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Ruth M. Becker, 91

January 11, 1932 - June 01, 2023

Ruth M. Becker, of Lititz, PA, passed away on June 1st, at the age of 91. She was born in Manheim Township and was the daughter of Ivan H. and Esther B. Snyder. She was the wife of the late Warren S. Becker. They celebrated 62 years of marriage until his passing in 2017.

She grew up on her family’s farm near Neffsville and graduated from Manheim Township High School in 1950. Upon marrying Warren, they resided at the Becker Homestead, a 9th generation Bicentennial family farm near Lititz which they farmed until 2012. Ruth was proud to be a farmer’s wife who loved to bake, cook, sew, can and freeze vegetables from their garden. She was also quick to tell you that she was not afraid to jump up on the tractor and help when needed.

Ruth was quite the conversationist who never met a stranger. She loved to meet and talk to people whether it was making new friends or talking to old friends to catch up. That was important to her, but nothing made her happier than spending time being surrounded by her family.

Ruth enjoyed going on many bus trips to dinner theaters, the New England States, and vacations to Cape May, NJ. She was always up on current events sharing the latest news with friends and family. Ruth had a beautiful singing voice and could often be found singing along with her favorite old-time hymns.

For many years, Ruth and her husband enjoyed being members of the Red Rose Antique Automobile Club and the Hershey Region Antique Automobile Club of America, driving their 1914 Model T Ford to many shows and events. She also enjoyed attending the Schaefferstown, Kempton and Hay Creek heritage festivals. They were previously members of the Schaefferstown Historical Society, Hay Creek Historical Association, and the Swing Thru’s Square Dancing Club.

Ruth was a member of Son Light Bible Church of Lancaster and in recent years rarely missed Chaplain Ethan’s broadcast from the Chapel at the United Zion Retirement Community.

She is survived by her 3 children: Sue Hehnly, wife of Jon Gerfen of Lititz, Caroline Ziemer, of Womelsdorf, Lowell, husband of Vicki Becker of Reinholds. She has 5 grandchildren, Joe Hehnly (Tammy), Josh Hehnly (Jamie), Ashley Getty (Alex), Josiah Becker (Alexis), and James Becker; and 3 great grandchildren: Stella Hehnly, and Jackson and Jace Hehnly. In addition to her husband, she was preceded in death by a brother Elvin Snyder, a sister Jane Wenger, and a son-in-law, Craig Ziemer.

The family would like to extend their thanks to the all the staff of United Zion for all the loving care and support given to Ruth.

There will be a visitation on Saturday, June 10th, 2023, from 9:30-11:00AM at the Spacht-Snyder Family Funeral Home & Crematory, 127 S. Broad St., Lititz, PA with Funeral Service to follow at 11:00AM. Interment will be at the East Petersburg Mennonite Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, contributions may be sent to the United Zion Caring Fund, 722 Furnace Hills Pike, Lititz, PA 17543
United Zion Caring Fund
or Hospice & Community Care, P.O. Box 4125, Lancaster, PA 17604-4125. Hospice & Community Care

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June 10, 2023

Our sincere sympathy to the Ruth Becker family.  Our thoughts and prayers are with you.  Rest in peace, Ruth, in your heavenly home.  Love and prayers, Norm and Janet Z.

June 10, 2023

I wish to send my sympathy to the family.  I enjoyed over the past few years our conversations about her family, the farm and  people of the church.  Our last conversation which was only a few weeks ago she said she had been moved because of declining health and wanted me to have her phone number.  Prayers as you remember her today. Heidi F Eakin

June 07, 2023

Sue and Jon, we are so very sorry for your loss.  Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you both.
Joanne Bender

June 06, 2023

Mrs. H. and family. My condolences to all of you on Ruth’s passing. Patti told me about the amazing experience you had with her on the last day or so of life. I’m glad you were able to have that memory. My thoughts are with you. Love, Uncle Steve

June 06, 2023

Sue and family – We were so very sorry to hear of your mother Ruth’s passing. Ruth had a beautiful sole; remembering how she would always enjoy and light up at the American Music Theatre when you brought her along for the shows. A lovely person and we are sure you will have great memories to reflect on ; so glad we had the opportunity to have met her and shared just a little part of her joy in life.  Our deepest condolences to your entire family. Hugs and Prayers for you all in the days ahead🙏❤❤. Love  Kathy and Bobby Derr

June 05, 2023

Over the 5 years I’ve known Ruth at UZRC..I will miss our talks the most.How she smiled so big knowing it was me to come visit. I hope she heard me say “I love you” Hugs and thoughts are with all family involved ❤️

June 04, 2023

Ruth you were a great person whom I always loved talking to. I loved to hear all your stories and talk about current events. I wll greatly miss you and your family. I am glad your rejoicing in Heaven with Warren. Till we meet again!

Jami Frank

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Saturday, June 10, 2023
9:30 AM - 11:00 AM
Spacht-Snyder Family Funeral Home & Crematory
127 S. Broad
Street
Lititz, PA 17543
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