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Raymond L. Kingcaid, 84

Raymond L. Kingcaid, 84, of Lititz, died Tuesday, March 3, 2009 at Lancaster General Hospital.  Born in Whitehall, PA, Raymond was the son of the late Raymond A. and Mahala (Dunbar) Kingcaid.  He and his wife, Lucy Ann (Herness) Kingcaid celebrated their 57th wedding anniversary on November 22, 2008.

Raymond served in the U.S. Navy during World War II, and was involved in five European campaigns aboard the U.S. Evea, and during the Korean Conflict, served as First Class Petty Officer of the Quartermaster/Signalman Corps aboard the U.S.S. Salvager.  He also was Instructor of Seamanship at U.S.N.T.S. Bainbridge, MD.

Raymond was employed by Lancaster Newspapers for forty-three years as Secretary and Treasurer, responsible for Taxes and Investments of Steinman Holdings, Inc., Lancaster Newspapers., Inc., Lancaster County Weeklies, Inc., Lancaster Farming, Inc., Intelligencer Printing Co., Cable Associates, Inc., Delmarva Broadcasting Co., and Steinman Coal Corp., before retiring on July 1, 1993.  He was a member of Lancaster Chamber of Commerce, and was a life member of Lancaster Chapter of Institute of Management Accountants, and of Tax Institute of America.

A member of St. James Catholic Church in Lititz, PA, Mr. Kingcaid was the first Eucharistic Lay Minister to be appointed.  He was Past President of Holy Name Society, and of the Pastoral Council, treasurer of the bingo program, Finance Officer of the Parish, and member of Finance Counsel, member of St. James Benevolent Society, former Hall Rental Coordinator, served on local committee of Bishop’s Consultation Committee, member and was founding President of Silver Liners (Senior citizen group), and also served as their Treasurer, a member of Planning Committee of St. James, and was a member of St. James Mens Club.  He was founding Troop Committeeman of Boy Scout Troop #142 (then sponsored by Men of St. James), and served as Treasurer for eight years.

Raymond was Past President of Deanery Regional School Board (now defunct), and was a former Board member and Finance Chairman of Lancaster Catholic High School.  He was a member of the Diocesan Education Board Finance Committee, reviewing High School budgets, for six years, and  served on the Investment and Communications Committees of the Bishop’s Board of Directors.

A Fourth Degree member of the Knights of Columbus, Raymond was Past Grand Knight of Lancaster Council #867, former District Deputy of Lancaster County, Certified Assigned District Deputy in Degree Work, Pennsylvania, and an honorary member and Council Vocations Director of the Father White Council, Lititz, PA, and of the Santa Maria Assembly. 

His service to the community included membership in Warwick Township Citizens’ Water Committee, and he was first Secretary of Warwick Township Municipal Authority, a member and Finance Chairman of the Advisory Board of Precious Blood Spiritual Center, Columbia, a member as well as President and Treasurer of the Board of Trustees of Long Home, Lancaster, member of Board of Directors of Lititz Warwick Community Chest, delivering food to needy families, as well as a driver for Lititz PA Meals On Wheels.

Raymond was a member of Lancaster Serra Club, where he served as founding member and Treasurer, Past President, and was Past District Governor (eight clubs) District 80, Past District Governor (four clubs) District 80-2, and was Vice President for Communications and Newsletter Editor for the Lancaster Club.  He was a former member of Mecca #88, Order of Alhambra (now defunct), and a member of Men of Malvern Palm Sunday Retreat Group, a member of American Legions Post No. 56 of Lititz, and Veterans of Foreign Wars Post #1463 of Lititz.  Raymond was also a former member of the Hamilton Club, and a member of Elstonville Sportsman Association, and Martz’s Gap View Hunting Preserve.

In addition to his wife, Raymond is survived by his children, Dr. Renee A. Kingcaid of South Bend, IN, Deborah A. Barone of Lititz, Raymond S. Kingcaid of Hatfield, PA, and Mary Elizabeth Ferris, wife of Ira, of Pequea, four grandchildren, and sister, Shirley, wife of Peter Lawall of Whitehall, PA.  He is preceded in death by his brother, Harold Kingcaid.

Relatives and Friends are respectfully invited to attend the Mass of Christian Burial from St. James Catholic Church, 505 Woodcrest Ave., Lititz, PA on Saturday, March 7, 2009 at 10:30 AM with Rev. James O’Blaney as Celebrant.  A viewing will be held at Charles F. Snyder Jr. Funeral Home and Chapel, 3110 Lititz Pike, Lititz, PA on Friday evening from 6:30 until 9 PM, with the recitation of the Rosary at 6:30 PM.  Interment will be at St. Joseph New Catholic Cemetery, Bausman, PA.  In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the charity of ones choice.  To send an online condolence, please visit www.snyderfuneralhome.com.

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Dear Lucy and Family,
Tom and I want to express our condolences in the loss of Ray.  He was a very dedicated man with a great sense of humor.  I remember all those years of working bingo every week and I think each week he made us laugh with his jokes.  He will be missed.
Sincerely
Tom and Joan

Dear Mary,
I am so sorry to hear of the death of your father.
Sue Campbell

Dear Renee,
I was very sorry to read of your father’s death.  Please extend my sympathies to your entire family.  I lost my father 18 years ago and while the memories are now comforting, I know what a difficult time this can be.  My prayers are with you. Big hug!
Pam (Garrett) Young
LCHS Class of 1970

Mary,  Sorry to hear of the passing of your father. 
Casey and Cindy

Dear Lucy & Family: We are very sorry to hear of Ray’s passing. You have our most sincere sympathy and prayer.  Ray & I (Frank) had been close friends since our early school days.  A lot of memories of hunting and sports.  With a good sense of humor. Sorry to have him leave us & may God Bless him.
Frank & June Bokeko
 

"Dad" was an amazing man! Sitting at Deb’s, watching everything that was happening around him and enjoying life is one of my special memories of him. The day we had lunch at Cape May (while they repaired the sewer lines near us), was a day I’ll cherish. We had a chance to talk about your lives together and to share in some of the memories he had of his amazing accomplishments. (my words, not his–he was never boastful of what he’d done) Sometime you may want to write down some of the anecdotes about friends visiting who ate the week’s worth of groceries in one visit, and others you remember from over the years. I’m sure the King is rejoicing with HIS HEAVENLY KING right now.
Love, Luanne

Dear Mary, Mrs. Kingcaid, and the entire Kingcaid Family,
I would like to express my deepest sympathy to each one of you at this time of passing of your dear, loving, father and husband, Raymond. Truly his compassion and care for life shined through the words written about his life, but the true legacy of his love will be the imprint he has left on each one of your hearts. May his example and goodness be an inspiration to each of you, as you continue in life remembering him every step of the way.
With love, Vangie Orfanakos

Mary,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you celebrate your Fathers life.  These are difficult times and sometimes the only thing that can get you from one day to the next is fond life’s memories and the belief that your father is in a better place today.  God bless you and your family. 
Your friend always, Mike Sheely

Dear Lucy and children,
We "Harrison" girls would like to express our sincere condolences to you all. We have such great memories of those growing up years on Hershey Ave. Those annual summer picnics held in our backyards were a delight. May our precious Lord hold you all in His loving arms as you grieve the loss of Raymond.
With love and sincerity,
Eileen (Flick), Kathy (Dewitsky), Roberta (Penwell), and Linda (Marley)

To my dearest friend Mary and family,
Know that my heart goes out to you during this time of your great loss.
Having lost my own father I know the pain that their passing brings and how much he will be missed. Know that he will always live in your heart and his memories will be with you forever.
with love always,
Litsa

Dear Aunt Lucy, Please know that you and the family are in our prayers. I’ll always remember Uncle Raymond for the jokes he and Skeet told.  I always looked forward to you coming down on Sunday and stopping in at mom’s house and having lunch there when we were younger.  Uncle Raymond was always so laid back.  I’ll always remember when Josh and Bud and mom and I visited you about two years ago and you served us strawberry pound cake.  And us sitting around the table and talking.  Memories that I will always treasure. Take care  and please remember, we love you.
Love and miss you,
Dianne (Tomari) Chandler

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