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Harry F. Parker, 74

August 31, 2021

Harry Francis Parker, 74 of Lititz, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, August 31, 2021. He was born in Philadelphia, PA, the third of five children to Harry (Sr.) and Dorothy (Shaffer) Parker. Harry graduated from West Catholic High School and went on to serve his country in the United States Army, earn both Bachelor’s and Master’s degrees from Temple University, and pursue doctoral studies in American History. Harry spent 26 years with the Pennsylvania Historical & Museum Commission and retired as the Chief of Archives & Manuscripts for the state.

Harry was a very talented musician and songwriter, and he passed his love for music down to his children and grandchildren. He was an avid Philadelphia sports fan, a brilliant scholar of history, and incredibly tech savvy. More than anything, Harry was a devoted and loving family man who treasured spending time with those whom he loved. His calming presence, wisdom, generosity, and wit will be missed by all who knew and adored him.

Harry is survived by his loving wife of 48 years Joan, two children Kate Weiler (Jesse) and Ben Parker (Kate); four grandchildren, Molly, Deklan, Finn, and Emma; his sister Pat Parker, his brother-in-law Dennis Ducsik (Sharon) as well as many beloved nieces, nephews, and extended family members. He was preceded in passing by his brother William Parker, and sisters Catherine Perkins (Parker) and Anna Grubb (Parker).

Harry’s family would like to extend their sincerest gratitude to all the amazing medical service providers and staff members who worked tirelessly to care for and support Harry over the last few months. The family respectfully asks that in lieu of flowers, donations be made to the Parkinson’s Foundation. No funeral services will be held at this time.

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April 12, 2022

I worked with Harry for many years at the State Archives, and am just hearing about his passing now. Harry was a great big teddy bear who I looked forward to seeing on a daily basis. We shared a love of Philadelphia sports, especially the Phillies, that I greatly appreciated. He was a great boss and a really good guy, I’m saddened by the news that he has passed away. My belated condolences go out to his family and all who knew him, he will be missed. Rest in Peace Harry.
Brett Reigh

September 27, 2021

Joan and family I am so sorry for your loss of Harry and you will be in my thoughts and prayers.  Harry was a good friend in our high school and college years. He will be missed by many and I always enjoyed our phone calls during our working years. I am so glad I was able to reconnect again with a visit and by phone in 2020. My deepest sympathies go out to you and your family and hope you find comfort and peace with the fond memories we have of Harry. 
John McAleer

September 12, 2021

So sorry for your loss of Harry. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. 
Lynne D Hartmann

September 12, 2021

It was a pleasure to meet and chat with Harry. Pat always talks highly of Harry. I’m sorry for your loss. 
 
Wanda

September 12, 2021

My heart goes out to all of the family. Many condolences to you. Pat (his sister) always spoke so highly of her brother. She was very proud of him and his accomplishments and gifts. I know he will be greatly missed. Thinking of you during this time. 
Nicole Lugo-Mitchell

September 08, 2021

My condolences for your tremendous loss. Harry was a wonderful person. Always soft spoken and eager to tell stories of his beloved family. I think he especially loved his days with Molly and always eager to share a funny story. He was an amazing role model and I’m sure you all have many wonderful memories. Joan you were blessed to share your life with Harry. My thoughts are with you. 
Cheryl Mitchell

September 07, 2021

So sorry for the loss of your beloved husband, father, and grandfather.  May your cherished memories keep him close in spirit. 
Kristin Lentz

September 06, 2021

We love Harry and he will always be with us in our hearts.  We are heart broken and will remember with a smile all of our good times together. You know we will do anything you need to help
 
 

September 06, 2021

So sorry to hear of Harry’s passing.  We played music together in the 1970’s and I loved his wit and amazing songwriting ability.  

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