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Chad “C.J.” Lownsbery, 13

March 08, 2017

Chad M. “C.J.” Lownsbery, Jr., 13, Lititz, passed away unexpectedly on Wednesday, March 8, 2017. Born in Lancaster, he was the son of Chad M. Lownsbery, Sr., of Lititz, and Darby (Mattern) Lownsbery fiancé of Michael Grant, of Columbia.
C.J. was in 8th Grade at Manheim Township Middle School. He enjoyed Taekwondo at the YMCA, playing baseball with Lancaster Rec, and going to the movies.
A lover of the outdoors, C.J. enjoyed hunting and fishing. He was an avid reader and was interested in mythology.
In addition to his parents, he is survived by his siblings, Jade Mattern, Tia Grant, Michaela Grant, and a step-brother, Tyson Grant, maternal grandparents, Herbert and Anne Mattern, Jr., of Elm, Kim and Randy Miller, of St. Petersburg, FL, and paternal grandparents, Pamela Donovan, of Lititz, and Darryl and Sally Lownsbery, great-grandmother Glenna Mattern, of East Petersburg, many aunts, uncles, and cousins.
Friends will be received on Sunday, March 12, 2017 from 5-7PM at the Charles F. Snyder, Jr. Funeral Home & Crematory, 3110 Lititz Pike, Lititz, PA 17543.
Memorial Contributions may be made in C.J.’s memory to Ronald McDonald House, 745 W. Governor Rd., Hershey, PA 17033.

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March 25, 2021

Miss ya buddy.  I wish we could’ve spent more time together.  Your family loves you and think about u every day.  I wish I could’ve seen the my little buddy grow old and make his mark on this little world.  You had so many things that you could’ve done. You were one of the kindest and thoughtful little guys I know.  I’m sorry that I wasn’t home enough to help you. You were just a baby and couldn’t understand everything that was going on and had no outlet to get you past the day to day.   Can’t wait to see you again so we can play catch or just laugh and hang out again.Xoxo,
Uncle B

March 03, 2021

I still miss you man. I can’t wait to see you again one day.

March 11, 2018

This past Wednesday was a year. I miss him so much. Its crazy to see how fast the other people who were friends with him moved on. I cant stand it. I loved him so much.

August 20, 2017

Hey my name is Jamie you may not know me but chad was a close friend of mine he would often be there for me when I needed someone most I know I’m a little late my apologies but I send blessings and prayers for you all chad will always have a special place in my heart and the hearts of others ❤️❤️💜💜 may he watch over you and always be with you he may be gone in our world but he will never be forgotten 💙💙💙💙💙💙.            
 
Jamie Rosado 

April 25, 2017

I walked w/ cj to school when he went to Camp Hill. I will miss him so much. He was like a brother to me.Rest in Peace-Autumn Habecker

March 29, 2017

C.J was an great friend and very cheerful. I love him like a brother through the ups and downs of our lives. For all the other family and friend of C.J’s, I’m sorry for your loss. God bless you all.-Autumn Habecker

March 15, 2017

My deepest and most heartfelt condolences to you and your family.  My daughter Yani and Chad are friends.  I wanted you to know he stood up for my daughter when she was getting bullied in school.  We feel terrible for your loss.  She feels guilty for not being there for him, she didn’t know he was hurting.  The last they hung out he was his usual happy smiling self.  May God watch over you and your family.  My continued prayers for support to you and yours. 

March 15, 2017

My deepest and most heart felt condolences to you and your family.  My daughter Yani and CJ are friends, they shared several classes. She has fond memories of Chad, one that stands out was him standing up to a bully on her behalf.  She was completely beside herself not knowing that he was going through similar stuff and feels guilty for not helping him.  She remembers he was happy and smiling the last they hung out.  My continued prayers and may CJ rest in eternal peace. May God bless him and watch over you all.  Amen.     

March 14, 2017

I am a teacher at Camp Hill Middle School, I would like to send my deapest condolences to your family. Chad was a great kid. He wil be missed tramendously by so many. My thoughts and prayers go to his family and friends. God bless you Chad. 

March 14, 2017

I have loss many people that are dear to me. The one thing that helped me, when I was ready to remember, was the memory of the sound of their laugh and their smile. Praying the memory of Chad’s smile and laughter ease your pain and reminds you of the joyful times. Peace and blessings always 

March 13, 2017

I was so sorry to hear about Chad’s passing.  I had him as a 7th grader last year when he attended Camp Hill Middle School. He was an absolute delight to have in class.  My thoughts and prayers to his family at this difficult time. 
 
Lori Bolcavage

March 13, 2017

I am Cheryl Beasley’s Mom. A sudden loss like this leaves the family in total shock. God wil keep you in His care. He loves you with an everlasting love. He knew CJ while he was in your womb Darby. Think of him often and when you are able speak of your son with pride. He will alwus be your son and you will always love him. Praying for you often.

March 13, 2017

Darby & Family, 
My ♥ heart goes out to all of you. I’m sure your probably numb right now, maybe still in shock. I pray that God gives you the peace and strength that you and your family need ❤ God will help you guys. I can’t say I know what you’re going through but I can imagine because when I found out, I thought about my kid’s &I couldn’t stop crying, so I can only imagine how you all feel. Your Angel CJ will always be watching over you and all of you will see him again one day, CJ is in Heaven watching down upon you all ❤ May God Bless you and your family and May God carry you through this terrible tragedy ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ I love you Darby ❤. Love Cheryl Beasley ❤

March 13, 2017

Darby I am truly sorry for your loss, it’s horrible that you and your family are going through this. I’m sorry that I couldn’t be at the Funeral, I live with a family from my Church & it’s almost 2 hours from Lancaster. I really wish there was something I could do to help you. Please reach out to me if there’s anything that I can do. I pray that you will lean on God & your family & friends ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ May God Bless you and your family, you are all in my thoughts and prayers, I love you Darby ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

March 13, 2017

We are very sorry for your loss. We will keep you and your extended family in our thoughts and prayers, The Bohan Family

March 13, 2017

Wishing you comfort and peace only the Creator can give.  My daughter, Isabela shared the same team at the middle school as CJ, and she had only great things to say about him.  Our deepest condolences. ~ Acosta Family

March 13, 2017

My heart goes out to you… I remember little Chad coming to the PPL Kids Christmas parties. love and prayers to this family and former coworker and friend Daryl and Sally
Mary & Curt Hamilton

March 13, 2017

I am very sorry to learn of CJ’s death. He was a really nice boy, and we enjoyed having him as a student of our Camp Hill Middle School for 6th and 7th grade. Please accept my sincere condolences. 
Leslee DeLong, Principal CHMS

March 12, 2017

I was one of chads best friends from camp hill and im am very sorry for your loss-Dominick Leese
 

March 12, 2017

I SEND MY RESPECT AND CONDOLENCES ON THE PASSING OF YOUR FAMILY’S ANGEL..CHAD JR.  I AM NOT EXACTLY FAMILY BY BLOOD…HOWEVER..AS MY COUSIN MICHAEL GRANT AND DARBY ARE AS ONE…CHAD IS HELD IN MY HEART AS A LITTLE COUSIN I SAY GOODBYE TO AND WILL NEVER MEET…BLESSINGS..PEACE..COMFORT AND PRAYERS FOR STRENGTH TO THE FAMILY OF AN ANGEL CALLED HOME…LOVE AND DEEPEST CONDOLENCES..ADRIANNE L. ROEBUCK..NEW YORK..FORGIVE THE LATENESS OF THIS..JUST LITERALLY FOUND OUT ABOUT TEN MINUTES AGO.????

March 12, 2017

I am so very sorry.  I can’t even imagine.  My dear friend Sally, please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Kristin Lentz

March 12, 2017

Dear Sally and family, 
Our heart aches for all of you in hearing of your loss.  May the great memories and the love you share help sustain you during this difficult time.  We will continue to lift you up.  

March 12, 2017

Dear Sally and family,
Words can not begin to express the heartache we feel for all of you at this time.  May all of your love, wonderful memories as well as the love from All of us help to sustain you through this time.  We will continue to lift you all up.  
Burk Hulst 

March 12, 2017

We are deeply saddened to hear of your unimaginable loss.  We pray that you will be lifted and embraced by God’s love and grace.  Let his strength guide you through your journey.  We pray that your family and friends will surround you with love, strength and grace. Your baby is at peace in heaven.  He will always be with you.  His sweetness and love will be carried on through all of those who knew him and were blessed to know him. God Bless you and your family. Our prayers will continue to be with you, your family and for all of those who are mourning his passing.

March 12, 2017

May the Lord bless you and keep you, may his face shine upon you, and grant you, please. Each and every time I advocate for a student, your sweet CJ will be etched upon my heart. 
Carrie Van Buskirk 

March 12, 2017

Pam and family we are so sorry for your loss.
May God welcome him with open arms
and he will forever Rest In Peace.
 
Bill and Peggy Lockner

March 12, 2017

No words can truly be expressed to share our deepest of sympathy to the Lownsbery family.  Asking God to wrap each of you in His arms at this time and the days to come.
Jablonski Family- (Our daughter Olivia attended MS with Chad)

March 12, 2017

So sorry to hear about the loss of your son and grandson. My prayers are with you. Marty Sommerfeld 

March 12, 2017

So sorry your loss

March 12, 2017

Also my thoughts and prayers to you all.remember God is with you at this time.i don’t know you but just want you to know I care.debbie from leola

March 12, 2017

Chad was my student for a brief time at Wheatland Middle School. I remember how sad our whole homeroom was when it was time to Chad to transfer. He was definitely a part of our little family and many of our students are so saddened by this news.
 
I am am so very sorry for your loss. I remember what a bright, sweet, and respectful young man he was. My sympathies go out to all who loved him. 
 
Chantelle Delaney

March 12, 2017

Our condolences to your family…. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all…. Love Jesse and Cassandra Shober

March 12, 2017

I am sorry for your loss.I’ll keep you in my prayers. I am sure that Chad is surrounded by angels in heaven with our Heavenly Father and Jesus. May you find comfort in his memories, sweet spirit, and loving manner. Ivonne Aguilar.
 

March 12, 2017

Chad and Darby-  We will always remember CJ as being a wonderful boy, so full of energy and a loving brother to Jade.  Having him in our TKD class at the Y was a gift.  In our memories he will remain as a joyful, happy boy.  Our thoughts are with you both. 
Grandmaster Kirby and Ms. Judi

March 12, 2017

Our deepest sympathy Kim , to family , extended family , and friends    Prayers and caring thoughts to all. Your memories now have become treasures.  Gail Shiffler Smith ( Kim’s aunt ) and Jennifer Smith 

March 11, 2017

Chad and Darby yous are in our prayers ! We are so sorry for your loss ! We will always remember Cj with the brightest smile , playing with our kids how sweet his personality was , the most respectful kid on the block riding his bike up and down the street and his crush on Aliz-jah. We will keep Cj forever in our hearts ! May he be blessed with everything heaven has to offer ?

March 11, 2017

Darby, Mike, and family members, words cannot express the sad feeling of hearing this news. I know very well the feeling of losing a child, and I pray that you may find comfort in each other, through your faith and the beautiful words of expressions about Chad. May he rest in peace.
Mary Roebuck, St. Croix, US VI

March 11, 2017

Darby Im so sorry for the loss of CJ…I pray that God gives you peace and that all the million questions will be answered…If you need anything at all I’m here…Fly high and rest in peace CJ

March 11, 2017

To Chad’s family.
As Chad’s school bus driver, I am honored to have known such a fine, respectful young man. I will miss his smile and friendly manner on my bus. His passing leaves an empty space on the bus and in my heart. Be comforted by knowing that he is in the hands of God.
Jeff Brightbill

March 11, 2017

So very sorry for your loss. May God be with you during this very sad time. 

March 11, 2017

So very sorry for family and friends. I didnt know this young man or the family. I also lost a boy 39 years ago. God will help you through this loss. He is safe in Gods arms. Praying for you all. Audrey Witman – Ephrata Pa.

March 11, 2017

My heart is heavy with sadness for your family. I can only imagine the pain and suffering you are all going through. May God give you the strength you need. My thoughts and prayers are with you. 
Manheim Township Mom 

March 11, 2017

Our hearts are broken and we have no words with which to ease your grief.  We wish that there was something we could do or say. Our 7th grade son has been unable to attend school since hearing of Chad’s passing. Though he did not personally know Chad he grieves as if he did. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with your family. 
The Bauerle Family

March 11, 2017

So sorry to hear about you loss. Prayers to you and your family in this time of hurt and healing. 
Jeremiah wolf

March 11, 2017

My condolence to Darby and Mike and CJ’s father I can’t imagine what you are going through right now in losing a child my prayers are with yous all 
Idalia 

March 11, 2017

He will be missed by all of us at school. And trust me we will back you up if people start to say stuff. We got you forever and always 
From Gabby, Elias, Olivia, Briana, Delia, William and, Your teachers 
 

March 11, 2017

I’m so sorry to hear about your loss Darby our prayers go out to you in this time of need.    Frank

March 11, 2017

I work at Mannheim township middle school, my thoughts & prayers are with you.

March 11, 2017

My condolences to all the family my son Jesus went to school with CJ, when he told us about it never thought it was ur baby Darby may God give all of you strength to continue knowing he’s resting with our lord.. 
Jesus, Antonio & Johanna Torres 

March 11, 2017

Hello, my name is Isabella (Izzy) Cruz. I am a 7th grader at Manheim Township middle school. I have recently just heard about the tradgic death of Chad, and I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep the family in my prayers.
 

March 11, 2017

Our deepest sympathy to you the parents,family and friends. We know there are no words that can take away your pain but please know you are in our hearts and prayers. 
Renee Jim and Carson Oplinger 

March 11, 2017

Sally, I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the rest  of CJ’s family. A precious soul gone too soon…
God Bless,
Carol Markley

March 11, 2017

Dearest Darby and family,
I loved C J when I first saw him at work!!!  I could have taken him for one of my own grandchildren.  What a sweet young man with such a winning smile!!  He was only there one day, but was very socialable, so you could learn a lot about him.  Being there that one day was for a reason – we could get to know him!  
Prayers for peace and strength for all of you!!
Love and hugs
Esther Weaver

March 11, 2017

Our family’s thoughts and prayers are with you at this time Darby. May God give you all peace, especially CJ. 
Amber Greiner

March 11, 2017

I am at a loss for words, deepest sympathy to you and your entire family along with anyone that this has impacted. My daughter Heidi in 7th grade knew him from school and said he was a nice person. No one can understand the pain he and know how you must feel but try to remember your sweet boy and we can only spread the word trying to prevent future tragedy. God Bless – Shanna & Rick Fritsch Our 4 children 10,12,14 & 17 and our 2 foster children 1 & 2…

March 11, 2017

Darby & Michael,
I just found out on fb. I am so very sorry for your loss. Please know that I am thinking of you and your family. If you ever need to talk I am here.
Abby

March 11, 2017

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. CJ was an amazing young man. He had a heart of gold and we saw it every time he came over and played with Jensen. We are praying for you and your family and we all love you very much. 
 
Love,
Melody, Bobby and 
Jensen

March 11, 2017

Im truly and sincerely sorry for your loss. Please know that my thoughts are with you and the family in this time in need. Love to you 
Kerry Flemming Madonna 

March 11, 2017

Darby, so sorry for the pain you are experiencing now! Praying for you and your family.

March 11, 2017

I am so very sorry for your loss! I can’t even begin to imagine what your family is going through. I pray that God guide you and help carry you all through this difficult journey. Love ya big Darby!!
Bernice

March 11, 2017

Sorry for yr loss. Sympathy for yr family. I can’t imagine what you and yr family are going through. God will take care of him and watch over you and yr family.

March 11, 2017

I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my prayers. 

March 11, 2017

So sorry for your lost.  Just found out about this on Facebook…..praying fou you and your whole family.
Aunt Lynn
 

March 11, 2017

I’m so sorry for your loss, I couldn’t imagine the pain you guys are going through right now.. stay strong ❤️ 
 
Jolesha Taylor 

March 11, 2017

?I’m so sorry. I can only imagine how you must feel. ? 
I do not know you or Chad, he was much to young to be taken away. We parents shouldn’t have to see our children go before us.? 
My deepest condolences are with you and your family. May God bless you with peace and comfort knowing Chad to has peace and comfort from what took him to his Heavenly Father.
God Bless ✝️

March 11, 2017

im so sorry for your loss. i didn’t know C.J. but i do know that no one deserves to feel what he felt. i know that C.J. will watch over your family. i send all my prayers and all my positive vibes your way. even though i didnt personally know him, he is special and he made an impact on my life and the lives of many others. 
-Bekah Gerace

March 11, 2017

I am so sorry to hear of your son’s passing…my heart breaks for your loss.
.Lynne Corvelle

March 11, 2017

I’m so very sorry to hear about the tragic loss of your sweet baby boy!! Just know he is in Gods hands now and no longer suffering. He has beautiful angel wings. I will continue to pray for you & your family. Love ya Darby. ????

March 11, 2017

Darby,
Our family is in deep sorrow for your loss of C.J. Our hearts go out to you and your children.  You know we are here for anything you need through this long journey ahead of you.  Know he is safe in heaven playing with the other Angels and you will always have a special place just for him in your heart forever.
The Galls

March 11, 2017

We are so sorry for your loss, may God provide the comfort you need in this time of sorrow,  Marvin and Betty Lownsbery

March 11, 2017

I am so very sorry for your loss, our thoughts an prayers are with the family!  

March 11, 2017

I am at a loss for words, my heart goes out to everyone. This Angel is at peace with God and forever will be in your hearts. My deepest sympathy. Remember most, the love that Chad had for each and everyone whom touched his life..
Sherri Heim
(Florida)

March 11, 2017

My heart is broken. CJ and Jade used to play with my kids when they all went to Lafayette and at the Rodney Park pool. CJ was a sweet kid. Words are empty things right now, but know that you’re in our thoughts and prayers. 

March 11, 2017

My prayers and thoughts are with you during this very difficult time.  God Bless you, Sally

March 11, 2017

So very sorry for your loss! I understand your pain….it’s like no other! Losing a child is so devastating and I will keep you in my prayers! I didn’t know your son but I also lost a child! Love and support each other and lean on God! You will never get over this but you can learn to live with it! RIP C.J. you will never be forgotten! 
Mary

March 11, 2017

Im so sorry for your loss. We went to school together and to see a life end so quick makes me rethink the meaning of life. R.I.P.
 
Briana Le

March 11, 2017

So sorry for your loss.  My son said, “Seems like a cool kid, I would have loved to be his friend.”  Prayers for your family.
 
Sarah Brogunier

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Sunday, March 12, 2017
5:00 PM - 7:00 PM
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Lititz, PA 17543
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