Obituaries
Mary C. “Missy” Fitz, 56
June 26, 2017
Mary C. Fitz, 56, of Lititz, died Monday, June 26 at home after a two-year battle with tongue cancer.
Missy was the daughter of the late Peter V. Carr and Rosemary Keogh Carr, and wife of 33 years to Robert E. Fitz, Jr.
A 1979 graduate of Bishop Ludden High School in Syracuse, NY, Missy earned her BSN from the Niagara University School of Nursing, Niagara Falls, NY, in 1983. Following graduation, Missy was employed as a Registered Nurse (RN) at Upstate Medical Center in Syracuse, NY. Following her husband’s job transfer to Lancaster County, Missy gained employment at Lancaster General Hospital as an RN, completing her nursing career at Womens and Babies Hospital. Missy preferred being a full-time mother to her sons, returning to part-time work as a Paraeducator working with special needs children at Lititz Elementary in the Warwick School District when her boys got older.
Missy genuinely loved being around people and was always ready to volunteer, which led to stints with the Lititz Elementary PTO (vice president and president), Lititz Elementary Book Fair (Chair), Cub Scout Pack 142 (Den Leader), and Boy Scout Troop 142 (Committee Secretary).
All Missy truly wanted out of life was to be a mother, and to that end, she would do anything for her sons Michael and Timothy. She was strict with the boys with a special loving touch which led both to attain the rank of Eagle Scout. Communication, humor, respect and manners were a hallmark of Missy’s household.
Missy loved spending time with family and friends, camping in the family’s pop-up trailer, following NASCAR (she was a big fan of Dale Earnhardt, Jr.), gardening, yellow and lavender flowers, cooking and baking, vacationing with her entire family at Skaneateles Lake, Cape May, anything Penn State-related, Syracuse basketball, watching the TV shows CSI, Little House on the Prairie and anything on the Hallmark channel (the last two items guaranteed that she would have the TV to herself).
In addition to her husband and mother, Missy is survived by her sons Michael R. of Seattle, WA and Timothy C. at home; sisters Margaret C. (David) Everett of Old Chatham, NY and Catherine C. (Kevin) Mahoney of Onondaga Hill, NY; brothers Peter V. (Theresa) Carr Jr. of Burnt Hills, NY and Timothy K. (Lisa) Carr of Manhasset, NY; brother-in-law Richard F. (Janet) Fitz of New Holland, PA; 10 nieces, 7 nephews, 2 aunts, 2 uncles and many extended family members.
A viewing will be held from 7PM-9PM, Friday, June 30, 2017, at the Charles F. Snyder, Jr., Funeral Home & Crematory, 3110 Lititz Pike, Lititz, PA 17543. A short prayer service will be conducted at 8:45P.M. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30AM, Saturday, July 1, 2017 at St. James Catholic Church where Missy was a member, 505 Woodcrest Ave., Lititz, PA, with Rev. James O’Blaney C.Ss.R., as Celebrant. Interment will follow at Witness Park Cemetery, Lititz.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made in Missy’s memory to the following Hospice & Community Care, 685 Good Drive, P.O. Box 4125, Lancaster, PA 17604-4125 (https://www.hospiceconnect.org/memorial) or Johns Hopkins Department of Otolaryngology (https://secure.jhu.edu/form/fjhm – From the drop-down, select “Department of Otolaryngology”) or Boy Scout Troop 142, c/o St James Catholic Church, 505 Woodcrest Ave., Lititz, PA 17543.
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Condolences to the Family
June 30, 2017
DEAREST ROSIE AN FAMILY,MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES ON YOUR GREAT LOSS.I FEEL YOUR PAIN AN BLESS YOUALLXXXX. ANNIE GLEASON
June 30, 2017
Our deepest condolences to Missy’s entire family. Words cannot adequately explain how “Mrs. Fitz” affected our family. Missy was our son Noah’s full time aide for the majority of his elementary school education. They formed a bond that transcended the school setting as our son asked about her all of the time even when he wasn’t in school and still asks about her every day to this very day. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family.
The Hegarty family
June 30, 2017
Dear Bob, Michael, Timothy, and Extended Fitz Family: We are so very sorry to learn of Missy’s recent passing, and send along our love and prayers. We understand Missy has bravely battled her cancer for some time; and may she now rest in the arms of her loving Lord and Saviour. Our continued love and support to you in the weeks and months ahead. Doug & Carla Schmuckle
June 30, 2017
Dear Bob, Mike, and Tim,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Missy was a phenomenal person who will be dearly missed by all who had the privilege of knowing her. I will always remember her fondly.
With heartfelt sympathy,
Susan McKain
June 30, 2017
Dear Bob and family,
We are saddened to hear of Missy’s passing. We will miss our dear friend. Regretfully, we will be out of town and unable to make her service. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Carl and Denita Leach
June 29, 2017
Dear Bob,
What a beautiful tribute to Missy. You captured the essence of the gal I’ve known all of her life and most of mine. The words brought smiles and tears. I have marveled all through her long battle at the strength and perseverance with every surgery and loss and trail that she suffered through. I hope it brings some comfort to know that you did everything known to current science to battle this demon. i know you, your children, Rosemary and her children gave Missy attentive devotion and support. No one more deserves the honor and glory she is enjoying now.
God Bless,
Sylvia and Bill Fenn
June 29, 2017
Hi Carr family, My mother had told me about Missy’s cancer several months back and she is visiting me in Ohio and just showed me Missy’s obituary. I am very sorry for your loss. The obit is a beautiful tribute to Missy. I have fond memories of growing up as Missy’s neighbor on Southwest Way. My love goes out to your entire family. Will be thinking of you all.
Kathy Rosbrook Hayden
June 29, 2017
Rosemary,. I am saddened by the news of your daughter’s passing. Please know that you and your entire family are in my thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time. Martha Blakeman
June 28, 2017
To the family of Missy: Thoughts & prayers have been sent for you and your family, Missy, as you enter the Holy and Blessed Arms of Our Lord in His Heavenly Kingdom. RIP Missy…you have had a long journey to meet Him – now you are safe.
Heidi Reyburn – neighbor in Lititz, PA
June 28, 2017
Rosemary & Family,
Our deepest condolences at this very difficult time. May your loving and happy memories help you find peace and comfort in the days ahead.
God Bless you and your family.
Michalene & Mike
June 28, 2017
Bob – sending our sympathy and prayers to you and your family.
Tom and Maryellen Herren
June 28, 2017
Bob and family I am so very sorry to hear of Missy’s passing. She was an amazing friend to me in high school and I will always treasure those years. We met you a couple times at the St. Patrick’s Day parade. You will continue to be in my prayers and I’m sure you know Missy is with our Lord and will always be smiling down upon you! Denise Cammuso-Clark
June 28, 2017
Bob – I was so sorry to hear about Missy…….she fought a hard battle and now she is at rest – I am very glad that I got the chance to meet her. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Joy (Hartz Physical Therapy)
June 28, 2017
I am sorry to hear of Missys passing. Thank you for the privilege of being this fine ladies Family Dr.
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers .
Tom Andersen
June 28, 2017
Bob & Family,
Our deepest sympathy for the loss of your Wife & Mother.
Our Prayers are with you,
Suzanne, Chris & Matthew Geib of Troop 142
June 28, 2017
Please accept the most heartfelt sympathies of Le Moyne College. We hope the love and memories that you will forever hold in your heart bring you peace and comfort during this difficult time.
Le Moyne College, Office of Alumni and Parent Programs
Syracuse, NY
June 28, 2017
Meg, Katie, Tim, Peter, and Mrs. Carr-
I’m so sorry to hear the passing of your sister/daughter. She fought hard but it is her time to be with the Lord. Prayers to all of you.
Meg Cuddy Nothnagle
June 27, 2017
Bob and family,
Missy will be missed. She put up a good fight and now was her time to go on with out the pain. Remember that she is always with you in your hearts and hopefully knowing that will make each day a bit brighter.
Thoughts and prayers to all of you,
Candi Dirian and family
June 27, 2017
Bob, Mike, Tim,
Missy will be sorely missed. Every day will be hard, but remember that she is right there in your hearts, in your thoughts and watching over you. You guys make her proud and it was very evident how much she loved each of you. Her love and courage was amazing! Take one day at a time… God is there to guide you. We are praying for strength to guide you through this grief filled journey. Love to you from the Winpennys
June 27, 2017
Missy was a wonderful woman, mother and friend. I was honored to know her. Rest in Peace and know that you will be sorely missed by all.
Cathy Gelatka
June 27, 2017
DEAR FITZ FAMILY very sorry about the loss of Missy in my prayers always Maxine Dobe
June 27, 2017
Our thoughts and prayers are with Missy and the entire Fitz/Carr clan. She was a special person and will be missed by everyone. Hopefully she will be able to keep an eye on Uncle Pete now.
Love from all the Carrs – Barbie, Holly & KJ, Amy & Greg, Katy Sue & Brett, Brian & Sarah, Bradley & Jen, Kelley & Jaye, and of course, Fry & Buddy – maybe she can keep an eye on them as well, but that might be too much to ask
June 27, 2017
Our heartfelt sympathy to the entire family. May your fun and fond memories live on forever in your hearts and minds.
With love,
Jan and Helen Long
June 27, 2017
Dear Bob and family – I cannot even begin to think how hard this is for you. For Missy only good things are ahead and I am sure she will be watching over you all. What would she want for all of you – aim for that and think of all the good memories. Love and condolences – Gill Graffy
June 27, 2017
We are so sorry for your loss. Will always keep Missy and you and the boys in our prayers.
John and JoAnn Schroeder
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- Friday, June 30, 2017
- 7:00 PM - 9:00 PM
- Charles F. Snyder Funeral Home & Crematory
- 3110 Lititz Pike
- Lititz, PA 17543
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- Saturday, July 01, 2017
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- 505 Woodcrest Ave.
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