Obituaries
Nancy Ruth Simpson, 79
May 10, 2020
Nancy Ruth (Dailey) Simpson, 79, went home to be with her Lord and Savior on Mother’s Day, Sunday, May 10, 2020. She was born on December 10, 1940, in Toledo, OH, and was the oldest of the five children born to the late Mable Marie (Rieman) Dailey and William Kenneth Dailey.
Nancy’s childhood and youth were divided between a farm in Ohio and rural Washington State.
These two settings inspired her love of gardens and the outdoors early on. She was a 1958 graduate of Clay-Genoa High School. In 1961, she earned a Certificate of Associate in Business from the University of Toledo and married civil engineer James Cary McKinstry in Toledo, OH (divorced 1982). They raised their four children while living in various cities in Ohio, Pennsylvania, and Michigan. In 1984, she married James Simpson (divorced 1991).
Nancy was very active in the life of her church wherever she lived and made life-long friendships. She enjoyed attending weekly Bible studies and singing in the choir. Nancy had a beautiful soprano voice and was a frequent soloist in Christmas and Easter cantatas. Nancy took great pride in her four children and was tirelessly dedicated to their well-being and education, as well as volunteering in their schools. Nancy not only cherished her faith, family, and friends, she also enjoyed learning new things and meeting new people. Reading, sewing, and needlework were three of her favorite hobbies.
Professionally, she had twelve years of experience in banking as a part-time teller and then advanced to accountant/financial analyst at various corporations in the Detroit area. In 1988, she completed a B.S. in Financial Services/Accounting at Madonna University and became an active member in the Business and Professional Women’s Association in Michigan. The last company she worked for was Visual Services in Livonia, MI, and retired in 2003. During her retirement years, Nancy pursued new hobbies, especially travel with her family and friends on trips to Europe, Hawaii, Alaska, and the Bahamas. She took painting classes and became very involved with a seniors’ group called the “Jet Setters” at Calvary Baptist Church of Canton, MI.
During the last years of her life, Nancy was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease, but this never impacted her generous and joyful disposition. She always wanted to devote more of her time to working with senior citizens—and, as a resident at various assisted living centers, she was uniquely able to fulfill that hope. She first resided at Sunrise Retirement Community in Michigan to be near her son, Roy, and his family. In the summer of 2015, she moved to Pennsylvania to be close to her daughter, Kay and her family. In her last two years, she resided at Mt. Hope Nazarene Retirement Community, located in the rolling hills of Lancaster County, where she enjoyed the natural beauty of the country, which reminded her so much of her childhood years.
Surviving Nancy are her four children, Paul McKinstry of Westland, MI; Jane Milosch, wife of Mark of Silver Spring, MD; Kay Weber, wife of Kenneth of Lancaster, PA; Roy McKinstry, husband of Laura of Northville, MI; six grandchildren, Christina (McKinstry) Brittos; Tiffany McKinstry; Joel Weber; Natalie Weber; Andrew Crowell; and Ian McKinstry; three of her four siblings, Kenneth Dailey, husband of Rosemarie of Lubbock, TX; Bonita Ion, wife of Patrick of Ann Arbor, MI; and Deanna Yabe of Renton, WA; seven nieces and nephews, Chris Dailey, Elliott Ross, Hillary (Ross) Stark, Peter Ion, Nico Ion, Michael Yabe, and Tom Yabe; and her grandpuppy Francesco Milosch.
A virtual memorial service for the immediate family will be held on Monday, May 18th, followed by a graveside service and interment on June 10th in Michigan. Due to COVID-19 restrictions, a memorial service and reception for friends and family will be held at Calvary Baptist Church, Canton, MI, at a later date to be determined.
In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made in Nancy’s memory to:
Mount Hope Nazarene Retirement Community, 3026 Mount Hope Home Road, Manheim, PA 17545.
Nancy Simpson Family Service Program May 18
Nancy Simpson graveside program June 10
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Condolences to the Family
June 05, 2020
Sending my deepest condolences to the family. My heart goes out to all.
Mom Nancy was the best mother-in-law a girl could have. She was kind, loving and thoughtful and easy to talk with. She was talented as well, often making the family beautiful crocheted items. I am so blessed to have known such a lovely & Godly lady. I miss you! ~Sara McKinstry~
May 28, 2020
I have so many good memories of Nancy and your family including choir, Bible study, Sunday school, and birthday girls’ gatherings. She was a blessing to many! May God bless you and give you peace as you grieve for your loved one. Lucy Morris
May 23, 2020
Dear McKinstry family – What a beautiful photo tribute to a beautiful woman! I’m honestly at a loss for words watching it and having known the McKinstry girls as great friends since 9th grade! Many fun hours at their house and Nancy always being so joyful, hospitable and gracious. There was alway something fun happening there! I love this dear family like my own family! I have seen Nancy’s four children grow and accomplish so much! I know it’s because of a solid, beautiful Christian example they had in their mother. Love you all!
Deborah Crocker
May 23, 2020
We are so sorry for your loss. Nancy was a friend of ours for many years, in choir, Sunday school and jet set. She has been missed since she moved from Michigan. We are praying for her family
Dave and Janet Neil
May 21, 2020
I send my heartfelt sympathy to your family and to my dear friend, Kay Weber, for the loss of her precious mother. Nothing can replace that special relationship. It was God’s gift that she was nearby and you (Kay) could care for her needs and encourage her. I pray God sends special angels to remind you of the wonderful years you had together and comfort you with the knowledge that you will see her again in heaven.
Wendy
May 18, 2020
My deep condolences to Nancy’s family during this difficult time. I had met her just a few times, through her daughter Jane, and was taken by her smile and beautiful spirit. In reading about her life, I can see that she spread joy wherever she went. Sending prayers and love to you.
Katie Johnson
May 18, 2020
Nancy was the best Mother-in-law to my daughter,Laura, and Grandmother to my Grandsons..Andrew and Ian. Nancy was so vibrant,positive,intelligent,a joy to be in her presence and one of the most beautiful Christians I have ever known. She lives on in each of her 4 children and their families. May God comfort you and surround you with His Love. Linda L. Beckman
May 17, 2020
My condolences to the family of Nancy Simpson. I am a friend of Roy McKinstry. I did some work for her around her house and helped her move twice. She was always friendly to me when I would see her. God Bleed the whole family.
Mark Baerlin
May 16, 2020
It was such a blessing to have Nancy attend our Becomer’s class while attending Calvary Baptist Church in Canton, Michigan. I recall the sweet personality and commitment to the Lord. While she was living at Sunrise my wife and I took her to a Becomer’s class party at the Church and she enjoyed seeing everyone. We know we shall all see her again in heaven someday. God Bless all of her family.
Michael V. Moyer
May 16, 2020
We are so sorry to hear of Nancy’s passing. We know she is rejoicing and singing praises in heaven with her Lord. We are praying for your whole family during this time of loss when you can’t even be together to hug each other. Blessings on all of you.
Debbie & Dennis Woodman
May 16, 2020
My deepest condolences to the whole family. Mom…for that’s what I called her…practically adopted me when Jane and I were growing up. Her love and kindness were always steadfast in spite of all our mischief! Such beautiful memories! May God comfort your hearts and give you peace.
Much love,
Kristen (and Philip) Bailey
May 15, 2020
Dear Kay and all the family,
We spent many years at Calvary and in the choir with your mom. We were blessed to know her and your family. May God comfort you as only He can in the weeks and months ahead. Love, Tim & Donna
May 15, 2020
Our deepest condolences to your family. We were fortunate to have met Nancy when she visitied Jane and Mark in Iowa City. Her kindness, gentle spirit, and joyful attitude were beautiful to behold. Your family was richly blessed through her unconditional love for each one of you. May God bless you with His peace that surpasses all understanding during this sad time. Take good care.
Mila and Tim Grady
May 15, 2020
My heartfelt condolences to the family. I had the privilege of singing with her in the church choir at Calvary Baptist Church in Canton, Michigan. Fond memories!
Anne Manning
May 15, 2020
We never met, but I count Nancy’s daughter Jane among my favorite people. I see that they have the same infectious smile and kind twinkle in the eyes, and from her obituary, I can tell that she was a truly lovely soul. My sympathies to the family through whom she lives on in hearts and in heaven.
Diana N’Diaye
May 15, 2020
Our dearest sympathy to the family of Nancy. I met her and she was so joyful and had a smile that brightened anyone’s day. Our prayers are with you during this difficult time. What a beautiful memorial. Love, Debbie, Barry and Stephanie Teel
May 15, 2020
I only knew Nancy through her daughter, Jane Milosch. That was enough for me to know that she had to be a loving, giving person who devoted considerable energy to brightening up her corner of the world. These are the gifts to all of us that continue for us in the life of her daughter Jane, and I am sure through the lives of her other children and grandchildren. Her memory will be a blessing for her family. With great sympathy,Lois Jecklin
