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James B. “Jim” Maxwell, 84
January 04, 2026
James B. “Jim” Maxwell passed away January 4, 2026, in Lancaster County PA after many years of living with frontotemporal dementia with his wife and daughter by his side. He moved from Durham NC in 2016 to be near family after his retirement in 2014.
The only child of Harold Irvin Maxwell and Lydia Beckett Maxwell, he grew up in Virginia’s lower Tidewater region, graduated from Randolph-Macon College, attended Duke School of Law on a moot court scholarship and later founded the Durham law firm of Maxwell, Freeman and Bowman PA. He loved arguing cases for his clients in the courtroom. He served as board chair of Legal Aid Society of NC, on the board of Lawyers Mutual Insurance, and he became the first person to serve as board chairs of both the North Carolina Bar Association and the NC Association of Trial Lawyers. Among his honors are YMCA Layman Distinguished Service Award, Randolph-Macon Distinguished Alumni Award, and the Duke University’s School of Law’s Charles S. Rhyne Award. The Durham County Bar and 14th Judicial District Bar awarded its first Centennial Award to him for community service, and the NC Bar awarded him the I. Beverly Lake Award for Public Service.
He met his wife in 10th-grade algebra class. They married in 1964 and would go on to have three children and seven grandchildren. They both felt privileged to have two loving daughters-in-law and a son-in-law who brought out the best in their children. All 15 members of the family celebrated Jim and Beth’s 50th anniversary with a week of adventure travel, including ziplining through mountains in Costa Rica.
After founding and coaching a swim team at the YMCA, he discovered that Durham’s Jordan High School didn’t have a swim team, and he volunteered to create and coach the high school program, continuing for nearly 30 years, rising before 5 a.m. for practices and tinkering with relay lineups in his study at home in the evening. Maxwell led the Jordan Jellyfish to five state championships and 17 regional championships, coaching his three children along the way. Many of his former swimmers said that he helped mold them into the adults they became; Maxwell said the kids helped keep him young. He was inducted into the North Carolina High School Athletic Association Hall of Fame and served on the national board of the High School Athletic Association. His passion for mentoring also led him to also be a coach and advisor for the Duke Law School’s National Moot Court Team, which won a national competition.
In Westminster Presbyterian Church, he served as an elder, deacon and Sunday school teacher. He donated countless hours working with nonprofits, including Urban Ministries and the Durham Arts Council. Both Jim and Beth believed in giving back. Together, they co-earned an award for Lifetime Service to the Durham Public Schools. Gov. Mike Easley awarded Jim with the Order of the Long Leaf Pine, the highest civilian honor a North Carolina governor can bestow, and the mayor of Durham proclaimed May 26, 2002 as Jim Maxwell Day for his service to youth He was named Father of the Year by the Durham Merchants Association and “No. 1 Dad,” according to at least three or four coffee mugs and Christmas gifts from his children. Jim loved Christmas, laughing, telling stories, playing games with his grandchildren and the joy of competition. He loved the serenity of Sunset Beach and the excitement of Cameron Indoor Stadium.
He is survived by his wife, their children Jonathan, Scott and Tracey; their respective spouses April, Cyndee and Adam; and seven grandchildren Cameron, Maxwell, Chase, Cole, Ella, Marin and Graysen.
The family is planning a celebration of life service later this year in North Carolina.
In lieu of flowers, friends and loved ones are welcome to make a donation in Jim’s memory to the North Carolina Bar Foundation’s Legal Aid of NC Fund (8000 Weston Parkway, Cary, NC 27513 or ncbarfoundation.org) or The Association for Frontotemporal Degeneration (2700 Horizon Drive, Suite 120, King of Prussia PA 19406 or theaftd.org).
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Condolences to the Family
January 08, 2026
I knew Jim for many years while we were both practicing law in Durham, NC and involved with the North Carolina Academny of Lawyers. Rumor has it that we might have played cards together a few times back in the day. Jim was truly a gentleman and a scholar. He was widely known and respected. Guy W. Crabtree
January 08, 2026
Coach Maxwell: He was a wonderful swim coach and leader to those of us at Jordan High School. So bright, so engaged, and witty. We would joke about his love for Shania Twain and try to dawdle while stretching at 5:15am. He was always there in his navy blue Saab, bright and ready. He knew our times, knew when to push us…to eat the elephant or stick your [turtle] neck out. Thank you for sharing your energy and your bright mind, before it was gone. We will miss you, Coach. Jen Stewart
January 08, 2026
To Beth and family,
Since you two moved away before Jim’s dementia became worse, I can remember him as the bright, caring, effective leader and Christian man that he was. My heart is with you as you both recover from years of care, and grieve for who he was to you – beloved and loving husband, father, grandfather. Take care of yourselves. I send lots of love.
Peace be with you.
Betty Berghaus
January 08, 2026
Beth, I am thinking of you with love as you and your dear family adjust to your life without Jim. Holding you in the Light. Stephanie
January 08, 2026
My favorite coach !!! So may good times and memories of Jordan swimming and diving!!! Billy Neal
January 08, 2026
So saddened to hear of Coach Maxwell’s passing. I learned so much from Coach when I swam Jordan Jellyfishs 79 /80. Sending love and healing prayers to all that were lucky enough to know ‘Coach”. Dementia is a terrible disease,I know oh to well as I lost my dad in 2019
.Remember and cherish all the memories of today and for as long as you live.GOD BLESS.! Lovingly, Harriet Willard warson ,
January 07, 2026
We are so very sorry for your loss. Your dad was a remarkable, wonderful man. He gave so much to many people and we were honored to have him in our lives. May he rest in peace.
Nancy and Tykey
January 07, 2026
We are so very sorry for your loss. Your dad was a remarkable, wonderful man. He gave so much to many people and we were honored to have him in our lives. May he rest in peace.
Nancy and Tykey

