Obituaries
Catherine Ann Rudman, 52
August 18, 2016
Catherine Ann Rudman, 52, died peacefully, while surrounded by family who adored her, on August 18th, 2016.
By her side in life, and at the time of her death, were her husband and best friend of 37 years, Jeffrey, and the joy of her life, daughter Kelcie, and husband, John. Her father, Fred Duffy, was also present, along with her brothers, Fred, Mark, and Brian, sister, Mary Jeanne, and niece, Scottie. Partners and wives, Wendy, Mary Ann, Tara, and Kristen were blessed to know and love her, as were other nieces and nephews, Molly, Kendall, Anna, Ross, Connor, Ryan, and godsons, Evan and Luke. We know that her mother, Marcia Duffy, was there to welcome her sweet daughter to a new place of peace and comfort as she passed.
Cathy grew up on Long Beach Island, New Jersey, where her love of the seashore began and remained throughout her life; the beach and warm weather, always favorites for vacations and escapes. It was here, in Jersey, where Cathy found her high school sweetheart, Jeff, and together, they shared a love to be envied.
Cathy dedicated her professional life to teaching, and spent 21 years at Salisbury Elementary School, in the Pequea Valley School District. “Mrs. Rudman” changed lives throughout those years, and surely she remains in the hearts of the children she taught, along with the colleagues she worked with, as they did in hers.
Cathy loved to walk, travel with Jeff on his sales routes, and find as many hours as possible to spend with Kelcie and John. Time spent with family and friends was most precious to her, and when you were lucky enough to share in that time, it was obvious you were special to her. A recent highlight was Kelcie and John’s wedding, in August of 2015. As we came together for a beautiful celebration of marriage, the warmth of family, the joy of friends, and the pride of parents radiated in Cathy’s smile and laugh … she was never more beautiful, and love was everywhere.
Cathy’s courage will never be forgotten – she was our hero. Her smile, her laugh, her love for life, and her sweet, sweet ways–by these and more, we are forever blessed, and because we were lucky enough to know her, we are changed for the better and she will live in our hearts always.
Friends and family are invited to share in a Celebration of Cathy’s Life on Tuesday, August 23rd, 6pm, at The Barn at Silverstone, 62 Bowman Road, Lancaster, Pennsylvania. If you would like to honor Cathy, we ask that donations be made under her name on the 2016 Philadelphia Undy Run/Walk Colon Cancer Alliance (MommaG & Cathy’s Crusaders) team page.
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Condolences to the Family
August 30, 2016
Dear Kelcie and family,
I am Nicole Miller’s mother, Chris writing to you. I wanted to send my deepest condolences to you and your family on your loss. I didn’t know your mother well but, remember, as I always remember you, with a great big smile and always so friendly. Please know you have been in my thoughts and prayers.
Chris Miller
August 26, 2016
Jeff and the entire Rudman/Duffy family,
Please accept my deepest condolences on Cathy’s passing. I have fond memories of spending some time with Cathy, Jeff and the Duffy family in the 80’s on LBI. Such a shame someone as kind as Cathy had to fight such a tough battle. Know that my thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
With sympathy & love,
Frank Carpenito
August 25, 2016
To Jeff, the Duffy family, and to Kelcie, I am so sorry to hear of this deep loss. This is way too soon to lose such a special person. I have such fond memories of Cathy and our high school days, You are all in my thoughts and prayers! Patricia (Peaches)Rodman Towson
August 24, 2016
So very sorry to hear this news. Thoughts go out to the Duffy’s and Jeff. Always loved Cathy. Vickie Babin Galvin SRHS 1982
August 23, 2016
Dear Jeff, Kelcie and John,
Your Celebration of Life service this evening was a great tribute to the impact that Cathy had on so many lives. I worked with her many years at Salisbury Elementary School and could relate to all the stories of her joyful enthusiasm. She was always smiling and saw the best in eveyone. I feel honored to have had the opportunity to know her and work with her.
Mary Kay Mowrer
August 23, 2016
So sorry for the loss of Cathy My thoughts and prays ER for her family.
Sincerely
Elizabeth Powers Walkinshaw
August 23, 2016
Dear Jeff, Kelcie, and family,
Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Cathy was my first student teacher at Warwick Middle School! She was my BEST student teacher ever and I knew immediately that she would be an excellent teacher! Cathy invited my husband and I to her wedding at LBI and that was our introduction to the island! We have gone to Long Beach Island every year since..and our 30th wedding anniversary was spent there this past July! I was fortunate enough to go out for breakfast with her and reconnect! We are so sorry for your loss…she was a very special loving person and will be missed forever.
Sent with love,
Linda and Tim Landis
August 23, 2016
Jeff, Kelcey and family, We are so sorry for your loss, Cathy was a wonderful human being, so caring and compassionate, she was a wonderful teacher and was a blessing to my son in Salisbury. She was always cheerful and had a wonderful smile. Prayers for the family. Rest in Peace Angel, no more pain. Hope to meet again someday.
Helen and Alan Oster
August 22, 2016
Condolences to the Rudman/Duffy family.
Bob Selfridge
LBI Grade school class of 1976
SRHS class of 1982
August 22, 2016
Jeff and family,
So sorry for your loss.
I offer my condolences to you all.
-Darin (Bernie) Hershey
August 22, 2016
I remember Cathy from kindergarden through 12th grade as being one of the most wonderful human beings and a shining light to all. Cathy had a generous soul and was a great friend. She had a good word for everyone. Condolences to the Rudman family from Jim Given.
August 22, 2016
Jeff, Kelcie, and family: “death leaves a heartache no one can heal, but love leaves a memory no one can steal” We are so sorry for your loss of your beautiful wife, caring mother, and cheerful friend Cathy. We are so honored we got to know her, and share a few special memories with your favorite gal. May you find peace knowing her radiant spirit will live on through you all & may her memories always be close at heart. We love you!
-Hannah Fritz & Brian Korman
August 21, 2016
Condolences to the Ruddman Family,
My children were once students to this amazing teacher. They said they still remember her bright and smiling face. We wanted to thank you for everthing you have done for not only our children but also for all the children at Salisbury Elementary.
-The Alvaro Family
August 21, 2016
Condolences from the Schwing family. We lived at the opposite end of 12th Street in Surf City and remember the Duffy family very well.
August 21, 2016
I am so sorry to hear the news ; I remember Cathy well growing up on Lbi – she was so very kind – I’m glad she is no longer suffering and is as peace now. The heavens for sure gained a sweet, sweet angel. May god look over your family and give you peace at this very sad time. Love to the Duffy / Rodman family. May god hold you gently in the palm of his hands and hold you close <3
love annie karwasinski – 4th st surf city ox
August 21, 2016
How sad!We lived on Long Beach during the golden years of raising children there. Our families were intertwined and the Duffy family was a special part of that. Our children were all very close and our hearts are broken for you all at this difficult time. Our thought s and prayers go out to you and our arms enfold you. Love Jean Seddon and family
August 21, 2016
Dear Jeff and Kelcie, we grieve for your loss of a dear wife and mother. Cathy will always be remembered by us for her kindness and her smile. She will be forever missed.
Donna and Ray Troutman
August 21, 2016
Our heartfelt sympathy goes out to you Mary Jeanne and your family. I did not know Cathy personally but over the years I have heard how courageous and strong and loving a woman she was. I feel blessed to have known her through Mary Jeanne. May you all be at peace knowing Cathy will remain near to you forever. Light and love, Kimberly& Terry
August 21, 2016
Condolences to the Rudman family. Our thoughts and prayers go out to your whole family. Psalms 147:3 says God, “heals the broken hearted, and binds up their wounds.” May God bring you comfort and peace.
August 21, 2016
Kelcie and Family, I was so sad or read about your mother in this morning’s paper. I will always remember her beautiful smile and the pride she had in you. I know she will be missed. My sincerest sympathy and prayers to you, Carole Shellenberger
August 21, 2016
Dear Kelcie,
So,so sorry for the loss of your beloved Mother. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Jim and Mary Kehoe
August 21, 2016
Our sympathy to Jeanette, Jeanne and family. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time. Nancy and Mike Lennon
August 21, 2016
Our deepest condolences Jeanette, you and your family are in our prayers.
John and Joan Bladek
August 21, 2016
Dear John, Kelcie and family. I am so sorry to hear that you lost your beloved Cathy. Please accept my sympathy, thoughts and prayers. I knew her from Penn Manor theater. Her and my son Donovan did theater together. Footloose. I will remember her for her beautiful smile, friendliness and her spark for enjoying life. She always sought me out to have that warm conversation. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. It’s a tough journey. I lost my husband in April. Support from friends and family will help you. God will walk beside you each step of the way. I will keep you in my prayers. Sincerely Jody Hoffer and family.
- Services
- Tuesday, August 23, 2016
- 6:00 PM
- The Barn at Silverstone
- 62 Bowman Road
- Lancaster, PA
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