥️

March 11, 2017

Bless this family.

March 11, 2017

 It took enormous strength to share such a personal letter from your daughter. Know that it will touch so many and change many lives. Praying  for you and your family at this most difficult time. For her daughter who may not realize but God can heal and provide in times that seem full of despair.  Her future can be bright in the midst of this sorrow and praying for peace and a bright future for her. I’m praying for healing and peace for her 

March 11, 2017

I did not know your beautiful Stephanie, but I do know her message and I will share it for my family member to read…I am so very sorry for your senseless loss of this wonderful soul.

March 11, 2017

My wife Jackie and I both know exactlly how you feel and what you are going thru. We lost our son Dakota Knaub on Oct 15,2016 to the same Evil Demonic addiction gripping so many of this younger generation today. I agree with sharing our stories of who they were and pray that their story will help turn other addicts towards fighting and finding the help they need. My wife and I also shared Dakota’s story hoping to reach out to others. We pray and hope that by opening and sharing our stories that Not One More will lose their life to this evil addiction. If you want I can share his Eulogy with you. 
Mike Knaub
Mt Wolf, Pa

March 11, 2017

She is at peace now, I am so sorry she could not find it here but she is with her Father. My deepest sympathy, and PLEASE understand addiction is a disease. May God rest her soul
. Xoxo

March 11, 2017

You don’t know me,and I don’t know you., But my heart hurts for you all,.. Deeply sorry for your loss

March 11, 2017

I am so sorry for your precious loss.  Just remember no matter what her life was like, she left you with a beautiful gift, a granddaughter.  Your family was blessed with two angels, one in heaven and one on earth.  May god bless you during your time of loss and healing.

March 11, 2017

I will lift all in my prayers

March 11, 2017

so sorry for your loss r.i.p

March 11, 2017

May God bless your family and that dear baby girl. These words hurt deeply as I too have a son as an addict who is in rehab, however I pray every day he doesn’t relapse. I am so scared because he is so young. God help us all from this disease taking our babies. ♡

March 11, 2017

My niece is struggling with addiction to drugs while her mother raises her two precious little boys. She has been addicted since she was in her 20’s. I pray a lot that she will wake up from this and become the wonderful woman she was before this monster took over her life. I am so sorry for your loss. I will pass this on in hopes that it will inspire those who are addicted to drugs or alcohol that they will wake up and quit before it is too late.  Cyndi Beach

March 11, 2017

I’m so very sorry for your loss. Her letter proves that addicts aren’t bad people, but people hurting and needing help. Thank you for sharing. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. God Bless. Karla Fox, Lena Il

March 11, 2017

God bless. So sorry for your loss.
Lisa Breeze Fox

March 11, 2017

My prayers are with you all. May this story reach other addicts and show them that addiction will hurt more than just themselves. May the Lord comfort you all and hold you in his loving arms.

March 11, 2017

Dear Family,
It is with a face full of tears having read the obit, it is with profound understanding that I feel her struggle in life against the disease.  The disease not only destroys one life but, that of the entire family, it shows no mercy. The peace she struggled for is now everlasting and not of this earth. I am positive she is wrapped in the wings of angels and Gods grace, forever to have the eternal peace and happiness she so desperately struggled for.
I would offer the family that her life struggle and her letter will save others lives. Stephanie’s struggle was not in vain. There are people I have connections with that spend their entire lives helping people overcome this disease of addiction. I will share her story and letter with them, in turn, her story will reach untold numbers of others who are fighting the disease… making a difference of strength to overcome and saving lives. 
I offer the family my heartfelt understanding, love and prayers… on wings of angels
Wit’a tear in me eye… Daniel McGinn, Lancaster, pa

March 11, 2017

So sorry for your families loss may God bless and console you. 

March 11, 2017

This story breaks my heart. My 22 yr old daughter has the same addiction. Tried everything, all there is left anymore is prayer that God will do the healing. Prayers of peace and comfort to your family. 

March 11, 2017

I send my sincerest thoughts, prayers, love, & hugs to bring you some peace & comfort in the face of the loss of your beloved.  May Stephanie now rest in peace. You (Stephanie’s family ) have joined a group you never wanted to join, but there are many who share your grief. Stephanie, no doubt did no purposelyt join the group of the addicted. The courage shown in this honest, open sharing of her story–hopefully–will touch someone to not try addictive substances. They can change the brain so that the diseased brain takes control.  Blessings as you walk the grief journey.  My son passed to the other side of life 8/18/16, & it has been comforting to reflect on his spirit’s continuing to be present.
 

March 11, 2017

Sorry for your loss and God bless you and keep you in his arms.    Diane

March 11, 2017

Prayers to your family! As hard as it was to read I understand her pain and the pain of the family. I am a recovering alcoholic/addict with 26 months sober. I know that no matter how good I feel, my disease is always lurking..waiting. This is my 2 time sober. Right this minute I know life is worth living but there have been days I wondered. May God be with you, but know your daughter/mother/sister is finally at peace. Will you miss her? God yes but try to remember the person She was b4 addiction stole her away! Prayers

March 11, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss. So sorry for for another loss to this horrible disease. 
Nancy Fritz

March 11, 2017

Thank you for sharing the poem so publicly. We are fortunate to have grown children, nieces & nephews who resisted temptation and peer pressure, partly due to their uncle’s death while they were teens. The result of his long addiction and the impact it had on our family became his lasting gift to save our kids from the same suffering. May God bless those who loved Stephanie with peace, and may your generosity & her message touch other hurting hearts.

March 11, 2017

My heart and prayers are with you all , I’m so sorry for your loss of your beautiful daughter ,I pray for answers for the drug and alcohol struggles in our lives .Sincerely Tamara Davis 
         

March 11, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. That is heartbreaking ❤️   As a parent of an addict for 7 years, Unfortunately I believe that someday I will experience this heartbreak as well.
Drugs Addiction destroys lives, tears apart families and harms society. Addiction has a strong hold and won’t let go of our loved ones  It is a sad situation.
God Bless your family.
Linda and Paul – San Diego, Ca

March 11, 2017

May God hold you all in HIS loving arms during this difficult time. HE is the answer for peace and comfort. 
Your decision to share Stephanie’s story and her words showed courage and bravery. I pray that her message will touch many lives and that Miss Savannah will know that her momma loved her and that she is now dancing with Jesus! 
God Bless your Family, 
Kim Voigts, Hannibal, MO 

March 11, 2017

I’m sorry to hear about the loss of a loved one. I pray God heals all the wounds. As for me being a substance abuse counselor, I see the struggle people are fighting with everyday. The best help we can give our loved ones are prayers, communicate with them, and love them. I hear it all the time my family doesn’t really care about me or how I feel, but we all know we do. This poem should be spread around the world. I feel it could save a lot of lives. 
Tamika Joyner from Delaware

March 11, 2017

Sorry for your loss but there’s no sorrow heaven can’t heal

March 11, 2017

My heart goes out to your family. My daughter passed at 25 seven months ago. I’m raising her little girl. It comforts me to know she is at peace and no longer suffering to get ANOTHER. She left me the most precious gift of all, her daughter, whom she lives thru.  It’s hard. I miss her every single day.  Prayers and hugs to you and your family. 

March 11, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. Her life was well worth it leaving behind a beautiful daughter. I too am dealing with my daughter battling addiction currently in jail but when she’s out I want her to read what your daughter wrote. I am truly sorry for your loss this has always been my biggest fear may Stephanie rest in peace now. Prayers with your family at this time.

March 11, 2017

He has choose a strong!! ? for sure !! 
Her writing is beautiful! Thank you for sharing your beautiful story!! Sorry for your loss.. 

March 11, 2017

So sorry for your loss. But Thank you for sharing so truthfully about her passing. I’m in recovery and can completely relate to all the things she said. She’s no longer suffering but I can’t even imagine how much your family is hurting. I know it must be difficult sharing her story but you are sure to touch someone the way she touched my heart  who truly needs it and these words may save their life. This touched me more than anything ever has when it comes to addiction. Her words were so truthful and hit so close to home it brought me to tears. Thank you again. Erin

March 11, 2017

Thank you for sharing this.  It will touch many lives.  I am so sorry for your loss. Addictions are in most families and are hidden better in some.  We can’t carry shame, we must help everyone that we can.  When we see other families struggling, we can encourage them.  By sharing our stories, we can maybe prevent someone else from suffering the loss of their loved one. Our son died in a housefire….drunk and couldn’t help himself. His life would be wasted it we didn’t share his story.  He was a good person and I am sure your daughter was a good person. Keep sharing. 

March 11, 2017

I am so very sorry for your loss, I know your pain.  My son passed away from addiction and my heart has Never healed it was 2 days before his 33 birthday 4 years ago and I was the one who found him cold and not breathing. God will take care of our children and the good thing is we will see them again I’m so very sorry for your loss my prayers are with you. This is a Very Hard time,just know I love you and God loves you and your family and remember you little girl loved you too she just didn’t know how to deal with life. May God be with you in this time of need. 

March 11, 2017

My condolence to you and your family my deepest sympathies.My daughter also suffers from addiction and has been in and out of programs. She has struggled with her addiction 2006. The addiaction is a illness and it becomes a battle. I’m so so sorry for your loss and thank you for sharing. 
My sincere condolences God bless.
Angie Lopez
Visalia CA
 

March 11, 2017

My heart goes out to the family . And just wanted you to know it did touch my heart I’m so sorry. I hope when I pass this to my kids and in laws their hearts will also be touched.
Again I’m so sorry 
 

March 11, 2017

 Today we buried my nephew he died of a herion overdose..addiction is a horrible disease and I think it touches everyone in some way..and I think everyone knows of someone who is struggling..this girl I didn’t know but her words touched my very soul..I hope that her words carry voice to all suffering from addiction..God bless her family..and daughter..and soar with the Angels Stephanie…fly high..

March 11, 2017

As an individual who just recently lost a family member to addiction and also have other family members dealing with this horrible disease, I want to say just how sorry I am for the loss of your loved one! Thank you for sharing her letter in the obituary as I am going to make sure that I use it to hopefully help others make the choice to never start using or to seek help because this is truly a disease that steals life from all involved! God bless you and your family at this very difficult time!  
Michelle H
 

March 11, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. It is very brave of you and Stephanie to add the reason of her passing. I plan on showing this to my 18 yr old granddaughter just in case. We never know what they are really doing.
God Bless you all.  Debbie Goodwin, WV
 

March 11, 2017

PRAYERS TO THE FAMILY AND THIS DAUGHTER AS YOU GROW LOOK TOWARDS THE HILLS FROM WHICH COMES YOUR HELP REMEMBERING YOUR HELP COMES FROM THE LORD. 
 
 
 

March 11, 2017

I’m so very hurt by this news of another beautiful soul taken by the demons that were there addiction. I lost my son, unexpectantly, Dec 1st 2016 and my mother Jan1st 2016…may god have mercy on her soul and I pray for those babies and the family. 

March 11, 2017

Althought your loss is personal it’s also felt in the heart of many. So many of us feel your struggle, your hopeless, your anger, your soul gutting grief.  My son just found his father dead of an overdose. I know your hurt for your child and grandchild. It can’t be understood….the insanity, the waste of what could have been. No words are adequate, I just pray for you to find the strength day to day.
Carolyn F
 

March 11, 2017

I pray for your family’s struggle . I pray for the end of addiction . People are dying and that is permanent – we all need to love each other more -that is the answer . Mark Lee

March 11, 2017

So sorry for your loss! She was s beautiful girl!

March 11, 2017

I am so very sorry for your loss.
 
Carolina Rucks-AlSaedi

March 11, 2017

I’m sorry for the loss of your girl. I’m sorry for her daughter’s loss the most. May she be delighted  in the arms of GOD.

March 11, 2017

My heart brakes for the family even though I’ve never meet them. So many struggle with addiction these days I hope that this women’s life and story can help at least 1. 

March 11, 2017

I’m sorry for your loss I was a addict twenty years of my life God help me overcome drugs I messed up my life I got tired of being tired wish I could of been able to save her rest in peace

March 11, 2017

Sad sad , sorry for your  loss !

March 11, 2017

So very sorry for your loss and thank you for having the kindness to share this obituary with all. She has not died in vain…….prayers of love , strength and courage to you all.

March 11, 2017

So sorry for your loss…..

March 10, 2017

May God bless and comfort you at this tragic time…..Praying for you all….Carol

March 10, 2017

My condolences to the family. God keep them in Your prayers.

March 10, 2017

I can’t express the sadness. You are in our prayers, may your daughter rest in the peace of the Lord.
Dan Davidson
 

March 10, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss.  Her poem has me in tears because that could have just as easily been me and that could have been my children that didn’t have a mom anymore.  My heart breaks for her daughter. 

March 10, 2017

I sit in tears after reading about your loss, and knowing that so many are going through this today, as well as my husband and I both having lost family members to addiction and him having struggled through his own…Please know that you and yours are in our Prayers and we will share Stephanie to continue those Prayers!  Thank You for unselfishly sharing her letter and giving permission to share!  Share it we shall, in hopes that it touches others as much as it touched my husband and I tonight, and so many others as I see here, and prayerfully those that are in need of it so much!  Know that there are many of us out here that are passionate about doing whatever we can do to help this terrible epidemic, so that families like ours can stop being torn apart! ~God Bless you and your family!~
~Our Sincerest Sympathies~
Tracy & Donald Bunting
&
SCAPC Lewes Coastal Chapter
Sussex County Action & Prevention Coalition
Lewes, DE

March 10, 2017

Prayers for your healing pains I send. I know the addiction life. It is a hard life to be apart of.  Know that there are many of us in recovery from the disease Stephanie passed away from. We all mourn when someone looses the fight for a healthy life.
 

March 10, 2017

I lost my brother who decided to take his own life instead of the drug taking it.  I think he felt there was more dignity in that.  I also think, that he thought, that he was doing us all a favor and saw a window out and took it.  They think the pain ends, it doesn’t, it’s just left onto us.  I pray for her daughter and hope her demons are less than her moms.

March 10, 2017

OMG  Bless the family and wrap the love of gods army around you. I know your walk as I am very thankful after 10 years of praying and having faith that god spared my 2 boys from death many times. Regretfully a handful of their friends did not make it. They both are Her age and now finally living a sober life and I am trulely blessed that I and they have a 2nd chance in life as so many times i lifted my hands to god knowing they could never wake up the next day. The pure fear of life i lived with every choice they made..The war on drugs is an evil situation and a fight and battle not too many win because us and society really dont have an army to win the war on drugs only GOD can…I hope her story  touches as many lives as possible but strong family and friends support is a big chunk of it as they will fall many times and just one time they will get up and thier life will change… for some…with the love and support and forgiveness from the family……Its not them its the disease of the addiction.
 
Tamara Locicero

March 10, 2017

Thank you for sharing such a tender testimony. 

March 10, 2017

I didn’t know Stephanie but I had my own “Stephanie” in my life who struggled to stay clean. I hope by sharing your story it will help save just one person and their loved ones from heartache. May she rest in peace.

March 10, 2017

I have a loved one…I can only pray ??????????

March 10, 2017

So very sorry for your loss i live the nightmare of my daughter its been 13 years for her and i pray for help.God bless your family

March 10, 2017

I would like to start with saying I’m very sorry for your loss I can only imagine how you feel and also I would like to say how familiar your daughter’s words sound to me because I am an addict currently a recovering addict I have had 3 years clean this October and I could not express how much gratitude I have in my life today. I wish my story could reach others too before it’s too late. I will be praying for you and your family I pray that my higher power finds a way to help all the still sick and suffering addicts come across your daughter’s story I pray it brings them some peace and it saves there lives. I pray the addicts find the hope of sobriety that I was so greatfuly blessed with, please share with all of your friends it will help someone I promise even if it’s just one person because that one person could mean the world to someone just like your daughter meant to you. Thank you for sharing her kind words and God bless you and your family.

March 10, 2017

So sorry for your loss. I just lost my brother he was 33. He struggled for 13 years with addiction but sadly lost his battle along with many others.

March 10, 2017

I’m sorry for your loss!

March 10, 2017

The sheer volume of posts alone is a testament to the  impact your daughter has had. I pray for your family and want to let you know that as an addict who struggles daily, my heart aches knowing the struggle that she had within. I can’t imagine the strength you must have to be so open at such a difficult time.  I will say though,  I must agree…. if one person is saved; or begins their journey into recovery because  of this post/her letter… you can take solace that your loss was not in vein. I will continue to pray for your family and ask that if possible; you send a prayer my way… I will also use this as a reminder of what the reality of my disease and inspiration to choose to live each day drug free. Xoxo
-Tammy 

March 10, 2017

My condolences to you and your family during this heartbreaking time.  Despite all the problems Stephanie faced, she leaves behind a young daughter who will need to hear the POSITIVE things about her mother.  
 
Maryellen M     Kimball MI

March 10, 2017

may you be ar peace now 

March 10, 2017

So very sad and yet I thank you for sharing your heart wrenching story. My prayers are with your entire family and friends. My husband and I work with a drug rehab facility here in sc. We have seen this first hand and understand the need for more facilities all over our land. God is not deaf to your pain, and He alone will carry you through this tragedy. Cling to Him, and reach out to any help that is available to you. Del and Judy Ezell 

March 10, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss and hers. Being an addict is not a choice, if only we would start to treat as an illness:( again another young life snuffed I’m sorry her daughter will. Ever know what a wonderful child she probably was and her dreams that were snuffed because of addiction. May God watch over all of you♥️

March 10, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss. Thank you for being so honest in the obituary.  Sharing the details of your loss takes courage.  You’ve provided support for others to be honest about the addictions of others in similar situations.  My prayers to your family.  And prayers that your daughter has found peace. 
Denise 

March 10, 2017

I’m so sorry. Praise God for His endless forgiveness and her eternal freedom. I pray her daughter finds solace in the arms of Jesus, the only true healer and deliverer.

March 10, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you. I pray that you find comfort in knowing that your story will help just one person to overcome their demons. Fly high sweet angel. 

March 10, 2017

Stephanie sounds like a person that was hurting deeply and lost . To the family rember you im sure did all you could but when that monkey (drugs) gets ahold of you its impossible to shake .  But know Stephanie is not hurting or struggling any more she is at pease.  Its nothing you will ever get over but try and move forward for Stephanie s daughter and those left behind .  I’m truly sorry for your loss.

March 10, 2017

So so for your family loss , my prayer are with you all .

March 10, 2017

Such a sad moment for this family Dear Lord. Will you take away their pain and suffering. Keep her daughter close to your heart, for she will need you more each day. Amen
Sherri Eddington 

March 10, 2017

I’m sorry for your loss 

March 10, 2017

So sad and I am so sorry 
prayers for her family 
irma

March 10, 2017

So sorry for your loss. May God be with you and help all in their time of need

March 10, 2017

Prayers to your family and am sorry for your loss

March 10, 2017

May God guide u all through this travesty.  My heart aches for u. ??

March 10, 2017

I am sorry for your loss and I know first hand how it feels to have a child that suffers from addiction… I have 2 of them.  I commend you for being open and sharing this. May she Rest In Peace and God bless this family and help them to get through this.
Debby 

March 10, 2017

I am in tears at the beautiful words that are filled with love, strength, understanding and faith. Stephanie was an amazing person and a gift to her family. Through her passing may are love for her daughter stay alive and strong. I pray for her family peace and God’s love surrounds them. God bless you all. 

March 10, 2017

May Your faith God reassure you that one day he will wipe away all your tears and happiness essential and contentment will last forever…

March 10, 2017

Sorry for the family’s heartbreak 

March 10, 2017

I am so sorry  for this terrible  tragedy,  my heart breaks for your family.  May God heal the hurts and pain.  I ask that God gives His all surpassing peace.
Lynn Sheffield,  Blackshear,  GA 

March 10, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss I was once and addict been clean ten years now…  I can say your daughter has been gone for awhile now drugs takes you over I know … I lost my children because of drugs still don’t have a relationship with them … all I can say is I died on the inside the second that drug took a hold of me …. she is finally herself again with Jesus … I am really sorry she could not overcome the drug ….

March 10, 2017

So sorry for your loss. Her words touched my heart. I think just about all families are touched with this disease. Once again, my condolences to your family.

March 10, 2017

I am so very sorry for your loss.  Addiction is a powerful and evil thing for everyone, whether you are the addict or not. Please find comfort in knowing she is in the hands of God now, and will nevermore feel any pain.  
 

March 10, 2017

I don’t know your family, but I am so sorry for your loss. There are so many young people that are addicted to drugs and have the same feelings and regrets as your Daughter. I really wish she could have turned her life around. Sometimes they just feel so trapped and controlled by the drugs that they can’t stop. I will pray for all of you, and especially young Savannah. I hope someday you all find some peace.
Mary Liddiard
Naples, NY

March 10, 2017

So very sorry for the loss of the daughter, mother, sister, aunt, and person.  I pray for the family, for it will be hard, I know, but I only know about giving the person up to death, not about losing them to addiction.  Addiction is real and I am so sure she tried so hard.  My prayers to you all and God Bless All!
 

March 10, 2017

Prayers for the family. So sorry for you loss???

March 10, 2017

 I’m sorry to hear of your loss and  Stephanie’s fight with the devil. I  have lost too many as a result and know the pain  family and friends are suffering with. Condolences and my prayers for strength to move forward.  May God Bless you all and keep you safe. 

March 10, 2017

Very sorry for your loss! I myself suffers from addiction but am lucky enought to have 10 years or recovery. This young lady is in my thoughts tonight as well as her child and family!

March 10, 2017

So Sorry For Lost My Prays Goes Out To The Family God Bless  Betty Of Mount Airy Nc

March 10, 2017

I feel what your family is going through and sorry for  the loss of Stephanie.  Her letter hit home to me.  My granddaughter struggled with addiction since she was a young teenager and overdosed at 27 years old 6/2014.  When my granddaughter was in jail we always wrote to each other.  I received a few letters similar to the one Stephanie wrote.  I irvlives.  My heart goes out to your family.?would send letters telling her everything was going to be alright and that we were always there for her and help her fight this disease.  Yes she is missed, left an 11 month old daughter with her dad and also an 8 year old son who was adopted when he was 2 years old.  We can’t change what people are going through but be there as a family to help them fight for the

March 10, 2017

So sorry for your lost God Bless and prays are with you all

March 10, 2017

I am so very sorry for your loss. I too have family that struggle with addiction. Prayers for all.
Susan Marlow 

March 10, 2017

I am so very sorry for your liss…I too list my daughter way too soon, to a different battle..hoping to ease your pain jyst a little bit, and keeping you all close to my heart.

March 10, 2017

Im so damn sorry. ? . This disease sucks I hate drugs. Im sober only six months after trying for years I have lost to many friends.  My prayers for your family

March 10, 2017

 I am so sorry for your heartfelt loss! I have a neighbor right next-door to me who is facing the same challenges with her daughter that you must’ve faced with yours! I pray for her every day and hold my breath at the same time! May God bless you, your family and your granddaughter! I’m sure there are many others who will be with you in spirit and in thought!

March 10, 2017

I am sosorry for the loss of your wonderful daughter mother sister granddaughter. Addiction is very hard on the user and their family. Stephenie was fighting a terrible battle and It was very hard for her as it is with all addicts. THEY REALLY DON’T MEAN TO HURT ANYONE. Some people are so judgemental and the ones that are really know nothing about addiction. I want to tell you all that God loves us all and until we walk in their shoes we shouldn’t be so cruel. My prayers are with you and your family for your loss and may God help get you through this and jut try to remember all the love and good memories. GOD BLESS YOU ALL

March 10, 2017

Your loss is a story that rings in my heart because the story resembles my using family member who passed at 30 years old. God Bless all of us left behind to carry on a message of hope for help and support to those who choose to use. My prayers are with you all and Stephanie’s daughter, Savannah. May the memories of good times prevail.
Marcia Smalt

March 10, 2017

So sorry for your loss

March 10, 2017

Rest in God and may your experiences be positive influences on others battling the same demons. Bless you and your family, peace and courage.
 
Alice Lammonds 

March 10, 2017

We are so Sorry for the Loss of your precious daughter. 
Terry & Jeanna Nelson
Coshocton, Ohio

March 10, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. This is such a sad time to watch our loved ones dying from this terriable disease. The shame of it is we all have a family member or friend that we know is struggling each day. I will pray for you all and I hope she rest in peace. God bless you all

March 10, 2017

I am so so sorry for your loss. This disease just takes and takes until there is nothing left. It is so cunning and baffling that we believe we don’t have a disease- There are no words to help this pain. I have buried a Brother at 30 and watched my Son struggle every day to stay straight. We have one day at a time in this life. And your Daughter has touched mine – Thank you for sharing her Poetry and Thank you for being so truthfu. 

March 10, 2017

Special condolences to her family and daughter. Addiction is such a horrible thing to have to deal with.what most addicted don’t realize is that not only does it distroy Thier life but also the family and children that have to see it. God bless you all.
                                      Mrs. Cheryl Williams

March 10, 2017

Sitting on on lunch reading this story breaks my heart so sorry for your lose and many prayers for your family.

March 10, 2017

First of all, condolences to your family.  I do not know Stephanie personally but I understand how you and your family must be feelin.  My only brother past away this past October from an  addiction.  I commend you for speking out and sharing your daughters letter in hopes that it may actually help someone.  In may particular case it has been kept as a private family matter because my mother felt and still feels to ashamed to let the truth out. I feel so ridiculously stupid when people ask what happened and my response is it was a heart attack.  I am sure that my brother was addicted to pain killers then eventually moved on to other things.  I know he wasn’t ready to die but eventually it’s not going to be a choice as long as your not willing to save yourself.  I found him that morning on the floor trying to revive him even knowing it was to late.  The moral of the story is this happening far to much in all walks of life.  Again my deepest sympothy’s!  ohio Resident 

March 10, 2017

I too was/am an addict. I was one of the lucky ones and got help in time, but I still fight it everyday. I was in active addiction for 15 years, and her words are what I felt daily. If it was that simple to stop everyone would, but it’s not, and I’m sure she loved her family with everything she had. Love has nothing to do with it. Addiction is awful and hard. Thank u for sharing her words, hopefully it can help at least 1 person

March 10, 2017

I have been down her road many times. I am a 3 time suicide survivor. I was so tired and heartbroken what I was doing to my family and friends. It was Satan saying go ahead they are so sick of you always lying,disappointing and go ahead die. She had a very serious DISEASE. I’m blessed today to wake up. Don’t judge her,she was so sick. My prayers are with your family.       Debbie Ness

March 10, 2017

I did not know your daughter.
However, I have struggled for 35 yrs with addiction and when I read this it touched me.
I wish you strength as you stand with your family and grandchildren and lay your daughter to rest. Take comfort in knowing her struggle is over. Her reason and lesson to be taught was for all of us who remain and have read about her struggle. You have been a brave family by publicly stating she died from her 17 year struggle with addiction. 
Thank you for your willingness to share your loss with us the general public. My respect to you the family.
The Hillman Family – Lewes Delaware 3/10/17

March 10, 2017

So sorry for your loss of a beautiful daughter. Even though she had many demons to fight she sounds like she had a wonderful heart. Keep her in your heart she will be there forever with you.                                               C Burdette 

March 10, 2017

I’m so very sorry for your families loss of this young life and all the potential that was all too soon taken from this world. I  want to thank you for your courage. All to often families find it so hard to speak of the reality of addiction which unfortunately is way too common. I’m not sure if there’s any family that’s life hasn’t been impacted by this horrific epidemic. 
May God bring you peace and comfort❤
peggy

March 10, 2017

So very sorry for your loss. Feb 26 was 7 years that we lost our son at age 20. He had mental illness as well, bipolar, smxoety, depression. I think that most addicts have an ubderlyomv mental health issue that doesn’t allow them to move past whatever that wall is. The only saving grace that we feel is that he is no longer in pain. As your daughter, our son just wanted to be normal without wanting the drugs to fix their pain. 

March 10, 2017

My heart aches for Stephanie, GOD BLESS you all! The guilt that accompanies SUD is real and by that measure she’s a saint. May you all be in heaven together again when the meaning of this will be revealed and heartache will be washed away. Her precious daughter needs you all be strong and know her death is not in vain, that her baby should be taught this that her mother carried her cross for her.

March 10, 2017

My condolences to your family. And I am so sorry  another beautiful life has been taken by the garbage that  is leaving families in turmoil.My prayers are with you. I will share this  because so many are struggling right now just as your precious baby had for so long. God be with each of you.

March 10, 2017

I’m sooo sorry for your loss. My son is battling alcoholism. It’s been bout ten years he’s 27. With two babies  girl three an boy two. Wer raising the little girl. He sounds just like this message ur sweet daughter has said. I lost my baby sister five years ago to alcoholism. She was 37 w a thirteen years old little girl. We’re doing all we can to help him. We almost lost him three weeks ago but the prayers an by the grace of God gave him another chance. Yes wer Christians to. An we ask why to. But a week ago he had a relaspe. So we go to him an now he’s wanting help he’s afraid he’s going to die. So he’s going in n rehab. But we no it’ll be up to him. But y’all know all we as parents can do is love them an be ther for them an pray an pray an pray. But I’m sorry I’m throwing my problems on y’all. But your daughter’s story really touched my soul. And I will share her loss. An let m son read this. BT I’ll be praying for y’all. May God bless yall with strength an peace within. Denise Thompson 

March 10, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss ,I also list my only sister in 1989 after 15 years of abusing drugs and she also had a small child it’s a very sad story and I hope that she is in peace with God . God bless your family

March 10, 2017

Hi..my name is Cynthia. I am so sad for the loss of your beautiful daughter. No words can explain the deep pain in your heart and mind. I too,, 19 months ago lost my 33 year old daughter to addiction. Thank the Lord theyre in Heaven. We will see them again one sweet day. I will pray for yall and God be with you….love in Jesus name

March 10, 2017

I didn’t know Stephanie but your choice to publish her poem & story is courageous of you.  Her words spoke clearly of someone dealing with the grips of addiction.  Much love to your family & sorry for your family’s loss.
Christine Hall, Lancaster PA

March 10, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss, my daughter passed on Feb 1 after a 13 yr struggle, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time. 

March 10, 2017

I’m so sorry for ur loss my God Blessur family my God be with her daughter let her no her mom loves her with all her heart . God Bless

March 10, 2017

I’m so very sorry for your loss.  My daughter is also an addict.  Thank you for sharing your daughters story.  I pray for my daughter daily.  She’s in rehab now and I’m praying she gets better and can be a great mom to her son.   Spreading our stories will maybe help other parents.  God bless you

March 10, 2017

I am so Sorry for your loss. I am trying to get help, for my 19 yr old niece. She is addicted to Meth, and also has a baby.  I pray to God, she reads this, and maybe, just maybe, your loved ones death will, save her.

March 10, 2017

So very sorry for your loss. Most families seem to have someone or knows someone bound by the chains of addiction. Prayers for the family. 
Penny Drake
Muses Mills, KY

March 10, 2017

So very sorry for your loss. Most families seem to have someone or knows someone bound by the chains of addiction. Prayers for the family. 

March 10, 2017

To the family, friends, and addicts who didn’t know Stephanie.
I will be blessed to meet her in heaven, as the Lord forgives all sin as long as she believed that Jesus is her Savior. I say “is” because her soul is “still alive” and at peace in heaven. 
I don’t feel the need to discuss what she did, she was ashamed enough and her name now should be talked about in praise. Her good stuff. Not to be without realizing the consequences of bad choices that come along with addiction. 
Bless your family and I pray for your comfort.
Sarah McAlpin 

March 10, 2017

May you Rest In Peace!!

March 10, 2017

I am so very sorry for your loss. I didn’t know this young lady but my family has suffered from the loss of addiction as well. It is painful and difficult to explain to my children why their father is no longer here. I will be praying for God to ease your grief and to heal you all. God go with you and hold you in his arms to comfort and heal the pieces that are left in the path of this evil that is consuming our communities. ??????

March 10, 2017

I am so sorry for your lost.i pray that she in peace now.That your heart heals.

March 10, 2017

I am so very sorry for your loss. I admire you for posting this for all to see and if it makes just one drug addict see the light the purpose has been served! My thoughts and prayers are with you…GOD BLESS

March 10, 2017

Sending my condolence to all. Gob bless everyone 
 
Hartman and Miller Family 

March 10, 2017

I will be praying for you all so sorry for your loss.

March 10, 2017

We too feel your pain.  The parents of our only Grandaughter suffer with addiction. I will forward this to them because it touched me.  I am so very sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your intimate pain with those that still suffer. God be with you all. Tiffany Farnsworth SLC, UT.
 

March 10, 2017

So sorry for your loss. I pray others will see the letter she wrote and find a way out if thir addictions. Such a beautiful spirit to be in such pain. Rest in peace child and God comfort your family today and the days ahead. From  Betty Vogel

March 10, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss, I can’t imagine the heartache you are feeling..My daughter at 39 is one step away from death’s door and could be the author of this..If just she could find a way too stay with us…..but we have tried to prepare for that final call…but how do you?  May our Lord bless and keep you and your family through this horrible loss..it touches everyone’s heart.  Hugs to all of you…Faith and Trust in or God…       Jeanette Curry

March 10, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss. My thoughts an prayers go out to u an your family an her daughter. My heart breaks for u all. Your story touched my heart an I’m not an addict but I do often talk to people about how drugs .an someday I hope by me talking to them it will help. God bless u all. 

March 10, 2017

I personally knew Stephanie and she was such a beautiful soul. I hope now at least she is at peace, I know she tried so hard to recover. It breaks my heart to hear she is gone. She touched MANY people!

March 10, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss.  Thank you for sharing her story. Addiction has touched my family and I wish that you didn’t have to go through this pain.  As the days, weeks and months pass and you begin your new normal may the happy memories guide you through this difficult time. The love will never die and she will always be in your heart. My prayers are with you today and for the days ahead. Lori from Victoria British Columbia 

March 10, 2017

My heart goes out to your family. My sister took her life 5years ago after a life of addiction. She also left her daughter behind. My mom is still suffering and will forever from this traumatic event she still questions why, what could I have done, I should of been there. We all still want answers, it’s so hard almost impossible to except this reality. It kills me to see how this has hurt everyone so much in my family. ❤️ My heart crys for your family with open arms. My sincere condolences God bless.

Savannah Crane

March 10, 2017

I want to thank you for your honesty, to many times we see these young deaths covered up. I too have a young son that we fight for everyday to help him stay clean. May love and the good memories be your strenght that I fear may be in my future. Terry

March 10, 2017

so sorry, love to all of you, may God hold you in his arms
 

March 10, 2017

Prayers for the family all who r struggling with drugs GOD Bless!!!  Betty Keen

March 10, 2017

so heart broken. Every addict never wanted to be an addict. None said I want to try this  drug and lose everything. Jobs,homes,family,friends,children,wifes,husbands,dignity,faith,ECT… . please remember her light, laughter, her beauty, everything she was before evil took over. She was beautiful. The worst evil rose up and took control over her . she fought as hard as she could. She had love in her for everyone. God bless 

March 10, 2017

God bless you and your family and you are an angel now and maybe your message will save a lot of lives 
Jack Wodzinski 

March 10, 2017

God bless you all. I’m afraid that I too will eventually have to write my daughter’s obituary. I have very little hope that heroin addicts, like my daughter, ever successfully beat their addiction. Coincidently, my daughter has been an addict for 17 yrs as well. Your family will be in my prayers every day. Stephanie, I hope you finally have peace.

March 10, 2017

I to had a daughter that was an addict I feel your pain may God hold in his loving arms through your difficult time

March 10, 2017

Im truly so sorry for your loss.Her addiction is was a disease, its not that she didnt love yall all becsuse she did.The devil gets and targets alot of ppl with this addiction its really hard to beat and some of do.I pray for your peace as well as for her daughter.Itzs a battle but shes niw in Jesus arms.I pray fir her oeace as well i pray alot of ppl reads thus story.May Gid be with yall.

March 10, 2017

God took you home, so you would stop hurting and others would grow from you writings. Your at peace now, those left behind loved you.

March 10, 2017

My thoughts and prayers go out to her family. It is so hard losing someone to addiction. I lost a beautiful niece in 2012 to addiction, just four months after her father passed away from cancer. Sadly, she had been on drugs for many years. 
 
I hope and pray that Stephanie’s family will find peace over time. She is finally free of her demons.
 
Sincerely, 
Dolores Pearce
Macon, NC

March 10, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss, this is tragic. I do hope this will help someone else, prevent more loss. God give you peace. ❤️❌❌

March 10, 2017

All of us here at St. Peter’s Preschool send their heartfelt condolences to Savannah and her beautiful family. We remember how much love and attention surrounded Savannah and we know that will help heal all of you. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you.   Lorraine DiBernardo, Director, St. Peter’s Preschool

March 10, 2017

Stephanie’s poem did touch my heart. This is a subject that I’ve struggled with all my life. I come from a family that is infested with addiction and it is heartbreaking. It destroys all, and the sickness comes out in all ways. My heart goes out to Stephanie and her family, and her little girl. Break the cycle. Educate the little girl now. They’re never too young to educate. Bless your heart. 
Michelle

March 10, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss I understand, I have 2 grown children I’m dealing with,in the heroin world i pray everday that i wont get “that phone call” My prayers are with you and your family. God Bless. Wendy Acosta.

March 10, 2017

Thank you for sharing. Im sorry for your loss. I hope this helps otheres.

March 10, 2017

My condolences for the family and friends. R.I.P.

March 10, 2017

Four years later and her Message Lives On……
As hard as it was to make the decision to post her letter,
Think how many Peoples Lives You’ve (She’s) touched.
Praying for You ALL …. Don’t let those bad memories haunt you
Remember Her….
She is STILL Helping thru this letter. Xo

March 10, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. To think this is the norm nowadays. ? Addiction taking loved ones, children, parents, friends. This really hit home for me as I lost my mother of addiction when I was 17. The emotional toll loving an addict can do to someone is absolutely heart wrenching. 

March 10, 2017

im so sorry for your lose of your beautiful daughter and i would like to thank you for sharing. my family like your is exsperencing the pain of someone addiction  im help raising my grandaughter with her father  her mother has been battling addiction for many years my great niece lives with me hermother also addicted but trying hard to straighten out her life my sister candy who we fear will soon lose her battle that took her husband life  several years back  all we can do is to continue to pray for all addicts and theire families   my heart and prayers for your family 

March 10, 2017

I am zo sorry for your loss my thoughts and prayers are with your family. My older brother died from a heroin overdose 7 yeaes ago and the sad part is he was set to go into the symboxin program the next day but he wanted that last one. He left behind two kids his oldest is all over the place and has 4 kids that she isnt raising and his youngest is the complete opposite he is totaly in to his music. I love them both so much and try to tell them about thier dad before the drugs to over his life. My brother caused me alot of pain but in the same token always tried to have my back. If heroin hadnt ruined his life I woner how his life would have been. Anyways raising her babygirl will b hard but always tell her the truth about her momma cause in the end when she grows up and finds out the truth it will b so hard for her. Again god bless your family and i will continue to and ur family to my prayers. Heather b

March 10, 2017

I am so very sorry for the families and friends loss of such a talented person. Addiction is a lonely place. Bless her journey home.

March 10, 2017

I never met Stephanie, not sure how she us relate to my dearest friend Liz Burton. But Stephanie letter touch my heart.  I wish she felt God’s love and her family. May Stephanie daughter feels God’s love around her and also the family. They will move​ on. One day at time. I will keep the family in my prayers.

March 10, 2017

My heart is breaking for your family! I too lost a son after years of addiction; although a heart attack caused his death at 44, the alcohol was the true cause of his health failure. Please accept my condolences & admiration for your courage! 

March 10, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss. I want to thank you for sharing this with us. I have a great niece that is addicted to drugs and alcohol. She rides in box cars or trains from place to place. It breaks all of our hearts. Her father gave her a cell phone with a tracker just in case. God bless your family

March 10, 2017

Praying for each of you

March 10, 2017

I am so sorry for the loss to you all! Unfortunately her words rang loudly! Although my addiction didn’t take life from me but only through Gods grace was I spared! My addiction cost me much though! It took me to prison from my children and even made an addict of one, letting him spend 15 years in prison! I feel everything she feels daily even though I have been clean for twenty years. Daily I feel that I let my kids down and that feeling never leaves! I am so sorry for the loss of one taken by the monster called addiction!

March 10, 2017

It’s Killing Our Mothers Fathers,And Our GrAndparents Too!!! And Our Chrildren are Leaven Their Chrildren behind Just Too Wonder Why!!!Oh How Ill Pray That HERION Leaves OHIO One Day!!!! And Every Place ThAt It Is!!!! Because Everyone Has The Right To Live!!! Amen My Prayers to U  N Yours!!!!

March 10, 2017

Sorry for your loss and sending my condolences.I know what your going threw as a family and as a friend I have been threw this with a friend.So very sorry this has happened.This has touched my heart and hope it touches may that have these issues and reach out to those who can understand what they need.Love you and Thank you for sharing.
Lucretia Pulos

March 10, 2017

So sorry for your loss we’ve  lost love one’s as well to  adiction my family and I send our condolences and prayers and may God heal your heart in time.

March 10, 2017

So so sorry for ur loss. Prayers for you all  Be strong for each other .HUGS from Kay Adams. Erie pa

March 10, 2017

My sincere condolances, my prayers for you…may this tortured child now rest in peace
Mark Crossan

March 10, 2017

So sorry for you loss 

March 10, 2017

I am so happy that you said  what  happened  to her most family  don’t  her story  I am sure will help  another  addict maybe  a mother who is sturggerly with  this disease and  I am so sorry for your loss  I know how you are  feeling I have been  there to many times I am a addict myself  it’s  the  hardest  thing to do is to stay clean I take it 1 minute at a time I am clean  right  now but I don’t know for how long I wake up now and I thank God for  giving  me another day I will be 50 on March  15 and I have 3 years clean now and  before  that i was clean for 10 years but relapsed and was using for about 2 years  it’s by the  grace of God that I ended back in treatment  and not the latter God bless you and your family and I know this sounds  awful  right now but she is not chasing the next fix and she is not a addict in heaven no more  pain its a shame but there is no one to blame for this especially  you can’t  blame her.I am 100 percent  sure  she never  said  I  want to be a.drug addict someday  all my heart goes out to you       Kimberly  Menziff from  Wilkes Barre  area

March 10, 2017

I am so sorry for lose. My Hearst aches for her parents and child. My daughter too use to use drugs. But GOD saved her and her husband. They no longer use drugs or alcohol. So many people are using drugs. To point it is scary. Put your trust in GOD he will get you all through this….. You are in my prayers….

March 10, 2017

I didn’t actually know your daughter & sister but I have a “Stephanie” too.  She is now 42 and has strugled for 28 years. Down through the depths of hell but today, she’s clean.  Today. Today. Because tomorrow is a constant battle.  No matter how it appears, they really do try their best. The drug takes over their will, strength and logic but it isn’t them. Their heart & self was always there. She always loved you. Remember that always
Sue McCullough

March 10, 2017

So sorry for your loss, I am a mother of an addict, I feel your pain.  He was doing so well now back into the deep spiral of using again.  He will die if he doesn’t get some help. My heart breaks every single moment of every single day.  May God Bless you and comfort you in this time of need.

March 10, 2017

You don’t know me but my son also passed away after 17 years of drug abuse on August 28, 2012. He left behind 3 beautiful children. My heart aches for you and your family, I know how you feel. May God be with you in your time of sorrow.
Linda Stewart

March 10, 2017

Praying for peace and strength for your family!!  Your not alone this is such epidemic with very rare to c even one family not suffering addiction!

March 10, 2017

Rest in peace sweet girl,your suffering is now over, no more hurt no more pain. I pray that you are in the arms of Jesus !!!

March 10, 2017

So sorry for your loss and thank you for sharing your daughter’s words. God bless you and your family and especially her beautiful daughter

March 10, 2017

My deepest sorrow of the pain you are feeling and are going through envelopes my heart. I am dealing with the same, I have 3 granddaughters who would give anything to have their mommy back, and I, my first child, my baby girl back. My heart bleeds for your family in this horrible time in your lives. I pray to the Lord for him to wrap you all in his arms..to give you strength, to comfort and guide you, and to give you the ability to care for and raise your precious blessing from God.
My deepest sympathies to your entire family, 
                     Sincerely, 
                         Susan Rodriguez 
                Of Lynn, Indiana 

March 10, 2017

My prayers go out to you and her family, And like you I hope this reaches out to our addicts .We all have that member somewhere in our families, that we wish could get help.T Thank you so much!!!
Brenda Fowler

March 10, 2017

 So sorry know a little about how you feel,lost a daughter in-law  to drugs my step son is an addict.Trying to raise  their 15 & 16 yr old.Seems like it’s in every family now..

March 10, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss, Cathy from Port Huron

March 10, 2017

My heart aches for your loss. Thank you for allowing your horrendous tragedy to carry this message far and wide. Savannah’s Mom and your daughter lived you as best she could under the yoke of addiction. 

March 10, 2017

So very sad. Sending prayers to all of Stephanie’s loved ones. Especially her Parents and Daughter. May God be with your family through this difficult time. Rest in Peace Stephanie. My heart breaks for your family. 

March 10, 2017

Sorry for your loss . Bless her daughter. 

March 09, 2017

Her words touched me.  Wow.   Prayers for you and your family.
Renee H

March 09, 2017

SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOST ;**((( MAY JESUS BLESS AND HOLD YOU IN HIS’ LOVNG ARMS, AMEN
Sadly this letter left by a mother is to true for way to many- I have a niece who just lost her boyfriend of 7 yrs few weeks ago- they have  2 small children,  a two year old daughter and 5 month old dear baby boy, they are now left with NO Daddy their mommy along with G-parent’s will raise these dear children but, will never be 100% the same for them b/c their daddy is going forever! He loved them dearly but, guess not enough to get- help to stop this addict?  ;*((..  A dear friend lost her brother same way, Our G-son’s friend just died same way.. satan is busy kiling young people… JESUS HELP THESE FAMILIES TO HAVE TO DEAL WITH THESE DEATH’S- foolest death’s that should of never been-help others LORD JESUS get off this these drugs and away from the evils of this world, wake them up to have eyes to see and hearts to know God love them and their lives matter… Lift them Lord Jesus up in your lovong GRACE so they may follower after you and your love which will heal them.. AMEN
 

March 09, 2017

So very sorry for your loss.  Prayers for the family.  Raija

March 09, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss I have a niece that’s been on drugs in fact I know a few that have over dosed and I am so sorry for your loss may God give you strength and confunt I will keep your family in my prayers in Jesus name Amen

March 09, 2017

So sorry for your loss.  My son just had a remembrance for his high school friend who he lost 10 years ago to heroin addiction.  Be at peace knowing her struggles are now over and she is at peace in Gods forgiving arms.

March 09, 2017

My prayers loves and deepest sympathy to All! Much love Lisa

March 09, 2017

First I would like to give my condolences to the family. I am very sorry for your loss. Stay strong for each other and look forward to the beginning of the light.
I was once a drug user as well but as of October 4th, 2017 I will be 7 years clean. I’ve seen so many get entwined with drugs and not be able to shake it ending with the same outcome. Many many many friends have pass as a result to this horrible disease. One of my very best friends, basically a brother of mine passed away on my birthday last year. I have been working around my home town to bring the beautiful blooming flower of life back to our recovering addicts and to spread awareness. 
I hope you all know she loved you very much despite what she was doing. She loved her daughter and her life goal was to be an amazing mother but she couldn’t get the rope off. She and you will forever be In my prayers. 

March 09, 2017

Im so sorry im a recovering addict myself so i know how hard it is to get out i will pray for her family and god bless you all and aorry for losing your daughter 

March 09, 2017

Lost a great nephew in November from over dose great young man he left behind a 3-5 little girl. So sorry for your loss. Cathy

March 09, 2017

I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I’m an alcoholic with 18 years sobriety. Your mother did her best. A person cannot get off drugs(alcohol is liquid form of drugs) for any person.no matter the depth of love. I want you to please remember that it was not your fault. Your mother did the best that she could . a person is not an addict because they’re stupid. You can’t think your way out of it. Try to remember your mother was a good person who did bad things when she took drugs. I believe she is in God’s loving arms. You’ll be together when your time comes after a long beautiful life. Please don’t hate your mother . don’t let this destroy your life. You deserve to be happy. God lives you . I pray he helps ease your pain. God bless you. Karl Stuller.
 
 
 

March 09, 2017

I’m truely sorry for the loss of your beloved Stephanie. May she rest in peace in Jesus’ arms.
 

March 09, 2017

So sorry for your loss! Addiction is a horrible thing. I have lost friends and family members to drug addiction and have others who are going down that road now. It’s becoming more common than not. Prayers to your family as you go through this rough time and may God heal your wounds?

March 09, 2017

I’m really sorry for your loss, my daughter died at 42
From cancer due to a negligence because she was  
always looking for another…?

March 09, 2017

So sorry for your loss you all are in my thoughts and prayers.

March 09, 2017

So sorry for your loss sending Thoughts and Prayers to the family?? RIP Stephanie??

March 09, 2017

Big hugs and prayers for all the family! May God be with you always! 

March 09, 2017

Sorry for your lost my prayers are with  you all
 

March 09, 2017

How touching and how sad. May God Bless Stephanie’s family. I am so sorry, so very sorry.  Prayers. 

March 09, 2017

I don’t know you, but I’m do very sorry. My daughter is also a drug addict. I raised her daughter. My daughter is in prison ( again) she was clean 5 yrs then got in big trouble to fuel her drug habit. I have no words ….. reading your daughter ‘s letter described our life ,other than Nikki is safe in jail. May God give you all comfort at this time. .. Janet Horn 

March 09, 2017

My prayers go out to the family. I know what your going through. I lost my son a year ago to herion.

March 09, 2017

??? Waves of Love from Fort Lauderdale~~~ Mike Sand

March 09, 2017

So sorry for your loss and pain:(! Thoughts and prayers! Thank you for having the courage to share this! God bless you:)! Sincerely, Patrice Kwasniak

March 09, 2017

Praying for happy memories to comfort you during this time. Thank you for bravely sharing this during this difficult time. ❤

March 09, 2017

So sorry for your loss! Addiction is a desease that can affect so many innocent lives..My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.a As you struggle forward, may God provide the strength for your families to find peace.                     Jeffrey McLaughlin

March 09, 2017

Thank you for sharing this very honest poem. I am very sorry for your loss. I will keep Savannah in my prayers as well as your family May God Bless You All

March 09, 2017

So sorry for your loss! Addiction is a desease that can affect so many innocent lives..My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.a As you struggle forward, may God provide the strength for your families to find peace.  With Deepest sympathy.        Jeffrey McLaughlin

March 09, 2017

so sorry for your loss. pray her words will touch at least one person.  

March 09, 2017

I have lost 2 younger brothers to addiction and feel your pain. I have also had 2 sons suffering addiction but in recovery. I have always been terrified of losing one of them, I can’t imagine the numbness you are feeling. My prayers are with you all. Praying for safety and protection for your sweet granddaughter. 

March 09, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss and for all the others who are going through this same situation.  My step grandson and his girlfriend are on heroin and have been for years.  This relationship has produced six children, 11, 9, 6, 4, 2, and just born.  The youngest are living with his mother and the oldest with her father.  They are always on programs for drugs and the children go back and forth.  The children love their parents and want to be with them.  They are the victims but so are the parents to this new disease of addiction.  Please accept my condolences to the family and friends of this lovely woman. 
Ellen

March 09, 2017

You were’nt selfish, you loved your duaghter immensley I hope one day she will realize it, Drugs will take your soul,dignety and everything else, you made a mistake and forgot to love yourself it is then you could love others. But you are with God now who knew you trials and loves you despite of all your mistakes.

March 09, 2017

I am very sorry for the loss of your daughter. I lost a daughter in law because of this terrible disease and I strongly feel that I will soon lose my son in the near future to this demon. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this very difficult time. Your sweet daughter no longer is tormented by this evil demon and now rests in the arms of Jesus. God bless and I hope you find peace in your sweet memories of your daughter.

March 09, 2017

To watch someone you love destroy themselves is one of the hardest trials for a family. My heart breaks for you for your years of suffering and your loss. God bless you all.

March 09, 2017

My prayers are with you and your family,I have a son who also has been struggling with addiction and I know I can’t stop it.And, unless he does I am going to have to someday bury him and it hurts to think of that.God be with you.kim
 
 

March 09, 2017

My heart is with you all. I know your heartache and pray for comfort for you.  May God help you and bless you. 

March 09, 2017

So sorry for you loss may God comfort you and carry through Christ Jesus. As He has me with the loss of my daughter Autumn to addiction. 

March 09, 2017

So sorry for your lost, reading her letter was very touching and it showed that she loved all of you so much, Savannah you can be very proud her your mother because she had a very good Heart and it loved you so much. 
Cheryl Justus
Grundy, Va

March 09, 2017

My prayers are with your family. God comfort you now and forever. 
Nancy Snyder

March 09, 2017

This is so special. It’s truly touched my soul as I’m going on two years without my little sister who left four children behind. I feel so lost without her and the questions are overwhelming. Thank you.
C.Coats

March 09, 2017

Peace be with you and your family

March 09, 2017

Grant her eternal rest oh Lord let perpetual light shine on her and may all souls of the faithful departed through the mercy of God rest in peace. Amen  sincerely Edith Monroe

March 09, 2017

Thoughts and prayers for your family and the little girl who will grow up without her mother. She don’t have to know all the bad things share the good ones with her and let her know her mom loves her. Addiction is auch an ugly disease! Thoughts and prayers

March 09, 2017

So very sorry for the loss of this beautiful young women. Rest now and always know your family loves you.

March 09, 2017

This breaks my heart. May God wrap his arms around her family. RIP Stephaine…
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

March 09, 2017

It was sheer luck that my sister and I came across this obituary.  Steve, we are your cousins originally from Curwensville, Marybeth Evanko and Marica Evanko Nielson.  Our fathers were brothers.  Our hearts go out to you and your family during this time.  Her poem is so touching and it needed to be published.  You and your family are in our prayers.
Maybeth Evanko
Marcia Evanko Nielson

March 09, 2017

To the family you have my deepest sympathies. I can only imagine the pain and sadness that you are feeling. I pray that God will give you the strength and comfort to endure, time heals all pain. 

March 09, 2017

Many prayers to you and your family.  I pray her daughter learns from her mothers mistakes and stays away from drugs.   God give this family strength.  They’re gonna need it and you.   Amen

March 09, 2017

I am greatly saddened by your loss, and my heart goes out to you all.  I am a grateful recovering addict and I want to tell you that I thought of my family when I was away, I cried myself to sleep hundreds of times. Even in my illness when everyone thought I only cared about myself, I wanted so much to be with them, I thought of them night and day.  It was my own shame that kept me away. I felt like why keep trying…. I’ll just fail again.  I know that she’s at rest and in God’s loving arms, and I pray for all addicts still out there, that they will find peace and serenity in their lives, and for their families who suffer as well.  God bless you all.

March 09, 2017

I so sorry i know all to well what drugs will do to your life and the people around you. Be encouraged.

March 09, 2017

May God bless your family and help you find peace.❤
 

March 09, 2017

This is so heartbreaking. My heartfelt sympathy to all your family.  Praying for peace and comfort for you all as you raise that beautiful granddaughter Savannah.  My wish is everyone who is battling addiction to read Stephanie’s obituary and your article in the LNP 3/9/17 everyday!!  
Judy Henry

March 09, 2017

So sorry for your loss. Our daughter was on heroin she has been clean for 7 yrs now. Has a daughter 6 yrs old.and a great boyfriend who is good to her also. We pray for you and your family. My daughter was adopted from Korea but met up with a bad boyfriend who was on heroin also and abused her. This is a terrible addiction. Pray for all the affected families. We now help with make a wish organization it helps us  try to move on. We almost lost her. God bless you all.
 

March 09, 2017

Wow I’m lost for words. I’m heart broken for everyone you have left behind and didn’t think of what this would do all of them at this time. I really hope God forgives you and you can fine peace.

March 09, 2017

May you rest in peace sweet mama. I’m sorry this place could not help you through. You tried your best, you are a Mother, may you rest in peace. My condolences to your family.

March 09, 2017

Bless you and you’re family. I wish you sincerest peace. Thank you to the family for posting the precious poem. Peace be with you all.
thank you
Rachel L.

March 09, 2017

Bless you and you’re family. I wish you sincerest peace. Thank you to the family for posting the precious poem. Peace be with you all.
Rachel L.

March 09, 2017

How brave of you to share this at such a difficult time.  I pray more and more awareness about the disease of addiction and more focus on treatment and funding.  It is affecting individuals and families no matter what their socioeconomic status.  Praying God will comfort you as only He can.??

March 09, 2017

This story was very  inspirational so very sorry for your family’s loss thoughts and prayers to all 

March 09, 2017

March 09, 2017

Oh Stephanie as I read your story I felt your pain! I’m so sorry that you had to go through that fight here on Earth. But now you walk with The Lord free from the demons and I’m so happy that your at PEACE! To Stephanies family and baby girl theres no words that I could possibly speak that you havent heard for 17 years that will change any thing your feeling! But believe she is now free and waiting for you all on the other side! Its no ones fault. Be at Peace in knowing that. God Speed! Your daughters writing opened me up to her beautiful soul. Thank you for sharing her to all of us. I will show her words to my son! He is 19. Our Father, Who art in heaven Hallowed be Thy Name; Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread, and forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen.
 

March 09, 2017

I am praying for your family. I know how bad it hurts to have a child on drugs. Find peace in she’s finally at rest. God bless you all. 
                    Loretta Woodard 

March 09, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. I have been through 18 years with my son addicted to cocaine. He in the last 9 months turned to heroine. It is so sad to watch someone like your Daughter who is compassionate smart and had the world in their hands to give up to the drug  it is heart breaking. I am Praying for you and your Family.  Mary Sprouse Charleston SC. Thank you for sharing. 

March 09, 2017

So sorry  for your Loss! Hazel Chapman  TH friend! 

March 09, 2017

So sorry for your loss, very touching and i pray for your family and her daughter whose going to grow up without her mother.
Again my condolences

March 09, 2017

Dear Stephanie family:
I went to Penn manir with Stephanie and knew her for a long time I also suffered from addiction and caused allot of suffering to my family it took me a long time to get clean and relapsed once. I am now hs ppily married and about to Finnish school but I know what it’s like to always be sick and be close to death I was just lucky I had a friend who helped me get clean at the naaman center in etown. The stigma of addiction still is in the back of my mind and it a lways tries to take over but you have to be strong I hope she has peace and I know she will now. She is free from it now, and won’t suffer from it anymore. It’s s I horrible whatv it did to me to get and to anyone who has this o Robles. Everyone says horrible things to addicts but we just want to belong, and not be sick. I’m still scared of it and always will be. I am really sorry for your loss Christopher shindle

March 09, 2017

I am so very sorry.  You are all in my prayers.
Nanette Ahlquist

March 09, 2017

words can not express my heart felt regret and sorrow for her and her family.  I also have family that I love on drugs.  May God be with you.    Linda Taylor. 

March 09, 2017

I do not know you or your family, but I send my deepest sympathies on the loss of your beautiful loved one. I, too, know about addiction as my fiance is a recovering addict. 7 years clean this year. It’s hell on the family as well as the addict. I can’t imagine the pain and sorrow you guys are feeling, but just know that she is no longer struggling with an endless battle and she will touch millions of lives. Thank you for sharing her letter. ~Tina, Ohio

March 09, 2017

This is very heartbreaking I think your family the best thru these hard times 

March 09, 2017

There has been way too many lives touched by this epidemic of addiction. I do give you a lot of credit for touching someone who needs to see or hear this. In your families moment of sadness you chose to shine a light on the problem instead of hide it. I hope God hears all our prayers to grip you tighter as well as help put your minds & hearts at easr during the saddest of days & darkests of nights…GodBlessYourFamily & All that reads this! 

March 09, 2017

This is a very touching and sensitive story as I was once an addict many many years ago.  I now have a 27 year old son who is addicted to heroin and I have tried and tried to help him.  I hope that the family finds peace and the little grows up knowing that her mother did love but was suffering from an illness she could not control.  Prayers to the family.

March 09, 2017

I’m sorry for ur loss but I too know about the struggles of addiction. I’m now a recovering addict…263 days clean after 27 years of meth. This is heart wrenching and sad but I’m so glad I read it on Facebook. Society needs to realize that addiction is a disease not a choice. Yes we choose to do the drug but we don’t choose how it affects us and everyone else we love. Thanks for sharing and may god be with u during these times and days ahead.

March 09, 2017

To Stephanie, I love you. To your family, I’m so sorry and send love and positive energy and peace.?

March 09, 2017

I lost a niece to an overdose. She was a beautiful person. I am sorry for your loss.

March 09, 2017

I pray for her soul. I pray today for her little girl and family. As a mom of addict  today I feel so sad. May God bless you all

March 09, 2017

Thank you for sharing in your time of grief, addiction destroys families. Please take care.In my thoughts & in my Prayers

March 09, 2017

God bless the family❤️

March 09, 2017

My deepest condolences on the loss of your beautiful daughter, mother, sister, and aunt. I admire your courage and honesty. I hope that it will help others realize that they are not alone and eliminate the stigma. Marie from New Jersey

March 09, 2017

So sorry for your loss! My heart goes out to her parents and child! Sending loving thoughts and prayers for peace❤️

March 09, 2017

please accept my deepest condolences….
your openness and honesty is true, deep and raw.  
You are living every parents nightmare.  
my prayers  for peace, grace and understanding .

March 09, 2017

My condolences to the family in the loss of their loved one. I did not know her but I know about addiction. She was not a bad person, she had a disease that is cunning and baffling. May you find peace and comfort in the days ahead knowing she is free now and so are you. 
May God be with all her family and friends. 
From a person in the Al-Anon program.
Barbara

March 09, 2017

Sharing without shame is the only way we’re going to get people to stand up and notice that we’re losing our children to this horrible disease. Thank you for your courage. Your daughter’s own words speak of who she really was.  Our children will not be defined or remembered for the disease that had. God bless you all.

March 09, 2017

So sorry for your loss, this touched my heart. I know that it will touch many others too. God bless you for sharing this testimony. Prayers for strength for this family to carry on and keep Savannah comforted and safe.
 
 

March 09, 2017

I am so so sorry for your loss.  Addiction is such a horrible disease.  I can tell by what your daughter wrote that she was a beautiful person!!  So so sorry!!
 

March 09, 2017

My daughter is an addict also. Its a daily struggle and i sympathize  with you.  As i read this i sit here and cry. So glad you shared her story.  It truely touched my heart and she expresses what most addicts want to say but dont know how. Im so sad for your loss. 

March 09, 2017

So sorry for your loss. I, too, lost a child to drug addiction and don’t know any of the answers we all have. Love to you. Lois Cremeans Alexander

March 09, 2017

So touching and I pray for your family. 

March 09, 2017

So sorry this lovely child of God lived feeling as though she was a failure.i pray that her family will heal from all the hurts and disapointments that has been dealt them.i pray a special touch from God in their lives,and that one day soon the sun will shine brighter and the memories will be sweet.

March 09, 2017

So sorry for your loss.Sending prayers to you and your family
 

March 09, 2017

I’m so very sorry for your loss. Many of us know your pain having suffered losses ourselves and all we can do is pray and do our best to keep fighting for the ones that are still fighting addiction. God bless you and yours. My name is Stephanie Fisher. 

March 09, 2017

Praying for the peace & comfort of God for this family esp. The lil girl Savanah & the grandparents …know you did your best & God will step by step guide you thru this grief.  Ty for sharing her letter.  I pray it helps others to seek freedom from drug abuse  thru Christ who can set free & give real life abundantly. God bless. 

March 09, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss.  I will be lifting up your family in prayer.  Addiction is an awful disease and it destoys families.  My sister was an addict so I saw first hand how destructive it can be.  Praying that someone will hear Stephanie’s story and their life will be changed.

March 09, 2017

Thank you for being open about Stephanie’s addiction. She was a beautiful smart young woman. My son is a recovering addict. I know what you’ve gone through except the pain of the loss of your child. Although this is only by the Grace of God he really should be dead because if they massive amounts of drugs consumed or the people he hung with. I’m truly sorry for your loss. This addition is horrible and effects all envolved. Praying for you. God give you strength to do what you must to carry on. The poem is unbelievable. ✝️?Claudia Rose Princeton WV. 

March 09, 2017

Thank you for sharing. May God richly bless your family.
 

March 09, 2017

I am just a stranger who is leaving my condolences to all who knew and loved Stephanie through her fight with addicition. You are all in my thoughts, and thank you for being honest and sharing your families loss. Prayers. 

March 09, 2017

I am so very sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and that precious child. 

March 09, 2017

So sorry for your loss. Praying for your family.  I hope this will touch someone who is struggling.  Comfort and peace as the days go on.  Sue Williams. Rosepine, Louisiana.

March 09, 2017

I am so sorry to hear of your family’s incredible loss. Thank you so much for sharing this letter, and humanizing your daughter and her struggle for those who may not understand the devestation of addiction. Her words have touched the hearts of many, and I have no doubt that her legacy will live on and inspire others. 
If there is anything the women of our community can do to help honor Stephanie’s memory or support your family, please do not hesitate to contact me.
My deepest condolences,
Julie Maida
Sober Mommies, Inc

March 09, 2017

THANK GOD FOR WHAT YOU’VE DONE HERE HOW BRAVE, YOU ARE SOOOO “RIGHT” IF IT SAVES SOMEONES CHILD ITS WORTH PUTTING OUT THERE ! MY PRAYERS ARE W/YOU EVEN THO I DON’T KNOW YOU ! I KNOW THE DEVASTATION OF ADDICTION !! IT IS A TERRIBLE EPIDEMIC ALL OVER THIS COUNTRY ! DEAR LORD YOU ARE SUCH GOOD PEOPLE TO DO THIS !    Pat Miller

March 09, 2017

First let me tell you ,I am so sorry for your loss.??????I too lost a daughter do to (one more)adopted her two girls 3.1/2 years old and the other 9months old … My keeping togeter was my church lots of prayers and faith..Her letter was realy true from her  heath . Well she is in haven now   With our Lord  . I known that you well do a great job with your little Angel…have a bless day ….Monique Reiter

March 09, 2017

Thougs and praryers go out to you and your family. The angles are with her dougther god will be with her all step o% the way.  Donna J.  Willis.

March 09, 2017

My deepest sympathies on the loss of your dear daughter, Stephanie!! May she RIP!! Thank you for sharing her story!! We hope that God helps you heal & blesses you All!!!  I hope that you will find Peace in his blessings!!! Addiction of any kind is so horrible & such an awful disease!!! And so many families are going through this now also!!! We have lost people we love to this horrible thing as well!!  Hopefully her story will help someone out here?!!!! Thank you again… Hugs, Love & Prayers to/for you all!! ❤️???

March 09, 2017

My name is Donna Bouchard and I lost my son Shawn who was 32. He struggled with addiction for 15 yrs. People need to understand that this is a neurological disease. No body wants to be an addict and no body wants to die. Your daughter was so brave to write that letter to her loved ones. She loved you all.

March 09, 2017

I pray for your family I do not know you and you do not know me but I have family living with addiction and this touched my heart so much and I think you for sharing her story because nobody had to do anything like that it touched my heart and I hope it touches in heels anybody else who suffers from this awful awful sickness of addiction because that’s what it is is a sickness much love to your family is sympathy and may God hold you and his arms tight

March 09, 2017

May Peace and comfort be yours dear family as it now for Stephanie. May her life shine onto you all in a new way. Thank you for sharing your Stephanie.

March 09, 2017

Thoughts and prayers for your family. I know how it feels with addiction. I had ovarian cancer in 2002 and tty hey started to feed me pills that were highly addictive. I had Vicodins, ativan (lorazepam), klonopin, etc… I know what Stephanie went through, it’s a struggle since ,,2002…….. Rest in peace Stephanie….. ;).   JoAnna Scheall…
 
 
 

March 09, 2017

Although I do not know your beautiful family member,I must say something good attracted me to read and express me condolences?❤ My prayers and comfort to you all and especially to the beautiful daughter that was left from loving her but yet can hold on to that memories of love her momma had for her but she was in a dark place as well as my son is and is in prison as a result from this sickness.God Bless and my the Lord wrap his arms around all of you and give you all the strength and comfort to continue her memory?❤

March 09, 2017

Prayers 
hard words but pure honesty raw honesty best wishes to all esp her daughter. 
 

March 09, 2017

As I read your daughter’s letter I also felt her pain. The enemy of her struggles with the addiction over took the real vision she saw of herself. Somewhere in the mist of her mistake she got lost in the abyss that the enemy so easily made it an enbracenent for her. Stephanie know that God loves you and he embraces you. Know that your daughter will be taken care off and may she form a relationship with Jesus Christ. I send healing prayers so that this immense wound that is left from your departing, may it bring forgiveness, love, caring, unity, nurturing to all of your family. May our Holy Father be with you and that you are able to Rest In Peace and not hurt anymore. Be blessed & God bless your loved ones?❤??  Amen

March 09, 2017

I to lost a son to heroin addiction this pass may no one will ever know the pain and suffering they went through in there fight to quit ,but it’s all over for them now and we are the ones that have to carry the cross of loosing a beloved child . My heart goes out to this family and they shall remain in my prayers forever as well as there beautiful daughter .I also pray that someone will read your daughter’s obituary and wake up and say hey that could be me I’m getting help before it is me . Again thank you for sharing your daughter’s story and I pray it reaches at least one person ,  GOD bless Mike petrello 

March 09, 2017

 
I’m grieving for your family today. You will all be in my prayers.
Stephanie’s words have reached Minnesota. A recovering alcoholic. I will pray for the still suffering addict. 🙁
 

March 09, 2017

I did not know this young woman, but I pray that her family will find the peace she was never able to find here.
 
Maria Kenny

March 09, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss.  I don’t know you but I thank you for allowing us to look inside the heart & mind of an addict.  May God be with you is my prayer.

March 09, 2017

We are very sorry for your loss.  Thank you for sharing her poem.  There is such an epidemic right now and hope that this can help someone.  She will now be able to live in peace finally with God and look down from Heaven on her greatest accomplishment, her daughter.  Prayers to all of the family.
God Bless – Audrey, Jeff, and Cody Woerner

March 09, 2017

Not only did I feel the words she wrote I lived that picture she painted, stopping by my mothers grave pounding the ground around her stone begging for answers. Not only do I realize it wasn’t about me st this point in life I realize more it was never about her either or atleast I never let it be. 
Fly high baby girl you have a gift that must be needed up there in heaven and I wish you well! 
 
You our got this 

March 09, 2017

So sorry for your loss,prayers 

March 09, 2017

You don’t know me & I don’t know this family ~ but I do know Addiction ~ I’m a mental health nurse & have worked with the beautiful & broken “Samantha’s” for years ~~ even ones using while carrying a child & given the ultimatum to get in pt treatment or the child goes into State custody ….. Addiction as you well know is a HORRIFIC beast ~ “it” is not your Samantha ~ it took over her life ~ it leads only to loss, jail and or death! I hear in her writing the heart of a Mother ~ people can be quick to judge & think one should just be done with it ~ please know … there’s hope & healing ~ addiction is a family disease ~ HOWEVER ~ THE CYCLE CAN BE BROKEN ….. may her precious daughter be that one ~ prayers for this family & that all way learn, heal & grow ~ 

March 09, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss…the loss of a child is the hardest thing that can happen to a parent…thank you for sharing her story. I know it can help others too.

March 09, 2017

So sorry for your loss, may God give your family peace during this difficult time.

March 09, 2017

Prayers for strength and guidance. A talent gone to soon.  The lives she would have changed with her words.  Bless her child with and family with love and togetherness. 
17 years –  the dealers need to be held accountable!  
touched by her words from Bethany,Delaware 

March 09, 2017

Lots of love and prayer for all of you.

March 09, 2017

Im so so terribly sorry about your baby.  Prayers and hugs and thank you for sharing what she wrote. I’m going to share in hopes that the people I know struggling with this demon read it and it helps, including my Baby.

March 09, 2017

Thank you for sharing your daughters horrible addiction. I hope those whose suffer can maybe be reached with this unselfish gesture you made. I pray your family can find peace and that God will help your broken hearts heal. I pray that your granddaughter will also find peace, and not carry the burden of her mothers addiction. It effects the whole family. I pray that your dear daughter is at peace now and you can have nice memories of her. God bless your family for fighting such a battle. Thoughts and prayers, Pam Pyles 

March 09, 2017

What a spot on testimony on addiction. Thank you for having the courage to share this! My niece is in those exact shoes. I could be reading about her. I’m so sorry for your loss and for the bad you’ve been through the past 17 years. May God heal your souls. Thank you
 
Lara Burroughs 
Green Bay, WI

March 09, 2017

I did not know your daughter but I know addiction. Thanks for sharing her letter. Hugs to all.  Cheryl Coppedge

March 09, 2017

My deepest sympathy for your entire family. I think your daughter was very brave to write about her addiction and you were very brave to post it. There are too many that hide behind the shame of the addiction and the loss of their loved ones. It does not bring to light the real problems that are faced daily by these sick from addiction good kids. That’s what they are. They struggle every day to not give in to the urge. Thank you for your honesty, Thank you Stephanie for fighting 17 years. I’m sorry you lost your battle with this disease. I pray to God that others struggling will see how hard you fought they will get the help they need. God Bless your family that will now carry on your journey by caring for your daughter. I know she will understand you were very loving and caring and that she loved you. God be with and comfort you all in the days ahead. Let there be no shame left behind because your beautiful daughter carried that with her and took it to our Loving Father God.. Sincerely Selena Stevens 

March 09, 2017

God Bless and comfort to all…..
Lori Hoffman

March 09, 2017

Addiction is a cruel! It takes beautiful people and ruins their lives! Addiction has no preference rich, poor, young,and old.
Addiction has taken many of my loved ones and caused much pain to my family!  
We must all stand as one against this Demon! 
Much love to all cursed with this disease!

March 09, 2017

I did not know Stephanie but I know the cost of addiction and how it affects the whole family. My heart is breaking for each of you and especially for Savannah, as she will never understand this or get over it. May your beautiful daughter be at peace now and in the arms of God. Prayers to you all and thank you for the truth!
Leslie Faulder 
lesnortonfaulder 2013@gmail.com
 

March 09, 2017

Thank you for being so forth coming, I am so sorry for your loss, I know many people who are at this time chasing “ANOTHER”, I pray for her family and many others whom are suffering with this addiction. GOD HELP US!!
 
 
 

March 09, 2017

So very sorry for your loss. I know the pain of watching someone addicted to drugs. God be with you during this terrible time 

March 09, 2017

So sorry for your loss. It was a beautiful write by her…so sad the osbornes.

March 09, 2017

Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. This horrendous disease is taking too many wonderful people from their loving families. Thank you for sharing your beautiful daughter and her poignant words. This truly is an epidemic and needs to be given the highest priority and care. May you feel the loving arms of our heavenly Father comfort you during this difficult time. I find comfort from God’s word at times like this at John 5:28 and Ecclesiastes 9:5. Thank you for your honesty during this time. I hope someone else will read it and get the help to stop.
Jennifer and Aaron Cook
Irvine, Kentucky

March 09, 2017

So sorry for your loss, and for hers. Sadly, you and she are not alone in this battle. My prayers are with you and for her previous Savanah.

March 09, 2017

Please accept my condolences. I know to a degree how you feel, I had the sweetest sister who was urged into getting high when she was 15 years old. She did grow up and get married, she had two beautiful daughters Tiffany and Tina but she fought against the evil that constantly kept a strangle hold on her till she was murdered at 34 years old. Please let Savannah know that her mother’s love for her was real. I’m ashamed for realizing too late that my sister’s addiction was an illness. She might be alive today had I not taken her children and kicked her out of my life.
Sharon

March 09, 2017

Prayers sent to your family. My life too has been with addiction. Thankfully God had mercy on me I got to rehab and got cleaned. It’s going on 18 years now . My oldest daughter was on drugs for 3 Years thankful it’s going on 2 years cleaned. I’m grateful and thankful everyday . This letter touched my soul I feel her pain . She’s wrapped in thee arms of angels pain no more . I pray God will wrap her child and you in his loving arms bring comfort . Xo

March 09, 2017

God Bless each of your  family!!  I will be sharing with others that are fighting this addiction that has taken over so many many of our children!  Gob be with you!

March 09, 2017

Thanks for sharing these words.
My son is also an addict so I know all the heart ache and pain you are going through. Im so sorry for your loss and I pray for your family, its hard to lose somebody not once but twice. May God hold and comfort you.

March 09, 2017

So sorry for your loss. Thank you so much for sharing these are powerful words. My heart & prayers goes out to your family.  May she R.I.P. now.
Sincerely,
Marsha Larson

March 09, 2017

Peace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with the family and strength to endure.  Eternal rest grant her Lord and to all the faithful departed. Amen.

March 09, 2017

I have lost 4 family members in the last 7 months from this awful affliction. I’m praying for her daughter and your family. 

March 09, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss.  I pray the whole family would be able to rest and find peace in Jesus!  I lost my brother in 2005 he had a bad drug problem.  Lord I pray for this family! ! 

March 09, 2017

Steph was a friend of mine in middle school.  She was like sunshine – always warm and bright.  Even when I moved, she kept in touch because that was just her personality.  I work with women in addiction.  So, her death hits me in two areas of my life – personal and professional.  I will truly miss her spirit.
 

March 09, 2017

Praying for strength for your family! I am deeply sorry that you are having to go through this.   I pray your honesty helps someone! From WV 

March 09, 2017

I want to say that although I didn’t know you that my heart breaks for your daughter who wanted to fix it but just couldn’t and all of you who have struggled with her over all these years.  Peace is with her now.  My heart goes out to you all.
Joann Weaver, Indpls IN

March 09, 2017

We have had a loss to addiction also..my heart hurts for your family!  Thank you for the honesty ! ♡♡♡♡ God Bless!

March 09, 2017

Prayers sent

March 09, 2017

so sorry for your loss GOD BLESS you and your family…?????
gs

March 09, 2017

Our family is struggeling with the same thing……I think every family is. I just wish all were as honest as you are and post what is really happening so that we all don’t feel so alone in our battle. 
God bless you as you lay your loved one to rest… God help all of us still fighting this ugly face called addiction. 
My heart felt prayers and appreciation. 

March 09, 2017

I am so sorry you lost your beautiful daughter to this horrible disease. I too lost a child to addiction on March 25th, 2014.  I understand your pain.  I also acknowledged in his obituary that he died after a long struggle with the disease of addiction.  They try so hard, but it is a relentless disease and there s not enough help for the people suffering.  I hope tat changes with more awareness.  Thank you for helping to end the stigma and promote awareness, and thank you for sharing her beautiful letter.   I will share this with my naranon group.
Deborah Vitale

March 09, 2017

I do not know you and your family! I did read this obituary and instantly cried! I want to hug you all!!! I was once an addict off and on since I Was 14yrs. Old after my brother/best friend passed on the early morning hours of my 14th birthday!!! It ripped my family apart! For over 2 years now I have been clean! And I’m a single mom of 2 beautiful, energetic, fun filled kids!  My “father and last brother” living, are addicts! I pray that you and your family stay strong through this difficult struggle! It will be hard but keep ur heads up and stay positive to the best of your ability! I always have loved nature! I drag my babies outside everyday damn near to appreciate the most simplest of life! Enjoy that sun as I feel it’s very needed! And that little princess of a daughter U all have now gotten the ability to love this much more!!! Show her happiness! Allow her to B her, as your guiding her! And she needs some EXTRA TLC! U all have now a beautiful guardian angel watching U! As I always love to think they r now butterflies and stars!!! Please stay strong… ALL OF YOU!!!! I’m a message away! God Bless you all! 
 
Sincerely yours,
Amelia Midthun from Madison,WI

March 09, 2017

I. Am So sorry. For the loss. Sending prayers

March 09, 2017

Stephanie’s life is making a positive impact for so many and we are proud of you for sharing her story. We were fortunate enough to have met Stephanie several times and speak to her. It was clear that she loved Savannah so much and no matter the choices that she made, she made the best one entrusting her with Maggie and Steve.  May she be at God’s side, watching over her family, and continuing to make a positive impact, even after her passing.  Our thoughts and prayers are with the family, and with those whose lives are being touched by Stephanie’s story.  Matt and Becca.

March 09, 2017

How very sad and sorry Iam to read  this

March 09, 2017

I hope these words are enough to help even one person struggling with addiction. My thoughts and prayers go out to all who loved her, and please know she walks with Jesus and feels no more pain. I did not know this young lady, but I do know the path of addiction and the damage done. Condolences and peace for your family. Nancy Thompson

March 09, 2017

I am a recovering addict and still struggle as most of us do with our own thoughts sometimes.  I have also overdosed more than once.  This helped me Thank God and be grateful for what I have and to kiss my son more and hold him a little longer. She is no longer struggling. She is at ease. Just waiting for her family. Thank you God for Jesus. The only thing that makes this possible. 

March 09, 2017

I am so  sorry for your loss..my. heart goes out to the entire  family…she was a wonderful  person I feel, addiction  took her over..
I lost  my 27 year old niece  a year ago to addiction.  She was a beautiful  young lady….and also has a son..thank you for sharing her letter…it really touched my heart..
Positive thoughts, prayers, love and hugs to you all?⚘

March 09, 2017

May god keep you in his care and savanha prayers for. All.

March 09, 2017

Perhaps this will help someone else suffering from addiction.

March 09, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss.  So sorry for her struggles that caused many losses that she was well aware of.  Praying for peace for her child, her husband and her family. God is Good and He will comfort you all.  Take Care – God Bless.  Never give up!

March 09, 2017

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March 09, 2017

 I’m so very sorry for your loss. I pray that God wraps his loving arms around you all and provides some comfort during this difficult time. My daughter also struggles with this disease. I have found some comfort in just knowing I’m not alone. I invite you to join TAPP parents united on Facebook. It’s a closed group for parents of addicts. They also have a survivor of loss page. My deepest condolences for the loss of your beautiful daughter. 

March 09, 2017

Loving prayers & strength during this difficult time to your family. I understand the devastation of addiction, as my niece/godchild is suffering with this disease. My heart goes out to all of you. God bless your family. RIP Stephanie ❤

March 09, 2017

This is powerful…I’m  quite  positive  it will bring light to many…rest your tired soul….be at peace

March 09, 2017

Sorry for your loss. I pray by you making this public some other family will b spared such sadness. God will sustain you through your time of grieving. God Bless you!

March 09, 2017

I’m truly sorry for the loss of your loving and beautiful daughter. Thank you for sharing her story and being honest about what caused her death. It’s sad that so many young ones are dying a senseless death because of their addiction, I hope her story will touch someone in need and open their eyes to get the help they need.! I wish the best for your family but mostly for your granddaughter. God Bless

March 09, 2017

I to have a child who is fighting this demon. I so very sorry for your loss. I pray your family is at peace and that the knowledge that she has finally laid her burdens down brings you some solace. God bless!!!

March 09, 2017

I’m so sorry for ur loss, prayers to the family. That was a beautiful letter, it touched me in so many ways. God Speed

March 09, 2017

My deepest condolences to her family. I’m so very touched by Stephanie’s poem, thank you for sharing. My prayers to you all, may she finally find peace in Heaven with our Lord.

March 09, 2017

In 2009 my sister passed from her liflong battle with addiction.  I wrote her obituary because my parents were already passed on.  It was very controversial at the time, but i did have stangers thank me online for sharing.  Bravo to you- Stephanie’s family- for sharing such an intimate letter from her heart.  My prayers are with you during this difficult time.  God bless you all and thank you for sharing.
                                    A sister

March 09, 2017

I read your daughters obituary, and felt another chunk of my heart break off. I have two sons who are addicts, one in treatment, one denying and I feel the pain of not being able to do much but have faith and pray. Thank you for being so open to sharing her words. I hope you can find peace knowing she loved you all and wanted to change. God bless you all!

March 09, 2017

My sympathies to Stephanie’s family..Thank you for sharing about her addiction as it may save someone.
God Bless 
Bob Ney
Newark Ohio

March 09, 2017

I am terribly sorry that her daughter & her family have 2 go through such a terrible tragedy. Definitely alive taken way too soon and all because of drugs. My name is Tonya Johnson & I have dealt with drug addiction for over 20 years. I’ve been to rehab probably four different times and countless detox centers. My last stay n Rehab was in 2015 in Oklahoma City & it was a magical place, it felt good to be clean. But still shortly after I got out I relapsed and I have four children myself. Brayden who is 13 years old, KyLee who is 6 years old, Connor who is five years old and Arabella who is 20 months old instill my love for them and their love for me was never enough to keep me clean and I often wondered what it would take, what would be my rock-bottom, exactly how low did I have to go. I’ve been homeless, I’ve done terrible things 2 have to get my next fix, I’ve had my children taken, what would it take for me to put the needle down. Well about three months ago we moved her to a very small town in Missouri population of 159. A very big change from Tulsa Oklahoma but it was a good change and I am sober today. I am 40 years old and it is time to be a parent to my children, a wife to my husband, a daughter to my mother, a sister to my sisters and brother, it was time to stop being selfish I’ve had more than my fair share time to party it was time for something different. And I love being sober I always have the times that I have been sober there’s no high that compares to when you’re honestly truly happy and when things are in place but still I would start with every so often and then just became to where I depended on it to function daily. And I have my good and bad days and yeah my kids are just as crazy as ever if not crazier but I wouldn’t change one thing in the world I am happy today I have a life today because before it was just an existence and a very miserable one. In 2011, I almost died. And all because of iv use. I have 10% use of my neck, I had 5 hours left to live. I had an abscess paralyzing my spine they had to do emergency back surgery. I was in there for six weeks getting IV antibiotics and the day I got out the doctor broke my neck from trying to pop it. They had to fuse c-4, 5 and 6 together & a year-and-a-half later I had to have it done again. And that still wasn’t enough to keep me sober. Although I kind of have a lot of regrets about some of the things I have done at the same time I do not because it’s made me the person I am today. It’s made me appreciate the small things to not take life for granted because in one Split Second it can be gone. And if I can help just one person with my story it will make it all worth it. I am terribly sorry for the lost your family has suffered and the obituaries was absolutely beautiful and heartbreaking. I hope her story can reach others and just save one person. Good luck to you all & prayers are sent to your family. Thank you so much for listening to my story 

March 09, 2017

Prayers and condolences to her family.

March 09, 2017

May God comfort your family as you move on. May He give you strength and hold you up. No life is lived in vain all lives are precious. May you cherish the memories of Stephanie’s life and the many good times you shared. Peace and love…

March 09, 2017

I’m.sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing hopefully someone will listen.  Drugs are killing our families. I do know first hand    Becky Gullett

March 09, 2017

So sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your story. Prayers for healing and peace. – Carol from Ohio.

March 09, 2017

Being the former wife of an addict my heart bleeds for Savannah and her family. She and her grandparents will always wonder why and what if. I still do after 5 years and I continually dream for our prior life.
Please accept my heartfelt condolences for all.

March 09, 2017

Thank you for being so honest about her addiction. This will help many families. Prayers sent your way.
 
 

March 09, 2017

Many, many prayers for Stephanie and her family.  May God grant peace to all of you.  My son is in recovery now.  I pray that God gives him and all others the strength they need to over come this horrible disease.  WV Mom.

March 09, 2017

I am truly sorry for your loss. I have a son suffering with this disease. I know they want to change but it has such a hold on them. You and your family are in my prayers?

March 09, 2017

I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter.  Addiction is a terrible disease which has take the life of my sister and many other young people I know.  It is a very difficult struggle.  Thank you for sharing Stephanie’s story.  I have shared it with my friends.  May she rest in peace, knowing her words will help save many lives. May God Bless you and your family.  Gretchen 

March 09, 2017

My Condolences to the family.  I too have felt your pain.. I am raising my Grandson who I have had since the age of two. He will be 16 in June.  His Mom passed on March 1, 2017 she was 49 years old from the same horrible addiction.  At the service yesterday it was made clear if anyone needed help in any way, please let us know we would do what ever needed to be done to help anyone in the same situation.  Christine’s struggle is over, I now live to see the pain go from Geordan’s face. Prayers to your family
Debbie Kaiser 

March 09, 2017

Deepest sympthany to Steph’s family.  I am very saddened by this loss.  Steph and I first met in jail – we used to play spades together and formed a relationship on D-block.  When I ran into her again about a year ago, we met on better terms.  When she allowed me the opportunity to help guide her towards recovery, I was always grateful.  Rest in peace, Steph.  I love you.

March 09, 2017

So sorry for your loss.In my prayers. My name is Sharon Meier.

March 09, 2017

My deepest condolences to your family. I understand how and what you are going thru all too well. I lost my 24 year old daughter in September. Leaving behind a 4 and 7 year old sons.I now raise. I have never known such heartache. We are loosing so very many beautiful people to this horrendeous disease. May God wrap his loving arms around you all for comfort during this very difficult time of grief.

March 09, 2017

My deepest sympathies for your loss.  May her story help someone else.  God Bless.

March 09, 2017

So sorry to hear that there has been a passing
 

March 09, 2017

Stephanie’s message is very touching and so I say this with tears in my eyes and a lump in my throat. I am so truley sorry for your loss. May you find the peace and comfort to help you through this hard and sad time. 
Sincerely, a friend of a friend. 

March 09, 2017

Eve though I do not know this family, I too have a 24 year old daughter that has the same addiction for the past 7 years. She is still alive but is only a shell of what was my daughter. 4 and a half years ago she too had a baby boy. From day 1, I became his guardian due to the fact my daughter was high when she went into labor. My grandson tested positive for opiates   At the time I was 50 years old,thinking my child raising years were far behind me. My daughter was striped of her custody rights and so my “son” and I were our way.  She has overdosed a few times, still that does not stop her from her next high. The trust and our relationship is not the same as it once in her clean years. This addition has come between her and her brother and all her aunts and uncles. But still this does not stop her. I just am waiting for that one fatal phone call telling me that they found my daughter dead. It takes a toll on anyone’s life and the families that it concerns. I thank you for sharing Stephanie’s poem. It did hit home hard. I pray for you and your beautiful granddaughter. God bless you and God bless anyone that is going through this same situation. May peace be with you   

March 09, 2017

You and your entire family have my deepest empathies and condolences. Prayers up for continuous recovery and Healing in all areas . May God touch,comfort and guide you through this time of grief . I believe that God  has a special place for those of us who endure the horrific existence of addiction on earth and are unable to defeat the devil here . Savannah’s mom will be watching over and be there for all of you as your angel ,all things she couldn’t accomplish or overcome here ,wilare overcome in the kingdom of heaven . God bless you all.

March 09, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. Addiction is just aweful and unfortunately there are not nearly enough resources out there for addicts. My own daughter was using H as well and by gods grace was given  a second chance.My heart truly aches for you and your family, especially her daughter who now must live with this . I pray you all gave the stregnth . ?

March 09, 2017

I’m so sorry for the loss your family member. May God bless each of you. The struggle with addiction is affecting so many families. Please take comfort in knowing. “To be absent from the body is to be in the presence of the Lord”. She’s at peace now. 

March 09, 2017

I am very sorry for this great loss your family has to go through. After reading this you all must know how much Stephanie loved all of her family. This drug is much bigger than we, the ones that have never used it, will ever know. Trust in God and know many of us truly know your pain in our own hearts. Love her baby and that will always be a part of her that will always make you smile.  Lisa M. Rochester, New York

March 09, 2017

I didn’t know your daughter, but her death like all the others from this disease breaks my heart. I have my own addicted child and the struggle is so hard for them and us.
My prayers are with you all at this time. 
Patti R. From Ohio

March 09, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. I myself am an addict and have been struggling with” just one more” for years now and luckily I have my life I am going to keep this in mind every morning when I wake up so that possible I can be stronger to accomplish my sobriety!
                                      Sincerely, Charley L Crabtree

March 09, 2017

I pray for all of you in this horrific time of grief

March 09, 2017

I’m so sorry doe what you as a family went through, but I also pray that your daughter  is now in heaven and has peace. Praying for your family. 

March 09, 2017

I’m so sorry for ur loss,I too am a,recovering addict an know all to well the affect this disease has on the family,as,well. I can only pray that God will pull u thru this hard time,an may you be rest assured I’m knowing your daughter didn’t want that life. It’s a disease affecting so many. As I tell so many we cannot hate the addict we must hate the addiction. You’ll be IN my thoughts an prayers God bless you all

March 09, 2017

My heart goes out to the family and friends. I too had a beautiful daughter, Tara who was also looking for another.

March 09, 2017

My Condolences to the family. My prayers are with you.

March 09, 2017

Wow moving words… So sorry for your loss.. I did not know her but I was her 5yrs ago.. I pray you find peace in this time of sorrow. Addiction is a disease that Steals your loved one away from you.. Saddened she didn’t win her fight with that beast.. Now shes at peace with god..

March 09, 2017

I am so very sorry for your loss. Prayers that God’s arms wrap around your family for comfort.

March 09, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss may God bless your family                          Robin Godlewski

March 09, 2017

I didn’t know Stephanie, but I am sorry for your loss. My heart and soul are hurt for the family and for her daughter. I am glad that she could be in heaven and no longer have to struggle and fight with such a horrible addiction. Please God, show this family love. Please comfort them and remind them you are here. Please fill their hearts with so much love so that don’t feel alone and empty. Amen

March 09, 2017

I’m so sorry for your lost. I pray to God to give you strength and peace. Please try to remember that this life is a stepping stone to eternal life. We will be reunited with our loved ones when Jusus comes. God bless your family.

March 09, 2017

To Stephanie, Thanks be to God you no longer suffer. To Stephanie’s family, May you find peace in knowing Sthphanie is no longer suffering, and that is she in the arms of Jesus and in time you shall surely meet again and be together forever and ever. 1 day, 1 month, 1 year doesn’t matter, what matters is Stephanie is no longer suffering, it is those left behind that are suffering. Never forget the written word. For God So Love The World…We get to go on! Until then, take care of yourself and each other. Please seek out a support group for lost of child, adult child, sister, sibiling, parent whatever the case. The only way to deal with this great loss is to feel your feelings, talk, talk and keep talking. Not only will this help you it will help others. The loss will never go away while on earth, we just learn new ways to deal with it day by day. Please remember God is Good All the Time! Thank God for God because we have hope when nothing is left and that’s the hope to go on! Been there, but still here. Thank you for sharing and caring enough to help me and others, and to see that you are not alone. EVER! Stephanie is in my Prayers along with you and your family. Peace Be With You! 

March 09, 2017

And then I pray. God Bless this family because I’ve been there. So many of times I wanted to walk so many times I wanted to talk but they cannot hear because the devil has there ears. God has won with your child she is safe because she is with. My daughter is fine because God walks beside as yours is safe in the Heavens above. God Bless you all…

March 09, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss and prayers for her parent and her child. Always. 

March 09, 2017

Sending love. What a beautiful message to all who struggle. Thank you for the courage to share her words.

March 09, 2017

Don’t know her personally but if she truly sorry and God has forgiven her then the family has the comfort of seeing her again .but not sick happy and well. God bless you all. Prayers are with you all.  Sister Jessie m McCain

March 09, 2017

So sorry for your loss, my sister is an addict and it’s hard to watch and my 19yr old son was robbed and murdered by addicts needing money for another fix where does it end I am Nancy Jo Ray 

March 09, 2017

As a stranger, I  send sincere condolences to your family and friends.  I will pray for you.
Cindy Wood

March 09, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss she’s in a better place now and no longer suffering with the fight that she had to fight she honestly did make a beautiful poem and maybe it will bring a wake up call to someone who needs it and even though she lost her own she may be able to save a life… I’m praying for this family to get through these hard times 

March 09, 2017

truly heart breaking so so sorry for your loss god bless her family

March 09, 2017

May the Lord of all that is embrace this beautiful soul, now that she is in his presence. May her daughter grow up with nothing but love and adoration for her mother, whom the lord knows tried to do good by her. May she rest in peace knowing that there are countless others whom share her story and her words. Stephanie Evanko, rest in peace child, for you are home. 

March 09, 2017

i am so so%y for your loss i to have a herion addicted son i hope and pray god will speak to him before it,s to late i knowm what your going through so sorry  hope you can have peace some day but you eill allways hold her in your heart and have memories of her god bless Brenda myers

March 08, 2017

I don’t know your family or your daughter, however, I do know addiction well. This very well could have been written about me 9 months ago. I want to send my deepest sympathies and condolences to your family in your time of loss. I don’t even know where to begin to imagine how it feels to be on the other end of addiction. All I know is that when i read this it touched my heart so deeply, it’s like you were writing my life story. I am so very sorry. 

March 08, 2017

So sorry for your lose, my daughter is an addict, i have custody of my grandchildren, i never hide the reasons their mama isn’t with them, hoping it will completely turn away from drugs, their daddy was shot and killed because of drugs, addiction is a disease!!! i’m just waiting on that dreadful phone call one day, I pray and ask God to wrap his loving arms around her and keep her safe, i use to blame myself, thought i had done something so wrong while she was growing up, but i know longer blame myself, she has chosen this life style over & over…all we can do is pray for our children, I pray for you and your family, please just know, she isn’t hurting herself anymore.    Diane Smith

March 08, 2017

You do not know me neither.But this story touched my heart.Being a Christian I would like to say,I will be praying for you and your loss.I ask God to please watch over the family and send comfort to you all.

March 08, 2017

I have a son in prison right now all because of his “addiction”. Your letter touched my heart as if I knew you! I have been trying to understand the sickness my son has – he is 49 – that has caused him to loose his 2, brothers. I will never stop loving my son but can only take so much hurt & heartache. My prayers are with your daughter & your family
 I wish I could have been around to tell you how much you’re loved.!

March 08, 2017

My heart is crying for you Savannah! Remember always your momma loved you and your family! It wasn’t her fault but the drugs that she couldn’t control! May God Bless you and give you the Peace in your heart to forgive her and forever love!!! Vicki from Indiana?

March 08, 2017

So sad ?. I identified so much with many feelings she expressed in her letter, so many times I felt the same hopelessness she described. I have stayed away from recreational use of “fun drugs” because I’m afraid that if I ever started I would never be able to quit and I would suffer a similar fate. It saddens me to see someone my age lose their life, especially after struggling so much, it makes my own mortality that much more real to me. I pray she has finally found peace. Praying her daughter and parents are comforted with the Lord’s grace and love. So very sorry for your pain and loss.
 
Laura Howard 

March 08, 2017

May God bless you and your family and all of the friends you shared wrapping his loving arms around you and giving you all peace and comfort knowing the demons Stephanie was fighting is gone. I know those are only words, a parent is never supposed to bury their precious gift from God. But, as children of God, we all know God loans us out only for so long and needs us back and God must have had a special blessing or gift for her to do in Heaven.  I didn’t know her or any of the family and friends, but all of these deaths are so heart breaking not only for family and friends but communities and towns,states all over this nation. Another Angel has gone to heaven way too soon with so many unanswered questions.  Mom and Dad, never ever blame yourself. As parents we raise our children and pray when they spread their wings they soar, fly and succeed.  God bless you all.  You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.  Carol Maymon  Sellersburg IN.

March 08, 2017

It is beautiful. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Im copying this, it just may save my life.

March 08, 2017

You’re beautiful poem should be printed and framed- you have a kind heart and will be missed. ♡
E.

March 08, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss my son struggles with addiction and spends most of his life locked up due to the drugs.I pray he can get his life together because I fear that his addiction is going to take him to his grave so young.Thanks for sharing and May God comfort you all 

March 08, 2017

“If Stephanie’s words touch one person’s life, her life will not have been in vain” really spoke to my heart. Stephanie’s poem and your words about Stephanie’s life were very meaningful.  Her life will not have been in vain, but an inspiration to many who struggle every day with addiction, and to those who love the ones who are looking for “another.”  So Very Sorry for your deep and grievous loss.  I will keep you, your family, and especially Savannah in my prayers! Mary-AnnEva Ingrao

March 08, 2017

Father in Heaven look over this family as they try to understand why. Praying that you, her family can find peace and forgiveness. Father look over and protect her daughter. In the name of Jesus. Amen
I do not know you nor do you know me but your daughters farewell note was so honest and it touched my heart. I could feel her desire to break the addition, but the demon kept returning. God Bless all of you.

March 08, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss?

March 08, 2017

So sorry for your loss I feel your pain and sorrow. I lost my son one year ago from heroin addiction. You never get over that terrible ache in your heart from the loss you simply learn to live with it. God bless all of you!

March 08, 2017

I’m so very sorry for your profound loss.  I pray Stephanie’s words do reach many who will benefit from them. While I didn’t know Stephanie at all, I am praying for all who loved her.  I came upon the announcement on FB and because I know several families who also have loved ones who battle addiction, I wanted to express my condolences for your loss.  I pray she is safe and at peace now. Julie Hyatt, Yakima, WA

March 08, 2017

please accept my condulence and have peace at in you’re heart that you’re daughter loved everyone. drug addiction has touched my child but he made it. it’s a roller coaster for me sometimes sometimes he’s happy next he blows up. but so far so good. but who knows I’m sure hopeing. please from the bottom of my heart don’t blame youreself. been there done that. may she rest in peace.

March 08, 2017

May God Hold You All, may he give you Strength an have his arms around you all..This touched me an Just want to say Thank you for Sharing so.etbing so private

March 08, 2017

I am so sorry and fully understand the suffering and pain this beautiful young lady endured from the torment of the. Disease of addiction.The grips of addiction can be more powerful than some can possibly understand and do not define the loving and caring person who suffers.I know her struggles being I fight those same demons.Sorry for your loss… Sincerely, Todd M. Much

March 08, 2017

Im a total stranger but Prayers to the family and May the Lord Jesus give you the strenght to get through this tough time. Addiction is a terrible disease that has spread thru our Land like fire. Praying that people who read this to get help to overcome their problem. May God Bless the little girl 

March 08, 2017

My deepest sympathy.  Linda Poole

March 08, 2017

I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter.  My heart goes out for you all. I know you don’t know me but my prayers are with you all.  Thank you for writing this because I have some family members that need to read this and I pray they hear what your daughter was saying and change their lives before it is to late. God bless you all.

March 08, 2017

You have a heavy load, prayers for you & your family for strength, comfort and healing. May God bless your family. My heart goes out to you.

March 08, 2017

May Allah ( God ) Be Pleased with this Soul And Grant Closure for the family….Ameen!

March 08, 2017

To the family of Stephanie, I am so very sorry for your loss. Please don’t blame her. Addiction is horrible. It doesn’t care what it does to people, their families, the children left behind. She didn’t want this; truly she didn’t. It’s hard to free yourself from this killer. But she is free now, in the loving arms of our Heavenly Father. I didn’t know your daughter but i know her killer. My prayers for comfort and peace are with you all. ???
T.L Black

March 08, 2017

I can really relate to this death,lost my sister to the same thing
Finding her and telling our mother I lost her too to a heart attack  11 days apart.God Bless this family,big hugs to sweet little Savanna Cathey Bowers

March 08, 2017

I was addicted to alcohol for many years and hurt so many throu the years and in the end it took a deep soul searching mind altering commitment that so many fail to see for me to succeed.  I am so sorry that she couldn’t find it for herself because she sounds like a woman who had I all sitting right in front of her and just couldn’t see throu the haze … God bless her and it truly broke my heart to read her final story because I had wrote mine at one time and was able to throw it away. God bless her daughter and her family . May she rest in peace…

March 08, 2017

Thank you for sharing such an honest and raw story. So sorry for your loss and Stephanie’s disease. Sending strength and peace to you all. 

March 08, 2017

God Bless You All In The Days, Weeks, Months and Years Ahead. Know you are not alone and cherish your beautiful, living memory of your daughter, that wonderful granddaughter! 

March 08, 2017

So sorry for your loss. May God grant you peace and comfort.

March 08, 2017

I never met you Stephanie. I read about your passing on Facebook. I too battle with addiction. Sober now by the grace of God 3 yrs. I only say that to say this to your beloved family. Stephanie did not choose this. No one chooses addiction. It takes you from everyone and everything.  It is a disease. Not like cancer. More like anxiety or depression. It’s a mental illness.   Like an evil demon that posses your very soul. I just felt it my heart that I should say something.. I am so very sorry for your loss. God bless
 

March 08, 2017

You don’t know me, but I pray for the strength of your family. May God bless you in this difficult time. 
 
All my love from Springfield, Ohio
Roxanna Koerner

March 08, 2017

Praying that you find the strength to forgive her. So sorry for your loss.  Her heart was pure.  

March 08, 2017

Thoughts and prayers to the family on your loss. We don’t know one another but we feel your suffering and loss of your child. We lost our Son 5 1/2 years ago to addiction, and not a day goes by we don’t miss him. Wish there was a way to stop this wave of drugs that is ruining families all over. RIP  Stephanie your struggle is over.
Patty Sabo

March 08, 2017

Although I did not know your daughter, she touches my heart! I’ve seen so many pass, due to addiction and I’m showing this to my nephew in hopes he will read this and make a change for his 2 beautiful kids! My heart breaks for the family and friends. I will share this, for I do believe she’s touched many hearts already! This poem was very beautifully written from a troubled heart! I’m sure she was loved by all she’s mentioned because, she sure was a beautiful young lady! May you Rest In Peace, baby girl! ❤️❤️Rita~

March 08, 2017

So sorry for your loss. Prayers to and your family and prayers for Savannah that she will grow up knowing that her mommy loved her very much. 

March 08, 2017

God bless this family. I hope Stephanie’s words are somewhat healing.
Beth Coyle
Richmond, Indiana

March 08, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss !  ?. I will pray for the family to keep them strong and to be there for each other.  I have been going thru this with my granddaughter. Continue to learn about addiction and spread ur knowledge .  There needs to me more awareness of this horrific disease.   Stephanie may u Rest In Peace !!!!!!
Joan Bisignaro
Thorndale Pa.

March 08, 2017

My sincere condolences to the family . Addiction destroys s many families, I know so well. My first husband had an addiction problem and it destroyed our family. Thankfully eith faith and the help and support if my family and orayers, our kids and I were able to understand, forgive and move on. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

March 08, 2017

Sending my heartfelt condolences for your loss— I didn’t  know Stephanie , but I do know the heartwrenching pain addition causes . Thank you for sharing her poem , her pain and her struggle – may she Rest In Peace with God until you are United together again …. praying for healing and comfort for your family ..

March 08, 2017

I didn’t know Stephanie either, but I’ve seen her story in patirnts I’ve taken care of over the years. God is good, and he loves her so much he wanted her to stop hurting herself and others. Blessed is the Lord. 
Cindy Huffman Corry, Pa.

March 08, 2017

I recently got a rude awakening when I found out that my daughter 24 is addicted to drugs and I pray everyday she overcomes this addiction so my heart breaks for you all  and I will keep you in my prayers 

March 08, 2017

I never met Stephanie. I read her words and my heart breaks for your family. God bless you. I’m very sorry for your loss.

March 08, 2017

This is so sad.   Prayers to all who loved her an cared for her.   I lost my daughter who also had this same fight.    She was 32 had 5 kids.  We ll always have a hole in our hearts.    Now my youngest daughter is doing the same.  I blame myself but I never did drugs.   So as parents we shouldn’t blame ourselves.  Just love her baby girl an hold her when she needs you.  I still hold her baby’s when they need it.   It’s going on 5 yrs an I hurt the same.  Until we see them again in heaven we ll always be lost.   

March 08, 2017

I don’t know any of you , but wanted to say how sorry I am of the passing of this precious persons life . May God be with you all during this horrible time and I will be praying for the daughter left behind to be raised to know and love her Creator Jesus . 
Sincerly , Rebecca Glenn Lisbon Ohio 

March 08, 2017

God rest her soul and help you deal with your loss.. i’m one of the fortunate ones who son survived the evil of addiction..

March 08, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. I understand as a recovering addict myself and the mother of an active addict. There are no words but your daughter said them best. My prayers go out to your family that you all find peace.
Julie Morris

March 08, 2017

Thank you for your bravery in sharing about your daughter, sister, sister in law and mother.  It brought tears to my eyes.  May the Lord bless your willingness to share openly.  I will pray for all of you, and her daughter in particular.  May the Lord truly heal your hearts and may you find some peace b/c of Him.
 

March 08, 2017

Prayers for her and her family. I know about this problem all to well and i would like to say this to anyone who also suffers from this ? Listen its not to late to make a change and also just remember that addiction doest just hurt all of us but those who love and cares about us the most. Dont be affraid to ask for help ,help is availible i promise.Lets work together to put a end to this while we still can.Blessings to you all 

March 08, 2017

Bless your family. May she be at peace.
And may her daughter know that she was lived.

March 08, 2017

I am so very sorry for your loss. I will pray for your entire famil. I will pray for strength and peace for all of you. God bless, 
Lisa

March 08, 2017

I didn’t know your daughter but addiction has also touched our family. Her poem was so true and explained the daily struggles of an addict. Prayers & hugs for your family..may this young mother be at peace. Susan Schmelzer Sugar Grove Ohio

March 08, 2017

So sorry. For your loss it’s the additions fault it a rough road .God is good all the time and he never leaves us or forsakes us .May the Lord comfort you in this valley .Let it go and let him heal your heart be blessed.

March 08, 2017

I never met Stephanie but I know her disease. My husband had it and died when he was 29. He left me and my step daughter who was 7 to figure it out. She was sent back to her mom Bc he had custody not me. So I lost 2 people that day. This happened a long time ago so please listen to me. No one did anything wrong. You all did your very best with what you had. It’s no ones fault. It’s a tragic disease that takes lots of young people. To her daughter I say….she loved you so much and will be the angel watching over you. Drug addicts don’t love themselves. I don’t know why. Maybe that’s part of the disease. To her sisters don’t ask why? There’s no answer. Spend your time building her  daughter up so she always feels special. Of course I wish all of you my sincere condolences. To the parents please remember this isn’t about you. If she had cancer and died you would still grieve her. She did have a terminal type of cancer…addiction. Please don’t let it tear you apart. Stay strong and all of you stay together. I hope my writing to you has helped in some way. That was my intention. Most sincerely, Sam Witt Shevlin 

March 08, 2017

So sorry for your loss. Am praying for comfort and strength for you during this difficult time. God bless. Donna Bennett 

March 08, 2017

Sorry for your loss 
 
 
Teresa Samuel 
 

March 08, 2017

To the Family and Friends of Stephanie,
I am so sorry for the loss of Stephanie. 
Jane Averill

March 08, 2017

God bless your family . I’m sorry for your loss these drugs are killing everyone ! My sister after a 17 year addiction got clean for over 13 years , only to die from complications from hepatitis c from her many years of addiction . But she dedicated 13 years to a recovery center and helped many people . Addiction is a illness God will show mercy on your daughter in heaven and through her child bless you and hope the child will know her mommy was sick not a drug addict 
Annette Dlask

March 08, 2017

My prayers to the family. That poem of hers hit home way too close. I have three boys,  2 of which have been fighting addiction for a couple years now. I hope and pray I never have to go thru this. My heart goes out to you

March 08, 2017

Hello,   I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter.   My daughter has been a meth iv user for about 10 years.   It literally destroys me. I am raising her 2 year old daughter.  My daughter sounds a lot like your daughter.  I pray for you to find some kind of Peace. My sister lost her daughter to a drug overdose. This happening so much!  It is so sad.   I am very sorry. What your daughter wrote and you shared will save someone out there.  God Bless you all

March 08, 2017

To the family who had the strength to share this, I pray for you all!  It is a brave thing to allow strangers into your world, and know your pain. Letting those of us also affected by this horrible epidemic take a glimpse into the life that someone else lead, and how their actions had a casue and effect reaction to others. This has hit a young man I once coached. Who played with my children and grew up with them. He was a good kid with a great heart who, well, had a problem. He was respectful and polite. He did not deserve the outcome he had, as I am sure neither did your child. I send you prayers and respect for sharing with us, and I am so sorry for your loss.Please print these condolances from the strangers that you have touched. So that one day, her daughter will be able to find peace in knowing that her mother’s words helped others. Kathie Egloff ~ Lowville, NY

March 08, 2017

Wow. This breaks my heart. My 26 yr old niece just died of a heroine overdose on Feb. 17, 2017;  same struggles, agonies & ugliness that Stephanie felt.  My heart goes out to you all. And especially her daughter. I have been gifted with 26 yrs of sobriety,  and I know I am beyond blessed!! Love & prayers to this family, & thanx so much for sharing! 

March 08, 2017

I definitely didnt get a chance in life to meet ur daughtor but this poem was very moving i cried so hard i just lost 3 of my closest friends in the same month of Dec 2016 it was so hard i couldnt make myself go to not one of those viewings it was very hard for me so i couldnt even imagine how u feel losing ur child an looking at her child everyday an having to answer all the questions that she mite have but i kno its hard im now 3yrs clean going on 4 an now that iv seen how many loved ones are passing from these horrible horrible drugs it makes me stronger everyday im so sorry for ur loss and may god be with u and ur family. Im sure ur daughtor was amazing as a person by reading sum of her writing god bless her heart and may u carry her on to ur grandchild and let her kno how wonderful and loving her mother was and explain that it was never nobody at fault sumtimes things just happen for all the wrong reasons. Well may u live on the dreams that ur daughtor would of wanted an i send my love and prayers god bless an be strong 
 

March 08, 2017

So sorry for your loss!!  Regardless if she was an addict, you still loved her!!  Ive lost my brother to this horrible disease, my prayers are with you and lots of hugs.

March 08, 2017

i  am so sorry for your loss – what courage and love you have for one another -your daughters heart is exposed for all to see  and what a beautiful woman–God is faithful  –Rip  and sing with the angels  Stephanie!!   
 
 

March 08, 2017

I Know you don’t know me but I read her words, very touching, so I just wanted to say RIP Shephanie the chase is over you can rest in Gods arm now and relax. May God be with your family!

March 08, 2017

I have been in recovery for 8 years. I know how hard it is. Rest In Peace Stephanie. 

March 08, 2017

So sorry for the loss the devil had ahold  of u prayers to ur little girl and family r. I. H. 

March 08, 2017

I didn’t know your daughter, and don’t know your family, but her poem could have as easily been about me as her. I’m almost 31, and was in active addiction for 14 years. I had a son(he’s 11 now), and was clean for a while, but fell back into it. I got pregnant with my daughter (she’ll be 3 in July), and got help to get clean and STAY clean. I just celebrated my 3rd year of sobriety, but almost every single day I lose another friend that wasn’t as lucky as I am. My 11 year old son attempted suicide a few days ago, because he can’t handle my dad and his girlfriend’s alcoholism, and the fact my mom died from alcohol induced cirrhosis. I’m praying for your family to have some peace after this tragedy, no parent should ever have to bury their child, and no child should lose their parent at such a young age. I thank God every day for Saving me, and this poem made me even more grateful and determined to stay clean and worth my children. I’ll post this, and pray that Stephanie’s words can help some of my friends the way they helped me. Love, Prayers, and peace to your family, I’m so so sorry for your loss, and also for her struggle. I Pray she’s finally able to get the peace she craved so much. 
Lyndsie McClain Shelby, OH. 

March 08, 2017

As an alcoholic this touched me in such a real and deep way, addiction sucks… no matter what it is… find peace in knowing her struggle is over.  It is real and it never goes away, it’s hard and it’s everyday all day… I pray for your family, open up with christians that also have gone through the same thing, there are more of us then you know.  Jesus wants us to share our testimony, it’s how we grow in his faith and love.  Many prayers for peace.  God bless

March 08, 2017

  I read Stephanie’s obituary because it was shared on fb by my niece.  Her story has touched me deeply as  I, too, have a family member addicted to drugs.  The pain is real and so is the struggle.  When, in the end the drugs win, we realize just how hard this battle is.  My heart aches for you as you go through what is most certainly the hardest days of your life.  Keep the faith…it is real too!  Satan may rule this world for a time, but God is in control of all eternity and you will see your beloved Stephanie again….in heaven where there is no drug and no sadness, no pain nor suffering.  Praying for you all from Clinton, ME.

March 08, 2017

 Im so so sorry……I also sit here in tears reading this my son is  addicted to heroin This drug is evil I fight evil everyday of my life with his so called friends who keep him high.i ask one the other day if it would be ok for me to give their 10year old son drugs their response was NO so I said them why is it ok for you to sell drugs to my son . At that point the dealer said he never had a mother say that to him and he promised me never to sell to my son again. ..but he is only one there is 1000 of dealers out there. MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL ….I WILL NEVER END MY FIGHT

March 08, 2017

Stephanie, I am so sorry that your way of life was nothing but struggles with the diesese. That it had a grip stronger than all the love that was given to you. I pray that you are now resting and at peace with our God. I pray for your daughter Savannah to know that all though you were in the grips that you truly loved her and only wanted the best. I pray for your parents and sister,brother-in-law and niece and nephew that they can find some closure and comfort knowing your struggles are no longer. I pray that they can become involved and become advocates of this diesese and show others there are ways of life that can be overcome and not stay in a box from this grip. Rest in Peace Stephanie.
TV

March 08, 2017

There are no words to fill the void in your life, sadly you are living out a fear that many of other mothers have feared. May you and your family find peace and comfort. 

March 08, 2017

That poem was right on the money. My heart goes out to the family. You are in my thoughts and prayers. 

March 08, 2017

I’m so sorry she lost her battle I was and still an addict I fight everyday lucky so far 15years now the battle begins to fight the devil I’m winning I will win love n prayers 

March 08, 2017

I am sending hugs to all of youir family.  You dont know me but i lost my son to a heroin overdose 3 years ago and I know the pain of living with an addict and the pain of losing them.  I do hope that her daughter especially will learn that it was the addict and not her mother that was not there when needed and that her mother had a disease that could not be cured.  I pray for strength for all of you and appreciate your ability to put the truth out there for others to learn. 
With a Smile,
Melanie Gullett,   Bryan’s Smile, Inc.

March 08, 2017

My thought, prayers and condolences to Stephanie’s family. Especially her parents, sister and daughter. May God comfort you and keep you going on. R.I.P. Stephanie . My sons have struggled with addiction and I, myself have 27 years in recovery. Thank you for sharing your daughter’s words. She was a daughter, mother, sister, a human being with a sometimes fatal disease. Her life and passing is and will not be in vain. Take care of each other. ?❤✌???
Lori Nelson 

March 08, 2017

 I truly. Sorry. For your loss.addiction. very hard.I lost. My son in 2012.he was 30 years old.he passed. January 12th 7 days before his birthday. January 19th.its very hard to loose. Your children.I still have problems.I miss him so much.the pain never goes away.I have good days and alto if bad.there isn’t a day that goes by that I don’t think of him.when he passed he took a part of me with him.I seen this on Facebook.it broke my heart when I read this.may god bless you..if you ever need a chat I will be on Facebook when you are ready or need a friend.Tammy slife Hughes.you may add me…
 

March 08, 2017

My name is Catherine Grimsley, I’m so sorry for your loss. I will say prayers for you and your family. I know how difficult this is. I have two children fighting addiction, it breaks my heart. Satan’s power is consuming our young , I’ve seen the damages addiction can do. May God be with you in this time of sorrow.

March 08, 2017

So sorry for your loss and my heart goes out to you all I know it’s not easy for the family having an addict in it we have one in ours and the only reason he’s still alive is because he’s in prison again this time for five years ….Even  though I don’t know you I feel the hurt your going through may God Bless you all and always remember she’s in a better place now and that no matter what she put you all  through she did love you all. Ann in New Jersey 

March 08, 2017

So very sorry for your loss

March 08, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. I too lost my daughter  to addiction two years ago and now we are raising our granddaughter. I pray that God grants you comfort during this horrible time.
 
Frank

March 08, 2017

To all of Stephanie’s Family: I send you warmest thoughts and prayers in your grief. I know you’ve been suffering for years and only wish you peace. I too, have a daughter who struggles daily with addiction and is only a few years older than Stephanie. It’s very difficult to see someone you love suffer. Karen B. 
 

March 08, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my brother to addiction. Although I know he is at peace and free of those demons it hurts more than words can say. Thank you for sharing her story. I hope it helps someone who is in that position. Prayers for your family. 
Angela Armstrong 
Columbus, OH

March 08, 2017

Stephanie is Safe In The Arms Of Jesus. The war is over.
I pray for you as you journey through these days, knowing that your journey has been hard with the years of addiction.  Peace and comfort to you that only the Lord can provide. Remember the laughter and joy and the good times.  
A Mother of an addict in Allentown

March 08, 2017

I didn’t know Stephanie or you, her family but please accept my sincere sorrow for your loss and all the pain you have endured and the grief you will deal with the rest of your lives. I promise to pray for you and your grandchild. I also want to Thank You for sharing Stephanie’s story. No one knows how or why or even who this kind of life will take hold of. I commend you for loving her and seeing her thru to the end. I know too many families dealing with this grief. I pray for Gods comfort for your family. 

March 08, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. It’s always hard to lose a child, but when it’s drugs it’s worse. My son battled 5 or more years and since his daughter was adopted by me and my husband he has been clean. Dometimes they just have yo lose everything they have but too often it’s their own life. Teach her daughter to always love her mom, she was just sick with an addiction..

March 08, 2017

Oh how I understand her pain. Her message is so important to all who suffer. God grace me with the desire to quit drinking and doing drugs in 1985. I asked him every morning to give me the desire not to use, and he does. God bless Savannah and all who love her and are left behind. 

March 08, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss and will keep you all in my prayers.  I read this obit and poem on FB.  It just found its way to my page I guess.  I have a great niece that is 3 years old.  Her mother is currently in jail.  She has been charged with possession of marijuani, manufacturing meth, among other things.  I had heard that she had been on drugs for the past year.  I plan to share Stephanie’s comments with this 18 year old mother of my great niece.  Thank you for sharing what Stephanie wrote.  Kind of ironic that their names all begin with ‘S’.  From Stephanie and Savannah, this poem is presented to Sarah and Sophia; in an effort to encourage a different outcome.  May you rest in peace Stephanie.  Kim in South Carolina

March 08, 2017

I am a total stranger, by by God’s grace I was made aware of this page, and read it, and my heart is breaking, for everyone involved, especially for little Savannah.  I pray that God will comfort her and that she will be reminded often that all things, even the worst and most evil things that can happen, work together for good to those who love God.  I pray that she, and the rest of Stephanie’s family and friends, will be surrounded by love and encouragement from now until the day when we will all be reunited in Christ.  I hope Savannah will know the love, comfort, affection, encouragement, support, and protection she needs from those who are still left in her life, that she will come to know Christ at an early age if she doesn’t already, and that she will never fall victim to this horrible, horrible disease.  I am so sorry you all have to endure this.  You will be in my prayers.

March 08, 2017

I am so sorry for our loss.  Sending serenity, courage, strength to the suffering family. *hugs you to life*
May you find peace that her words live on in the form of HOPE that no one need die from this disease as hundreds of thousands of people in recovery go about our day in a unified effort to make recovery more available to those who want it. 
I’m truly amazed and so extremely grateful for the courage of sharing her words and her story.  They remind those in recovery of the reality and the necessity to remain abstinent and continue in the struggle to stay here for those yet to come. The stigma must go.  Thank you for aiding that effort.
In loving and caring service to ALL who suffer,
C.S.Smith

March 08, 2017

So sorry for your loss.I didn’t know her but her poem was profound and I shared this in the hope of helping someone else. God bless you and Savannah. Hope you find peace thank you for sharing. Jenny from P.A.

March 08, 2017

May The Lord God comfort you deeply. I’m sorry for this loss. I know she’s at rest but I loss my brother from drugs and alcohol  and it sucks. For her daughter I pray she find Jesus in a Real way, deeply! Get her a Christian mentor! 

March 08, 2017

My heartfelt condolences go out to your entire family. No parent should have to bury their child. God bless all of you for bringing awareness to this terrible disease. Your daughter’s words will touch many and if her words can touch my daughter I will be eternally grateful to your daughter and all of you. May she Rest In Peace in the arms of Our Lord and may you all find comfort in knowing her struggle is over. She is now your special angel watching over her child. 
Donna Mitrano Rochester, NY

March 08, 2017

Wow!! Definately inspirational. True and so very deep. Sending condolences to all. 

March 08, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss.  I did not know Stephanie and do not know you…but I saw this on facebook and felt overcome with emotion.  While my daughter did not die she is an addict and works everyday to keep “clean.”  People have got to spread the word on drugs it has so much sadness for everyone.  This past December we buried a 19 year old due to drug abuse.  Please know that Stephanies letter will be passed on to help others.  I pray that you all will have peace in the fact that you will see Stephanie again in drug free heaven.  GOD BLESS YOU ALL
lisa miller…louisville, ky

March 08, 2017

I am deeply sorry for your loss…. I was moved to tears reading this and I hope and pray this helps many that are out there struggling right now! Prayers going up for your family! Thank you for sharing her story with us! ((Hugs))

March 08, 2017

MY MY   I CAN NOT IMAGINE THIS PAIN   MUCH PRAYER FAMILY
 

March 08, 2017

Robin Barber. I am a stranger to you, but your story has touched me.  My heart goes out to the family.

March 08, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss. I do not know your family or your daughter, but I can say that my family was just in this same position with my brother 6 months ago. The pain is unreal, but like you said, even if the words touch just one person then their death is not in vain. Prayers for your family for strength! And prayers for all the addicts in the world that they get clean one day so their families do not have to experience this pain.
Kim C

March 08, 2017

my thoughts and prayers to you and your family.. i didnt know her but the painf
she must have felt for herself and her daughter and family must have been a terible load. may she be remember for the good times and memories god bless

March 08, 2017

I am very sorry for your loss.  I live in Lexington, OH, and one of my FaceBook shared the obituary.  Her poem said it all.  She just couldn’t find the peace she wanted, because drugs wouldn’t let her.  Please know that I care. Mary Pat Kline

March 08, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. May God comfort you and bring the peace of Jehovah Shalom over you.

March 08, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. I am a recovering addict and when I read this it touched my heart.I have two little girls who have saw me at my worst. I was very selfish in my active addiction. Her poem has reminded me of what is waiting for me if I use again. We only think it affects us. We destroy everything in our path but when we are in our disease we are too selfish to see it. I pray for you and may God wrap His arms around all of you in this difficult time. God bless.

March 08, 2017

To Stepanie’s family. I read her story and was so touched. She seemed filled with love for you all, especially her daughter, but knew she was fighting something that had a hold on her that she couldn’t break free of. Her heart wanted to be everything she, and you all, wanted her to be, she just couldn’t get passed the addiction. She was beautiful and had a soft heart; it was obvious in her letter. Unfortunately, even the very best parents are no match for the friends their kids find out in the world and they seem to have a greater influence than all those years you loved and tried to lead your child on the right path. My cousins son, Brian, is addicted to Meth and is struggling, the entire family is struggling, as you well know. He, like Stephanie, is soft hearted, loving, intelligent, attractive…but meth got a hold of him and doesn’t show signs of letting go of him any time soon! My cousin, (his mom), worries about him constantly and most nights cannot sleep. Anyone with an addict child understands this all too well.I hope your family and all family’s who are going through the struggle of living with an addicted child know IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT.My 21-yr-old nephew (also named Brian), committed suicide when he was 21 yrs due to his meth addiction. I worried he would not go to heaven because it was suicide. My pastor said that because Brian was not in his right mind God wouldn’t refuse him entry into His Kingdom. That gave me great peace as he was like a son to me.Stephanie is now at peace with her Lord. She will be watching over you all and smiling – there is no sadness in heaven. She’ll be the first one to run to you with open arms when it’s time for you to join her in heaven.May God Bless you all. I pray her little girl knows her mama loved her so much, but was sick and couldn’t be the mom she so wanted to be.Deb

March 08, 2017

I dont know your family but I sit here with tears running down my cheeks. I to lost a son to this horrible disease and I know the pain your going through. I will be praying for you and your family during this difficult time. Yola Kemp

March 08, 2017

I am so very sorry for your loss. Addiction always leads to another…but hopefully her message speaks loud and clear of a love that overshadows poor choices and shame. Savannah,  I do know know you or your family…but by the words of your Mother…she loved you dearly. May the Love of God always be your guiding light. 

March 08, 2017

Recovering addict from Georgia I have shared this with the addicts here still trying to get it right. Praying for your family
 
Misty Sumner
Smithville, Georgia

March 08, 2017

Sending big love, light, and condolences to the Evanko family.
Love from (Ginny’s daughter),  Livi

March 08, 2017

Hello I didn’t know your daughter but reminded me of my sister she didn’t pass away but it made me understand her a little more an I thank your daughter for these words she has spoken.  May her heart an body rest in peace.  
                                   Resheena woodland 

March 08, 2017

I didn’t know her but want to give my condolences. I am a recovering addict of 18 years and have been sober almost 6 years. Everyday is a struggle but I have taken God’s grace and forgiveness and have applied myself to a college degree in order to become an alcohol and addiction counselor to help those that need and want it. I can only say that I am sorry for your loss and can only pray to help others that struggle with the disease of addiction. 
 

March 08, 2017

I’m am so sorry for your family’s loss. I did not know your daughter but my nephew is a herion addict since he was 16. 10 yrs later with a 5 yr old little girl he is still seeking the high. We pray for him that somehow this vice will one day be broken so his baby girl Hailey will not grow without him. There are no words to lessen the pain you are feeling but there are many who share in your loss. Thank you for sharing your daughters story and words with us. I hope with the support of so many your family will be able to heal. With sympathy, Lorrie Hutchinson 

March 08, 2017

My condolences to your family. I hope that her story is an inspiration for even at least one addict to get help. Recovery is possible, I’ve got just over 5 months myself. Thank you for sharing her story. Clean another day and recovering addict in Tennessee.

March 08, 2017

I’ve been clean since 2014 and it’s a daily challenge. I’m sorry for your loss. My prayers go out to the family. No words can express or comfort what u are going through. I’m sorry…

March 08, 2017

I’m so sorry to hear of your loss!! Yes,she is at peace now,in the arms of our Heavenly Father!!  We pray for the peace of her family and their wisdom in knowing that they did everything that they could do for their beloved child and to know that they are not alone!! Please accept my heartfelt condolences for your loss!!

March 08, 2017

You don’t know me nor do I know you. I came across your daughter’s obituary on Facebook. My heart breaks for you as I too lost a son to addiction two years ago. I will share what your daughter wrote in hope that it does help someone. Prayers for you and your family as you try to pick up pieces and continue on. 

March 08, 2017

I am so sorry for your terrible loss  I also saw on Facebook and my heart hurts for your family. I loss two nephews to this terrible addition. I lived it through my siblings, watching the worry and pain and then the final chapter to their nightmare. I commend you sharing her battle. God bless you and your family. Will keep you in my prayers.  Debbie Claus

March 08, 2017

I  can not even begin to put into words how sorry I am for your loss. I have a son addicted to pain pills. I applaud you for saying out loud and sharing your dear daughter’s journey. We need to remove the stigma of addiction and demand better means of dealing with these issues. I can tell by her words such a beautiful soul.

March 08, 2017

It is with a heavy heart and tears streaming down my face that I comment on this terrible situation. My son is an addict and has been sober for the past 39 months. Many people don’t understand the severity of the disease, it certainly appears that your daughter did. Thank you for sharing her obituary as I am sure the pain your family must have gone through to share her story. My family will be praying for your family and please accept my heartfelt thanks for sharing her story. 

March 08, 2017

I didn’t know Stephanie, but her poem really touched me. I’m a wife, mother & recovering addict. I’ve been through rehab, counseling & jail. I think that when you’re addicted to something, your addiction feeds off of your shame and self-loathing. It’s a never-ending circle. What’s amazing is that none of that was enough to stop me. The only thing that’s helped me at all is God’s grace. Once I accepted that, I was finally able to stop. Your family and Stephanie are in my thoughts and prayers. May He cover you with his love and peace.

March 08, 2017

My deepest sympathy to your family, thank you for sharing Stephanie’s words and regrets, it has touched many lives.  So many people, so many kids, so many families are stricken by this horrible disease of addiction.  Love and prayers to you! CE
 

March 08, 2017

My heart breaks for your family! Thank you for sharing your family’s loss with the world so that maybe, just maybe, her passing, her words and feelings, touch someone who is struggling or a family member at loss as to what to do to help! Laying a loved one to rest is never easy, but losing a loved one to this terrible disease is infuriating! May Savannah grow to learn about the disease that claimed her mother and learn about it so that she may not fall victim. This is my prayer for my son as well. I try to be open and honest with him so that he has all the information he needs to battle what his DNA is predisposed to. I pray for peace for your family! Thank you, again, for sharing your pain.
Stacy Saunders, grateful recovering addict

March 08, 2017

So sorry for your loss! It’s just so sad I have a brother struggling with addiction and this is my fear :::::( the fear of loosing him. So sorry from the bottom of my heart I don’t know u but I hate hearing about people loosing there life.
My condolences to you and your family and friends 🙁 

March 08, 2017

She touch my life from day one she is one awesome friend love all way George D 

March 08, 2017

I am so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter. We lost our daughter in July of 2013 from endocriditis from 10 years of heroin addiction. She was 27. She left us a beautiful daughter. She is now 5 1/2. I am so happy for you that you also have a living part of your daughter to hold. And your daughter is at peace now. No more struggle day after day. Peace be with you

March 08, 2017

My deepest condolences for the loss of your daughter, Stephanie. You have suffered not only from her death but deeply from her addiction. With that “first high” she was lost, her life describes my niece, Summer, we are going in to the ninth year of addiction. My sister is raising her daughter who will turn 9 this summer. I pray for you and your family, I pray for protection over your granddaughter. God bless and keep you. Robin A.

March 08, 2017

I don’t know Stephanie or her family, thank you for sharing her letter, and my condolences for your family, I hope my Sister sees this and reads it, hopefully it will make her stop her drug addiction! Prayers for your family and God bless you all. ??????

March 08, 2017

So sorry for your loss 

March 08, 2017

My deepest condolences to your family.  I saw Stephanie’s obituary on FB and was moved. I will share her words. May she Rest in Peace. 
I have seen what addiction can do to a family and it is truly heartbreaking.
I am sending all of you strength, love and prayers.  
Mary Lee

March 08, 2017

I am so sorry for your family’s loss. Thankyou for sharing her thoughts, too often in these circumstances we can never conceive of the private torment our loved ones are going through. God bless.??????????????????

March 08, 2017

I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful mother, daughter, and sister. I came across Stephanie’s page and read her note. I hope someone will read that and get the help they need so their family will not go through the pain you are going through now. Take care of your loved ones and yourself. Please sure the good times with Stephanie’s daughter so she can smile with memories not have  tears with the bad ones. Thank you! Donna

March 08, 2017

I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter, Stephanie. May she rest in peace now. Many prayers for you her family and especially her daughter Savannah. I do pray that her story touches someones in her same position that reads this and changes their life! Peace and prayers for all of you ????

March 08, 2017

Our deepest heartfelt sympathies goes out to you and your family for the loss of Stephanie. We pray for each and everyone to have peace to bring you comfort, courage to face the days ahead, and loving memories to forever fill our hearts. 
 
You are in our thoughts and prayers, thank you for sharing your story.  
 
Summerville, SC

March 08, 2017

So sorry for your loss. My prayers are with your family during this time of sorrow and the years to come. God bless you and your family! 

March 08, 2017

May Stephanie Rest in Paradise. What a beautiful young lady. My heartfelt condolences to her loved ones. 

March 08, 2017

I am so very sorry for your loss. I didn’t know your daughter but feel every word of her poem. I lost my little brother 8 years ago to an overdose. And even though he died in my arms I still struggle with the same addiction. I’ve overdosed more time than I can count and have 2 beautiful kids. I still struggle. My family helps in every way possible. I know this is hard for you. I know to well. All I can pray for your family is that you hold together as she said you would. I pray you remember her kindness and smile. Please don’t dwell on the drug that took her. It will eat away at you. Find ways that you can join together to fight against the demon that is killing families. I pray you find peace.

March 08, 2017

Biu

March 07, 2017

May your daughter now rest in peace and may you find strength to carry on the long journey you are intrusted to raise her child. Peace Carol G.

March 07, 2017

I didn’t know Stephanie & like most, came across her obituary on facebook & was curious. Her words brought tears to my eyes & sound all too familiar to me. In different words, I have thought & said all of this before during my active drug addiction & many times after in my recovery. My son’s face alone has made me weep millions of years due to feeling horrible about myself & my actions. There are so many of us, I hope she didn’t feel like she was the only one, like I did so many times. May peace truly be with her family & friends, I hope they are able to find comfort in the fact that at least she is not suffering any longer.
 
Love from West Virginia

March 07, 2017

Wow Geri. Beautifully worded.
Savannah and family,  I’m truely sorry for your loss.  I too have a daughter struggling with addiction.   Her brain isn’t the same as before she tried alcohol and drugs. She,was,a fantastic sports player! 
I’ll pray for you all . And know that stephanie is at peace. For she never wanted to live like this.  She did het best to love you with all she had.  
Rest in peace 
Patty Seifert and family
Harleysville,  Pa.

March 07, 2017

I’m sorry for your loss. Too many good people denied the privilege to grow old. I’m a recovering addict, and wish to let you know, that it isn’t that she didn’t love her daughter or that she wasn’t important, or more important than the drugs. The drugs just take over and make decisions often bad ones, for you. I wish you all luck and love. Please be strong and keep. Telling her story. Thank you for taking the time to share, and share her thoughts, feelings and pain with us.

March 07, 2017

My Heart aches for your family. Prayers for strength for all. God Bless her daughter. Take some comfort in knowing your daughter, Mom, sister, Friend, is finally at peace and no longer battling. Hugs for all.

March 07, 2017

Hello,
I’m sorry for your loss. I will keep your family in prayer 

March 07, 2017

Hello I am truely sorry for your loss I did not know Stephanie or the family I saw this on facebook and I am truely sorry my heart breaks for you all.

March 07, 2017

I do not know you but my thoughts and prayers are with the family.  About a month ago we lost a great niece to addiction and depression just 2 wks shy of her 21st birthday.  Praying for God’s peace and comfort for your family.
Pat Hayes

March 07, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. May God’s grace give you strength through the days ahead for your family.  Saying prayers for comfort and peace. 

March 07, 2017

Thank you for sharing. I pray that your beautiful Stephanie’s words ring in the right ears light be shed on many eyes, and hearts be open. Those in judgement mode, I pray their tongues be twisted and they look at their own marred souls. I pray for your family to find peace in the many days of longing ahead, and pray that you have comfort and strength when your soul whales to Heaven. And never let go of each other, continue to love and find a way to let go of the bitter. Bitter for the scum that puts this stuff out to rob our babies eternal bliss and ultimately their lives.
Esther Stoutenburgh, grieving mother of missing daughter also 2/20/2017

March 07, 2017

Thank you for sharing. I pray that your beautiful Stephanie’s words ring in the right ears light be shed on many eyes, and hearts be open. Those in judgement mode, I pray their tongues be twisted and they look at their own marred souls. I pray for your family to find peace in the many days of longing ahead, and pray that you have comfort and strength when your soul whales to Heaven. And never let go of each other, continue to love and find a way to let go of the bitter. Bitter for the scum that puts this stuff out to rob our babies eternal bliss and ultimately their lives.

March 07, 2017

First of all my condolences to your entire family.  I like others posting don’t know your family…I.lost my brother in 2012 to an addiction. I know this life…He said he would pass before my Momand he did. .. now they are both gone

March 07, 2017

I did not know Stephanie, your daughter, but I do know a daughter like yours, my daughter. We have battled addiction for 11 years, its hard for most to understand Stephanies words unless they walk in our shoes. I raise my daughters two oldest children, they are 9 and 10. The questions they ask and the knowledge they have about addiction is beyond what they should be aware of, its heartbreaking. What’s as heartbreaking is that our daughters gift of motherhood fell short due to addiction. It’s not that they love their children less than other mothers, its not that they dont have huge dreams for their children, its that their addiction prevents them from being the mother that they were intended to be. 
They battle the demon of addiction like they are at war. They are at war with their minds. They do not want to be at war, they want peace, they want health, they want laughter, love, and respect. 
Wars are not always won in the way we hope and pray for. The words left by your daughter brought heartbreaking tears. These words are so familiar and real. 
May Stephanie be at peace and for her family, know that she loved you. 
My deepest sympathy to you all.

March 07, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. Saying prayers for comfort. All of our sons and daughters are special and beautiful to us. Thank you for sharing Stephanies story. GOD BLESS.

March 07, 2017

My thoughts, prayers are with this Brave Family, who dare to share the forbidden disease and its effects on our families..and with Stephanie, Who like all good addicts, will take all blame because we know we are not supposed to even THINK of drugs/alcohol…..Addiction is a disease..Chronic – Profressive – Fatal if left untreated. Such a struggle, Fight for life…  Thank you so much for bringing Awareness to this very real destroyer of human life……Good People, Bad Disease!  So very, very sorry for your loss…

March 07, 2017

I am so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter, sister and mom.   Thank you for sharing Stephanie’s letter and she was pouring out her heart.   Addiction is a demon that once it grabs you it refuses to let go. I lost my dear brother years ago and saw his suffering for many years.   It is so very sad that addiction does not care how much an individual fights back.  Addiction strips everything to the core.   I pray for all of you for God to give you the strength to move forward one day at a time.  I am sure you will let her daughter know how much her mom loved her and this disease is very powerful.   Praying for God to stay by your sides during this difficult journey.  God Bless.   

March 07, 2017

How sad for everyone involve … it is so hard to read her letter without thinking about my two boys who are addicted… sad to hear of Savannah passing… prayers to the family snd especially her daughter may God give you peace and comfort in this trying time… pray for those who are addict that God place a healing touch away from the addiction … so sorry 

March 07, 2017

I read Your daughter’s obituary and the poem she wrote, as it’s being cuculated all over Facebook, which is a great thing. 
I’m so very sorry for your loss. No family should have to go through this. My son is in recovery for heroin addiction himself. It was an eight year nightmare. It finally took his sisters and me pressing charges, which got him locked up and off the drug long enough to be scared. He was clean four years and related again for almost four months when his wife suddenly left him for another man when he thought their life was perfect and had no idea. He finally came to me to ask for help again and has been clean now for almost two years.
He and I both reach out to people now to get them help. We both are with a Non-profit, National Assessment Foundation.  I wish somehow I had known of your daughter, so we could have helped her too.
My son went to a funeral here in WV today as his friend and an extended family member of ours also lost his battle with addiction past week also. I wish to God there were a way to help save every single person. 
I wanted to thank you for sharing her story. I KNOW it will be the guiding force to someone to get the help they need. I anticipate it helping many people. 
Please, if there is anything I can do for you, please reach out to me, even if it’s finding you grief counseling or listening myself. I truly cannot imagine the pain your family is in. I don’t want to see anyone else have to go through this pain and is why I’m so thankful family’s like yours are willing to share their loved one’s story, to perhaps save someone else from this dreadful disease. 
 
My name is Debbie Gray. Please know you can reach out to me anytime. My email is soberservices6@gmail.com and phone number is 304-820-5375.
Again, my deepest condolences for your loss, yet my sincerest thanks to you for realizing sharing your daughter’s story may be the determine factor for someone else to get help. 
God Bless
Debbie 

March 07, 2017

You have my deepest sympathies. I do so understand your loss. I wish I could say I didn’t. We lost my husbands daughter 2 years ago in June. My daughter also suffers from addiction and I’m raising her child. I’m so so sorry for your loss. 

March 07, 2017

I am so very sorry for your loss ! I didn’t know your daughter, or you. But I lost a 19 year old daughter to suicide, alcohol.  I Pray the Good Lord wraps his arms around you and helps you through this rough time. ????????      God Bless, Sincerely, Patty Wiseman-Offinger 

March 07, 2017

Another gone too soon. ???. God be with you all and know her words have touched so many hearts. So sad. So sorry. ? Ruth Sprouse Parkersburg WV

March 07, 2017

My heart goes out to the family. I also relate to this tragedy. My 38 year old daughter was hooked on opiates for at least 20 years. They were guarenteed to be non addictive. She suffered horrible pain due to a car accident when she was about to be 13. Getting hooked on Heroin was not her fault. Once it was deemed that opiates were addictive the scripts stopped and the addict was left to fend for themselves because Drs would no longer hand them out. Each story is definitiely unique. Mine is so similar to this I feel anguished and so full of hurt for you.God bless you . 

March 07, 2017

Sorry for your loss.prayers from Jone Moore

March 07, 2017

I did not know your daughter, but wanted to say I think this powerful message will save someone’s life. Prayers being sent your way while you deal with an incredible loss. 

March 07, 2017

I did not know your daughter but I just read her obituary and I had to tell you how sorry I am for your loss. May your daughter find the peace she so desperately seeked and may all of you to find some way to go on without her. Give her daughter a special hug every day and let her know that she is loved by you and that she has a very special angel looking over her.

March 07, 2017

May god bless you all in your time of sorrow.  Keep praying.     Freda Pennybaker      Zanesville. Ohio 43701

March 07, 2017

I’m a friend of Louann Valenti Guinette from high school & this was posted on her timeline . 
Even though I don’t know this young lady who passes away I felt compelled to write something to help ease your pain. 
I’m so deeply sorry for your loss. Please know your entire family are in my prayers. 
“May the Lord keep this precious child in His arms & comfort her soul. May He also wrap his love around this family at their time of grief.”
Michele Adams Mich
Ephrata, PA
 
 

March 07, 2017

Hello,
i did not know your daughter but I saw this on Facebook and my heart sank! I recently just got out of rehab and I thank god everyday that I reached out and got help, I wish everyone out there could get help . I hate the disease of drug addiction it’s taking to many people and I just want it all to stop and go away. I am so so so sorry you all have to go through this I truly am from the bottom of my heart. Her story will,def touch many people it deffinetly did me… God bless all of you.. ” God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change , the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference , just for today.. With love, Toni Mcelhinny from Greenville pa

March 07, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss.i loss my son two years ago in Feb from addiction.i am praying for your family.lorri beast on and family

March 07, 2017

Prayers for this family ?

March 07, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. Addiction is sad and scary and I have felt the fears that you have. Lots of prayers and hugs to your entire family. May Stephanie finally be at peace. 
Jamie

March 07, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss, I can’t even imagine your pain.  I have someone whom I love very much and almost lost a few times due to drugs. In and out of jail, then he’s good for a bit then it starts again. I know where your coming from but the only good thing out of this is knowing your daughter is finally at peace. Sending prayers for your family
Barbara DiSanto.

March 07, 2017

I did not know Stephanie, nor do I know you, her family.  I came aross her obit on FaceBook.  I am sorry for your loss.  Her poem spoke volumes and by passing on her obit, perhaps someone who needs to get help will get it.  I don’t understand that kind of addiction but I see how it gets ahold of someone and it’s hard to get rid of it.  I pray God will give you all the courage to move forward. He can give you His peace that passes all understanding. Lean on Him and He will take care of you all.  Remember what was good about your child and pass that on to her daughter.  It’s so easy to see what was wrong; just concentrate on the good, the lovely.  Praying for you all.  Beth

March 07, 2017

May God comfort you all…..i dont know you or your daughter but my heart just breaks for your  family …..so many are facing this horrible monster and ill pray for your peace…..cindi reeder

March 07, 2017

My condolences to your family. I HOPE that your courage and honesty  in sharing Stephanie’s  struggle will help others seek help.Recovery is possible and works.Thank you for helping me stay clean another day. May God comfort and care for you in the coming days years. Recovering Addict in Connecticut 

March 07, 2017

I didn’t know Stephanie, but her story and her death touched me. I hope that she is able to find the peace that eluded her during her struggle with addiction. I will pray for all of her family and friends, especially her daughter. I can’t imagine what you have all been through watching her ultimately self destruct. Her words were prophetic….eerily so. I know that took a lot of courage to post her poem. Hopefully, it will continue to touch others around the world. In doing so, her legacy will rise above her struggles to heights unknown.

March 07, 2017

Sorry for your loss!!kathy paster

March 07, 2017

How tragic. This poor soul. It amazes me how many families go through this on a daily basis. Makes me extremely grateful that my kids have never went this route. As a parent, I know this is breaking her parents hearts, especially when there’s a child involved. It’s going to be up to the grandparents to make sure this little girl knows her mommy loved her, that she struggled daily with this disease. This isn’t something anyone asks for, let alone consume their lives. I hope by sharing this heartbreaking story, it helps at least one person. My condolences to you & your family. Thank you for sharing such a devastating loss to your family. I pray for her daughter & hope she one day understands how much her mommy loved her.

March 07, 2017

Prayers and peace for the family ❣

March 07, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss.  As a Mom my heart aches for you.  Your family is so brave for putting this out there and giving people a glimpse of the pain and shame felt by someone who is in active addiction.  So many times as family members, we suffer in silence, afraid of being judged by others.  Thank you for putting a face to this disease, at such a difficult time in your life you chose to help others. God Bless you all.

March 07, 2017

Thank you for your courage and sharing your daughter’s story my daughter too face ‘s the Battle of addiction every day I am very sorry for your loss and hope someday no one will ever feel the pain of the loss again Joyce Noel

March 07, 2017

My deepest condolences to your family.  This could very easily been me, my son is going on five years sober (alcoholism).  I thank you for sharing your precious Stephanie’s message.  If her words can help just one person, praise God.  I will keep you all in my prayers.  May God bless you all.  MRA in NJ

March 07, 2017

I am so very sorry for your loss.  You don’t know me but I lost my daughter to heroin addiction (overdose) on Dec. 31st, 2016.  She was clean for 3 years and just not with the right people the last few weeks of her life.  Mourn, cry, pray for strength, do whatever you have to do to get by.  Your daughter’s obituary sounds similar to my daughter’s.  I think that is what grabbed my attention.  I know my daughter is at peace and flying high with the angels as I’m sure yours is also.  Thoughts and prayerfs are sent your way.

March 07, 2017

I am sorry for you’re loss.

March 07, 2017

Addiction is such an evil being, thank you for your honest words and I pray you are at peace. These words may be the words that help another addict be able to live

March 07, 2017

Bless  you family for your honesty.God can help you heal and now stay far away from the memories of addiction. Now the shadow of drugs is gone time for the sun to shine on  you.  Donna
 

March 07, 2017

So very sorry for your loss.  The words that she left should touch someone who is suffering from,addiction.  Prayers are going up for her daughter.  May God be with her and with all of you,for what you have endured for 17 years.  Hopefully your lives will go on, and maybe you can touch someone who is going through the same thing.  Again I am so so sorry for loss.

March 07, 2017

So very sorry for your loss you will be in my prayers
Jean Sacco

March 07, 2017

Thank you for sharing.  Hopefully her words will reach someone else in the struggle to get well.  My sympathies for her family and friends. Especially her daughter.  RIP Stephanie.   I did not know her or her family but appreciate your sharing this to possibly help others. 

March 07, 2017

Thats some powerful writing, I hope and pray for her family to find comfort at this difficult time, and I pray her soul is finally at rest. I have fought myself for years and I know how difficult the battle is. R.I.P

March 07, 2017

Thank U for sharing ! I’m so sorry for ur loss . As I am for mine . My Son committed suiside on Sept. 29, 2005,
i do know why and how much U hurt! I do to! Everyday! Everyday! I ask myself why did I not see something different! But I didn’t see it! He was 33 years and 23 days old. May God give U the peace, I haven’t found yet!! 
Just so sorry!!

March 07, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss….such brave words…I wish she could of found her way…..RIP ANGEL..you are at peace now..?

March 07, 2017

Many prayers lifted your way!! Our family also suffers from the disease of drug addiction!  At least now she can rest-the fight is over!  God Nless and take care!
 
Kim Parker
Chesapeake, VA

March 07, 2017

As part of my work, I look into the face of addiction all the time. I do not judge. It’s not my place to judge. I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to all of you and especially to her wee one. I wish I could have met her.
 
Cheryl Grala
Consumer Family Satisfaction Team

March 07, 2017

I am so sorry for your lose. Praying God will wrap his loving arms around you and bring comfort. God bless. 
 
Michele Nardi 

March 07, 2017

I am so sorry for your lose. Praying God will wrap his loving arms around you and bring comfort. God bless. 

March 07, 2017

To Stephanie’s family and friends… Although I did’t know her or had ever met her… My heart goes out to all of you. Addiction is heartbreaking!! It literally destroys families… My thoughts and prayers go out to Stephanie’s family and friends… Addiction is hard to understand for those left behind….. Bless this child gone way before her time….

March 07, 2017

God bless! Everyone has demons you touched. alout of peoples lives!

March 07, 2017

I am so very sorry for your pain and you lost of your daughter. Kathleen Williams

March 07, 2017

I am sorry for the lose of your beautiful loved one. My heart hurts for you. My baby brother overdosed on Thanksgiving day 2014. He was a very kind gentle soul. 

March 07, 2017

RIP Stephanie your family will keep you in there heart’s everyday. Your baby girl will be well taken care of by your family. I’m sorry for your family’s loss. Prayers to all your family Rhonda Brown Browning Troy Ohio 

March 07, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss. I don’t know you but my daughter has suffered with addiction for 10 years and I’m raising her children. It’s definitely something I don’t understand. May God bless you and be with you during this difficult time.
Susie Bourne

March 07, 2017

I am so very sorry for your loss I too lost my husband to addiction. There are no words but my you find comfort somehow knowing now she is finally truly at peace
Dorothy catney

March 07, 2017

Your daughter was incredibly brave to fight this devil. God bless her and her family. It takes a lot of courage to come forward with this private information and I commend you for doing so. Addiction is such a terrible disease..And it affects the whole family a close family member of  mine suffers…Sending you strength and peace. Jane Long

March 07, 2017

Her life was not in vain!  She was taken by something that drove her to feel she wasn’t enough and needed more to fill that void.  It’s not the parents, the family or even her fault.  It’s a demon who gets into individuals – lying that “this won’t hurt” and to encourage one to keep on using.  God Bless all who suffer from the residue of this demon and may God help these individuals make it thru and succeed at crushing this horrific disease!

March 07, 2017

I am so very sorry for your loss, my heart breaks for those who have lost a loved one to addiction. Thank you for sharing the letter written by your daughter. I shared her obituary here in Ohio where drugs are rampart and addiction epidemic. May God Bless you. 
Lori 

March 07, 2017

May she rest in peace and may her family find peace knowing she did her very best
I am very sorry for your loss.
 
Nancy Ladonne

March 07, 2017

So sorry for your loss,to many souls being lost to this disease!Sorry! Doug Baker!

March 07, 2017

I cried for Stephanie.  I pray for her and her family.  I can understand first hand as a parent of an addict.  The are no words that will console you or answer the”whys”, so I will pray. 

March 07, 2017

I am so very,very sorry to hear of Stephanie’s passing.As the mother of a recovering addict,I understand the horror&grief that addiction  brings…and how so very insurmountable recovery can seem.My thoughts and prayers are with you all:I pray that The Lord will grant you comfort&peace.Special prayers for Savannah.???

March 07, 2017

Poor baby had the dreaded gene.  RIP

March 07, 2017

So sorry for your loss. It was beautiful what was written and so day someone will listen to her wards and see the ture meaning prayers to your family’s 

March 07, 2017

. I am so sorry for your loss. The poem hits home for me. I to have lost a nephew to this disease. My daughter is also an recovering addict for one month now after second attempt. I feel sad, mad and angry . I don’t want to bury my daughter. Heroine is bad roller coaster ride.she is doing treatment now because she is pregnant. I just pray everyday to

March 07, 2017

Although I didnt know Stephany I am so sorry for your loss, with all that is out there I pray to God that this helps just one person in their adventure in life! God bless you and your family with peace and comfort… 
Sue Washburn Lisbon, NY

March 07, 2017

I myself have struggled with addiction. I am one of the lucky few that somehow found my way home. I am so sorry for your loss. I can say with complete conviction, that your daughter ment every word she said. Drugs are all encompassing and completely overtake your life, even when you want to do right by your family. Her struggle is over now, she finally knows peace. Rest easier knowing she no longer has to fight, she no longer is suffering in pain. There was nothing you could of donedifferntly, addiction knows no preference as far as who its latched onto. The bbest parents in the world could not change that fact. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Kate

March 07, 2017

I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter.  She was an incredibly beautiful and caring individual fighting a battle that many like herself cannot win here on this earth.  May God bless all of her family and friends and may her testament be a living will to those who read it that need help to reach out and do whatever they can to break the cycle of addiction.   I have lost some family and friends to addiction something I will never be able to understand. I pray daily for God to help those who are beaten down by addiction to be lifted up and rise above this deadly disease.  My heart truly breaks every time I see another beautiful soul lost to addiction.

March 07, 2017

Thank you for sharing I was just released from lehigh valley yesterday with almost alcohol poisoning.  I have two kids and i hate everyday what i am doing to them.  That tends to make it worse.  I am so sorry for your loss and will think of her words and pray that they help.

March 07, 2017

FLY HIGH YOUNG LADY..

March 07, 2017

So sorry for your loss, God Bless the family!!

March 07, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss may. God bless you and comfort your heart.

March 07, 2017

I’m very sorry for your loss. God bless you all.

March 07, 2017

My name is sarah, I was a coworker and friend of a steffy we worked at the diner together and shared many good clean fun times together. I cared deeply for her and wish to pay my respects to her and her family. My heart is torn greatly because her death was preceded by another dear friend in my life. I also know the great pains of addiction from all sides, family and friends alike, addiction touches us all in some way. Most of the time it’s in this type of a way, through pain and suffering. My heart goes out to all who mourn her passing, and suffer the loss of a great person. Let us not forget the little girl trapped in that horrible place she couldn’t escape from alone. She was a loving person and I know how deeply she loved her daughter and how greatly she felt for her parents and their love and support. No matter what it seemed by her addictive actions, she knew and inside she suffered in silence and shame, all the while, loving everyone for what they did for hat and endured. I love you Stephanie, my heart is broken. Hope to see you in heaven one day. R. I. P. My friend , Sarah Bedi coworker and friend, does she have a gravesite or memorial anywhere

March 07, 2017

Heartbreaking. All my prayers to those that love her.

March 07, 2017

I didn’t Know Stephanie. I am so sorry for your loss.  She fought a hard fight. God bless her family at this tradgic time. My brother was able to fight the demon. He’s been clean since 1978. But the drugs and alcohol affected him, it left him always challenging something, even just a stupid word. In Jesus name I pray that you find peace.  Stephanie is at peace, though her addiction won, she left you with beautiful words, and a part of her that she loved deeply, her daughter. Bless all of you.
 

March 07, 2017

Thank your for your honesty. In a day where addiction is stigmatized to the point at which no one talks about it, you found the courage within yourself to show to the world what really happened to Stephanie. This is the first step forward! Best wishes to you and your family. 

March 07, 2017

I thank you for sharing this letter from Stephanie…you can see where she is in pain and not in control of her life. My heart goes out to the family, friends, and those lives she has touched. You can see where she really loved her daughter and family. With Savannah in your life, Stephanie will always be there with you. Please let her know the good and BEST in her mother! Those are the memories you want her to have. My nephew is going through a difficult time right now and I feel he needs to read Stephanie’s letter. My nephew had to take a medical leave from college due to pain from herniated disks in his neck and back which resulted in to pain meds. Pain meds went into depression and anxiety which led him to drinking alcohol. Such a bright intelligent young man, and we are going to have to do some “tough love!” Hopefully, our ending will have better results than yours, but please be rest assured that our prayers will be with Stephanie and your family…may God Bless you each and everyday and know now that Stephanie is at peace in God’s arms with no pain or any addictions now. She is in Heaven, the best possible place for her to be! Know that we are hurting with you and this epidemic needs to end. Love and prayers,
Toni McAvoy

March 07, 2017

So sorry for your loss prayers for your family and friends. Peace be with you.

March 07, 2017

My sympathy for your loss and my gratitude for Stephanie’s message.  She is no longer in pain. 
Mary Dalton

March 07, 2017

I am a United States Air Force Veteran who has struggled with addiction all my life and I wish to leave condolences to the family.  I am so sorry.  I feel for her what she went through and I feel for you what you are now going through. By her own words, her testimony,  it’s obvious that addiction is not a choice. It is not a weakness of character. Some of the most beautiful people I’ve ever known have had problems with it. I’m sure she was a beautiful person too. 

March 07, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss, I just lost my son on January 21, 2017.  Unfortunately, like your family there are no words to take away your pain.
She is with the Lord now, may she rest in peace.  
Marsha Boring
 

March 07, 2017

So heartbreaking for your family…may your bravery and strength and the hearts you’ve touched by sharing Stephanie’s struggle help sustain you as you move forward…prayers and blessings to you all…may she now rest in peace.

March 07, 2017

Please accept my sincere condolences on the death of your daughter. My own daughter has two children which I am raising,ages 7 and11. She has been in recovery for 2 years and one month. Over the last 2 years, I have taken her to at least four or five funerals of friends who have died with heroin overdose,one her brother in law, and many other friends. She spent a year in this last recovery center, her fifth trial at rehab. Iam fortunate that my daughter KElly has been able to stay clean so far. We went to a End HEroin in Birmingham Walk a few weekends ago. It was wonderful to see Kelly reuniting with friends who are in recovery and to see them looking so happy that they are clean today. My granddaughters proudly wrote on the memorial wall the names of those people they have met who have died. I can only hope they never enter the drug world in any form. PArents! I know you did the best you could. We all do. Stephanie made her choices. YOU made yours. I’m glad she is at peace now. I Hope you can move forward. Being open and honest about drugs is a big step. I decided not to hide our involvement in this world. It has made our lives easier. We are trying as a family to bring awareness and minister to those who will  listen when they are ready. This may be the addict, or it could be one of the people touched by the addict. But for the grace of God, my grandchildren have lived to see their mother get back on track and try to have a fulfilling life. This could have easily been KELLy’s story. MY heart and prayers go out to you and your family. Cynthia Palmer
 

March 07, 2017

May God bless your family in your time of loss with peace. Your sweet daughter, sister, mom Stephanie is out of her terrible pain now. Wishing you all strength and peace.
 
Sincerely, Amy Blevins

March 07, 2017

Condolences to you all. Such a heartbreaking tribute to a lost angel. I pray for strength for your body, peace for your mind and healing for your heart. Stephenie spoke with sincerity, through her pain, she has  left a legacy not only to her family but to so many more of the raw real reality of addiction. Her words are moving, intense and most of love she had for her family that she could not express through her painful addiction.  Thank you for sharing your reality through your grief. Prayers. 

March 07, 2017

I did not know your daughter but just wanted you to know that I am so truely sorry for your loss.
Just so very sad
Donna Speece from Lancaster, Pa

March 07, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. The obituary touch my heart. My thoughts and my prayers are with your family. 
 

March 07, 2017

I am an addictions nurse and see this every day.  I so sorry for your loss.  Until addiction touches you or your family you really dont know how devastating it can be.  How many lives that addiction effects.  Thank you so much for sharing this story.  I will also share it with my patients.  I will be sure they remember her name.  RIP Stephanie, you are free. 
 

March 07, 2017

No words can replace the loving soul that is no longer with us. I am sorry though. Sory for her struggle and sorry for those left behind. This evil thing called addiction touches more people than most understand or know. In my short life, I though I had left it all behind a long time ago but it comes back in the most unexpected ways. Someone who is so near to me is spiraling out of control once again. Little lives are being affected by her disease. The sweetest girl in the world needs a mommy that can’t stop being who she is. I have prayed for you the survivors just as I pray for our girl. Somet6imes it feels like we are so helpless and alone. But we trust in God that he has the love in His heart to help us and sustain us. I pray for the day when no little girls need to miss their moms. I also pray for the Holy SPirit to comfort you as you grieve. God Bless you all
Bob MacPherson

March 07, 2017

Sorry to hear about the loss of a family member 

March 07, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss addiction is a beast that I’m fighting with as we speak it took my brother last September n i haven’t quit gripped the reality that I could be next I overdosed once so I went to a rehab but that ” just one more” is always lurking again I am so very sorry 

March 07, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. I applaud your honesty and courage! Her words are a such a good reminder that there may not be “just one more time.” By sharing her letter, I hope that other recovering addicts like myself will be reminded that chasing “one more” is not worth it. I am so very sorry for your tragic loss and so grateful for Stephanie’s message. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. 
A recovering addict in FL

March 07, 2017

Thank you for sharing Stephanie’s words. It seems so common for people to gloss over what an addict has done to others because of their addiction once the addicted person has passed away. In reality, the situation is incredibly painful for everyone. I am sorry for your struggles, your loss, and your long road ahead. I hope the words posted here bring more understanding, tolerance, and a new resolve to always keep fighting this epidemic. My thoughts go to Stephanie, hoping she finds peace. And also to your family hoping you find strength. 
Susan Smith

March 07, 2017

 I am so very sorry for the loss of your daughter .  Stephanie’s message to everyone was very heart wrenching and honest .  She was a very courageous young woman who had an extremely horrible illness . Her love for all of you shines through her iMessage and I sincerely hope her daughter will grow up knowing her mother’s death  was the actions  of the terrible  scourge of drugs not the beautiful soul that your daughter is. I pray you will have peace in time and know that your daughter loved each and everyone of you .
sincerely,
Linda Bowers

March 07, 2017

I want to thank you for your courage to share this. I as well suffer from the disease of addiction and have been in recovery for 3 years. When I got clean, I made it my goal to fight the stigma that keeps so many addicts out there chasing “one more.” I heard about your daughters death on the radio. Her story brought me to tears. I will never forget the pain that comes from the disease and not understanding why I couldn’t stop on my own! My father died at the age of 65 from the disease. I found peace in the fact that he was no longer trapped in the cycle of getting “one more” and is finally at peace. Thank you again for your courage and the gratitude you gave me for this life that was given. Her soul lives on every time someone reads this. Thank you! She is beautiful and you are so brave! 

March 07, 2017

what a beautiful soul, so Sorry for you loss ?

March 07, 2017

My heart goes out to your family, 
just reading what you wrote made me cry, I’ve lost so many people to addiction I sometimes wonder why it was not me. I fought my addiction for 10 years and said the many things you did. I am very lucky to have made it out of the hold addiction had on me I fight each and everyday to stay clean almost 8 yrs now. Reading this makes my heart heavy and want to keep moving forward for me and my family. Very strong encouraging words. I pray this will help more people I know it’s helped me so know today her life was not lived in vain. My condolences. 

March 07, 2017

I am so very sorry for ur loss, sending extra special prayers and hugs for you all. I have close family members that are addicted to alcohol, and they have also done other things too. I know how hard it is to watch them do there thing, and just keep doing it because as always they think it’s ok, and it’s not hurting anyone. But what they don’t understand is it is hurting others, and it’s hurting themselves. Addiction is a very big problem today in the world, but they don’t think so. We need to have heavy consequences, and punishments for the ones that are bringing these drugs, and other things into are lives so hopefully one day are love ones won’t even have the thoughts, or chance to get there hands on them. Again I am so very sorry for your loss, sending prayers, and hugs for all of you. 
Tabatha Naus

March 07, 2017

I do not know you but I send my sincerest condolescences to you. I want to say it took great courage to tell the world about your daughters addiction. I pray that it will awaken at least one person to save themselves. I send prayers that you will find comfort in good memories and the blessing that your grandchild will be for you. It is so sad that a beautiful life was wasted due to that Demon-Drugs.

March 07, 2017

May you be with God now ,no more struggles,no more guilt …Just reading the letter you left shows you had a big heart ,yes your loved ones will miss you ,you finally have peace .The disease you had takes many ,prayers n love to your loved ones who will struggle and grieve but will see you in your little girl who we pray stay strong ,remember good times God bless you all??

March 07, 2017

I am so deeply sorry that you are going through this. My daughter is an addict and I think I have prepared myself for her death if it were to happen but I know I am fooling myself to think I am prepared. I can’t imagine how it must feel to lose your own child. I pray that your family will find peace and strength knowing that she is no longer struggling with the horrible addiction that controlled her life and yours. God bless. 

March 07, 2017

I am very sorry for your loss . May God be holding her in his arms. Her struggles are now over, May she sleep in peace. 

March 07, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ll pray for her daughter and family. May god be with you all at this time. 

March 07, 2017

I would like to offer my sincerest condolences to all who are touched by the loss of Stephanie.  I would like to say I say Stephanies letter on Facebook and I personally touched me deeply as an addict that has the same daily struggles that she speaks of in her letter! I am much older than her and have a daughter her age as well as another grown daughter and son and 12 grandbabies! I think of the fear of them losing me to addiction all the time. That’s not something I ever want to do to them. I have been in and out of rehab unfortunately to no avail….Just wanted her love ones to know that she very personally touched me in a way no one quite has. All I can do is pray it makes a difference in my outcome as I will save her letter and read it over and over! GOD BLESS ANYONE READING THIS!

March 07, 2017

May God wrap his arms around your family at such a sad and sorrowful time.  I pray that your daughters letter will somehow help anyone fighting this battle. Please know that our hearts cry with yours.
{hugs} from a loving Mother

March 07, 2017

May God comfort you and your family you’re all in my prayers 

March 07, 2017

I pray family and friends will find peace and comfort together through these dark days. God bless.

March 07, 2017

DEAREST FAMILY,
I first off want to say how sorry I am for your loss of your beautiful daughter. It touched my heart what her dad shared, but I to fought with addiction for 15 years. I’m currently 9 months clean. Its been a war a fight that I still battle everyday but I stay away. I will always remember your daughter cause I to have fought this war of addiction.
Thank you for sharing
God Bless
 

March 06, 2017

Stephanie’s words have touched my heart.  I lost  sson to drug addiction eight months ago.  He was  good man and father but the struggle with opiods was too much for him. I will share her words and pray that one day we will find a solution.  Sometimes, no matter how hard they try, they just can.t beat it.  It’s a disease, not a choice.  The struggle is so real.  They are finally at peace.  They are home. Barbara Bauer

March 06, 2017

Stephanie… I know ur pain. I have seen this struggle & know it well & I have put my family thru so much of the same pain & heartache. I too had struggled 2 raise a child (2 in fact, altho 10yrs apart) all thru the dips & dives of my own clinical depression coupled with an addiction which stemmed out of self service, reliance & gratification. 4 far 2 many reasons I believed that I was completely justified within my quest 2 be (or feel) free from all the stuff & the stickiness which life itself has the power 2 so magnificently drudge up at the worst or the weakest points in time. There can be so so many aspects of addiction that those who r so fortunate 2 exist way outside of that box just cud simply never understand!  I am saying that… “I DO!” &that… I am so touched & saddened by yet another soul lost so terribly soon. I lost my own sister in a very similar fashion & it haunts me everyday, even still 12yrs later. The pain… it becomes a part of u. It becomes written so deeply within the soul codes of 1s DNA, it is impossible 2 escape. But if anything… anything at all… I truly hope that any1 else who may be struggling in such a fashion… especially within the wake of this terrible loss… plz (!) plz reach out. Life is so precious (& that is no cliché) it genuinely IS our greatest gift outside of the love that we share 4 1 another. Dont give up on love. Not ever. No matter tge circumstance or level of sickness running thru ur veins… there r many ways 2 initiate help. Reaching out 2 me is just 1 of them.
 
I am so terribly sorry 4 this unfortunate loss of such a beautiful soul… may her heart breathe soft inside of whatever space of Heaven that her longing heart may desire.
 
Reat In Peace, fair lady.

March 06, 2017

My son died from alcohol addiction at age 30. The darkest journey and family can travel whether it’s drugs or alcohol. They are true lost souls. We love them but can’t save them?We pray that they will realize how much we need them in our lives.It will be 2 years in July for me and I miss him every day?God love and peace to your family????❤️

March 06, 2017

My name is Carmen.  You don’t know me but I had to share my heartfelt thoughts for you all.  I extend my condolences to Stephanie’s family. I understand the pain of addiction.  I personally have a loved one in recovery. My prayers are that it continues so that I don’t have to face this same fear. May God comfort and bless you all during this difficult time. Especially to her daughter. May you Rest In Peace Stephanie with no more struggles. 

March 06, 2017

I do not know you or the family but my heart goes out to you.  I am a mother, grandmother and great grandmother. and I have lost one son 5 yr. ago so I know the pain and heart ache that you are feeling. God is with you always. Please dont feel abandoned.Talk to God and wait to hear HIM. God bless.  Mrs. Jacqueline Rowles

March 06, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. I just lost my grandaughter who was 26.  She also was suffering from heroin addiction. She was a beautiful smart wonderful human being.  There are no words to console us. May GOD bless your family and take care of our lost ones in heaven.
 

March 06, 2017

 God bless all of you !  My nephew passed away January 3, 2016 ! Was a son ,nephew a brother and a father of six girls.  Dad chasing that dream that next time is sad to watch.   They leave behind a trail of distruction.  His daughters will never be the same and neither will my sister who lost her son.  It may be a choice the first time they use it but after that they are Addicted.  I know that my nephew and Stephanie didn’t choose to die or to be an addict .  May  God comfort all of you in your hour of need 

March 06, 2017

My dearest condolences. I’ve lost my sister to drug addiction also and these words from Stephanie herself hit home. May God hold every family member through this difficult time. My prayers. 

March 06, 2017

I did not know your daughter, but I do know the story of addiction, and the lives it takes with it. I am so deeply sorry for your loss, and I pray that God comforts you during this deeply painful time in your lives. May your daughter, Stephanie’s light continue to shine on in your granddaughter, Savannah. 
Prayerfully,
Pamela Grimes

March 06, 2017

Words can not express how deeply sad I am after reading your daugher’s obituary.  Thank you for being brave enough to share it. My sincere, deepest sympathy.  We can pray that one person will be saved by this sad time.  Love, Janice Ballenger

March 06, 2017

So sorry for your loss. You do not know me nor did I know Stephanie. I just want you to know how much the story has touched my heart. Our family also has someone who suffers from addiction. You will be constantly in our prayer! 

March 06, 2017

So sorry for your families loss. I don’t know you but your courage to share your story was heart warming and eye opening. I hope your story helps many who suffer.RIP to your beautiful daughter, mother, sister , friend…
Jackie from NJ

March 06, 2017

sorry for your koss . but i think it will help alotfamily . arount world . god blee you and your jamily think very much.my nmae is debbie harris from upland , ind
 

March 06, 2017

As the parent of a recovering acdict (5 yrs clean) I want to express my sorrow at your loss . No parent should have to go through this and yet so many do. You are not alone and we will all pray together that this fight be won . God Bless you in your journey , may God hold you close .    Kimberly Derhammer      Hunlock Creek Pa

March 06, 2017

I do not know you or your family. My heart aches for all of you. This story is very familiar to me, for I have 2 addicted children. Praying that all of you may find comfort and peace during your tragic loss.

March 06, 2017

God Bless you for sharing this most difficult time of your lives.  May God give you peace and comfort.

March 06, 2017

I did not know your beautiful daughter but thank you for sharing her story as hopefully through your pain you will help someone. My prayers are with you all during this time of loss. God Bless

March 06, 2017

My heart aches for all those left behind but I sadly understand the being at peace now.  May you all find comfort and forgiveness.

March 06, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss. My heart grieves for all of you. My daughter too suffers from addiction. I am trying to save this for her to read and I am grateful to you for being open and sharing this. So many times it is hidden away and no one wants to talk about it. I just by chance found this on Facebook and I feel blessed to have found it. It really means so much. God Bless you all and you are in my prayers. 
                                              PATTY LONGACRE

March 06, 2017

I just want to express how truly sorry I am for the families loss! I lost my brother to addiction in September of 2015 and we made it public to try to help everyone fighting this terrible disease! I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers! ?Jodi Hamilton, Homer City, Pa?

March 06, 2017

I do not know your family, but my deepest condolences are with you. After reading her obituary and seeing the unfortunate fact that she lost her struggle with addiction, my heart is heavy, as I am all too familiar with this pain. The loss of loved ones to addiction is far too frequent lately. I want to say thanks for being brave enough to share her story truthfully. Too many people try to hide the truth and her poem and message reminded me of the reason why I choose to stay strong and continue to stay clean. I hope me sharing her message helps many others as well. My Prayers will be with your family. kz

March 06, 2017

I wanted to leave a quick not and let you know that I saw your daughter/sister/loved one’s story shared online. To let you know that it is reaching people, and touching hearts. I’m an addict in recovery, and I’ll have one year clean next month. Recovery is possible, as are all things through our Lord, and faith, and a lot of hard work. I’ve recently lost another 3 people to this terrible epidemic… Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers, and that I hope with my whole heart that your family finds peace in this time of grief. May God bless and keep you, and help you to continue to touch the lives and open the eyes of those still sick and suffering from addiction. All my love – Brittany

March 06, 2017

I want to thank you for sharing what she wrote. My daughter is struggling with addiction too. I wish there was a way I could save this and print it out for her! Thank you for not being afraid to share this! I am so sorry for your loss and my heart truly aches for you all. I will keep you all in our prayers. God Bless you all and thank you again for sharing her poem. I am going to try my best to find a way to save it for my daughter to read. 

March 06, 2017

My heart breaks for all of you! My prayers for you to bring you strength and peace. 

March 06, 2017

I’m sooo sorry for your loss,  my heart goes out to you,  l struggled with alcoholism and have been sober for almost 2 years.  This made me cry, this could have been my family,  or anyone’s.  This epidemic is so bad,  and sooo misunderstood.  Stephanie didn’t choose addiction,  it chose her and it’s bonds were too hard to break. She’s at peace now.  May you find comfort,  and thank you for sharing her story, so that it may help others. God bless you. 

March 06, 2017

May you be at peace now!  Your daughter will be well taken care of, and that should be of some comfort. 
 

March 06, 2017

First of all I want to say that the family is in my thoughts and prayers. Stephanie you are exactly the opposite of what you said you were. You’re daughter will here wonderful stories of you as she grows older. Rest In Peace, god bless.

March 06, 2017

Stephanie ‘s obituary was posted on Facebook. I was so touched by her poem. I, too, lost a son to drug addiction. I want to offer my prayers and sympathies to her family. You are very brave. God bless you and your daughter ‘s soul. 

March 06, 2017

Words cannot express how deeply sorry I am for your loss. She looks like a beautiful person, inside and out. She is now at peace. I lost my cousin that was more like my brother, to complications caused by addiction. You are all HEROES for sharing her poem. JT I’m sure felt the same about his son Taylor. Please kow you are not grieving alone, we all grieve together. May God bless you all with strength, comfort, and peace. 

March 06, 2017

I am so very sad for Stephanie Savannah amd mom and dad and all the family. The tragedy  and sadness of addiction has touched my life. Please know in  your heart your precious child is with Jesus.and let our heavenly Father carry you through this terrible time. my tears and prayers are with you.    Nancy Bianco

March 06, 2017

I never met you, but you were so brave. And your family is too for their honesty. Stephanie-you fought for so long. I’m sorry you passed without feeling relief from guilt. This was never what you wanted for yourself or your family. Addiction takes over your brain and it is so hard to fight your own mind. Sending my love and strength to your family. Peace.

March 06, 2017

My deepest sympathy to all Stephanie ‘ s family.  May God comfort you during this time of loss. Drugs and addicting are terrible, holding tight to those within their grasp. I pray she has found the peace she could not find in life.

March 06, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss. I didn’t know Stephanie but after reading her poem on Facebook I had to write you and let you know she’s in Heaven. Best regards George Fishel, Shermans Dale Pa.

March 06, 2017

I am so very sorry for your loss. I too lost a daughter to drug addiction at the age of 24. It’s been six years. I will never understand why. Your daughter was a beautiful girl. Cherish her daughter with all your heart.  

March 06, 2017

Be at Peace, and know the Lord will take special care of her in heaven. Amen
 
 

March 06, 2017

I read of the loss of your beautiful Stephanie on Facebook and I felt the need to send my deepest sympathy to her loved ones. I live in a small town in Southwest Pa. And   Have seen friends going through the loss of their children to this dreaded epidemic. I wish there was an easy cure for all so that those addicted and those left behind would not have to go through this horrible pain. It was so brave of you to share her letter and I hope it helps anyone going through addiction and they realize what their family go through from their loss. God bless.
Lois Bertocci

March 06, 2017

Stephanie’s letter broke my heart.  I commend your family for the courageous act of sharing it.  You have honored her memory with a beautiful and meaningful tribute.  Many share your pain and heartbreak.  My beautiful 21 year old niece ODd on heroin one year ago last week.  May God work miracles through Stephanie’s touching words.  I pray for your family’s comfort and healing in the coming days, months, and years. Especially for angel Savannah.  Please tell her that a mother may die, but her love endures forever.  Hugs, Beth Lloyd

March 06, 2017

I am so sorry.I lost my 21year old daughter she was bullemic and I know the pain as a mother to bury her baby girl.I am here if u ever need to talk anytime of the night or day.No one understands what is icky to bury you child unless they been there.Prayers for you all.     
          Peggy Shaffer on go 7258153260

March 06, 2017

May God cradle your daughter and Mommy in his loving arms.  Her battle was real.  Thank you for sharing  her story with those who continue  to struggle..  My husband and I read her letter and it was very touching.  Your tremendous  loss is being felt in Kunkle town PA.  We are praying for your continued  strength.  Know you are cared about today and in the future. 

March 06, 2017

I am so very sorry for your loss. You are so brave to make known her disease as her cause of death.  You do not know me nor I you or this beautiful young lady.  My daughter is also an addict. She is also 32. She has spent time in Lancaster jail for her disease.  My heart breaks for you.  I cant imagine the pain.  Again I am so incredibly sorry for your loss.
 

March 06, 2017

Wow so far 160 caring souls have responded! this letter you included in the obits have already touched lives! So many others out there enduring this trial: The War on Drug Addiction and your loved one, like others, was wounded in the cross fire.
I hope Savannah, turns into a Warrior Against Drugs in memory of what it did to her mother. That she becomes a public speaker and aides with comfor,t all the other hurting children that will follow behind her. May she be as Open and as Plain to the truth as she can be in life.
 
May Our Lord Bless and Keep your family togeter, not just brother in law
Beth Stauffer Celebrate Recovery Group

March 06, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss…i too have an addict that I think love will fix but it doesnt…he is currently in prison…im going to send this to him…thank you for sharing and I pray that God wrap your family in his loving arms and that you find peace..i pray that Stephanie is flying in the clouds and smiling….God bless you all…barbara orsborne..mother of an addict

March 06, 2017

I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. She is at peace now.  May God comfort you in this time of sorrow.

March 06, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss, lfeel your pain. I lost my son 12 years ago to drug addiction and had to raise his daughter,she is now 19 and doing very well.The pain is still their and we miss him so much,but it does get easier with time.sending prayers your way.

March 06, 2017

First and foremost, I’m so very sorry for this loss in your family.  I don’t know you or Stephanie but after reading her obituary I felt compelled to write.  How incredibly brave you all are to share Stephanie’s all too familiar story.  So many times we read about young people dying of ‘natural causes’ when we all know most likely that was not the case.  You put Stephanie’s story out there for all to read and without question someone  will read this and think twice about their life, their choices and what they’re doing not only to themselves but to their loved ones.  I commend you for your openess and honesty and know that Stephanie’s life without question was not a life lived in vain.  With appreciation and grattitude.  Lanie Bash Gould   

March 06, 2017

You are home now ,,, god bless you

March 06, 2017

Wow I am in a private group that found your story and one of our members shared it to our page called together in our town. I have been to 3 funerals due to heroin overdose. Praying for your family and community.  I am so proud of the honesty in the obituary I have never seen one like it.  Your grandchild will be great with that kind of love and honesty. 

March 06, 2017

My name is Anita and I live in Maine. I am so sorry for your loss. I read Stephanie’s words and it touched home for me. I myself am a mother of 4 and have stuggles with addiction. I started to cry when reading her story and wnt you to knows her words are not in vein.. Rest easy angel may your beautiful soul at last be free 🙁

March 06, 2017

I am so very sorry to read of your loss. I am in awe of your courage to speak of Stephanie’s very real struggle with addiction. My faith also tells me, yes, she is in peace in Jesus’ arms. I didnt know Stephanie but I do know addiction. Her families courageous decision to call it what it was, “17 year struggle with addiction” helps remove the stigma. God bless the family of this tragic loss.

March 06, 2017

I don’t know you but I’m sad you had this disease that plagued you for years you are now at peace with God and no mom suffered, may you Rest In Peace ??

March 06, 2017

I am so sorry and sad that this horrible thing has struck your family. There is nothing I can say to lighten your burden, but I will pray for your family. god bless you.
 

March 06, 2017

It is so sad to see another young person dying of drugs. The family has my sympathy. May  she be at peace now. 
Lilly Bennett

March 06, 2017

I didn’t know you, but I saw your post on Facebook. God bless you brave girl, all is forgiven now. Rest free in God’s loving arms. Prayers for your daughter, family, and friends. Rest in eternal freedom.❤
Tracy Paxton 

March 06, 2017

Thank you for sharing  this.I live with a 32 yr old HERION addict who after 15 yrs is finally showing signs of improvement. He is a tough so he thinks thug who since with me got a good wake up call.I made him read this ..HE CRIED!!,I cried .Thank you  for  sharing  this…I think he finally realized what this drug can do to him and his family.God bless your daughter…and GRANDDAUGHTER….xo sent…    vince.phila

March 06, 2017

I don’t know or your family, but you have my deepest condolences.  It takes great strength to share your grief in the hopes that it will help others.  Stephanie sounds like she tried with all of her power for a lengthy period of time but still lost her battle with this terrible affliction.  Some argue that it’s not an illness, but it is.  Some have no sympathy or empathy because they don’t know the struggle that an addict faces.  As a nurse, I’ve seen it many times and I’ve lost a co-worker and friend to this horrible curse.  Know that she is at peace and please help her child understand that it was an illness that her mother lost her battle with, help her understand.  May God bless you in your grief and may Stephanie finally find the peace that she couldn’t find here on earth.

March 06, 2017

BI_U Drugs are now just a disgrace to our country and are not just in Lancaster.  They are in poor communities, middle class and rich communities.  They are helping to make life worse for all family members involved with the people who take them.  I am so sorry for your loss.  Carol Markle
 

March 06, 2017

TO STEPHANIE’S LOVED ONES.
  I AM VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. I DIDNT KNOW YOUR DAUGHTER BUT I KNOW THE STRUGGLE YOU ALL HAVE ENDURED OVER THE YEARS. MY SON IS FIGHTING THE SAME DEMONS AND I FEAR FOR HIS LIFE.
 I READ STEPHANIE’S LETTER THAT WAS POSTED ON FACEBOOK. THIS HORRIBLE EPIDEMIC IS LIKE THE STORY “THE LOTTERY”. WE ALL FEAR OUR CHILD WILL BE NEXT..
 MAY GOD BRING YOU ALL SOME  COMFORT DURING THIS TIME. IM VEEY SORRY FOR YOUR GRIEF AND MOST OF ALL FOR SAVANNAH!
SINCERELY
KAREN HUFFMAN
THE MOTHER OF A ADDICT.

March 06, 2017

 I’m sorry for your loss. This is truly heartbreaking 

March 06, 2017

So very sorry for your loss,  praying for peace and strength, for you now have an angel watching over you ??

March 06, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. Addiction is getting out of control in all communities. Thank you so much for sharing your heartbreaking story. I am in hopes it will touch even one life, and make a difference. My sincere deepest condolences.  RIP Stephanie.

March 06, 2017

I struggle everyday with it. God bless you and your family. Her words really hit home with me. They gave me hope and inspiration. My heart goes out to you all.

March 06, 2017

I would just like to thank you for opening your hearts and minds and sharing that beautiful poem. So many struggle from some type of addiction. She really sounds like a beautiful person and I know you will miss her dearly. Ours is not to judge but to offer comfort
God bless you. 

March 06, 2017

I did not know Stephanie but I know Ruthy and I too struggle with a Grandson that is 24 an has fought the battle with drugs.  He is doing well now but thank you for sharing Stephanie’s story.  Blessings and Prayers to all your family…

March 06, 2017

I didn’t know Stephanie, but I am always so sorry to hear that drugs have taken another beloved child from a family that misses them so much!   My deepest sympathies to all of you and God Bless her daughter!  Thank you so much for sharing her letter, I am praying that it will reach someone who really needs to hear it!  Tammy Martin

March 06, 2017

I must say how brave of you to share her letter, I’m 30 years old and a recovering addict, I also have children, one of which is named Savannah and I can’t tell you how much her letter reached me, I wept reading it. It reminds me that I’m doing the right thing. I think her letter will do what she hoped and will touch many, many lives. So sorry for your loss 

March 06, 2017

Although I do not know you, my deepest sympathy and heart felt prayers go out to your family.  Thank you for touching my heart by sharing her letter.  Janis Renz

March 06, 2017

My heart goes out to your family. I too lost a daughter to addiction. Her letter hit home because my daughter also wrote me a letter telling me she was feeling the same way as Stephanie. Hold her memories close to your heart and always speak freely about her to her daughter. I do that with my grandson. Again so sorry to hear about the loss of Stephanie

March 06, 2017

My sincere condolences.  May Stephanie find peace in the arms of Jesus.  Her message has touched us!  Ed Jones

March 06, 2017

I don’t know Stephenie but my deepest condolences to the family. I lost my 22 year old sister the same day and the same way on the 25th of Feb as well. She left behind a beautiful 5 year old daughter. So my family knows exactly how your family is feeling. That is a very touching obituary.  I will pray for your family. 

March 06, 2017

God bless this family and the deceased for posting such an honest obituary.   The ravages of addiction and dependencies are profoundly sad for the vast majority.  Addictions/dependencies are well beyond epidemic they are pandemic.  May each of Stephanie’s survivors find the strength they will need to endure their loss.  May God bless each of you with comfort and peace.
Death leaves a heartache that no one can heal.
Love leaves a memory that no one can steal.
~Irish Headstone~
May Stephanie M. Evanko’s memory be eternal.
 
James and Angela Boarts and family

March 06, 2017

Dear Family & Friends,
   I wish I could say that the pain will go away, but it won’t… Grief comes in waves… At first, it’s like a tsunami, then at other times it’s like a gentle calming wave, you’ll feel heavy surfing waves, and Water spouts or even hurricane like waves… I lost my 18 yr old son, my 22 yr old niece, a good 33 yr old friend, a 47 yr old friend, my Dad and lastly my Aunt & 2 Cousins. Life is precious and we need to love more and understand more… You may look me up on Facebook and I will send you good support groups on FB. My url is Facebook.com/ChrissyWhale – – – God Bless you all and I will pray for each of you…
Chrissy Whale – Harrisburg, PA

March 06, 2017

This is so sad, that monster called drugs has taken so many beautiful souls. So sorry for all your family is going thru. Euncie Rogers
 

March 06, 2017

Praying for comfort and peace as this is such a hard time. I lost my brother in 2016 to an overdose and he was just 22. Stephanie was beautiful and her poem was very touching, thank you so much for sharing. My heart goes out to all of her loved ones especially her little girl. I am so sorry for your loss.

March 06, 2017

 I’m so sorry for your loss! My own 29 yr old daughter died a year and a half ago from a heroin overdose leaving her three young children with me! I understand your pain and can only tell you how very sorry I am that your family should suffer this.
Mariann Town
Kennebunk, Maine
 

March 06, 2017

Thank you for your courage to share her story. May this addiction outburst end soon. Prayers for you all..God bless and keep you 

March 06, 2017

I did not know your daughter, but have also been affected by the hideous disease of addiction. We lost our grandson at age 22 because of his addiction. May your faith & the love & support of family & friends be of comfort to you & bring you peace.
Mary Jane Taylor
Milton, DE

March 06, 2017

God bless you dear heart, you’re written words will continue to touch others, 
I ask for peace and solace for your family , and thank them for sharing your words.
 

March 06, 2017

Thank you for having the courage to share this message.  I have felt the unbearable pain and sorrow of losing a child.  I found myself in a cold ER on April 18, 2010, holding my 31 yr. old son’s lifeless body.  He had fought his addiciton for nearly 16 years.  He fought harder than what I ever knew.  He had gone through rehab, and was doing good.  But that one last voice in his head, “One more time,”  And yes, he fell to temptation, and it truly was the last time.  Prescription drugs took his last breath.  Our God is merciful, and I believe those who struggle with addiction live their hell on earth.  I believe in my heart they are at peace.  If you ever need to talk, please message me on Never Let Go Ministries facebook.  My heart breaks for you, but I will pray for God’s love and compassion to fill your sorrowful hearts!  You are not alone!!    Mary C. Juarez

March 06, 2017

God Bless your family. I cannot believe what I have just read and thank for the life of your daughter. I am greatly sorry for your loss please know I will remember the profound words of the letter she wrote which have touched my heart today. Even though I never knew your daughter or your family I will carry them with me to share with others and when it is my turn I look forward to meeting her in a better place.  

March 06, 2017

I just read Stephanie’s obit. and i pray God gives you comfort in this horrific time in your lives. God bless her daughter.

March 06, 2017

Wow! I don’t know you or your family but you have touched my heart with this and I hope that many will see this and it will help them too. My brother in law lost his struggle too but I know many who are still fighting every day. May God bless you. 

March 06, 2017

I am so very sorry for your loss Sending your family hugs and Prayers. Thank you for sharing Stephanie’s letter, I lost my son Joshua 12/28/15 he was 33. I feel your Pain we are losing to many of our loved ones. Pamela Davidson

March 06, 2017

May she walk with God now, my grandson is only 20 and I’m afraid everyday. So sad for our ones who are left behind. R.I.P., Steph.

March 06, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss ❤

March 06, 2017

May you find comfort in knowing Stephanie’s battle with the demons of addiction are over.  Thank you for sharing her letter.  I’m sure it will help others.  It is a powerful description of how the disease takes hold and is so difficult to beat.  You are in my thoughts and prayers to each find your personal peace with knowing you loved her and that love goes on through eternity.
 

March 06, 2017

I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter.  Sending thoughts and prayers to your family.. God Bless.. 
Tracie G

March 06, 2017

I am so very sorry for your loss of such a beautiful angel. The loss of a child is heart breaking ..i lost my son the same way .i feel your pain as a parent. My god bless you I will keep your family in my prayers 

March 06, 2017

To Stephanie’s Family, I did not know her but I’ve seen what drug addiction does in our own family. May God comfort you thru your friends and family. May you be assured this was not your fault. Prayers.
A friend in Jesus

March 06, 2017

Words can express the pain you all are feeling…my deepest condolences and prayers being sent your way…although I’ve never dealt with addiction in this sense…I do however live with an alcoholic and I can feel your pain…may your good memories bring you comfort and peace…in his loving arms Stephenie is at peace…my prayers are with you all…Donna Reed

March 06, 2017

I give you my deepest sympathy. Indo not know you but read this poem. With tear filled eyes it is such a reality for many. I have not had to grieve the loss of my son but  i am truly scared every day for his life. He in recovery one more time. He turns 25.Mar 7th. I am thankful to God for just one more birthday here. You can hear your daughter own self disappoontment. Nothing was enough. It was so consuming.. reat in peace sweet girl. My love to you and sincere comdolences tonyour mother father and family.  God Be with you all

March 06, 2017

I read this on the anniversary of my sister’s death 3/6/2006.  She, too, struggled with addiction most of her life.  I hope Stephanie’s words do touch others and maybe help someone, somewhere to avoid the same fate. 

March 06, 2017

Steve, Maggie, & Chris:   Hal & I thoughts & prayers are with you.  May Stephanie now be at peace & no longer suffering with her addition.  Take comfort in knowing God will take care of her & aid in your healing.  Your old friennds, Hal & Joanne Hogg

March 06, 2017

Sorry sorry of the loss of your daughter gone to soon like so many. I to have faced this and our lives will ever be changed. Please find support that will help to know you are not alone. Faye

March 06, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my brother January. I’m praying for your family 

March 06, 2017

Amazing!  Thank you to the family for this obit.  Heart-felt words by Stephanie.  It’s obvious from her words that she was loved by her family.  Saddened that she lost her fight.
Cathy M Faulkner

March 06, 2017

my deepest condolences on your struggle and loss. I pray for your peace and healing and for the future of your family. 
 
Kindest regards

March 06, 2017

You don’t know me but I read your daughters poem. Im so sorry for your loss. I pray for her child and for all of you. 

March 06, 2017

I know this does not make the loss any easier but my family lost a loved one in 2015 to an addiciton – please know you are not alone.
Sending prayers to the entire family.  I am sorry sorry.
Lori 

March 06, 2017

I am so sorry for the terrible loss of your daughter.  Sharing her letter took courage and selflessness on your part.  I hope some day you are able to find peace.  My thoughts are with you as you share this heartbreaking time with those you hold nearest and dearest.  ~Karrie Jamestown, NY

March 06, 2017

Please accept my sincere condolences on the passing of Stephanie. I did not know her but have known others caught in her vice. Her words are heartbreaking. I will keep your family and friends in my prayers. 

March 06, 2017

I read this and bawled, i am so sorry i am truly sorry i will be praying for ya’ll. <3 i don’t wanna say to much but i didn’t wanna say nothing either. but i know it will be hard but she wouldn’t want y’all to feel pain because she was feeing pain that whole time and now shes finally above looking down smiling telling y’all it’ll be okay. keep your heads up y’all will deff be on my mind. prayers & love. Renovo, PaHyser, E Tayler

March 06, 2017

I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Too many young lives are being lost to this terrible disease. Thank you for having the courage to say what you did in her obituary. I lost my nephew this past July to addiction. His obituary too included his struggles in the hope that just one person may be helped by reading his story. You are not alone in your pain and suffering. I pray that you may find peace and acceptance in your broken hearts . My are and me are still trying to come to terms with it all. May God bless your family and her daughter.

March 06, 2017

This morning was the first time I read Steff’s letter. I had to stop several times because I could’nt stop crying. We all loved her with all of our heart. I will try to translate this letter for Maggie so we can share it with the rest of our family in Germany. Every word she wrote is so true. I know Maggie and Steve are doing a great job raising Savannah for Stephanie. Love Monika

March 06, 2017

My thoughts and prayers as your family grieves… May He be your comfort and Peace during this time.  Thank you for sharing her poem and being so honest and transparent!  I believe she will touch … Encourage… And inspire many lives!    (Hugs)  Jen and Tim Karper 

March 06, 2017

I didn’t know Stephanie or the family the struggle with addiction is so bad but I want to say she was worth everything!  I have a family member going though the same thing! There life matters no one should be disappointed in her she had a problem a problem that so many have .I pray to God that this drug stuff dries up ! I’m so sorry for ur loss the letter she wrote breaks my heart ! I hope everyone in the family can get past the addiction part and remember all the good times ! God bless all of the family!

March 06, 2017

Your daughter’s letter has really touched my heart and also my husband’s.  We are so very sorry for your loss. Your courage in publishing your beautiful daughter’s story will help others understand this terrible disease of addiction.  We are sill living through it with our addicted daughter, and raising our 2 year old grandson. May the joy you receive from Savannah help you through this sad and difficult time.
Marlene 
 

March 06, 2017

May god bless your family and may you find peace love and understanding sincerely natonya ellis

March 06, 2017

God bless you and may you find solice in knowing that Stephanie is at peace – prayers to you during this difficult time.  I know first hand what addiction does, my son is a heroin addict. 

March 06, 2017

I am so sorry to hear of your daughter’s passing.    My prayers for you all.     Joyce Mayer

March 06, 2017

THE LOSS OF LIFE SAD LIFE TAKEN BEFORE THEIR TIME IS TRAGIC. I’m so sorry for your loss. May God Grant u peace, comfort & love knowing Steph is at home with the Lord.  May her story help others & inspire others to not let addiction take another precious life. I pray that u can one day smile again & please know people are praying for u & ur family. People mourn with u & only want the best for u all. 
R.I.P. Stephanie
 
 

March 06, 2017

I am so very sorry for your loss!  Blessings to you and your family and especially her daughter.  Her letter has touched me and she is now an angel to watch over….

March 06, 2017

God bless all of you…may our Lord bless you and give you peace.

March 06, 2017

My heart felt condolences. Our family is from Clarks Summit. My brother passed away Monday, February 27th as a direct result of the disease of addiction. It is not a choice, it is a disease.  Remember their sweet souls.  Remember them when they were not writhing in the disease. Search your soul for their laugh and their kind actions. Love them. As my son said at the memorial yesterday, it’s never too late to love.  Talk to them. Smile when you think of them through the tears. They feel no more pain.  They are at peace. My prayer is for your complete exhale and your peace.

March 06, 2017

I’m so very sorry for your loss. May the God that we so love spread his love and wrap his loving arms around you all at this time. I hope you all find peace in the knowledge that your girl is no longer suffering and has found peace and surely you all will too. God be with you all Cathy Bowie

March 06, 2017

Condolences to your family. I applaud your truthfulness and pray it helps others. I hope you find peace in the days ahead.

March 06, 2017

I didn’t know Stephanie but I know her story all too well.  My heart goes out to her family, and if I believe anything, it’s that at its worst death is only perfect rest.  Please accept my deepest sympathy in the loss of your daughter, mother, sister, niece and friend.  Our disease is cunning baffling and powerful.  But she is at peace now.
kathy difava

March 06, 2017

I wanted to let you know that I read Stephanie’s obituary yesterday, and was so touched by her poem, and your brave way of addressing her passing: that she died from the disease of addiction. It is a disease, and nothing to be ashamed of. My son who is 23 is struggling right now; we are hopeful this time his recovery will stick. I have kept Stephanie’s obituary, so when he comes home, he can read it. The more open we are about it, the less stigma it will carry, and the less power these dealers will have over these isolated souls. Your openness is greatly appreciated by me and my family. Amy

March 06, 2017

My thoughts are with all of Stephanie’s family and friends.  As I read her letter, I was filled with emotion.  I personally know of 3 young adults who have also been tragically lost to overdose.  It is a national epidemic and needs to be addressed.  Awareness is the key to prevention.  Thank you for sharing Stephanie’s words with all of us.  It is through your courage that attention will be focussed on the need for more and better preventions and treatments.  We cannot afford to lose anymore of our young people.  I am very sorry for your loss and hope you find comfort in the knowledge that you are helping many others who are currently struggling.  God bless.

March 06, 2017

I am sending you my deepest smypahty for your family and her daughter i known steph for years her family and daughter came first  in her heart thanks for letter its a keep sake i will end as we always did a big hug and say take care and she would smile and say i will now she is in a beter place helps me ease the pain my prayers Ray

March 06, 2017

Thank you for sharing your letter from Stephanie!  I will pray that the letter goes forth and has an affect on all those who need to hear what she said….and that includes all the people who would rather point fingers than pray and love.  You were brave as a family to share this.  Thank you again!
Becky Birk, Columbia, PA

March 06, 2017

So sorry for your loss. I lose my sister when she was 32 to heroin overdose. I miss her so very much, she struggled with her addiction and in the end the addiction bwon. I pray to our Lord to give you the peace you need. And it helped me to know my sister was at peace at last in the kingdom of our lord. God bless you and so very sorry for your loss . smv99n@hotmail.com

March 06, 2017

I just wanted to say im so sorry for ur loss i didnt know saw this on a newsletter on fb her letter touched my heart tonight it really home for me i have over come those hurdles in life already thank the lord i will pray for your family and especially her daughter im so sorry ,???????

March 06, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. I can relate to how she felt. Her word brought tears to my eyes. As a recovering addict i will be sharing her words in an NA meeting. My prayers are with you and words cant express how much her words mean to me n how deeply they have touched me. May you be able to one day find peace. 

March 06, 2017

Heartfelt sympathy & prayers for strength for the entire family. My grandson passed away Feb 20th from this terrible disease. That’s what it is–a disease. This young woman did not always choose to be addicted. Once it gets a hold on you it controls you. Her daughter should alwaysknow her mother loved her but she was sick. I prayed constantly for God to give my grandson the strenght to battle his demons. But God knew he wasn’t strong enough so in His mercy He granted him peace. It’s a terrible loss & a void that will never be filled. Please take comfort in knowing she is no longer battling her demons but is resting in peace in Paradise with so many others that were taken too soon. Never forget addiction is a disease. God bless all of you.  Lois Matthews

March 06, 2017

So sorry and many prayers to the family.  Did not know Stephanie well, but a nice gal and her story will help so many.  -Alicia Minh

March 06, 2017

So sry for your loss so sry for the little girl who lost her mommy. I send you prayers strength to get through the loss. Smile An be happy for what your daughter has left of her on this earth for you to continue to love. You still have your daughter in your granddaughter. Move forward An let this little girl know how much she is loved. God bless you .

March 06, 2017

Condolences to the family and especially her daughter. Your mom had an illness and don’t blame her. She loved you and always will be in your heart. God bless ♥️

March 06, 2017

So sad for your family.  I hope you  have strength to get through this heartbreaking time.  Thank you for sharing your daughters letter. As a mother of an addict, I, like you ,am not ashamed .  I know you did all you could possibly do to save her.  But addiction is a terrible disease.  It takes so much of a toll on families.  Wishing your family comfort in this difficult time. I’m  thinking of you.
                                            Sue Guffey
                                      

March 06, 2017

I am so sorry and sad for your families tremendous loss of a loved one from addiction. Please know addiction is similar to other diseases like diabetes or cancer is to the body, addiction is illness to the mind, brain and soul. She is at peace free of the demon in her head! She now rests peacefully and is restored of her body and mind!
God Bless, Krisann Vesci-just someone who read this obituary. 

March 06, 2017

Words can not express the sorrow I feel for the family and for their Daughter I lost a step Grandson to addiction two years ago he was only 20 yrs old The drugs have affected so many families..Keep the faith that your Daughter is at pease with the angels..My deepest sympathy to you all..Ellen Mull   

March 05, 2017

So very sorry for your loss ? May she RIP!! Praying for her family <3

March 05, 2017

So sorry for your loss, may God bless you and receive Stephanie into his loving arms. I’m sure the letter she wrote will open many eyes to tragedy of a life of addiction.

March 05, 2017

My u rest in piece and as an angel u watch over ur baby girl who is mourning the loss of her best friend her mother. My prayers are with the family and little girl

March 05, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss, please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
 
 

March 05, 2017

My deepest condolences to Stephanie’s family and friends! She was a beautiful girl inside and out! She had a disease that is very difficult to recover from! She wrote such a heart wrenching letter! You could feel her pain and helplessness! This is very sad for her daughter but your love will support her as she grows! Your family will be in my prayers always! God Bless you!    Dorothy Palmer

March 05, 2017

God bless your family prayers for all of you
thank you for sharing my children lost a very close friend 
to an over dose . It breaks all of our hearts . I wish your family the best I will continue to pray for all of you 

March 05, 2017

Thank you so much for sharing this..so truely sorry for your loss

March 05, 2017

My heartfelt. Condolences to the family..and to the dear daughter whom has to go thru such pain..drug addiction is a horrible thing..hugs and prayers
 
 
 
 

March 05, 2017

Have peace with God. My sympathies to Savannah I truely believe that your Mother truely love you to pieces. As you grow up you will learn about addiction and how it can 

March 05, 2017

So very sorry for your loss. I know the pain as I lost my son to this terrible disease almost 5yrs ago so please know my deepest sympathies go out to your family. What has gotten me thru the pain is to know he is no longer suffering. I will pray your pain and tears are lessened cause I know there are no words to take them away.
Many hugs from
Another mother who lost her child to this disease

March 05, 2017

I have never met stephanie ,but her story hits home .my husband is an addict and though i dont think there is a cure he had redirected his addiction to more positive acctivites then drugs…the fear of relaps is always there but i love him and hope he stays clean..its been 7 years now ; but most importanly i want to say the bravery your daughter wrote with..and the honesty is something to be proud of and respected..she made no excuses and as a mother i have nothing but respect for her ..may she rest in peace and may your family heal as much as one can with a loss so great..thank you for sharing her story and her poem ..thank you for not covering up the knowlege of her passing…i hope this helps others heal…?

March 05, 2017

Thank you for sharing the letter. We lost our daughter, Kristin, 32, from an overdose the day before Stephanie passed. Your daughter’s letter sounds like it could have been written by ours. Kristin also had a little girl, Lizzy, almost 2, who is living with us as well as three boys, ages 5, 8, and 12. It’s just so unbearably sad.

March 05, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss.Her letter is thought provoking and heartbreaking.Addiction has become a greater threat to our youth than any other disease or accident.My son is a survivor of addiction, but he struggles every day, fighting the demons that took your precious daughter, mother, sister, friend.I wish you peace, her struggle is over.God bless you all

March 05, 2017

So sorry for your loss. My heart cries for you and your family. May you feel Creator’s loving embrace in your hour of need. I pray you all find peace, healing and understanding in time.  I also ask Creator to help your daughter to find the peace she was seeking! A’ho

March 05, 2017

 As the mother of an addiction Angel, I am sending my thoughts and prayers. Your daughter had a way of expressing herself and trying to make it understood how she was hurting also. God Bless you all and know there are many of us that have stood in your shoes. If you ever want to talk to someone who has been there please feel free to message me on Facebook. My heart is hurting for you all.   In God’s love, Denise Brodi.

March 05, 2017

My heart aches for your entire family.  Thank you for sharing this, it just shows that addiction is a disease and “normal” good people are affected by it.  Myself being a parent of an recovering addict, I can only imagine the pain that has been going on for the entire family for those 17 years.  Savannah is lucky to have grandparents to love and take care of her, and to assure her that her Mom was not a bad person simply because of the disease.  May God Bless you all…….
 

March 05, 2017

First and foremost I’m very sorry for the loss of Stephanie.   May a God comfort you forever!   Secondly, my brother is a recovering addict and I don’t claim to understand what you as parents or a child are going through since I only know it through the eyes of a sibling but I do know it’s very hard from my vantage point.   Thank you for sharing her story. It was very brave and courageous of you.  If it helps one person struggling with this growing disease, it was worth sharing. May you find peace, comfort and love now and always!  You are NOT alone!
Melissa from Lancaster 

March 05, 2017

My deepest sympathies to all of you on the loss of your beautiful Stephanie.  My husband and I were brought to tears upon reading her letter.  We lost our son to an overdose last summer 3 weeks after he turned 33.  We understand the pain of addiction and the pain of loss.  Your bravery displayed in the obituary will help others going through this.  Kathy in Elizabethtown 

March 05, 2017

Hi Savana my sweet girl,
Be strong my love! Thinking and pray for you and your family ?
“May the memories that mean the most to you live forever in your heart”
Kim hoffmaster 

March 05, 2017

God Bless you and your family.  There are way too many dieing this way.  I hope you can find peace.  My thoughts and prayers are with you.

March 05, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss.  Thank you for sharing her letter in the obit.  As a mom I feel your pain wiith a child who is an addict. Praying for healing for your family and the lord embrace you and give you strength to endure. Jeannette

March 05, 2017

I read the obituary on FB and wanted to cry..my heart goes out to all the family that this young lady has left behind. Drugs have taken way to many souls. God bless you 

March 05, 2017

What a beautiful young lady and what a heartfelt letter. Addiction is an illness so many stigmatize and hide. More families like yours need to bring to light this evil killer. May your family grow strong in this experience. May you fight for Stephanie, who couldn’t fight for herself. She will never have to chase that high again. She is at peace now. She needs your forgiveness and love. Please accept my deepest condolences and please know that so many are praying for your family. God bless. Tammy Falls

March 05, 2017

Much love, prayers for your comfort, and intense gratitude for your bravery and strength it took to share lovely Stephanie’s letter. Don’t quite know your pain, as my son has been clean for a year after 12 years of addiction, but a day doesn’t go by that my heart doesn’t freeze up when my phone rings, expecting the worst. I have never met you, but I love you and you are forever in my prayers. 

March 05, 2017

I do not know u at all but let me say how sorry I am for your loss.   Prayers and thoughts go out to each and every one of you.  I know exactly what it is like to lose someone u love from an  addiction or any other reason I wish you peace and only wonderful memories of your loved one.    May she rest in peace in heaven until one day u all meet again

March 05, 2017

There are no words to take away the pain. I know. I lost my daughter 8/1/16 to addiction. All I can do is send hugs and pray for peace in your tragedy.
From another angels mom.

March 05, 2017

I’m sorry for your loss.im there myself.  Just buried my son 2 weeks ago because of this stuff.  Again I am sorry for your loss. Something about parent should never feel….jerry fisicaro 

March 05, 2017

Thank you for sharing Stephanie’s letter I can only pray that it will wake up at least one young person!!  I am o sorry for your loss. I pray for you that God will comfort and give you the strength to raise your granddaughter. God bless you. Willa Lemburg

March 05, 2017

Sincerely sorry for your loss.  My sister passed away 3 months ago due to addiction.  I know your pain and feel your ache.  May you find some peace in knowing she is not battling the demons she battled here on earth.  My heart and love go out to your family.  God bless.

March 05, 2017

Stephanie,I didn’t know you but I was you.  I know how you felt, know what hurt you.  I’m sorry you weren’t able to see through the pain…

March 05, 2017

My deepest sympathy to you and your  family, and her Prescious Daughter. I am a Parent of an Addict and my Biggest fear every day is getting that Phone call that Addiction has Won the Battle. I pray for Peace and Comfort For All affected by this Horrible Disease. The Letter couldn’t have been More clear the Kind of person your Daughter was. I only met Steph once or twice but learned alot about her through my Son Andrew whom is also close friends with her Boyfriend Dwayne. Always keep in mind that she really wanted Normal in her life, And her Letter Clearly Stated that. God Bless To All! from A parent Of an ADDICT. <3

March 05, 2017

I didn’t know your daughter, but after reading what she wrote, she truly touched my soul. I know the pain and suffering that she went thru. I am in recovery and Feb 24th I celebrated 1yr clean. I will keep your family in my prayers. I am truly sorry for you loss. God Bless. Remember the good times together. The good memories are what mean the most. Sincerely, Montana

March 05, 2017

I do not know you, but my heartfelt sympathy to all of her family! Her letter broke my heart. May you all find comfort in the lord

March 05, 2017

I do not know you, but my heartfelt sympathy to all of her family! Her letter broke my heart

March 05, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss..I understand what your going through..I lost my brother .He was a Vietnam son and my only sibling. I buried my family.My heart ❤️ hurts for her beautiful daughter.  I don’t know this family .Thank you for sharing your daughte’s letter.Addiction hurts many..so sorry,Pam 

March 05, 2017

My prayers are with all of you during this difficult time. May God carry you during this time. God bless.

March 05, 2017

I want to tell you that I care about your loss. Stephanie wrote that beautiful poem out of the deep dispair in her heart. She has touched my heart and I pray  your family will find peace in her loss.  I do not know you, nor do you know me. I am just a person who wants you to know that many care about you at this difficult time.
Joan Dubble

March 05, 2017

We want to send our deepest condolenes out to Stephanie’s family,friends,and her loved ones.We are very sorry for your loss,she will never be forgotten and in the hearts of many.

March 05, 2017

Heartfelt sympathy at the loss of this beautiful woman.   Thank you for your bravery in publishing her letter.   Perhaps you will save a life, change an inevitable outcome, or open someone’s eyes to the truth of addiction.

March 05, 2017

My deepest condolences. While your questions will never be answered may there be some comfort in knowing your beautiful daughter no longer suffers. 
Kym Heflybower

March 05, 2017

I am so sorry for your lost of you lovely daughter My Mom use to babysit Stephanie and Christine. God bless your family during this tragic loss Angie Nadu-Young

March 05, 2017

So honest, so very sad. RIP Stephanie.
Hazel Hilton

March 05, 2017

 
I had to go away
 
I had to go away. I’m sorry you couldn’t come with me. But on earth is where you shall stay. Please do not be sad. Instead laugh and be glad. I’m in a beautiful place, such a beautiful place. I know you wont see me for a while. But you will hear from me. I will be the wind that will chill you on a hot summer day. I will be the sun that will warm you when it’s cold. Listen to the birds sing, I will be saying, “I love you” in their song. I know you can’t touch me. But you will feel me. Because I will be inside of you giving you life on the days you feel like you can’t go on anymore. Please I beg of you, go on, live your life as I lived mine. Always remember we will be together again. I will be patiently waiting for you on that day. When you will join me in this beautiful place. Until then may God bless you with his almighty grace. Written By: Kimberly Ann Kerek
 
Sorrento, La. 
 

March 05, 2017

So sorry for all of you at the passing of Stephanie. I know she will be dearly missed.
May God’s peace comfort you.
Sharon & Jack Yoder

March 05, 2017

My heart hurts and breaks for Stephanie’s family and her precious daughter!!  Tears just flowed after reading her letter!!  Thanks so much for sharing it!  I hope and pray it will help others to see the results of addiction and be able to make a change before it is too late!                                                                                                                                                                               I worked at Knight and Day Diner with her!  So many days she was not feeling well and had lots of pain!  Wish we could have been of some help to her!                                                                                                                                                       May all of you gain strength and peace which only comes from God our Father, is my prayer.                                                     Love and hugs to all,                                                                                                                                                             Esther Weaver    

March 05, 2017

I don’t know your daughter but have lost a nephew to addiction at 22. We have an adopted son who is 4 that is dealing with the death of his father from an OD. Thank you for posting her letter may you find some healing knowing she was aware that the addiction held control over her. It’s a tough disease to battle. Thoughts to your family especially her daughter.

March 05, 2017

Hey Steph I miss you girl I will always remember the talks that we had I will always miss that… We went through some emotional talks to happy thoughts… I know you’re watching over me… For the short time that I’ve known you we became close and had alot in common you’re just a sweetheart no matter what always had me laughing when I needed it .. I love you girl R. I. P love … I just wanna give my condolences to the family I sorry for your lost 
Love Amanda (Mandy)  Kindig 

March 05, 2017

So sad.  My thoughts and prayers are with this family.  Always know Savannah that your mother loves u. She just had a addiction that she couldnt overcome. God bless

March 05, 2017

My thoughts and prayers are with the Family as you go through this very difficult time.
With deepest sympathy, 
Doris Good

March 05, 2017

I do not know your family and did not know your beloved, but I read her words.  I am so very sorry for your loss but I am also sorry for the obvious torture she fought being an addict.  I do not understand drug addiction as I have not personally dealt with it.  I wish you all comfort in this time and the strength to carry on without her.

March 05, 2017

I am so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter, Stephanie, to this terrible disease. I am very humbled by your courage to shed light on Stephanie’s struggle so publicly, in the midst of your own grief. I have no doubt it will help so many, and it is a beautiful tribute to your daughter. I hope people will see addiction as a terrible disease that it is, and not a moral flaw. 
May Gos bless you, and your family, especially Savannah. 

March 05, 2017

I did not know Stephanie, I saw this on Facebook.  I was so touched by your inclusion of her letter that I just wanted to let you know that I admire you.  As a mother of an addicted son, I admire you for coming forth with the true cause of her death.  Instead of hiding, pretending, and being ashamed, you are bringing this epidemic to the forefront.  I hope and pray that your message is heard loud and clear and will save someone from the same fate as Stephanie and so many others.
 
With great respect and deepest condolences,
B Kunkle

March 05, 2017

I’m so sorry to read of Stephanie’s passing. I didn’t know her but was so touched by her words. Thank you for including them. Addiction has touched so many lives and I’m sorry Stephanie and your family had to know the pain of it.  I have no words to explain the sorrow I feel for you. I send you love, light, hope & peace. Please know many thoughts & prayers are with you. Kim from Lancaster

March 05, 2017

I want to send my warmest condolences to the family of Stephanie Evanko… It made my heart sad to read this and to know another parent has lost a child.. It is sad that this disease cannot be stopped.. I said the other day. Satan is taking our children at an alarming rate…But you know she is in the arms of Jesus… And will never be sad, used, or be able to want to get free but can’t..She will never have to worry again… She is finally free.. I know were you come from.. I am the parent also… The parent of a son who has walked down this road so many times.. God is sparing him for something… Your beautiful daughter has finished her work…So she is now free.. Free to live the life she deserved, but the addiction took her away.. Now she is truly free.. Be with God Stephanie…. Be with God.. God be with your family… My heart is sad, sad knowing this goes on and on… Lord Jesus, Please make it go away…
Warm Hugs…
Janet Fisher
 

March 05, 2017

I am so sorry for the loss of your lovely daughter. The devil had her and just wouldn’t let go. That letter she wrote you said it all….she wanted to get away and the drugs were just too strong…they had her physically but not mentally. you have to know that.  My heart breaks for you and I pray one day you will have peace in your heart. I hope something wonderful will blossom from your loss! She will shine through her daughter. Love to all and know you are surrounded by hearts that never even knew her…like me!?

March 05, 2017

To Stephanie’s family:
I am so sorry about the passing of your daughter. Drugs are a horrible thing that so many people cannot get away from once they start. I’m so glad she shared her latter and pray that it reaches out to someone that has an addiction.
May God touch your family especially her daughter and give you all peace. Gods peace and understanding for her daughter that she will know in time how bad an addiction drugs are and that after time her Mother was under such an influence that she could not get out from under.
God Bless your family as you continue to raise your granddaughter.
My Blessings and prayers to your family.—Linda Dukes

March 05, 2017

Rest in Peace dear child.  Condolences to your family
Marilyn Grogg

March 05, 2017

My heart ached for your family and particularly Stephanie’s daughter when I read the Sunday newspaper.  You were so brave, in your raw and present grief, to share the very personal and eye opening letter your daughter wrote about her painful struggle with addiction.  So many people dont know or understand the magnitude of this problem and the number of lives it is impacting.  I hope, like you, that your decision to share your daughters deep thoughts and feelings during her journey with addition, will help others wake up to this tragic problem in our communities.  My heart felt thoughts and prayers go out to you at this very difficult time.  Bunnie Buckwalter

March 05, 2017

I would like to know if you could please forward these words to Stephanie M. Evanco’s family.  They are written from my heart. It is my prayer it may help understand the illness of addiction takjng so many of our loved ones.  They may ferl free to post it online or in anyway they wish also to help save any young lives from ever going down the dark road.  
 
Dear Savannah, 
 
Some day in the future, you may come across the letter your mom wrote.  And you might have some mixed feelings and be a little confused.  You may wonder why. Why her? Why did it have to be my mom?  And why me. Why did I have to have a mom who used drugs and died.   Savannah sweetie, i want you to know the truth. I want you to understand what happened.  And it’s my desire to tell you all that I know, so that you will know that what happened to your mom, had nothing to do with how much she loved and adored you as moms love their daughters so very much.  
 
You see Savannah, you mom was truly sick, she had a  real illness.  And it’s been scientifically proven that it is.  Something happened to her as she was growing up, maybe she was insecure inside, maybe she had low self esteem that she didnt show, maybe her brain wasn’t making endorphins right, maybe even, she just wanted to be like her friends.  What ever it was to try it that first time, it was the last time that the agony of fighting addition was a choice, or a unclear choice.  After that first time, her brain chemicals changed.  What made her feel so much better inside for those few moments, would swoop down and ultimately take her from you and your family.  You see, the drug makes endorphins in the brain up to 30 times  stronger that what we can make on our own. We make them in our bodies normally. We need  them to live, to eat, to breath, to think, etc.  What happens is, the strength made by the drug is so much stronger than ours that our bodies stop making them on its own.  So imagine, how bad you would feel, if you couldnt make any.  You would feel miserable,like a truck ran over you, and you could not think right, feel right, sweep right, that is one of the biggest reasons people who do this cant stop doing it.  The other thing that happens is the drug changes the way we make decisions, the rear part of the brain which is the irrational part takes over the front part which is where we can make good decisions and choices and think properly.   So it was so very very very hard for her. It wasnt her fault. She was sick in her brain.  It had absolutely nothing to do with the enourmous amount of love she had in her heart for you and her sister and her parents and your family.  
How do I know all this?  Because Savannah, 4 years ago,my beautiful son Daniel passed away also, the same way.  And I didnt know all this either.  I knew that he loved me more than anything, and his siblings and his family. And like your mom, wouldnt want to hurt us for anything in the world.  But he wasn’t strong enough to fight the storm.  Some people, do get lucky,  but many many more dont. In fact, over 144 people pass away every single day from it. Hundreds of thousands already have.  You are not alone, and sadly. Many thousands of children are left without their moms and dads and sisters, and brothers. Many thousands of parents lose their children. 
 
That is why, you must never, ever, even think about trying drugs with your friends  not even just one time,because you want  to just try it.  It only takes one time for your life to change forever.  If you are feeling bad inside, or unhappy, or scared, or anxious, please talk to someone, please share your feelings, anyone, an adult it could be a family member,  a teacher, or a  friend,  because trying drugs to make you feel better inside should never be the answer. 
 
Lastly, please remember that as your mom, she only wanted the best for you in life, it might have been hard for you to see that,or for her to give it to you. But all moms want our children to be well and happy.  
 
You can honor your moms memory buy having a good, happy life, by trying to find the Blessings you still have to experience in life. Keep her in your heart always.  I shall pray for you always that you find healing, faith and happiness. 
 
Sincerly, Geri Barcheski
Daniel Lucewich’s Mom 

March 05, 2017

My heart goes out to you and your famiky. The Lord will take care of her now so your hearts may rest easy. God bless you.

March 05, 2017

My heartfelt sympathy goes out to your family and Savannah. Her mother was ill and it was no reflection of what a beautiful person I’m sure she was. I’m the mother and sister of addicts and I feel your pain. God Bless you for having the courage to include her illness and writings in her obituaries. 
 
Cheryl Kremer

March 05, 2017

My heartfelt sympathy to your entire family for the loss of Stephanie. She descibed the heartache and pain this Insidious disease does too us and our families… I too am an alcoholic & addict in recovery (11yrs) There are support groups to help families deal with situations like this,please reach out too them,they can help..My disease took yet another loving,beautiful mother,daughter,sister,sister-in-law, friend from us. My deepest condolences for your loss..May God be with you!!    Sincerly,Ronnie Dunn,Jr. 

March 05, 2017

Please accept my heartfelt sympathy and hug and prayers to you and her daughter,i have known steph for many years and always tried to be there when she needed someone to talk to and always tried to help her fight the deamon always know that her daughter and family were always on her mine and in her heart she tried real haed to be there for her daughter she was the one who made her try to beat the addication but it just was not enough.Knowing she is in a better place makes the pain alittle easier but they will always be heart break because she left way to early.i want to thank you for the letter she wrote and i to hope that it helps one person then steph would be so proud to have helped i will end the way we always ended our talks when she visited with a hug kiss on the ckeek and i love you steph take care of yourself she would smile and say i will! always on my mine and in my heart! Ray   

March 05, 2017

So sorry for your loss. Prayers for her family,  especially her daughter. 

March 05, 2017

I am so sorry for your recent loss. As a mother of a child who is following step by step in your daughters footsteps, I can begin to feel your pain. There are days and weeks that go by that I wonder if my son is dead or alive. Heroin directs his life, not his daughter. Thank you for being so honest and sharing your story. It will save someone’s life. I am being selfish saying, I pray it’s my son’s. I will remember your daughter and your family daily in prayer. I believe that your beautiful Stephanie is now free from the bondages of addiction, she is in the stars in the sky, that beautiful butterfly on a sunny day representing her release and transformation…
Brandy
Mother of a “struggling and lost” soul but still believer of FAITH

March 05, 2017

My prayers & deepesst condolences go out to all of you. I knew Stephanie from my tme as a prison chaplain. She was a sweet girl with a big heart. So very sad!!

March 05, 2017

My condolences to Stephanie’s family she was an amazing person and she had a beautiful soul I met her at the mission when she was living there. She was amazing ? 
 

March 05, 2017

Thank you for sharing Stephanie’s poem, as difficult this time; I, too, pray it helps just 1 person.May peace slowly begin to happen, May everyone be surrounded by loving friends who will just “be”, and may the healing begin… Again, I’m so sorry for your PROFOUND loss.
With my deepest sympathies, Karen (Akron).

March 05, 2017

Thank you for sharing Stephanie’s story..
she is safe now in the arms of God where you will meet again and you all will find peace.
God Bles.

March 05, 2017

Sending your family warm hugs and many prayers. Thank you for sharing Stephanie’s letter, I am sure it will touch hearts. I lost my son Joey 4/14 of last year from an overdose, he was 24. It’s truly heartbreaking, we are losing to many. May you find peace in the days ahead. You will be in my prayers, I am so very sorry. Julie Ressler 

March 05, 2017

My heartfelt sympathy for Stephanies family, especially her daughter. As a mom who has buried 4 children in the past 15 years because of addiction, I understand t h e pain. Please know no one understands until they have been thru the battle of this sickness called ADDICTION. If anyone needs someone to talk to, or just a war to listen, please, feel free to message me on Facebook, Carol Morris, and I’ll send my phone number.

March 05, 2017

I just want to say thank you for sharing your daughter’s letter in her obituary.   I am an ICU nurse and see so many tragedies such as this and if there is a way to touch others who are struggling just maybe you will save one life.  I am sure it wasn’t easy to put that out there but you have made an important step and instead of hiding what is happening in our communities you shared so others know.   It also showed how your daughter really wanted to be different but the drug was bigger.  This is happening to so many people.  Be strong and keep advocating to help others.   I am sorry for your loss.  

March 05, 2017

I am so very sorry for your loss. Your daughter is beautiful in this picture; and the heartbreak of addictions is devastating. Thank you for having the courage to share. May God comfort all of you and bring something beautiful and good out of the brokenness and pain, especially for Stephanie’s daughter, Savannah.
Lisa in Lancaster

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