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Patricia A. Oatman, 77

April 06, 2013

Patricia A. (Grimm) Oatman, 77, of Lancaster, entered into eternal rest Saturday, April 6, 2013 at Lancaster General Hospital.

Born in Lancaster, she was the wife of Edgar C. “Ed” Oatman of Lancaster, and the daughter of the late John and Esther (Rishel) Grimm.

Pat graduated from McCaskey High School in 1953.  After 35 years at RCA/Phillips she retired in 1997.

She was a wonderful wife, mother, grandmother, and friend.  She would always take time to listen and help others.  She loved the beach, especially summertime trips with her family to Wildwood, NJ.  She enjoyed cheering for McCaskey sports and was an avid Duke Basketball fan.

She was a lifelong active member of First Reformed Church in Lancaster.

In addition to her husband of almost 58 years, she is survived by two sons:   Jeffrey Oatman and his wife Suzanne of Lancaster and Scott Oatman and his wife Shelley of Ocean City, MD; three grandchildren:  Ryan, Caitlyn, and Alex Oatman; a sister, Sandra Styer of Lancaster, and a number of nieces and nephews.  She was preceded in death by a brother, John Grimm.

Funeral services will be held at 10:30 AM Saturday, April 13, 2013 at Charles F. Snyder, Jr.  Funeral Home & Crematory, 3110 Lititz Pike, Lititz, PA with Pastor William P. Worley officiating.  The family will receive friends one hour prior to the service at the funeral home.  Burial will follow in Riverview Cemetery, Lancaster. Please omit flowers.  Memorial contributions in Patricia’s memory may be made to First Reformed Church, 40 E. Orange St., Lancaster, PA  17602. To place a condolence online, please visit SnyderFuneralHome.com. Charles F. Snyder, Jr. Funeral Home & Crematory 717-560-5100

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I only met her one time @ the Fire Station but I felt an instant connection. She was so likeable and I’m so very sorry for your loss… This is actually a loss for everyone whom she ever came in contact with or met… God chooses his choir well and only takes the best to be at his side… Again, My prayers are with your whole family,,,

Carol Resh

ERnie and I didn’t realized she went home til a day or so ago. I’m so very sorry.I’ll miss seeing Aunt Pat making the trip up the block to Sandy and Terry’s house with packages wrapped in aluminum foil. 🙂 Holding goodies I’m sure!I’ve seen that so many times during decades of living here on Ross. I call her Aunt Pat because everyone called her that. 🙂  I ask the God give Peace to the entire family…I know so many of them. 🙂

Ernie and Sandi Dubble

Well, Pat, guess we have to say good bye for the time being.  No more inventories of parts, no more screams while we heel the sailboat, no more trips to the beach, no more placing sand alongside you as you enter the kingdom of God! However, there is a fantastic beach that you can go to any time you want, where you are going. Keep the sand beneath your feet, and remember you are loved by all.  We’ll certainly miss you.   Terry and Pat

Dear Ed, Jeff, Scott and the entire Oatman Family, I was so saddened to learn of Patsy’s passing last week.

I can’t tell you how special she was to me – even though it’s been over 30+ years since I’ve seen her, but she always held a special place for her (and your entire family) in my heart.

Please accept my deepest sympathy and may God bless and comfort you all during this difficult time/loss, and may the presence/essence of her spirit remain in your hearts forever – until you all are reunited in God’s heavenly kingdom.

Prayers & Hugs, Karen (Schmid) Pastrana

Pat was one of the nicest,sweetest people I ever know. She always had a smile on her face and a kind word,. oh yes you always knew when something upset or disturbed her at work but then she had a chuckle afterwards. I remember the good old days at brookside also. R.I.P. Pat. love you. Nancy Craun

Hi Scott, I wanted to convey my sympathy on the passing of your mother.  May the Lord replace your grief with all the happy memories of her life.  Blessings to you and your family.  Sincerely, Theresa (McCoy) Graybill

Dear Ed & Family
My wife and I were deeply sorry to read about Pat’s passing.  Please accept our sincere and deepest sympathy at this difficult time.  We talked with Sandy at Chris Rankin’s installation and knew that she was gravely ill even at that time.  May your inner strength help you cope with these difficult circumstances.  Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Merle & Donna Schnee

I was so shocked to hear this, i worked with Pat at RCA and we stayed in touch by sending each other birthday cards every year since 1987. We never missed a year. She was a sweet girl always laughing . I will miss you my friend. My condolences to her family. Joan Reisler

I am so sorry to hear about Pat.  The picture you are using is exactly how I remember her.  I will never forget her kindness and hospitality to me.  May God bless you all and may you find comfort in the folks that will surround you in the days ahead.
Blessings and Peace,
Susan A. Minasian

How sorry I was to just hear of Patty’s passing. While I didn’t run into her much in recent years, I will always remember her from my youth and what a sweet and pleasant disposition she had. She was always smiling.

Don Grimm

Uncle Ed, Jeff & Scott,
Aunt Patti was a very special Aunt to me! She always was so full of kind words, love and laughter.  Aunt Pat was one of a kind! Sending love and prayers to you all during this difficult time.  Praying you will find comfort in the many beautiful memories of time with Pat and know that one day we will see her again.

To all the family:
My thoughts and prayers are with all of the family at this very sad time. I have many fond memories of playing in the yard with Patty and Sandy. All the laughs. That is what I shall remember.
Charlaine (Grimm) Jones

I would like to extend my sincerest condolences on your loss.  I knew "Aunt" Pat from growing up on Ross Street and will always remember what a warm, funny and kind woman she was.  May she rest in peace.

– Matt Miller

I just found out about Patty death.  So sorry for your loss.  I will always remember how my mother and her love to lay in the sun and tan.  She was a sweet lady and I feel your loss. Sorry I didn’t know before this.

love
janet and don beaner

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