I am so sorry for your loss. Randy was a
super sweet person from High school and my thoughts and prayers
are with you all.
Sincerely,
Melissa Cook
I met Randy through his fiancee Trish. And
although we didn't spend a lot of time together, we were friends
and when we did spend time, he was always fun to be around. He
was upbeat, easy going and overall a great guy.
He always had a smile and a joke, and every time he looked at
Trish you could tell how deeply in love with her he was.
He will be sorely missed.
If there is anything that either Sherry or myself can do, please
don't hesitate to let us know.
Our families prayers and thoughts are with you in this time of
need.
Safe journeys Randy, peace be with you forever.
May the road rise up to meet you,
May the wind be ever at your back
May the sun shine warm upon your face
And the rain fall softly on your fields
And until we meet again, May God hold
you in the hollow of his hand
Dear Trischia and family:
I know this pain you are all feeling all too well. It's at
best, unbearable. Having lost most of my family, I can tell you
the best advice I can give is to simply do your best to take
care of yourself during this time. You will be no good to
anyone, including yourself if you don't. I pray that in time
you are able to find peace in hearts and that the memories of
the good times outweigh the tragic memory of his loss.
Respectfully,
Stephen P. Stone
We are so sorry for the loss of a great
person, coach and friend. Randy was a great influence on our
girls lives, Linde & Tianna Crills. His encouragement to them
on the volleyball court was awesome. Linde was a senior at the
highschool last year and co-captain of the team. She also
helped Randy coach his club team, which Tianna was a part of. He
certainly brought out the best in the players and made them a
better team. He truly will be missed! We are praying for the
peace and comfort of the Holy Spirit to be experienced in your
lives. We are grieving with Trish and the whole family.
Love,
Dave & Sadie Crills, Linde & Tianna
Dear Cristine and (cousin)Vinny.
Joyce and were greatly saddened to learn of the terrible
accident that took Randy's life. He was a great young man and
one that will be greatly missed by the Lancaster community.
We were really happen to learn that he had continued his
interest in volleyball. I remember him fondly during the four
years that I had to the opportunity to coach him at Hempfield.
Our thoughts and prayers will be you both in the coming days.
Love to all,
Lee W. (and Joyce) Addie
We are so sorry for your loss and cannot begin
to understand why. Our prayers, thoughts and love are with you
all.
Randy, Linda and Jessica Marchuck
Sorry about Randy we are all feeling the loss
he was an amazing man with lot of energy and optimistic
personality and glow about him that every body felt when ever he
walked in to a room. I'm sorry for all our loss. My heart goes
out to all of you, my condolences, and sorry I'm not there
because I'm in Egypt now
Take care
Will
Dear Vincent and Christine,
Although I didn't know Randy, I can clearly see that he was
an energetic and likeable young man. I express my deepest
sympathy for your loss and want you to know that my thoughts and
prayers are with you in your time of sorrow. As your neighbor,
please know that I offer my assistance and support to you in
this time of grief.
Sincerely,
Lee Ober
Chris & family,
Words just aren't not enough to express the deep sympathy I
would like to express. I haven't seen Randy in years; in this
photo he looks like your dad. Take comfort in knowing that your
parents are at heaven's gate welcoming him in. Stay strong.
With all our love,
Maggie Hudak Stoiber & family
Dear Tom Paules and Family,
It's at these times that I wish we had stayed in touch over the
years. From what I have read, Randy was a wonderful person who
was cherished by those he knew and the students he taught. I
would have enjoyed knowing him. We are truly sorry for your
loss. Although you and I each lost our father in recent years,
this sudden and tragic event happening to a person so young is
much more difficult to comprehend.
Deepest Condolences,
Your cousin Bob Paules Jr. and wife Lucy
Austin, Texas
I am so sorry for your lose. Such a tradgedy
to loose someone so young and full of life and to miss the
future he was to have!! Randy always had a smile on him every
time I saw him. Will be thinking of you all, as I know how close
you all were!!
Kelly Shank and Family
Mr. and Mrs. Paules, Janelle,and Trish,
I believe the toughest pain we every bear is the loss of a loved
one. Please know we will share this burden with you. You are not
alone. If there is anything we can do for you or your families
let us know. My wife and I will help in any way we can. I have
known Randy for a very long time. We labored through work at
Damon's, we labored through many Phillies games, and through it
all I would not trade a single moment. Randy was one of the good
guys. We had a great time over the years. We talked alot about
baseball, work, volleyball, and we talked alot about you, his
family. He loved all of you and was proud of it. We will keep
his memory close to our hearts.
God bless you.
Respectfully,
Larry and Pamela Cuff
Trischia, I am so sorry for your loss. I am
just a recent widow and just wanted to let you know that you are
in my thoughts and prayers. I recently lost my husband who was
also 29. When I read the news in the paper, my heart ached for
you. Everyone's grief journey is different,but one thing is for
certain. 'When navigating the waters of grief, you don't prevail
by opposing them. You prevail by surrendering to griefs wisdom.
You agree to stand undefeated before things that are not
permanent and let pain pull you toward everything that
lasts.'(When People Grieve - Paula D'Arcy) I will keep you and
everyone hurting at this time in my prayers. Again...I am so
sorry.
Tom, Melanie and Hallie,
We want to tell you how sorry we are for your loss. Stay strong
for each other.
Ben and Lois
My deepest sympathies to your family and
Randy's fiancee. I graduated with Randy from high school and saw
him over the years and had the privilege of catching up with him
recently. He always had a huge smile and so easy to talk to.
The world has lost a great man.
"Although it's difficult today to see beyond the sorrow, may
looking back in memory help comfort you tomorrow"
My prayers are with you all,
Josh Manmiller
Chris,
I so hoped when I saw Randy's last name that as I read on into
the obit that there would be no connection to my little friend.
But that was not to be. I am so sorry that you must endure this
tragedy. Please know our thoughts are with you and your family
as you part with the man but work on retaining all the memories
you share. May you feel God's loving embrace.
Sincerely with sympathy,
Jim and Eula McKay
my deepest sympathy to the paules family. It
is hard to believe one of our school mates is gone, he was a
wonderful man , and will be deeply missed. May God bless you and
compfort you in this time of need.
Dear Chris, Vince and Janelle,
I just heard of Randy's passing. You are in my heart and
prayers. I know there is nothing I can say to ease the pain of
the loss of your child and brother. Know I send love to each of
you and know Randy is in the peaceful arms of our savior.
Chris and Vinnie,
I am so sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with
you both.
Stephanie Young Rudy
(Corestates Bank)
Chris and Vinny;
Having three daughters...I can't imagine...My heart aches for
you and you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Kim Flanagan
(Carlos & Charlies)
Dear cousin Tom and family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers today, as we cannot fathom
the pain of losing a child. Although we never knew Randy, from
his obituary and the other online condolences it is obvious that
he was well loved. Even though it has been over 40 years since
we have been together, please know that we still care and wish
you healing from this tragedy.
With deepest condolences,
Linda Paules Caillavet and husband John
Beaumont, Texas
Valarie and I were sorry to hear about your
loss. We were in shock of Randy's passing. take of your selves
and your in our thoughts. God Bless.
sincerly
Valarie, Paul, Tommy,Brandon and Emily
Hi I meet Randy years ago through is sister
Jan. Bowling against them for some 15 years. What I have come to
know is Randy was always a stand up guy. I am very sorry for
your loss and my family and I will be thinking of you guys.
Mike Slaugh
I am so sorry for your loss. I've had many
great times with him going all the back to jv volleyball. We
spent many nights sitting at damons and playing trivia. Randy
was one of those guys that would give you the shirt off his back
and not ask any questions about it. The hempfield volleyball
lost a amazing man this week. My thoughts and prayers go out to
all of his family and friends. I will miss Randy.
I was recently helping out at the Log Cabin
before their opening and that is when I met Randy. After their
opening I went there for dinner with friends and Randy was part
of makeing our evening special. Although I just recently met
Randy, it was obvious he was a great and careing guy. We are
saddened to hear of the loss of Randy, he will be greatly
missed.
Sincere Condolences to his fiancee, his family, his co-workers
and the people whose lives he touched.
Tom Frick
Wolf Furniture
Chris and family, my heart just breaks for
you. I am so very, very sad and so sorry for your loss and your
pain. Trischia, as a young woman, I too lost my fiance. He was
training a 2 year old colt, got bucked off, landed on his head,
broke his neck and died. I understand the depth and the
unspeakable agony of your grief and that of the parents. There
is no easy way for you to get through this. Only time can help.
Now 29 years later I love my life, although I still miss Brian.
It gets better...but it takes a long time. Hang in there sweet
Trischia.
With love, wishing you all to find peace.
Judi and Stan McGee,
M-1 Gettysburg
Vince and family. My deepest sympathies go out
to you. Cherish all the memories of Randy and hold them close in
your heart for you will see him again one day.
Take care and God Bless.
Kim Chaney(LLIU13)
My thoughts and prayers are with you. God
Bless you all during this difficult time.
Jolene and Kyle Hake
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Paules
Family and also the Singer Family. As well as the many others in
his Life that will surely miss Him. I did not know him, but I am
friends with his Father, as well as his Uncle, Gerry Paules. If
he was anything like them, he must have been a very nice young
man.
I can not begin to IMAGINE! The sorrow! GOD
SPEED I hope that your FAITH and the LOVE of others OUTPOURING
of LOVE HELPS you to get over this tough time. TILL YOU MEET in
the next AFTER LIFE.COMFORT in knowing that.
CHRIS ANSPACH
Chris, Vince, Tricia & Tom,
We just wanted to express our sincere thoughts and prayers to
your family at this time of great pain. Randy was such a light
in the lives of those he knew and will shine forever in the
heavens above. We hope that time and many happy memories of
Randy will help you through this difficult time in life. May he
rest in peace and may memories be a great source of smiles.
Fondly,
Skip & Pam Walters
To Jan and Family,
I have been friends with Jan since we were 16 years old and was
lucky enough to have known Randy through his sister. Randy and I
would always see each other at the gym. in between working out
we would talk about how busy our lives were and trying to find
time to hang out with one another. He was a great guy, always
had a smile on his face and I am going to miss him!
Sincerely,
Jeremy Sawdey
Chris and Family,
I am so very saddened about Randy's death, not only for the
resurfacing grief in my heart for the tragic death of my son but
knowing how hard it will be for you.....healing will come in
time.
Thank you for sharing Randy with me during his 4 years at
Arizona State University and including me in his graduation
celebration. Besides all the moving in and out of dorms and
apartments I have 2 memories that really stand out for me; the
first was when he walked off the plane in AZ juggling a
volleyball (I now know about his love of the game but at the
time it sure seemed strange!) and the other memory was when I
stood in for you at the ER and hospital waiting room when he had
his emergency appendectomy (and finding a stuffed animal cat
that looked like his so it could be waiting for him when he
returned from the OR).
I will miss Randy.
God bless you.
Cousin Shirley in Arizona
I have only met Randy through cleaning the lab
at Illuminex. I was deeply sadden when I heard about Randy's
passing. When I first met Randy at the lab I had called his
house to tell him their was a leak in the wall and the floor was
flooding with water. He immediately came to the lab and took
care of the problem. I saw him a couple of times after that and
I joked with him about understanding nano science. I thought he
was a very nice and goodlooking young man. Today I cleaned at
the lab and was very upset when I approached his desk. My
thoughts and prayer's are with the family and fiance at this
time.
Sincerely
Michelle
I was not a friend of your sons. I did not
know him in person, however, I knew of him, and had heard many
great things about him from a mutual friend. I am greatly
saddened by your loss, and I hope that somehow God brings both
comfort and some sense of why this has happened to all those
whom he loved, and all those who loved him. Nothing that I can
say can ever change what has happened, or make things easier...
however I do know that unfortunately our greatest ally in life
when events like this happen is Time. We just have to let it
run it's course, and realize that Time will heal all wounds, but
not all scars. All-though Randy is lost, he will never be
forgotten.
Regards,
Dickie R. Beebe
Dear Chris, Vince, and Family,
We were so sad to hear of Randy's passing. We will treasure the
memories of knowing him during his 4 years of college in
Arizona. He was such a bright, funny, and caring person. We
send our love and prayers to you; we are so very sorry. We will
miss him.
Tara, Darcy, and Kids
Our whole family loved Randy from the times he
became friends with Amy and on through the present. He was
always quick with a hug for each of us, always accompanied by
that huge, friendly smile. We are sad for the loss of such a
bright happy guy in this world and grieve with each of you. Our
loving prayers continue lifting you and supporting you through
this awfully difficult time but will remember Randy with love.
The Ressler family
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