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Denise J. Donaldson, 46

Denise J. (Lefever) Donaldson, 46, of Lancaster, passed away on Tuesday, April 28, 2009, at Hospice of Lancaster County. Born in Lancaster, she was the daughter of the late Lester C. Lefever. She is survived by her husband, Robert M. “P.J.” Donaldson and mother, Shirley Lefever.

Denise was a member of LCBC Church. She was previously employed as a teacher’s aid at St. Anne’s Catholic School. She currently worked as an aid in physical support classes at Lancaster-Lebanon IU13.

In addition to her husband and mother, Denise is survived by two daughters: Erinn L. Donaldson and Elizabeth A. Donaldson, both at home; three brothers: Lester C. Lefever of Milwaukee, WI, Fred Lefever of Williamsport, and Brian Lefever of Lancaster; and several nieces and nephews. In addition to her father, she was preceded in death by a sister.

Funeral Services will be held on Friday, May 1, 2009, at the Charles F. Snyder Funeral Home and Chapel, 3110 Lititz Pike, Lititz at 11:00 AM with Pastor Mark Ashley officiating. The family will receive friends at the funeral home on Thursday evening, April 30, 2009, from 6-9 PM and also on Friday from 10-11 AM. Interment will be private and at the discretion of the family. Please omit flowers. Memorial contributions may be made to Hospice of Lancaster County, 685 Good Drive Lancaster, PA 17604-4125. To send an online condolence, please visit: snyderfuneralhome.com

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I surely will miss Denise.
I’m glad that she is in a better place.
Accept my condolences. I’ll be there tomorrow.
Tidings of Comfort and Joy’
Terry

I just wanted to say how sorry i am to hear about Denise. i know we haven’t seen Denise or the rest of the family in yrs, but when my mom called and told me about Denise passing i was shocked. and i still am.. I suddenly was overcome with memories of when we were so much younger living back at the lake, we were usually  with  each other at my house or hers, same with the skip, and fred, Brian was little then, not that we were alot bigger, then the family moved out of the lake, and i lost my bestfriend i really missed denise when the family moved, yeah are parents kept in touch for awhile we went to visit them one time, and Denise and i were running from our brothers and climbed over a fence and my shirt got caught and ripped, of course it wasn’t just any shirt it was one i made for home ec and hadn’t been graded on it yet, so of course since it was ripped i failed that marking period..but we had fun…  i just wish we would have stayed more in touch with each other.so anyway, at least now my mother and Mrs. Lefever can stay in touch since they live closer to each other now ( and didn’t now it) then they did back the,,
like i said i’m truely sorry for your loss, and my thoughts and prayers are with you. Carol Waltman

Your Mom was a " True-Blessings" that will always be " Remembered For Her Kindness Always!!!
She was very caring and inspiring too our daughter and the children she helped too learn that they were a " Very Special Part Of This World Too"!!!
May " God Care For Her Now", and for you & your family as you go through this very sad time!!!
Erinn please remember those " Smiling Faces you see each day and know your Mom, Cherished those Smiles too!!!
Many Blessing Too Your Whole Family!
Stephanie Forker & Family

Erinn & Family,
Tyler and I are so sorry for your loss.  Our prayer for you is that God will fill your hearts with good memories and smiles, and that you will feel your mother’s presence always.  You are in our thoughts and prayers.  Any time you want to talk, please call or come over.  You are welcome any time.
God bless,
Tierney & Tyler Dietrich

We didn’t have a long time to enjoy our friendship with Denise, having met her through a "Life Group" from our church just a couple of years ago.  But, Denise quickly became a treasure we will always remember, as she shared her life and love so freely with us.  She was a testimony of the Lord’s strength during these last months, and we look forward to being reunited with her when we, too, go to be with our Saviour.  We will pray for strength and comfort, for you, Bob, for your daughters, and, also, for the entire family.  Our prayer will also be for a bonding that comes when loved ones face loss, and know that Denise would have liked nothing better than to know blessings came through her passing. We will miss her, but know that she is safe in His arms.
Love from us both,
Ed and Carlene Hutchins

To Bob and Family
We were saddened to hear the news of your wife. We are sure she is in a better place and not having any pain or suffering. Please call if you need anything. Your friends
Dave Reath, Kendall Marks and Dan Beck

Dear Erinn, Elizabeth and PJ,
We’re very sorry of your loss, but its only a temporary loss. 
She is in such a better place and Jesus is looking out for her.  NEVER give up on your dreams and make her proud!
The Joneses" (Paul and Tammy and kids)

Wow, I couldn’t believe this when I saw "Aunt Niecy’s" picture in Lancaster’s Newspaper online.  She used to babysit me when I was a toddler into kindergarten age…I remember when she had her first baby girl and all!  I remember asking her where babies came from, and she told me her leg 🙂  She always knew what to say, and when to say it.  Both of her girls had the most curliest hair I’d ever seen! 

I have fond memories of playing in the family’s backyard, swimming in the baby pool as well.  She was also so uplifting and pleasant to be around.  I still can’t get over this…Mr. PJ, I’m even sure if you remember me, but my mother’s name was Donna Sheffield.  I will miss her terribly and to her sweet daughters, my prayers are with you.  You’re mother was a gem, and I thank God for having her in my life.  I so wish I could have seen her before I moved to North Carolina, as I didn’t even know she was sick.

I can’t possibly understand what all you’re going through, but trust God’s hands are over the entire family.  And if I could have made it up to Lancaster this weekend, trust me, I would be there with you all tomorrow.

Sending my love,
Alisha Stokes-Sheffield
PS- If there’s anything I can do, please let me know! You can call me at 717-413-2178.

Sorry to hear of Denise passing.  Hope that you will be able to find the peace and comfort of Christ, as only he can give to us during this emotional time.  I’m sure that you all did a fine job caring for her in her last days.  Rejoice in the Lord, she is now with her savior, and that is difficult I’m sure at this time, but as time progresses that will give you more comfort than you are able to imagine now.  May God continue to shine in your lives as you face each new day without her here.  Many blessings! Lori Freeman from the Freeman Family

PJ, Erinn and Elizabeth,
We cannot imagine what you have gone through and what you are going through now.  I am sure it must be the hardest thing you’ve ever done.  We are praying that you will know God’s grace and His kindness.  He loves you and holds all of you and your wife/mom in His hands even now.  We do not understand why He allowed her to suffer and why she had to go so soon, but we do know that the One who died for us is able to be trusted with our lives. I know that you already know how great of a mom and wife you had, but I just wanted to let you know that she blessed me so many times with her thoughtfulness, unselfishness and generosity.  May God comfort you and guide you. 
Love, Gina

We never met you but have met your wonderful daughters. You should be proud
We have enjoyed and loved being with Erinn.
God Bless you…we know you are in Heaven
Pati and Phil, Andrew and MOlly Frey

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