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Donald Temple Rhoads, Jr., 74

January 16, 2025

Donald Temple Rhoads, Jr. “also known as the Piano Man,” was born on September 12, 1950, in Lancaster, PA. He was the son of the late Marie Francis Rhoads and Donald Temple Rhoads. His early years were spent in Columbia, PA.

Don graduated with honors from Columbia High School in 1968 and was awarded the trophy for outstanding musician. He graduated from Elizabethtown College in 1972 with a B.A. in English and earned a M.A. in English from the University of Missouri in 1974. During sabbatical leave in 1995, he took post graduate courses at the University of Maryland and Millersville College, and on six different occasions, from 1985-2000 he earned credits by attending the Yeats International Studies School in Sligo, Ireland.

Beginning in 1980, he served approximately 35 years as full-time Professor of English at Thaddeus Stevens College of Technology while acting as Chairperson of the General Studies Division from 1995-2015. In addition, he was an adjunct professor of English at Elizabethtown College from 1990-2010.

Don published several works: a poem, “Partita,” which appeared in Midlands in 1974; an article “Ungrammatically Correct,” presented at and published by the American Teachers of English Grammar Conference in Williamsport, PA.; and Thaddeus Stevens: The Play, which was directed by Gary Smith and performed by the Theater of the Seventh Sister at the Fulton Theater in 2006. In 2007 the play was directed by George Mushamp and performed at the Kline Theater, Gettysburg College. His last work was a rhetorical analysis of Steven’s speech on public education (2023).

Don was always an avid musician. He began violin lessons at the age of ten and during high school played in the Columbia High School Orchestra, Lancaster Junior Symphony, Lancaster County Orchestra and District Orchestra. While in college he was a concertmaster of the Elizabethtown College Community Orchestra.

At the age of 15, he began playing keyboards in local bands, a hobby that continued the rest of his life. He played in a variety of clubs, bars, and restaurants, including Valentino’s Café and Kegel’s Seafood Restaurant. Among the many weddings and private parties he played throughout the area, he especially enjoyed Dick and Louise Pflumm’s annual Fourth of July picnic. In the late 1990’s he and a group of musicians and singers from Lancaster and York recorded a double CD entitled “Donnie and Friends.” For 29 years (1980-2009) “Donnie” was the house piano player for happy hours on Thursday s and Fridays at the Quality Inn/ Comfort Inn on Centerville Road, Lancaster.

Don was a member of the Lancaster Elks Lodge 134 where he served as organist for 11 years. He was also a long-standing member of the Thaddeus Stevens Society and a member of the Riverside Camping Association.

He is survived by his long-standing companion, Deb Nunemaker of Lancaster; two sisters: Brenda Jensen (wife of John) of Columbia and Darlene Pruett (wife of Larry) of Marietta as well as numerous nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers, please make donations to the Thaddeus Stevens Society c/o Ross Hetrick, P.O. Box 3484, Gettysburg, PA. 17325-3484.

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February 02, 2025

Sorry to hear about Don’s passing. He was a great guy. 
Kathy Weidinger

January 30, 2025

Always a good time when Donnie was entertaining. He was very cordial with everyone. So sorry to hear about his passing away..
Joyce Burkholder

January 28, 2025

    My heart goes out to you. I’m sure it was a great comfort for him to have you by his side.
    Maxwell 
     

January 27, 2025

Sorry to learn about Don Jr. passing,may peace be with You and Darlene.Bob 

January 27, 2025

RIP
DONNA SPEECE

January 26, 2025

Few leave so many with lifelong happy memories.  Rest in Peace our Beloved Friend and  Piano Man
Carole Hale

January 26, 2025

I was so sorry to hear of Donnie’s passing. We were friends for many years, but had lost touch. May his memory be a blessing to all who know him. Tha angels have a new member of the heavenly chorus.
Melissa Byers

January 26, 2025

Donnie i knew for along time great friend and he could play keyboard he will be misd
Brenda long medina

January 24, 2025

Darlene and Brenda,
Donnie was a great friend of mine,he and his friends played at our wedding 43 years ago and all of 4th of July parties including my father in laws passing a few years back.We will miss him and his humor.
Gordie Overmeyer 
 
 

January 22, 2025

Don always had smile to share and insights into interesting topics. His Stevens play was excellent. We’ll miss him. Condolences to the family.
Randolph Harris

January 21, 2025

I worked at Sherwood Knoll with Donnie in the 90s, and ran in to him at Val’s from time to time. I will always remember Donnie as just a great guy. Very sorry for your loss.
Carol Seton

January 21, 2025

So glad I got to meet such a wonderful man, brother and Uncle. We were blessed to have him able to attend our wedding. We will miss you forever! 
Joe and Eve Secrest

January 21, 2025

Don was a great guy and valuable member of the Stevens College family. He was a strong advocate for the college’s founder, Thaddeus Stevens.A good friend, he will be missed.
Bill Griscom

January 20, 2025

My sincere sympathy in losing a wonderful person. Donie was always close to me. We spoke often I will miss him. I’m sure you all will too. He’s a great guy.. 
Sallie Sload-Diehl

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