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Frank W. Bostick, Jr., 81
July 21, 2013
Frank W. Bostick, Jr., 81, of Lancaster, passed away Sunday, July 21, 2013 in his residence.
Born in Lancaster, he was the loving husband of Patricia “Pat” (McElwee) Bostick of Lancaster, to whom he was married 58 years. He was the son of the late Frank W. Bostick, Sr. and Rose M. (Sener) Bostick.
Frank was an accomplished musician. He was a jazz, dance, and concert trombone player. His musical career began with the Navy Band in 1950. Then during the following decades he played with Sounds of Roses, Basin Street Barons, Tom Paine’s Original Back Room Band, and many other notable groups.
He was an Extra Class Amateur Radio Operator whose call sign was W3ZAA.
Frank was a member of Knights of Columbus Council 867, 4th Degree Knight of Columbus Santa Maria Assembly, Lancaster Liederkranz, 8th Ward Club, VFW Post #7294, American Legion Post #945, and the Navy Musician’s Association. He was a former member of American Federation of Musicians.
He was a member of St. Joseph Catholic Church, and was a Navy veteran of the Korean War.
Frank attended college at night for 16 years in order to receive his associate’s degree from Franklin & Marshall in 1967 and his bachelor’s degree from Elizabethtown College in 1974. After a long career in engineering he retired from Alcon Surgical Labs, Sinking Spring, in 1993.
In addition to his wife, he is survived by his adoring children: Patrick J. Bostick and his wife Cindy of Lititz; Rose Bostick of Meadowbrook; Gerald F. Bostick and his wife Diane of Orlando, FL; James E. Bostick and his husband Liam of Salem, MA; and Dan Bostick and his wife Rachel Woods of Nashville, TN; seven grandchildren: Patrick, Adam, T.J., Sarah, Gerry Jr., Courtney, and Max; and a brother, Charles G. Bostick of Allentown. He was preceded in death by an infant son, Franklin W. Bostick III.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 11 AM Thursday, July 25, 2013 at St. Joseph Catholic Church, 440 St. Joseph St., Lancaster, PA 17603 with Msgr. Thomas H. Smith as Celebrant. The family will receive friends from 6 to 8 PM Wednesday, July 24, 2013 at Charles F. Snyder Funeral Home & Crematory, 414 E. King St., Lancaster, PA, and again one hour prior to the mass at the church on Thursday. Burial will be in St. Joseph New Catholic Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions in Frank’s memory may be made to St. Joseph Catholic Church Restoration Fund at the address above, or to Hospice & Community Care, 685 Good Dr., PO Box 4125, Lancaster, PA 17604.
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Condolences to the Family
July 30, 2013
Dear Pat and Family,
I was so sorry to see Frank’s obituary in the paper. He was a wonderful person and what a musician! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. He certainly will be missed. God bless you and send you His comfort. With Love and Prayers, Sandy Heisey
July 25, 2013
Dear Mrs. Bostick, Rose & Family,
I was so sorry to hear of Franks passing. He truly was a funny, loving family man and quite a musician to boot. Rose, I know how much your dad meant to you. I am sorry that I live so far away and could not offer my sympathy in person.
Take care and savor all of the wonderful memories that you have.
Sincerely,
Mary Coonan Meyer
July 25, 2013
Pat and Family:
Cheryl and I are sorry we cannot be with you during this time.Frank was a good family man and someone I looked up to.He is now with a long list of family members and leaves us with a legacy that should help us join them when our times come.
Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Cack & Cheryl
July 24, 2013
Rose and Family,
I am so very sorry for the loss of your dad. I personally know it is a great loss in life to lose a parent. I am very glad to have known him and your wonderful family. I was always welcomed into their home lovingly. I will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers and know he is at peace.
Love Linda Melchiorre
July 24, 2013
Dear Pat
I went to high school with Frank and followed him around when he and his trombone moved around. He was a regular at the reunions and we relived our high school days. His Dad left him use the car to take some of us to an event at the school. On the way we sideswipped a truck on East King St. We passengers jumped out letting Frank to face his Dad alone. It was a kid memory that sticks. We abandoned him in crises.
God speed Frank. I hope they have music in the better place.
John Ed Trees
July 24, 2013
Dear Bostick Family,
I was so sorry to hear of Franks passing. As am associate who worked for Frank at Alcon he guided me and advised me to continue my education as he did. I am pleased to say I followed his advise and owe him much. He was a good man and great boss. He will truely be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Dan Brickner
July 23, 2013
To the dear family of Mr Bostick,
I am sorry to hear of his passing as I’m sure you all are very sad. I enjoyed very much caring for Frank at LGH, and I am so grateful that he told me the wonderful love story he shared with his wife. I pray for comfort for all of you.
-Carolyn
July 23, 2013
hearfelt love surrounds you at this time of loss – you are loved and we pray for peace and comfort and guidance – Frank was a man of faith and is now home in a place he knew God had prepared for him
July 23, 2013
Pat and Cindy,
Our hearts go out to you and the boys during this difficult time. We never met your father, but he sounded like a wonderful man who raised a good family. His legacy will live on through outstanding young men like Pat and Adam.
With heartfelt sympathy,
Donna Garrison, Dylan and Taylor Canavan
July 23, 2013
Dear Bostick Family,
It is such an honor to have had Frank and Pat as dear friends through the Sound of Roses Big Band all these years. We all became so close to each other; it is like having a big extended family support system. The fun we all had through the years will always be fond memories to sustain us until we meet again. Pat told the best jokes, and Frank always chuckled and shook his head as we all laughed until the tears came! Frank kept us updated about every one of his children and their families. His family and church and music meant everything to him. You can be so proud of your dad. I look forward to continued friendship with your wonderful mom, Pat. Frank, rest in eternal peace with God. I will miss you.
With great love and friendship,
Faith and Bob Martin
July 23, 2013
Mrs. Bostick and family,
Please accept my heartfelt sympathy on Mr. Bostick’s passing. He was the kindest – gentlest man I ever met. I never saw him loose his “cool” with his rambunctious family and all the invading neighborhood kids. I am sorry that I cannot attend the mass but please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers. I would love to see Gerald again!!!
Love and peace,
Mary Lynn Hobday-DiPaolo
mlhd@ptd.net
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- Wednesday, July 24, 2013
- 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM
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- 414 East King Street
- Lancaster, PA 17602
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