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Abigail Elizabeth Howard, 40

May 30, 2023

Abigail Elizabeth Howard, age 40, passed away unexpectedly on May 30, 2023. Born in Pottstown, Abby was the daughter of Ted and Sandy (Hohenwarter) Heisey. She was a graduate of Manheim Township class of 2000 and The Pennsylvania State University class of 2004 with a degree in journalism. Abby attended St. Anne’s Catholic Church all her life.

Abby worked for the County of Lancaster. She married Russell Howard on September 20, 2014. Abby was a lifelong member of the Girl Scouts most recently on the Foxfire House committee. Her hobbies included Civil War reenacting with Explorer Post 1863, trivia with the bad decisions club, and skillfully knitting stuffed animals for many newborns. She also was known for her love of reading and her biting wit.

Abby is survived by her husband, Russell, her parents, Ted and Sandy, and her faithful dog Holly. Abby is also survived by numerous beloved family members.

Family will receive friends Tuesday, June 6, 2023 at Charles F. Snyder Funeral Home, 3110 Lititz Pike, Lititz PA. 17543, from 6pm-8pm. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Wednesday, June 7, 2023 at St. Anne’s Catholic Church, 929 N. Duke St., Lancaster, PA. 17602 at 11am with a time of receiving friends one hour prior. Burial to follow at St. Joseph New Catholic Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Pitties Love Peace, Inc., P.O. Box 534 Elizabethtown, PA 17022-0534 or St. Anne’s Brown Bag Lunch Program, 929 N. Duke St., Lancaster, PA. 17602

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June 29, 2023

Ted, sorry about your loss of your daughter. We just heard about it yesterday from Joyce Hall who just found about it from someone from Ross St UMC. Again our condolences to you and your wife. 
Charles & Shirley Miller 

June 23, 2023

I just learned of baby’s passing I am so sorry. I babysat her when she was little

June 08, 2023

Dear Sandy & family,
I was shocked and saddened to see Abby’s obituary in the paper. I can hardly imagine the flood of emotions & know that your faith as well as the support you receive from others will pull you through.
I remember you speaking about her and Girl Scouts when we worked together at CV…
You all will remain in my prayers,
Joni Bockey 

June 07, 2023

Abby, 
I just kept saying that I cannot find words to express how sorry and sad I am for your family. I feel so lucky to have known you and call you a friend. Your memory will continue to be celebrated, and your smile will shine on in our hearts. Truly a special woman you were. I’ll always treasure our conversations and time spent together. May peace be with you as you begin your new life in Heaven. 

June 07, 2023

Dear Russ, Ted and Sandy,
We are saddened to learn that Abigail has passed. We really appreciated her reading, during Mass and her faithfulness. You are in our thoughts and prayers, during this difficult time.
 

June 07, 2023

Russel Sandy and Ted
   My deepest sympathy in the loss of  your beloved wife and your daughter Abby.
Know your grief is heavy at this time, and I pray for God’s giving strength to each of
you. May She rest in the Arms of our Lord and there is another young Angel i the
choirs of Heaven.
Blessings
Rita R. Boyer

June 06, 2023

Mr. & Mrs. Heisey, I am so sorry for your loss. Abby was one amazing friend and person to all!

June 06, 2023

Sandy and Ted, I am so sorry to hear this news.  My deepest sypathy to all of her family.  
 
 

June 05, 2023

As I reflect upon the shock and sadness of the news of Abby’s passing, I am flooded with so many fond memories of Abby, in particular at the Back Page.  She was a wonderful singer and I always enjoyed singing with her at Karaoke.  My husband and I watched her love story with Russell unfold and had the honor of attending their wedding.  I recall that, years ago, she told me that she celebrates her half birthday every year. Although I do not recall the story behind it, I remember thinking how very special she must to be celebrated in that way.  I put a note in my calendar to remind me to wish her a Happy Half Birthday every February 3rd and a Happy Birthday on August 3rd, which I will continue to do to celebrate her life and spirit.  My deepest condolences to Abby’s family and friends.  

June 05, 2023

Dear Ted and Sandy, I was so stunned and saddened by the news of Abby. My heart goes out to you. Abby was probably Regina’s first early childhood “best friend”. I can imagine the pain you must be feeling. You are in my prayers.    Meg crnkovich

June 05, 2023

Abby was a friend in college.  She was always so thoughtful and kind.  We lost touch after college for the most part..  I’m very sorry she’s gone and for everyone’s loss.

June 05, 2023

Dear Sandy and family,
I was so sorry to learn of Abby’s passing. I have fond memories of our times together at Foxfire House. May you be able to focus on the positive memories as you move through this terrible time of grief.
Fondly, Flora
 

June 05, 2023

Dear Sandy and family I was deeply saddened to read of Abby’s death.  I have so many memories of Abby at St. Anne’s School.  I just looked at some class photos and the expressions on the faces are innocent and happy.  Abby is in Heaven and at peace.
I only can offer prayers for you all to find the strength to get you through the following days and weeks.
Sincere condolences from myself and Diana.
Mary Lynn DiPaolo

June 03, 2023

Sandy & Ted,
I was stunned when Jenna called to tell me of Abby’s passing. I cannot imagine what you are going through right now. I pray for God’s strength & comfort for you both & Russell during this difficult time.
I will cherish the memories our girls shared, especially the trip to Maine. I feel blessed to have known Abby.
Mary Kreider

June 03, 2023

Dear Russ, Sandy and Ted,
Our deepest sympathy to you for the loss of dear Abby.  We cannot imagine the grief that you are feeling at this difficult time.
Abby will be greatly missed by all who knew and loved her.  God bless!
Carol and Rich Lichty
 

June 03, 2023

Russell  so sorry to hear of your loss.
Jim Lacina

June 02, 2023

Dear Russell, Sandy & Ted,
I’m so shocked and sorry to hear of Abby’s passing. She always put a smile on my face like not many people could.
Russ, I know exactly what you are going through.
Ted & Sandy, I cannot imagine your grief, but I will try to understand it.
Please know that Abby has positively affected many people’s lives in ways that only she could and she will be remembered fondly and lovingly by more than you may ever know.
John Stockdale
 

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6:00 PM - 8:00 PM
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Lititz, PA 17543
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