Obituaries
DeEtta Graves Miller, 101
May 28, 1919 - November 17, 2020
DeEtta “De” Graves Miller, 101, resident of the Mennonite Home, passed away at Lancaster General Hospital on Tuesday, November 17, 2020. De was born and raised in Elmira, NY, the daughter of the late Howard and Edna (Jewell) Graves.
She enjoyed 54 years of marriage with her husband Jacob Willard Miller before his death in 1994. De has waited to be reunited with Jake ever since. They lived in Lock Haven, PA and retired to Sun City Center, FL.
A homemaker, De enjoyed volunteer work in Lock Haven and Sun City Center. She loved to play golf and Bridge, make jewelry and to fly. She got her pilot license while Jake worked for Piper Aircraft in Lock Haven. From her flower garden De made beautiful floral arrangements which she successfully entered into flower shows.
De served as a Deacon and Elder at St. Andrew Presbyterian Church while living in Sun City Center and attended Highland Presbyterian Church in Lancaster.
DeEtta will be missed by her loving family, including her daughters, Linda M., wife of Robert Fry of Lancaster and Gail M. Wilkerson of Overland Park, KS; 5 grandchildren, Andrew Fry, husband of Deborah of Lancaster, Lauren DeEtta-Fry Garner of Novato, CA, Lisa, wife of Hugh Smith of Highlands Ranch, CO, David Wilkerson of Columbia, MO, and Grant Wilkerson, husband of Nancy F. of Prairie Village, KS; as well as her 7 great-grandchildren, Bradley and Kate Fry, Jacob Bruce Garner, Margaret and Cecelia Wilkerson, Lauren Fisher McIntyre, wife of Xavier, and Mitchell Fisher.
In addition to her parents and husband, DeEtta was preceded in death by her brothers Howard and Lawrence Graves.
Services will be private. Please omit flowers, and kindly consider a memorial contribution to The Mennonite Home Benevolent Care Program, Mennonite Home Communities, 2001 Harrisburg Pike, Lancaster, PA 17601.
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Condolences to the Family
November 23, 2020
My sincere condolences to the Miller and Fry families. It was a pleasure and a privilege to know Dee.
I was aware that she was an accomplished and interesting woman; I had no idea that, on top of her other achievements, she was a pilot. Good for her!
I’m sure you will all miss her dearly. Again, my deep condolences to all.
Matt Patterson
November 23, 2020
Dee, What an amazing woman. I miss our daily laughs and chats at MHC. You enriched my life every day. Rest In Peace. Love, Lisa
November 22, 2020
Aunt DeEtta was an important person in our lives when we lived in Lock Haven. Growing up with her and Uncle Jack was always fun because she was so full of life and had a big warm laugh to match. We were lucky to live in Florida at the same time so that we could drive over to the other coast to visit. Thinking of our family with love and many memories. Phyllis Zettle and Dee Paiva of Lewisville TX.
November 21, 2020
I am so sorry to hear of Nana’s passing. What an amazing life she had. Find peace in her blessed unity with PapPap again. Much love to the Fry’s and Wilkerson’s.
Ashley Lang
November 19, 2020
Our love and prayers for your loss. May Nana be flying high…
We love you, Doug, Melissa and Ems