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Theuns Kilian, 31

July 27, 2015

Theuns Kilian, 31, of Lancaster, PA, passed away on Monday, July 27, 2015 at his residence.
Born in Johannesburg, South Africa, he was the son of Rebecca A. Kilian of Lancaster.
Theuns was employed for the past 10 years with the J.C. Schelling Construction Company.
A talented and creative artist, he fashioned pendants and pyramids from orgonite, which he sold. He enjoyed creating t-shirts, which he sold at festivals across the US, and collaborated with local artists in designing these shirts. He loved the outdoors and nature, was an avid fisherman and loved his dog, Meisie. He also loved to skateboard. He was a graduate of Hempfield High School.
In addition to his mother, Rebecca, he is survived by his sister, Christelle Ivy Kilian companion of Alberto Santos Sr, of Lancaster; his nephews and niece: Alberto Santos Jr, Joseph Santos, Devon Santos, Catie Santos, Kilian Santos, and Clyde Santos. He is also survived by his 4 uncles, 2 aunts, and 2 cousins.
Theuns would like to invite you to the celebration of his life on this Saturday, August 1, 2015 from 2-3PM, with a service 3PM, from the Charles F. Snyder Jr Funeral Home & Crematory, 3110 Lititz Pike, Lititz, PA. The family requests that flowers be omitted and contributions in Theuns’ memory be made to an addiction recovery program of your choice in hopes of helping others with their battles.

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October 20, 2015

Tears run down my face as I learn of your passing, Theuns. I had the privilege and honor of knownig you and your beautiful family in your younger days. You left a lifelong impression in my heart, and its seems in the hearts of everyone you have known in your life. Your smile and laughter radiate eternal. Au revior my Friend!!  A.K.

August 20, 2015

Really missing you T. You always made sure I knew how proud you were of me for getting off everything. I’m getting my associates in drug and alcohol counseling right now and when I accept my diploma, it’ll be in your honor. Love you, tnuts????
Cae 

August 04, 2015

Dear Kilian Family,
you are in our thoughts and prayers. With deepest sympathy.
Monika and Jerry Glenn

August 03, 2015

He seemed to be at every festival I attended. We were never very close, but he always greeted me with a hug and smile. He was an integral part of the community and his presence will be sorely missed. My condolences to the many friends and family members whose lives he touched.

August 02, 2015

Deep sadness at the loss of your dear son Theuns, who brought beauty and joy into the world.
Nancy & Phil Rainey

August 02, 2015

Theuns I love you more than I love my life whyd you half to go theres so much I wanted to learn theres so much I wanted to do with you you are the most loving kind crazyass person that I have had in my life I love you uncle T I’ll see you again T 

August 01, 2015

Theuns was a great friend of my daughter, Amanda Faye. I only met him once but he was instantly family!  What a great spirit. He will be missed. My deepest sympathies to all those he left behind. 

July 31, 2015

Dear Becky,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family over the loss of Theuns. Although I have not seen Theuns since he was a child, I remember him as a sweet, well-mannered boy. I am truly saddened by the news, and my thoughts will be with you and your family during this difficult time. 
Tim Farnan

July 31, 2015

Our deepest condolences to the Kilian Family. Theuns will be missed by so many. He was one of the most free spirited people we’ve ever met. May you fly high and watch over us T. We Love You!!!! <3: Chele & Billy Sheets

July 31, 2015

“Spread love everywhere you go. Let no one ever come to you without leaving happier.”
– Mother Teresa
Theuns’ life is defined by this quote. Even in a time of such sadness, there is not a single memory of him that we can not help but smile. He will remain in our hearts and we hope to continue spreading happiness like Theuns.
Ally & Matt

July 31, 2015

Dear Rebecca,  
I’m so sorry to hear about Theuns. What a shock!  My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God will help you through this.
Cathy Domitrovic

July 31, 2015

Rebecca and Crystelle,  We are so deeply saddened by Theuns passing.  He was part of our family when he and Jimmy were growing up.. I can think of so many wonderful times, and my heart aches.  We are in Myrtle Beach right now.  Theuns came with us so many times, and really HS a great time.  There was one summer when Jimmy and Theuns ordered ribs every time we went out, and ate them on their lap. Couldn’t figure that one out.  Jim and I were talking about par 3 golf, where Theuns invented the Chinese chipper. He was such a naturally talented athlete.  
Please know that you both, and Theuns are in our prayers and hearts. We share in your loss.
God bless you.
Mary and Jim Kreider

July 30, 2015

Dear Becky,
My deepest sympathy and prayers.
Hubert van Tuyll

July 30, 2015

My heart felt sympathy goes out Theuns’ family and friends. Please accept my sincere condolences.
                                                       Carrie Walton (Sholly) HHS Class of 2002

July 30, 2015

Rebecca and family, 
We are so sorry to hear about Theuns.  We know he was a very special guy.  We are sending you peace and love.  
xo
Joanne and Ann

July 30, 2015

Truly a free spirit… you loved life and all it had to offer.  FLY FREE Theuns.  You will be missed by all forgotten by none. 
Kim Kline

July 30, 2015

Dear Rebecca, Christelle and all Theuns other family members,
 
Joel and I send our deepest sympathy for your and our loss. We loved Theuns. He will be soarly missed by all who knew him. All we can do now is hold on to all the fond memories that we each have of him and smile each time we reflect on them.
 
With Deep Sympathy,
 
Joel and Deb Schelling

July 30, 2015

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2:00 PM
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3110 Lititz Pike
Lititz, PA 17543
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