"Things turn out best for the people who make the best of how things turn out". John Wooden

Dan or "Danny" to those who knew and loved him. Devoted father. Loving grandfather and great grandfather. Baby brother. Precious friend and neighbor. Dan enjoyed sharing his life experiences through storytelling, pictures, and letters. His wit, charisma, intellect, creativity, and charm won the hearts of many. He loved spending time with his family, friends, and his devoted dogs. Dan was an avid sports fan with a passion for Philadelphia teams.

Born and raised in Lancaster, he was the son of the late Charles M. and Mary (Weber) Deiter. He graduated from Manheim Township High School and F&M College. He remained friends with many of his childhood buddies, who met regularly as "The Breakfast Club." He loved fishing with his friend on their boat, the 50/50 and taking "bucket list" vacations with his daughters.

Following high school, Dan enlisted in the United States Air Force, serving overseas in Germany during the Korean Conflict. He made lifelong friends and traveled throughout Europe while touring with the 1614th Support Squadron Green Hornets basketball team.

Dan worked as a banker after graduating with a Business degree from F&M College. He retired as Vice President of Lending from Meridian Mortgage Company and cherished every minute of his retirement. He was proud to have lived to have been an "octogenarian." Dan's most valued position in life was that of a father.

Dan and Marilyn Loechner Deiter, his wife of 37 years, raised five daughters. He was an amazing father and mentor who taught his daughters to be independent, resourceful, responsible, compassionate, and strong. He is survived by his daughters, all living in Lancaster: Beth Doutrich, married to Don, Tracey Kunes, married to Greg, Dana Murr, married to Todd, Jean Parsons, married to Don, Melissa Werner, married to Mark, and honorary daughter, Diane Esbenshade Kurtz, sisters Faye Groff and Joanne Koch, both of Willow Street, thirteen grandchildren and 2 great grandchildren.

Dan passed away in his home on Thursday, June 12, 2014 surrounded by his loving family after a valiant fight to overcome several debilitating medical conditions. His strength and courage were nothing short of miraculous. He will be deeply missed and always remembered by so many who loved and respected him. Daddy, you filled our lives with love and laughter. p.s. We love you the best. Don't tell the rest.

A visitation will be held from 6-8 p.m. on Monday, June 16, 2014 at the Charles F. Snyder, Jr. Funeral Home & Crematory, 3110 Lititz Pike, Lititz, PA 17543. A Memorial Service will be held at the Funeral Home on Tuesday, June 17, 2014, at 11 a.m. with Rev. Dwight McKay officiating. Visitation will be held the hour prior to the service. Burial will be private and at the convenience of the family.

Memorial contributions may be made to Hospice and Community Care, 685 Good Drive, Box 4125, Lancaster, PA 17604, or to the Humane League of Lancaster County, 2195 Lincoln Highway East, Lancaster, PA 17602.