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Albert
B. Shiffler, 83, Strasburg PA passed away Saturday, April 16 at
Lancaster General Hospital. He was the son of the late Florence M.
(Gamble) and Calvin R. Shiffler, Sr.
He is survived
by his wife, Patricia A. (Bowman) Smith-Shiffler.
He attended
Manor High School, served in the United States Navy and retired
from Millersville University.
In his early
years Al was an avid horseman. He enjoyed photography, visiting
Middle Creek, traveling to New England, Chincoteague and
Assateague. Music from the Big Band Era and Frank Sinatra were
favorites of his.
He attended
Hempfield United Methodist Church.
Surviving in
addition to his wife, children: Bruce (Judy), of Carlisle, Mike
(Joyce) of Schneckville, Tony, of Lancaster, Cindy (Gary) Goodhart,
of Lititz and previous wife, Ida Shiffler, stepchildren: Lori
Rineer (Jeff), Cindy Swift (Tom), D. Scott Smith (Tracy), Kristina
Flurry, Kathleen and Tim Sauder, two sisters: Jacquelyn Backer
and Gail Smith, ten grandchildren, nine step-grandchildren, nine
great-grandchildren. A previous wife, Lorraine, siblings Calvin,
Bernie and Gloria Shiffler, Lorraine Hohman and grandson, Devon
Shiffler, preceded him in death.
A Celebration
of Life Memorial Service will be held on Saturday, April 23, at
10am at the Charles F. Snyder Jr. Funeral Home & Crematory 3110
Lititz Pk. Lititz, PA with the Rev. Bruce Lefever officiating.
Friends will be received from 9-10am at Snyder’s. In lieu of
flowers, memorial contributions may be made in Al’s memory to
Hospice of Lancaster County, PO Box 4125, Lancaster, PA 17604. To
send the family an online condolence, please visit
SnyderFuneralHome.com. Charles F. Snyder Jr. Funeral Home &
Crematory 717-560-5100 |
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Dear Pat and Family,
So sorry to hear of 'Uncle' Al's passing. Al was truly a kind
and caring soul who will be missed. Always one with a quick
comeback,I will always remember his wit and humor,whether you
wanted to hear it or not. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you
and your family.
Take Care,
Eric and Kelsi Miles
My father was a man with a zest for life. He
lived each day to the fullest and got a big kick out of
entertaining everyone with his impersonations and one liners.
He loved his children and grandchildren and was proud of their
accomplishments. He was known as Poppy to his Grandchildren, but
my son Brian always saluted him as the Godfather and kissed his
ring when he entered the room. Obviously, though in jest, my
Dad got a big kick out of playing Marlon Brando for Brian at
that moment. While in West Virginia on Friday, I got the call
from sister. It is the call that you never want to get,
especially on your birthday. As I drove east, I remember
thinking that my dad was going to die on my birthday. I picked
up my wife and son Brian in Carlisle and then made the trip to
Lancaster General, the place of my birth. I fully expected to
spend a couple of hours looking at a man who was resting in the
dreams of morphine that has been administered to him for the
pain he was to experience. After a while, and content with the
realization that I had at least seen him alive, I whispered in
his ear....."Dad, it is Bruce...I am here...Don't be afraid."
He immediately opened his eyes and began speak. His words were
muffled and obscured in respiratory congestion, but I listened
closely and tried to understand but to no avail. Suddenly, his
words became clear and fairly crisp. Brian saluted the
Godfather, and everyone in the room gathered around as we
swapped memories and my Dad "held court" like the Albert of
old! It was truly a miracle, and though he slipped back into
sleep,I am thankful for that time we had together on Friday
night. God loves us all, and men of all faiths are carried home
to him to rest in his eternal dwelling place. He gives us more
than we deserve or even expect. His love is not proud or
conditional. Knowing of him and his existence has been the
result of an evolution of circumstances in my life that have
been too perfectly designed to be coincidental. I am always
surprised what he has in store
On my 61st Birthday, he gave me a far greater Birthday Gift
than I could have ever expected or hoped for....time with my
father that I will always cherish Goodbye Dad. I love you/
Bruce
Dear Family,
We didn't know "Poppy" other than by the numerous stories that
were related to us over the years and the occasional
introductions at family functions; but, if the old saying is
true that the acorn doesn't fall from the tree, then we really
did know him by extension of knowing our brother-in-law, Bruce.
We've got to believe that the kindness, quick wit, and love of
family that Bruce constantly portrays were, in many ways,
directly related to his father. The stories certainly suggested
that "poppy" was proud of his son as well as the rest of his
children. Our condolences to the family as we know he will be
missed.
The Gregors
Condolences to all of the Shiffler family. Al
was a person I only met a few times, but he seemed to really
love life. I know you will miss him.
With sympathy,
Donna and Bill Whitesel (Judy Shiffler's sister and husband)
I said to Reverend Bruce Lefever that, I will
risk sounding irreverent, but I have to tell you today's
funeral/memorial service was the best I ever attended! My thanks
especially goes out to my sister Cindy. Daddy's girl arranged a
show that surely made my Dad beam with pride today. She was
there with him to the end, and she outdid herself with planning
this event. The house was packed to overflow, with hundreds of
people. It was chance to talk with people I hadn't seen for
years. I will never forget the seemingly endless line of Amish
people who lined up to greet us, and took time from their daily
lives to arrange transportation to say goodbye to my father. He
was loved by so many. Thanks to Nicole for delivering my
thoughts. My Aunt Gail recounted stories from Dad's youth that
gave us all some much needed laughter. Cindy addressed the
crowd with class and composure. She was as comfortable up there
today, as my Dad was at an"all you can eat buffet, with no
tipping allowed!" Tom, his drinking buddy(coffee, that is),
recounted times of coffee and conversation in the afternoon,
where he and my father would solve world issues, only to find
out the next day that no one had taken their advice. My boys,
Brooke and Bobby, brought on the tears with their duet of "How
Great Thou art." Pastor Lefever's comments were right on the
mark, and reminded me of the promise of eternal life for all
men. My father must have been surprised and honored by the
Military men who marched forward and ceremoniously performed the
rite of colors for my dad, a World War II veteran. When my
sister was presented with the flag, and the thanks of my
father's service to his country, I was at a loss for words. The
closing of "My Way", sung by old Blue Eyes was the icing on the
cake. I know my father looked on with celestial tears of
gratitude. Sinatra never sounded better. My Dad never could
have been remembered better. My sister pulled it off exactly as
the old man would have liked it. Daddy's girl did him proud.
Bruce
I realized in my account of Big Al's memorial
service yesterday, I failed to mention the comments of Craig
Hohman, my cousin. No excuses... but I will blame it on too
much partying in the late 1960's and a few brain cells left
behind. Craig recounted the times that he and his mom and dad
would visit our house, and it was frequently. My Uncle Joe
(always my favorite Uncle) would tap his fingers on our counter
top to any Big Bands that my dad happened to have on the
stereo. He had been a big band drummer in the forties, and a
good one. Craig was an excitable boy and loved going down in the
basement to race the HO cars with Tony, or watch as my brothers
dressed up as their favorite Lon Chaney characters. When it was
time to go, Uncle Joe would warm up the red Plymouth wagon for
what seemed like hours, as he asked Lorraine if she was ready
yet. Another 20 minutes would pass, and Craig would dart up the
steps, chased by my brother who had now turned in to the
Creature from the Black Lagoon. "He's going to get
overheated!"...Uncle Joe would say to Lorraine, and she would
comment that she was almost done with her coffee. The Hohman
family visits meant good times at Park Circle Drive, and my Dad
loved those visits. Thanks Craig for bringing back such great
memories
Bruce
Al enjoyed life, but in his later years he
could no longer go the places or do the things he once did.
Fortunately he had Cindy and Gary to take care of so much for
him which relieved him of a lot of stress. I know this gave him
many more years of life. He loved his family and friends. Al
left us all with the gift of laughter and many, many humorous
memories that will stay with us for the rest of our years.
He'll be missed!
Love,
Gail & Jen Smith & Adam Schneider
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