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Jeannette S. Mateer, 95

May 18, 2021

Jeannette S. Mateer of Millersville, PA, passed away peacefully at her home with her family at her side on Tuesday, May 18, 2021. She was born February 19, 1926 in Millersville, where she resided for most of her 95 years. Jeannette was the oldest of six children of Esther Strickler Shoff and Harold Richard Shoff.

Jeannette graduated from Penn Manor High School in the class of 1943 and then went to work at the Lancaster RCA factory. She married Robert H. Mateer in 1945 and shared 56 years of marriage with him before his death in 2002. Jeannette attended Millersville State Teacher’s College and began her mathematics teaching career in West Pittston, PA. She moved back to Millersville and worked as a math teacher at Penn Manor High School for 25 years from 1961-1987, continuing as a substitute for ten additional years after retirement.

Jeannette touched hundreds of lives through her teaching, church, and volunteer work. Her generosity, quick wit, and kindness were defining traits in a life filled with love and service. Jeannette’s love of mathematics and geometry was evident in her quilt-making. As a lifelong member of Millersville Community Grace United Methodist Church, Jeannette’s close relationship with the group of quilters at Grace was a very important part of her later years. She was an avid gardener and tending to her garden brought her satisfaction and joy.

Jeannette maintained close ties with her family and enjoyed weekly phone conversations with her siblings. She regularly attended monthly breakfast meetings with husband Robert’s extended family, even after Robert’s death. In the past year Jeannette loved watching the news and reading the newspaper editorial page and the latest books on political figures. Jeannette’s desire to remain in her home even when her health failed was supported by her grandson David Welsh Jr., who lived with her over the last several years.

Jeannette will be celebrated and missed by her daughter Carol A. Welsh and husband David Sr., her grandchildren David M. Welsh Jr. and Amy D. Helm and spouse Christopher, and her great-grandchildren Eleanor and James Helm. She will also be remembered by her siblings: sister Marian Weller of Marietta GA, sister Helen Kreider and spouse Bill of Millersville PA, and brother Lee Shoff and spouse Roberta of Ocean View DE. Jeannette was preceded in death by her brother Richard Shoff and sister Winefred Epler.

A memorial service will be held at Millersville Community Grace United Methodist Church, 163 W. Frederick St., Millersville PA 17551 on Thursday, May 27, 2021. Family and friends will be received beginning at 10:00AM, with service at 11:00AM. Interment will follow the service at the adjoining church cemetery. The service will be live-streamed by the church for those unable to attend in person. Visit the link here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rO2fVH2S8BQ.

To commemorate Jeannette’s beautiful life, please omit flowers and instead consider a contribution to the Youth Ministries at Millersville Community United Methodist Church, 163 W. Frederick St., Millersville PA 17551, 717-872-4571, OR to Caring Hospice Services, 101 Good Dr., Lancaster PA 17603, 717-295-1700. To leave an online condolence, please visit www.SnyderFuneralHome.com.

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June 08, 2021

She was a beautiful soul who changed thousands of students’ lives. She was a role model for every educator. I am so sorry to hear of her passing. Much love to you all. 
Robyn Meadows Hodgson

June 06, 2021

Dear Carol and David, We are saddened to hear about Jeanette’s passing. We will always remember her for her lively conversation and meticulous gardening skills. I always admired her stamina in keeping up with tasks to maintain a beautiful yard. Her love of nature was contagious. She will be missed by many Millersville and Penn Manor folks.
Evanna Morris and Len Litowitz

June 02, 2021

I am sorry to learn about Jeannette’s passing; although I did not know Jeanette I know her daughter Carol and grandson David. I know Carol cherished her mother and how David ensure Jeanette stayed in her home.  What a full life full of contributions and connections. Please know my thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
Allison

May 27, 2021

My sincere sympathy to Carol, David, children and grandchildren.  My thoughts are with you.  Jeannette Mateer lived a full and rich life, and there will be many cherished memories and inspiration. The memorial service today was beautiful..
George Welsh

May 26, 2021

Carol, David, David Jr. and Amy….my thoughts are with you all as go through this difficult time.  
William Welsh III

May 24, 2021

Carol Mateer Welsh, Helen Shoff Kreider, Lee Shoff, & Family, Vicki and I were deeply saddened to read of Jeannette’s recent passing.  What a nice long life she enjoyed.  Jeannette and Bob were such  great folks and very kind to my in-laws, Sam & Charlotte Campbell. I fondly remember the pancake breakfasts at Grace United Methodist Church. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.  

May 23, 2021

Dear Carol,
My sympathies on the passing of your mother. I was in one of her math classes in high school. I saw her several years ago at a luncheon meeting of her high school class. I did a column on the class and its close relationships.
Your mother did not remember me for which I was happy. I was not her best student. But she had a lot to say about you. She was so very proud of you.
It is difficult to lose a parent, but it is especially hard to lose a mother.
marv adams

May 23, 2021

Mrs Mateer was my favorite teacher.  She was the one person I could go to for advice after class with personal problems.  She definitely made a difference in my life.  She was one special lady.
Tess Morrison Haar

May 23, 2021

We’re so very sorry to learn of Jeannette’s passing.  She was a very special lady and friend.  I have many wonderful memories of the good years we had working together at Penn Manor.  We will pray that the Lord grants Carol and Dave and the entire family peace and comfort during these difficult days.
Barry and Dianne Kauffman

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Thursday, May 27, 2021
10:00 AM - 11:00 AM
Millersville Community UMC-Grace Campus
163 W. Frederick St.
Millersville, PA
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