Obituaries

Olivia Nicole McCrery, 10

Olivia Nicole McCrery, 10, of Lancaster, died Sunday, March 9, 2008 at Hershey Medical Center following a brief illness.

Born in Lancaster, she was the daughter of Todd and Stephanie (Draude) McCrery.

Olivia was a 5th grade honor-roll student at Hambright Elementary School in Penn Manor School District where she recently received the “PORK” award (Prepared, Obedient, Responsible and Kind.) She played soccer for the Penn Manor Soccer Club, was a Penn Manor Junior Comets Cheerleader, and a member of the school chorus. Olivia was a member of and attended CCD at St. Joseph Catholic Church. She loved singing and dancing, swimming and the beach. She loved seafood and going crabbing with her dad. Olivia enjoyed dressing up and putting on modeling shows, playing house and restaurant with her good friend Rachel. She was artistic, very articulate and organized.

Olivia’s family would like to send a special thank you to the PICU at Hershey for their unbelievable care.

Surviving in addition to her parents are a sister, Samantha Marie McCrery at home; paternal grandparents, William and Henrietta R. McCrery of Gordonville; and aunts and uncles. She was preceded in death by her maternal grandparents, Francis J. and Marie A. Draude; Aunt Donna Marie Wise and Uncle Ralph Trego.

Relatives and friends are invited to attend Mass of Christian Burial on Saturday at 1:00 p.m. at St. Joseph Catholic Church, 440 St. Joseph St., Lancaster with Msgr. Thomas H. Smith as Celebrant. Friends may pay their respects to the family on Friday evening from 5:00-8:00 p.m. at Charles F. Snyder Funeral Home, 441 N. George St., Millersville. Interment in St. Joseph Catholic Cemetery. Please omit flowers. Memorial contributions in Olivia’s memory may be sent to Ronald McDonald House, 745 W. Governor Rd., Hershey, PA  17033-2304.

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Todd and Stephanie.

There are no words to express our deepest heartfelt sympathy in the loss of your beautiful daughter, Olivia.  Our hearts ache just thinking about what you are going through right now.  Please lean on your faith and allow that to be your support during this time of sorrow.  God must have thought you did an amazing job raising Olivia – so much so – that he set a place for her early – in his house.  Too early for you – I know – but not according to his plan. Remember, she will ALWAYS live on in your hearts, your thoughts and in your memories. No one can ever take those cherished moments away from you. Please know – we will keep you in our prayers – knowing that God will hold you both in his hands as you face this difficult time.

Lisa and Dave Frymyer

We are so deeply sadened for your loss, words cant describe. We are praying for You. Please stay strong and continue to brace God.

God Bless and take care.

The Neffs

Our hearts ache for you and your beautiful Angel Olivia. We can not even imagine the pain you are experiencing, we are thinking of you often and praying that God will ease your grief. Lean hard on your family and friends, we all need others to carry us through extremely difficult times.

With Love,

Tina and Jim Kirchner

My heart aches for you during this time of intense sadness. The sorrow that is found in your loss goes far beyond the written word.

Courage: also known as bravery, will and fortitude, is the ability to confront fear, pain, risk/danger, uncertainty or intimidation.

Physical courage: is courage in the face of physical pain, hardship, or threat of death.

The true meaning of this word is directly associated with the fight Olivia gave and the strength, bravery and HONOR Olivia, Todd, Stephanie and Samantha showed during this confusing and tragic time.

That courageous spirit will remain a part of you as you remember her with love and as you find a strength you never knew you had in rebuilding a new way of loving Olivia and living without her physical presence.

You will be forever comforted by Olivia with those memories she’s left you.

NOTHING can take that away from you.

Sincerely,

Karla(Besecker)Goldbach
John Goldbach
Julia, Kurt, Erik and Mark

Dear Todd & Stephanie,

We are shocked and saddened with the news of your daughter passing. It is utterly impossible for us to imagine your pain at the loss of such a young, vibrant, beautiful child. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Love Debby & Dick Topper

I just wanted to let you know you are the most amazing people ever not to mention the strongest people i have ever know. I will continue to pray for your family. Olivia is in a better place now. I hope your family the best. I hope you can get through this.

Sincerly,

Nikki DeWitt

Todd, Stephanie and Samantha,

Please know that our whole family is holding up your whole family in prayer. As parents ourselves we cannot fathom the grief that you must be feeling at this time. We hope that in time you can find peace and comfort in knowing that your precious daughter is now face to face with our Lord and Saviour. Never forget his promise of the reunion that you will have with Olivia someday in heaven, and that will be for eternity.

With deepest sympathy,

Tom, Lisa, Bryan and Olivia Buckius

you are the strongests family i have ever met. i dont think i could do it. stay strong and you’ll make it through. im so sorry for you loss. olivia was a bright,sweet, beautiful little girl who did not deserve this. she took the hearts of many people and she will be missed so much.

sincerly,

Chelsea Hahn

My deepest sympathy. I was shocked to hear what happen. I’ll keep your family in my prayers.

Dan Klinedinst
C & K POWERWASHING

Dear McCrery family,

My family would like to let you know how sad we are to hear of your little Olivia. We prayed for her when we heard about her being ill. Now our prayers are for you, that somehow comfort that only God can provide will take over your pain.

With deepest sympathy,

Holly, Hayley and Luke Coccio (a Hambright School family)

It is with heart felt sorrow that I send this to your family I can only offer mear words of sympathy in this very sad time. To quote "FootPrints" it is God that walks through life with you and at the hardest times of your life you look at the footprints in the sand and you see only 1 set of footprints it is then that God is carrying you through the trama. I feel so sad and have shed many tears for Olivia and know she is and will always be missed very much.

with Love and Sympathy

Pamela Ottinger & Family

Dear McCrery Family,

Our heart is broken for you. Words cannot express our sadness. We have been praying for you every night as a family,our church (Living Waters Church) and in the youth group. Jerry Egan goes to our church as well as Peter Dutton, a fifth grader at Hambright. My daughter is also in 5th grade and shares so much in common with your precious Olivia. She is hurting for a family she doesn’t even know. We are especially praying for the friend Rachel and the big sister Samantha. Life is so hard to understand. We are so very sorry. Our prayers will not stop for you.

Sincerely,

Laura Sambrick (the mom) and Sarah Sambrick (5th grader at Hans Herr Intermedate)

My deepest sympathies to your family. My nephew, Ryan Miller, is in Mrs. Martin’s class. May God hold you in the palm of His hands in the coming days.

Katie Moore
marineaunt57@verizon.net

I didn’t know your daughter well, however I had met her at a soccer clinic where she was helping the coach with the other younger kids (my son Ryan included) Ryan attends 2nd grade at Hambright. She was very helpful, and she seemed to be having allot of fun. It seemed she had a love for not just the game but for helping others as well.

Our thoughts and prayers have been with your and Olivia since we found out in the flyer the school sent home. As a parents who haven’t lost we can’t even try to know how you feel. At least she is with god, watching over the rest of her family.

Please accept our sympathy and prayers, if you ever need anything the entire Hambright family is here to help

John, Michelle and Ryan Nicklas

Although we did not know Olivia personally, we want to extend our deepest sympathy to you as well as her sister Stephanie. Ours is not to know why she was taken so soon but to take comfort in the belief that we will be reunited with her when we meet up in Heaven. Our prayers are with you during this difficult time.

The Benney Family

(members of the Hambright School Community)

Dear Stephanie and Todd,

It is with a heavy heart that we write this message to you. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Olivia was a beautiful gift to you…if only for a short time. Right now you are probably just trying to make sense of it all. She will forever be in your hearts and dreams.  How special she must have been.  Her picture is beautiful. We know that your hearts are broken.  Our hearts are breaking just thinking of your sorrow.  Hold each other close as you go through the hard and difficult days ahead.  Take it one moment – perhaps one breath at a time. You have each other and Samantha to hold onto.  Of course, you have us, as well  If you need anything at anytime, please let us know. She was so lucky to have the two of you for her parents. We think the world of you. 

Much love,

Bob and Doreen Hershey

Todd, Stephanie, and Samantha,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. Heaven has a new angel to brighten the sky. May God be with you and comfort you all.

Mike and Linda Friedel

Stephanie, Todd and family,

Please accept our deepest condolences for a most tragic event in your lives.

Joan and I just don’t have the words to to sooth your misery except that God
must have wanted her early. We will keep you and your family in our prayers.

Love always
Sam and Joan Fulginiti

Dear Stephanie, Todd and Samantha,

We are so very sorry for your loss.  God bless your little angel and God bless all of you.  Our prayers are with you.   God love you.

Julie (Gaenzle) Brown and children

My deepest sympathies & prayers go out to you and your family at this time.

Sheryl A. Flinchbaugh

My sincere condolences to Stephanie and Todd McCrery on the loss of the daughter, Olivia.

Tom Rotella

Stephanie, Todd and Samantha,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this devastating time. Hold close all the wonderful memories of your sweet little girl.

Lisa and Jim Kiscaden

Our thoughts and Prayers are with you in your time of sorrow.

May God comfort you in knowing that she is with the Angels, and someday you will all be together.

The Sheaffers’

Sid & Jessie

Mr. and Mrs. McCrery,

Even though we have never met, the death of your beautiful daughter, Olivia, touched our hearts immensely. Our daughters attend the same schools and know of your daughters. As someone already said, God does have a plan and it was to bring her home early in her young life. Please keep that faith knowing she is with her Heavenly Father. Please accept our heartfelt sympathy to your family.

The Jones’ Family

Stephanie, Todd, and Samantha,

My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Please accept my condolence.

Mark Myers

Dear Todd, Stephanie, Samantha and Nancy,

Please know that though we are many miles away in Washington state, we feel grief and sorrow for your loss. Our family is praying for your family. We hope you find comfort in our prayers and in the following poem by W.H. Auden for its profound expression of one’s loss.

Stop all the clocks, cut off the telephone,
Prevent the dog from barking with a juicy bone,
Silence the pianos and with muffled drum
Bring out the coffin, let the mourners come.

Let aeroplanes circle moaning overhead
Scribbling on the sky the message She Is Dead,
Put crepe bows round the white necks of the public doves,
Let the traffic policemen wear black cotton gloves.

She was my North, my South, my East and West,
My working week and my Sunday rest,
My noon, my midnight, my talk, my song;
I thought that love would last for ever: I was wrong.

The stars are not wanted now: put out every one;
Pack up the moon and dismantle the sun;
Pour away the ocean and sweep up the wood.
For nothing now can ever come to any good.

With deepest sympathy,

The Christophers (Brian, Lisa, Kathryn and Elizabeth)

For only God knows the answer for taking your special little angel away much too soon!Olivia has and will be dearly missed by her classmates!May you all find comfort and strength in the beautiful and numerous moments you all shared together.With deepest sincere sympathy during this horrific time of sadness with the loss of your bright,beautiful,talented,lovely Daughter Olivia.

GOD BLESS.

The KULISH Family

Todd, Stephanie and Samantha,

We are so sorry for your loss and just want you to know you are in our prayers.

Ken & Cheryl Smith

Todd, Stephanie, and Samantha

You have been in our thougths, and prayers during this difficult time in your loss.

Love, The Ashba’s

Our deepest sympathies to your family.  We pray for Olivia and your strength during this time.
Dennis, Kay, William and Anna Byrnes

Even though I don’t know your family, my sympathy is with you.  As a mother of two, I can’t even imagine the pain you are going through.  I will pray God gives you the strength to get through this difficult time.

Susan Iannicelli
Albright Avenue

We are so sorry for your loss and will continue to pray for  your family and Olivia.

Paula and Jerry Larch
Sn Antonio,Texas
TSR member

I wanted to let you know that you are in my prayers. I was shocked and saddened when I heard about what happened at school and have since been praying for God to give you strength in this time of saddness and confusion. Olivia is now in a better place. I am so sorry for your families loss. I can’t imagine what you are going through. May God be with you as your family recovers from this tragedy.     
                            Bryan Buckius

Dear Steph & family,

We have been praying and thinking about your family a great deal over the last few weeks and our hearts are oh so heavy for you guys.  We will continue to pray for comfort, and strength for the coming weeks ahead.  We are so sorry!

With sincere hearts,

Darren, Julie, Angie, and Daulton Parmer
(Angie cheered with Oliva w/PMJC)

Deepest sympathy to you and yours at this time of great sorrow.  Your showing of love and constant vigil was inspirational.  May God bless you and yours in the coming days, months, years.

Volunteer at Ronald McDonald Family Room, Hershey Medical Center

Mr. and Mrs. McCrery and Samantha,

I am so sorry for your loss; Olivia was a beautiful young girl who brought much joy into the lives of the people she met. Although we will never understand the reason for such a traumatic event to occur please find strength in knowing that God had other plans for Olivia and she is now in peace. Please accept my sincere condolences and your family will continue to be in my prayers.

Ashley Knepp
(Coach Ashley)

Dear Todd and Family

We are sorry to hear about your loss. We are praying for you. Looking forward to seeing you at the ballpark again this summer

Steve and Tonya Stoltzfus (Jaguars softball)

Todd and family,

Extending our deepest sympathy to you. What a beautiful daughter. We found out about your loss on sunday and our church had a special prayer for you. Lots of guys from our congregation at Spring Garden have played baseball at Intercourse Park over the years and have come to appreciate your service as an ump and are deeply grieved at your loss. May God comfort you during this difficult time.

Dave and Barbie Esh ( softball fans )

"Homesick"

You’re in a better place, I’ve heard a thousand times And at least a thousand times I’ve rejoiced for you But the reason why I’m broken, the reason why I cry Is how long must I wait to be with you

I close my eyes and I see your face

If home’s where my heart is then I’m out of place Lord, won’t you give me strength to make it through somehow I’ve never been more homesick than now

Help me Lord cause I don’t understand your ways The reason why I wonder if I’ll ever know But, even if you showed me, the hurt would be the same Cause I’m still here so far away from home

I close my eyes and I see your face

If home’s where my heart is then I’m out of place Lord, won’t you give me strength to make it through somehow I’ve never been more homesick than now

In Christ, there are no goodbye

And in Christ, there is no end

So I’ll hold onto Jesus with all that I have To see you again To see you again

And I close my eyes and I see your face

If home’s where my heart is then I’m out of place Lord, won’t you give me strength to make it through somehow Won’t you give me strength to make it through somehow Won’t you give me strength to make it through somehow

I’ve never been more homesick than now

Mercyme

Our deepest sympathy,

John David and Naomi Stoltzfus
[ Pete’s Raiders Softball ]

I am so sorry to hear of the untimely passing of your beautiful daughter, Olivia. I cannot begin to understand your suffering, but please know that I will pray for her and for your family.

Best,

Adriana P.
Virginia

Dear Steph, Todd, Samantha and Nancy,

We share in your sorrow.  We lost our 3 year old nephew, Will, to cancer and like you could only wonder why such innocence is taken from us so young.
We must cling to our faith even when we don’t understand why such things happen.  Our Lord, Jesus said He has gone to prepare a place for us in heaven. Olivia is there, joyfull and happy.  Our minds cannot conceive the reality of heaven…we must simply have faith and believe. 

Please try and take care of yourselves and take the time you need to mourn and heal.  So many prayers remain with all of you through this sorrowful time. At the same time, think about your sweet, Olivia and what she would want all of you to do.  She would want you all to go on and live life.  You will in time.

You have been blessed with a precious gift, Olivia and she shined so brightly in her short life. She has touched so many lives and inspired so many with her strenth and spirit.  Olivia will never be forgotten.

God Bless you all!

With Love,

Cousins, Loretta and Marty

Olivia has touched our hearts and lives here in Hatboro and the surrounding area. We formed a close group for prayers and the Willow Grove Michaels where I work also kept her in theirs. She was a very special girl which is evident in the fact that so many that never ever laid eyes on her could be touched so profoundly.
My sympathies go out to you and your family.

love,

Edie Malin
(an online friend of Regina)

Dear Todd,Stephanie,and Samantha,

Words cannot even express our heartfelt sorrow.  Please know that your family is in our prayers, and that dear little Olivia left this world with her heart full of love, and is now in eternal happiness. Life is too short, but you have been blessed with Olivia for ten wonderful years, hold on to all those wonderful memories…..fill your hearts and souls with them. God Bless!

Love,  Lisa, Danny & Jenna McClair   (dljj88@yahoo.com)

  (Jenna—4th grader at Hambright)
  ( Lisa–Ann Marie Dumm’s Friend)

We are so sorry for your loss. We will continue to keep you all in our prayers.

Tina & Sarah Tirado

May God Bless all of you and watch over you during this most difficult time.  Olvia was a wonderful child and our children enjoyed playing with her back at the park.  Andrew loved when Olvia would visit with her dog and was always so excited when Olivia would roll down the hill with him and race to the bottom when no one else would! Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.  May you find some comfort knowing that Olivia is with God and looking down upon all of you.

The Muschlitz Family
Andrew, Lauren, Rob and Lori (Hambright family)

Dear Stephanie,Todd & Samantha,

   Those we love are always with us. Their laughter and their wisdom,their love and thoughtfulness are gifts that are ours to keep. May the gifts of your daughter and sister help console you now and fill your heart with memories that will always comfort you. May you find peace in the love that surrounds you from so many who deeply care.

Sincere Sympathy,
                                                                 Mark(Sagerer)

Stephanie, Todd, & Samatha,

I have always heard that just like a field-full of flowers, God picks the prettiest one for himself. I would like to think that is why he chose Olivia.

Pure, innocent, and full of love.

My heart and prayers continue on for all of you.

Dottie Jones

Dear McCrery Family,

When I shall close my eyes for the last time, and leave behind this beautiful place I love- These trees, these bushes, these birds- This crystal night sky, this radiant sunshine day,- The hello and goodbye to Gods’ four seasons over the years- Family, all friends- Cry not for me! Rejoice!

My soul has wings and when my eyes reopen I shall look into the eyes of Almighty God.

Our Deepest Sympathy,

Grant Rogers & Family

I would like to send my condolences to all the family members of Olivia, even though i didnt know her, from what ive read in the paper, she was quite the athlete, and honor roll. well any way god bless and you all are in my prayers, thanks again

kim smith

Todd, Stephanie and Samantha,

He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death, or mourning or crying or pain. Revelation 21:4

Our hearts go out to you at this most trying and difficult time in your lives. We will be praying for you!!!

"Imagine a world without pain or heartache, Now imagine her there with God smiling for eternity!"

All our love,

The Will Family
(Ted, Shannon, Madison, Teddy and Adam)
(Madison – 5th grader at Hambright Elem.)

We are heartbroken for your loss and hope that your memories of your beautiful Olivia carry you through this difficult time.

The staff of Brown & Associates

God bless and keep you during this time.  My sympathies are with you.

Maria

I did not have the pleasure of knowing Olivia, but I have been praying for her throughout this horrible tragedy.  I belong to a scrapbooking message board on which updates were given. 

I can’t imagine the loss and pain you are feeling.  My prayers continue to be extended to your family.

THE STAFF AND CONGRIGATION OF DESERT BREEZE COMMUNITY CHURCH OF GLENDALE ARIZONA EXTEND THEIR DEEPEST SYMPHANY AT THE LOSS OF THIS PRECIOUS LITTLE CHILD. WE WERE ADVISED OF HER ILLNESS BY THE SCRAP ROOM AND HAD HER IN OUR PRAYERS FROM THE BEGINNING OF HER ILLNESS. WE ARE NOW PRAYING FOR THE FAMILY AND FRIENDS OF OLIVIA.

I DID’NT KNOW OLIVIA PERSONALLY BUT FOUND OUT ABOUT HER THROUGH A FAMILY MEMBER.
I CONTINUED TO PRAY FOR HER THROUGHOUT HER BRIEF ILLNESS. GOD BLESS HER FAMILY. JUST KNOW THAT SHE IS IN A BETTER PLACE RIGHT NOW, WATCHING OVER YOU AND WAITING TO SEE YOU ALL IN HEAVEN SOME DAY. I CAN’T EVEN IMAGINE THE PAIN YOU ARE GOING THROUGH RIGHT NOW, BECAUSE THERE IS NO GREATER PAIN THEN LOSING A CHILD. JUST TRUST IN GOD AND HE WILL GET YOU THROUGH THIS TERRIBLE TIME. MAY GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU TODAY AND ALWAYS

Dear Stephanie and Family,

I know Stephanie, Samantha and Olivia from Hershey Heritage Pool. You are such a nice family, always pleasant and friendly. Suzanne Albright called me yesterday and told me of Olivia. I have moved from the area, so I hadn’t been aware of what you all were going through this past month. I’m shocked and saddened by the news. My memories of Olivia started when she was a little toddler with a pacifier, running around the pool. She always was so active, and so beautiful.

My heart aches for you.

Nancy White
(Chloe and Christopher’s mom)

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