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Dr. Stephanie J. Brightbill, EdD, 73

Dr. Stephanie J. Brightbill, EdD, 73, of Manheim and formerly of Reading, passed away surrounded by her family on October 11, 2025.

She was the wife of Jeffrey L. Brightbill. Born in Pottstown, she was the daughter of the late Ronald and Elizabeth J. Ertwine Ulshafer.

Dr. Brightbill was a graduate of O.J. Roberts High School, Kutztown University, Lehigh University and attained her Doctorate in Education from Widener University. She had a career in public education and education administration, spanning from 1973 until her retirement in 2006. She began her professional career teaching Special Education and later used her experiences to teach courses at Alvernia University, Albright College, and Penn State University. Over the course of her professional career, she served as an assistant principal at Exeter Junior High School and Principal at Jacksonwald Elementary School before using her talents as the Elementary Principal at Boyertown Elementary School. Upon retirement, she led educational groups with the Lancaster Council of Drug and Alcohol Abuse.

She was a member of Christ Yocom’s Lutheran Church in Reading, where she had served as the musical director. A talented musician and pianist, she had also been the musical director at Washington Boro United Methodist Church and Emmanuel United Methodist Church in Brownstown.

Stef enjoyed spending time with her friends and family, especially her grandchildren. Traveling and spending time at Myrtle Beach was always something she enjoyed, as well as reading, phone calls to friends, and cheering on her family at sporting events/activities. She loved the many dogs she had over the years as family pets.

In addition to her husband, Jeff, Stef is survived by her daughter: Jennifer L. married to Gary Landis of Manheim; her 4 grandchildren Jackson, Callie, Carson, and Madison; and her siblings: Lori McCormick of Vero Beach, FL and Tim Ulshafer of Medina, OH as well as numerous nieces and nephews.

Friends will be received by Stef’s family on Saturday, November 1, 2025 at 10:00AM at Christ Yocom’s Lutheran Church, 840 Philadelphia Ave, Reading, PA 19607, with a celebration of life to follow at 11AM. Interment will be private in Wyomissing Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, please consider making a contribution in her memory to the Christ Yocom’s Church at the above address.

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November 01, 2025

I am so saddened to hear of Steph’s passing.  I worked with her at Exeter when she was a principal at Jacksonwald Elementary. She was a wonderful educator and was great to work with.  Sharon Althouse 

October 31, 2025

Jeff, Jen and family, 
We have known Stephanie for 20+ years.  First as a work colleague and then as a dear friend. We will miss her smile, her sense of humor and her kindness.  She demonstrated love to her students, her family and her friends. Peace be with you in this time of sorrow.  Jack and Stephanie Wilson
 
 

October 29, 2025

Steph was a fellow dorm mate and friend at Kutztown. I remember her beautiful smile and sense of fun. My prayers and thoughts are with her family at this time. I am glad I got to know her. Take care  Vicki Coates-Reimer.

October 20, 2025

Jeff and Jen  We were saddened to hear of Stef’s passing. Our prayers are for your family may you experience God’s peace as you continue here without her. We have good memories of time spent with you all those years ago. Reub and Janet Zeiset

October 20, 2025

I worked with Steph early in my career at the ETSD. She inspired me, taught me and encouraged me.  She was one of the most dedicated educators I ever worked with. I am so sorry for your loss. You were all blessed to have her in your lives. My sincere condolences. Juli Bertin
 

October 19, 2025

Jeff and Jen,
I just wanted to express my condolences on the death of your wife and mother.  I worked with her at Exeter High School and really enjoyed the years we spent sharing a hallway!!  She had a terrific way with the students she worked with and will be remembered by many of them for the compassion she showed them!  She will be missed. Alys Robertson

October 15, 2025

Jen, our hearts are so sad with the passing of your Mom.  She was a remarkable person and the best sister anyone could wish for.  Her kindness was palpable and cherished always thinking of others and never  complaing about anything.  She will be missed.   Lori McCormick

October 15, 2025

Jen
I am heartbroken to hear this. We had hoped to get together a few weeks ago, but your mom had a health problem and we had to cancel.
Your mom was a joy to know – always smiling, always encouraging.
And she adored her family – your children were so special to her❤️ Donna Becker

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Saturday, November 01, 2025
10:00 AM - 11:00 AM
Christ Yocum’s Lutheran Church
840 Philadelphia Ave
Reading, Pennsylvania 19607
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Reading , Pennsylvania 19607
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