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Marilyn J. Kelley, 73

February 09, 2020

Marilyn J. Kelley, 73, of Lancaster, passed away peacefully, with her family by her side, at Conestoga View on February 9, 2020. Born in Philadelphia she was the daughter of the late Donald Oates and Mary (Magyar) Oates.

A graduate of Northeast High School, Marilyn pursued a career and found her passion in real estate. She worked for Realty Select and for Century 21, where she earned her gold jacket.

Marilyn’s favorite place in the world was Ocean City, NJ. It was a place where she and her family made memories on family vacations, took spontaneous trips to, or went just to get away. She would find her peace walking the beaches and looking for shells following a storm.

Family was everything to Marilyn. She raised five children and loved them, their children, and their pets unconditionally. Her family will cherish the memories of their trips to Ocean City NJ, going to the pool every day during the summer, and the strength that she shared with them. Marilyn was a good listener, a great friend, and an even better mother and grandmother.

Marilyn is survived by her children; Jack Kelley (Michelle), Mary Beohm (Dave), Colleen Probst (Gene), Jim Kelley (Kym), and Jen Eshleman (Joel), ten grandchildren, one great-grandchild, and a sister Joanne Scott. In addition to her parents, she is preceded in death by her brother Donald Oates.

A Memorial Service will be held Thursday, February 13, 2020 at 11:00am at Charles F. Snyder Jr. Funeral Home & Crematory, 3110 Lititz Pike, Lititz, PA 17543. Guests will be received prior to the service starting at 10:00am.

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February 25, 2020

I am so sorry that I missed the service for Marilyn.  I was close up during the early days of her struggle.  I absolutely know she had fierce love for her family and would go through whatever it took to provide for and protect her children.  I saw the strength of her character and sweetness of her soul.  So sorry for your loss.  Treasure your sweet memories of the wonderful times you had. God has gained a wonderful angel…😢😢😢
Jan Wagner

February 11, 2020

My husband and I had several of Marilyn’s children in our classrooms at Solanco.  I recognized that lovely smile of Marilyn’s as soon as I saw her photo.   To her kids- we send our deepest sympathy. The loss of a beloved mother is always difficult. We pray that the memories of your mom, plus the comfort of each other will sustain you all. 
Take care,
Jim and Linda Kopf

February 10, 2020

Sending my love to you all. I will always have fond memories of your mom. I loved our talks and like her obituary says she trully loved her family. Sorry I  will be unable to attend i will be out of town. I send hugs and prayers to you all.  Love, linda and art kushlan

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Thursday, February 13, 2020
10:00 AM - 11:00 AM
Charles F. Snyder Funeral Home & Crematory
3110 Lititz Pike
Lititz, PA 17543
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Lititz, PA 17543
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