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Betty L. Sheaffer, 76

Betty L. Sheaffer, 76, of Brethren Village died Friday, Dec. 12, 2008 at Atlantic General Hospital in Berlin, MD. She was born in Ephrata, the daughter of the late Raymond and Elsie Sweigart Carpenter. Betty retired in1988 after 25 years of service at Woodstream Corp. She enjoyed the beach, reading and swimming with the gray mermaids at Brethren Village. She was a devoted fan of Elvis.

Surviving are three children; Robert E. Sheaffer, Cheryl A. Bachman, Marshall T. Sheaffer, six grandchildren, one great grandchild, three brothers: Jay, Glenn, Dale Carpenter and two sisters: Darlene Dohner, Patsy Beamesderfer.

Friends may greet the family at Village Garden Apartment Dining Room, 3111, Lititz Pike, Lititz, on Tuesday, December 16, 2008 from 2-4PM. Please omit flowers. Contributions may be made in Betty’s memory to Women and Babies Cancer Center, 690 Good Drive, Lancaster, PA 17601. Arrangements are by the Charles F. Snyder Jr.  Funeral Home and Chapel. To send online condolences, please visit www.snyderfuneralhome.com

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We would like to pass along our condolences to Betty’s family and friends.  After serving Woodstream with her 25 years of service, Betty was one of our long-term team members.  It is with deepest sympathy that we write this message in her memory.
Regards,
Woodstream Corporation
 

To:  Rock & boys, Cheryl & girls, and Marshall & Mitchell, as well as the rest of the Carpenter family, I wish to express my sympathy in Betty’s passing.  I know she will be greatly missed.  She was a strong, determined woman, who would drive you nuts at times, but she also was very funny & fun loving.  And she cared for everyone, just in her own way.
Please take care and know she left us all at the beach – one of the places she loved going to.
Sincerely,
Terri Sheaffer

the hevener family of manheim would like to express their sympathy
..Betty called me about 2 months ago expressing concern for june miller who was taken to the "ER" …this being my mother in law …definitely a surprise call  ive spoken with betty a few times and dined with her & june
I told june  ya know betty called me  and was concerned about you..I told her ya know Betty really is a true friend to you
Betty put others "ails" before herself 
To have a True friend like Betty one should consider themselves honored
She will be missed
sherri hevener

Dear Mom,
       You did the best thing ever for us kids. You let us make our own mistakes, but you were always there to pick us up. For that I want to thank you for being my mother. You will be missed very much. We love you with all our hearts. Bobby, Marshall and myself want you to enjoy the beach as much as possible, that is why your ashes will be spread over several beaches, this will make you very happy. I know us kids will love doing it for you. The date today is 1-19-09, and in 5 days your ashes will go down to Ocean City, Md. Us kids are going to the Princess Royale Hotel to put your remains on that beach. So I must say goodbye now, you will always be in my prayers. We love you so much.

Dear Mom,
        We want to thank you for all you did for us kids. In good times and bad.  We miss you so much, you will be missed alot. On 1-24-09, Bobby, myself and Marshall will put your ashes on the beach where you were last, Ocean City, Md. You will be in our prayers always, and love you very much.
Your daughter, and sons

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