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Timothy L. Behmer, Sr., 59

Timothy L. Behmer Sr., 59, of New Providence, passed away on Saturday evening at Lancaster General Hospital.

He was the husband of Clara V. Kline Behmer, with whom he would have celebrated 41 years of marriage this coming December 7th. Born in Lancaster, he was the son of the late Daniel W. Behmer and the late Phyllis Rittenhouse Kurtz, wife of Ronald Kurtz.

Tim had worked for Barstools and Billiards as an installer for 17 years until 2006. Prior to this, he had worked in the mobile home industry as an electrician from 1973 to 1982, and also with John Zook Construction for 8 years.

He served as a Lance Corporal in the US Marine Corps during the Vietnam War.

Tim was the car owner and pit crew for his son, Tim’s, TQ Midget race car. He also was a great pool player, playing in and winning many tournaments locally and in Las Vegas. He was a former president of the Lancaster County 8 Ball League to which he is a member of the league’s Hall of Fame. He also served as president for the Riverside Camping Association.  He loved shuffle alley, the outdoors, hunting and skiing, and was an avid NASCAR and Dallas Cowboys fan.

In addition to his wife, Tim is survived by his son, Timothy L., Jr. married to Danielle of Mt. Joy; his grandson, Troy; and his sister, Frances married to William McFalls of Manheim. He was preceded in death by his brothers, Terry Behmer and William Kurtz, and his sisters, Cinda Frizinger and Doris Whitmoyer and the many additional family members.

Friends will be received on Friday from 1230PM-2PM at the Charles F. Snyder Funeral Home, 414 E. King St., Lancaster, with the funeral service to follow at 2PM, the Rev. Hadyn McLean officiating. Military Honors by the US Marine Corps. To send an online condolence, please visit www.snyderfuneralhome.com

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Clara ,  theres no words  to say ,except i love you and i fill your pain ,  
love ya cindy

Clara, Tim Jr. & family.
     Tim was a great person, and friend who was like a part of our family and will be missed dearly by us as well as many others whose lives he touched. Our thoughts, love, and prayers are with you.
Dave, Kathy, Jenna, and Kiersten.

I will never say good-bye, I will say I will see you in heaven. You can now rest, no more pain or suffering. When we lose someone, the absence of their presence is the worst. Now you are with our mom and your siblings Cindy, Terry, Doris, and Billy. I know I will see you again but it does not help how I am feeling right now. I also know that God is in control. To Timmy and Troy, never forget the message your dad gave to me to give to you, hold on to that forever. I will not post that message on here because it was meant for only the two of you. I made a promise to Tim and I kept that promise and told you what he wanted you to know. Keep the faith, it will get you through, you may not think that right now but it will.
Love Always Aunt Frannie
I am so sorry for your loss.

It’s difficult at such time to know what words to say.
But understanding thoughts and prayers are there with
you today.  I am so very sorry for your loss.

We are so sorry for your loss of Tim. You have our deepest sympathy. May the Lord be with you and bless you.
The Gerz Family
Ron, Jean, Judy and Helen

To Clara, Tim Jr. & Family,
The Riverside shuffle alley team, would like to send you our sympathy for your great loss. Tim was a friend to many of us in the whole LCSAL. We will miss him dearly. He was a kind & caring man.
Sincerely,
MaryJo & Bob

Tim iam very sorry for your loss your dad was a great guy and always a joy to be around i know words can never describe the loss that you feel and the void left behind, If you keep your chin up you will be able to look up and see him smiling at you and you family.  
BJ MacDonald and family

Our heartfelt condolences to Clara and the Behmer family.  He will be remembered fondly. We had great times on Christmas eve shooting pool well into the Christmas mornings at our house 🙂
I’m sure Harry and Tim are rackin ’em up in heaven!
Betty, Tom, Bob, Jeff & Lisa Hutchinson

God, Bless and comfort the entire family, May he rest in peace. He will be missed by all.
Your Old Marine Partner
Michael Brown

Our most sincere condolences on your loss.  Tim Sr. always had a kind word at the track.  His presence will be missed. 
Our best wishes and prayers,
Blu and the Metz Family

I am very sorry to hear of the loss of Tim. My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Behmer family.
Gene Ostrowski

Clara, very sorry to hear about Tim.
Vickie Hess (P. V.)

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