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Robert F. Backes, Jr., 53

Robert F. Backes, Jr., 53, loving husband, father, and brother, died Sunday, Nov. 6, 2011 after a bout with cancer.  Bob was born in Princeton, NJ to the late Emma Doris (Davison) and Robert F. Backes, Sr.

Bob served in the US Navy from 1979 to 1985, after which he worked in the grocery business in Virginia before moving to Lancaster to be closer to his family and taking a position with SKH.  Leaving SKH after 5 years, he went to work for Toys R’ Us for 10 years.  In 2008, he opened his own business, Golf Etc. of Lancaster with his wife, Julie.

He is survived by his wife, Julie (McQueen); 3 children: Daniel (25) serving in the US Coast Guard, Ryan (17) and Emma (14); 5 siblings: Nancy Atland, Betsy Ryder, Peggy (Al) Brzowsky, Fred (Julia) Backes and James (Trish) Backes; and 9 nieces and nephews.

He enjoyed vacations at the beach, playing golf with his sons and brothers and watching Dallas Cowboys games with his family.

A memorial service celebrating Bob’s life will be held at 2 PM on Nov. 14, 2011 at Hempfield United Methodist Church, 3050 Marietta Ave. Lancaster, PA 17601.  Family and friends are welcomed to greet the family from 1-2 PM.  In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made at any Sovereign Bank to the Backes Memorial Fund.  Please email backesmemorial@comcast.net so family can acknowledge your generosity.  To send the family online condolences, please visit SnyderFuneralHome.com.  Charles F. Snyder, Jr. Funeral Home & Crematory 717-560-5100

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Our Condolences from Patron FIFTY.  Bob was a great AW and Combat Aircrew TEN.  Fond memories.
 

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Julie and Golf Etc family,

    So sorry for your loss. I didn’t know that Bob was battling cancer. You helped us with the Elizabethtown Rotary Golf Major to benefit the jake Gittlen cancer Research Institute for the last 2 years and we will be forever grateful to you all. We have lost friends and family as well yet we vow to struggle on together to find cures for this horrible disease. God Bless.

John E Martin II(and family,Suzi,Justin and Missy)
Elizabethtown Rotary Golf Tournament Co-Chair

Dear Julie and Family,
I would like to send my heartfelt condolences to you and your family. As you are aware, Bob and I have only known each other for a little more than one year, but we grew to be close through our love of golf and Golf Etc.  We were both dreamers and quickly talked of expanding our business venture to a third location west of Harrisburg (Mechanicsburg). I will truly miss Bob, but look forward to continuing to do business with Julie, Fred and Ryan in the future. Your friend and business associate in Harrisburg.
Keith D. Mitchell

Dear Julie, Dan, Ryan, and Emma….
You are all in my thoughts and prayers.  Bob was a very special husband and father to you all.  To me he was a wonderful and loving brother. I will never forget his wonderful sense of humor and the love he had for his entire family. His laughter will forever be burned into my memory.  Few men have made me laugh the way he did.  He is gone way too soon, but never to be forgotten. He will always be loved by all who knew him.  May God give you all comfort during this difficult time.

Love,
Peggy B.

Dear Julie and Golf Etc. Family:

We are saddened to hear of Bob’s passing.  His generosity and kindness were evident to all who knew him.  We are grateful to have the privilege of knowing him.  You will be in our prayers.

Mike and Tracy Nagy

From everyone at Golf Etc. of America, Inc., our deepest sympathies are with you Julie and the family.  Bob was a great man, father and dad.  We are grateful for having him in the Golf Etc family.  He will be greatly missed.  The entire Backes family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Jeremy Glanzer
Golf Etc. of America
jeremy@golfetc.com

To Bob’s Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Bob was a wonderful boss and friend to me at TOYS R Us. I will always have wonderful memories of the laughs we had at work. He was truly a very special person and he will be missed by all from Toys R Us. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Patty Lehman

Sending my condolences to all of Bob’s family. I am keeping you Julie & all of Bob’s family in prayer.Please remember……Those who know the Lord, will never say good-bye for the last time….. May God give you all comfort.

Renee Horn @ SKH

Dear Backes Family:
I wanted to extend my deepest sympathies to you all in this time of sorrow. You will remain in my thoughts and prayers in the upcoming days and months.
Sincerely,
Kevin Franklin
Cobra Team Leader
Martin Meylin Middle School

To All of Bob’s Family,
I was deeply sorry to hear about Bob’s passing, I wish I had more words to express just how shocked and saddened I am. As you grieve please know that my heart goes out to you all in this time of sorrow. May God give you the strength and courage you need to bring you peace.

with sincere sympathy,
Laurie Valliere

My thoughts & prayers are with you & your families during this difficult time.  So sorry for your loss.  May God help ease your pain.

With Sympathy,
Kelli Rath

Dearest Julie and family,
Bob and I are so sorry to read of Bob’s passing.  Your sadness must be beyond words!  Please know that we are here if you need anything.  Please do not hesitate to call;  717-396-3838.
Hawton-Hill and Bob Dunn
MillCreek

US Coast Guard, ESD Cape Cod is sorry for your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

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