My sincere condolences to all the family.
love,
JoAnn Glah and Family

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Benz,
My heart goes out to you.  I always was particularly fond of Kathleen, for like myself, she was the only girl in the family.  Please know that my thoughts and my prayers are with you.  May God hold Kathleen in the palm of His Hand, and may He Hold you and your family in His Heart.
Much love,
Aoife

We are so very sorry. You have all of our love and support,
The Flahertys

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Benz family at this time. So sorry for your loss.
Teya Montalbano

We are very sad for your loss and wish to offer you all of our love and support our thoughts are with you.
X
The El Jundi Family

Peggy and Tom....No words exist which will comfort you in the loss of your beautiful Kathleen.  We send you and the boys our love and our deepest sympathies. 
Love,
Peggy and Gary Hoffman

Friends,
I cannot express in words how sad I am to hear of Kathleen.  I am so sorry.  I want you all to know that - as little worth as it may be - I am thinking and praying for you all at this time.
Yours always,
Adam Bond '99

We are all so sorry. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love always,
Gretchen Mellon Aubuchon

To all of the Benzs,
The entire Flaherty family is heartbroken to hear this news. We wish you strength during this very difficult time, and may God bless all of you.

Dear Tom, Peggy and boys,
We are deeply saddened by your great loss.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
The Meehan family.

Dearest Peggy and family,
We are saddened more than we can express.  We pray that the closeness of your family will help to console each of you.   You are all in our prayers.
With deepest sympathy and love,
Jane, Chris, Claude and Abby Deering 

Dear Peggy and family,
I am so very sorry for the loss of your beloved Kathleen. 
Love and condolences,
Anne Rosen

I am so sorry for your loss.  You are in my thoughts and prayers.
All my love,
Charlie Al-Zaid

Dear Peggy, Tom, and your wonderful lads,
Words cannot express how deeply saddened we are for your loss. We feel privileged to have witnessed Kathleen blossoming into a beautiful and accomplished young woman. Know that you are all in our loving thoughts and prayers,
the Wallin family

We are so sorry for your loss and we are thinking of you all. 
The Jarvis Family

We are so very sorry for your loss, we are thinking of you
Melanie and Pascal Chiknagi

I was devastated to hear of this tragic loss - for you and for the ASL and Georgetown communities.  You are such a warm and loving family and I hope you find strength in each other at this time.
My thoughts and prayers,
Jennifer Regan-Lefebvre

I was deeply saddened to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
With love,
Sophie Panzner

I'm horrified to hear of this tragic loss. Girly had a bright smile ad caring heart. You are in my thoughts and prayers daily.
love,
Courtney (Mellon)Dubois

Please know that you are all in our hearts and our prayers. 
Love,
Cathy and Melissa Rothe

Peggy and Tom,
Words seem insufficient to describe such a loss, but please know that Kathleen's spirit will be with us always through all her were lucky enough to have known her.  Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the boys.
Debra, Michael, Rachel, Christopher, and Sara Kushma

We were so blessed to have Kathleen as our welcoming representative
when we moved to London in the middle of a school year.  Little did we know,
she'd become our daughter's dearest friend who we loved as our own.
Her kindness, enthusiastic spirit, and laughter live in our hearts.
Our sincerest condolences and prayers to all of you.
The Sanchez Family

Dear Peggy, Tom and family,
Please know that we are thinking of you and praying for you at this desperately sad time.
Jill and Elliott Chase and family

Our prayers, concerns, and tears are with you...
Much Love,
The Cirenza Family

Peggy,Tom, Tommy, Christopher, Patrick and Kevin,
The Haggertys are weeping with you over your precious Kathleen. I'm trying to reach Peggy by phone as Pat had suggested, but the number from which Pat called me is listed as "restricted."
We will be with you for the funeral. If you should see this message and want to call me, I am at 703-2727897 until 4pm Wednesday, and after that 703-739-9593.
I'm praying for all of you, and I'm certain Kathleen is in a position to be praying for all of us.
so much love
Chris

Dear Peggy, Tom, and boys,  Our hearts and love are with all of you at this time and in the future.  Kathleen, a beautiful young woman, will be in our prayers and thoughts always.
Bill, Jayne and Andrew McCawley and Lizzie and her husband, Seth, and new baby boy, James, Mathey.

Dear Peggy and Tom -- Joe and I are so sorry.
Stephanie and Joe Chodl

Rick and I are heartbroken for you - and for the boys.  There is nothing we can say other than we are thinking of you all and crying bitter tears for the loss of beautiful Kathleen. 
Linda Ely

Dearest Benz Family,
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.
With love,
The Rothe's

We are so sorry to hear about Kathleen.  Our thoughts are with the Benz family. 
Heartfelt condolences,
from the Clarks

Dear Benz Family,
We are so very sorry for the loss of Kathleen.
You remain in our thoughts and prayers.
All our love,
Terry & Stephanie Gladis

Dear Peggy and Tom,
Cindy and I wanted you two to know that you are in our thoughts and prays in this most difficult time. Please know that we will be with you in spirit, especially this coming Saturday.
With heartfelt thoughts ,
Cindy and Steve Wasley

So terribly sorry to hear about the loss of sweet Kathleen. My love to all of you.
Kolby Foss Brown

We were so saddened to hear about Kathleen.  I can still see her dressed up for Christmas matching her brothers and walking down the street in Hampstead.  She was so comfortable amongst all of her brothers.  It has been a long time since then but we all remember the Benz family warmly. 
You are in our prayers. 
Dirk, Cathy, Brittany and Brooke(Lenneman) Davidson

Dear Peggy, Tom and "boys,"
 Our thoughts, hearts and prayers are with you at this time of devastating loss.
 Miriam, Alan, Adam and Joshua Brody

Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
- The Findlay-Shirras Family

Michael & Benz Family,
We are so very sorry to hear about your devastating loss. You and your wonderful family is in our thoughts and prayers.
XXOO
Megan, Kelly and O'Brien Family '01 &'02

Peggy, Tom and Family,
Our deepest sympathies for the loss of your very beautiful,cheerful and wonderful Daughter and Sister.
Know that she is smiling with God as she watches over all of you.
 Accept our sincere Condolences and friendship.
Jill, Ken and the Smialek family

Dear Peggy and family,
Please accept our condolences for the unbearable loss of your beloved Kathleen. Our prayers are with you, may God give you strength in the difficult days ahead.
With love,
Donna Preddy and family

We were deeply saddened to learn of Kathleen's death.  The Benz Family is in our thoughts and prayers. With deepest sympathy,
the Moriarty Family

We are so very sad & sorry for your loss. Our thoughts & prayers are with you all.
With deepest sympathy,
Zed, Shelialla, Yashan & Nyresa Cama

Dear Benz Family,
We are so sad for your loss. We wish you strength for the days ahead and that you may find comfort in each other. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
The Pitchon/Udow Family

Peggy and Tom - We are thinking of you during this very sad time and trust that the love and support from family and friends will bring you comfort. Our prayers are for you and for Tommy, Chris, Michael, Patrick and Kevin. We know that the love you've shared will keep Kathleen in your hearts.
Linda, Tom, Emily  & Eliza Yoder

Dear Peggy, Tom, Tom, Chris, Pat, Michael and Kevin
We send you our deepest sympathies and most sincere prayers at this unspeakably sad time of losing your darling Kathleen.  Please know that all these years and many miles later, memories of Kathleen are fresh and beautiful still. From the time she "snuck" into her first CCD class in Hampstead, Kathleen, adorable and kind, took up residence in our hearts, and there, like in so many others, she will remain. God bless her, and all of you.
The Kopech Family

Dear Peggy and family,
There are no words to comfort you now but please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Ed and Christina Gibson
LTJG Michael Gibson USCG

Peggy, Tom, Tommy, Chris, Patrick, Michael & Kevin,
No words can describe how sadden we all are, in the death of Kathleen.   She was not only special to your family, but obviously to so many others,  whose life she has touched in some special way.
May God be with you all in your grief,  and give you the strength you need to endure this loss.  We will be coming down to Lancaster to be with you during this time. We have so many happy memories of your whole family during our time in London, those happy memories will never leave us, or the love she had for all of you. God brings you to it, he'll bring you through it.
Fondly
The Mellons

Dear Benz Family,
I attended ASL with Kathleen for three years (97-00). I fondly remember her as a kind, open person with a generous and giving spirit. I am so sorry to hear of this devastating loss - nothing can prepare anyone for this sort of pain. I will keep you in my thoughts and my prayers, and wish you peace and comfort.
Alex Fletcher

Dear Peggy, Tom and all the Benz's,
All the Peters' are so sorry to hear of your loss.  Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.  My you find the Lord's comfort at this difficult time.  
Joann and Brian Peters

To the Benz family,
My sincere sympathies to you at this time of tragic loss.  I remember Kathleen as a scrappy, luminous little girl with boundless energy.  I wish you all strength and faith, and my prayers are with Kathleen.
Alison Macdonald

To the Benz Family,
I wish I had words to express my condolences and sympathies...my heart goes out to your entire family.
Love,
Colleen Hoffman

Dearest Benz Family,
'Death lies on her like an untimely frost, upon the sweetest flower of all the field.' My heart is with you all in this devastating time.
Ruth Heuman

Please accept our deepest sympathy at this time of grief.
We remember Kathleen as a thoughtful, kind and loving person.
She will be deeply missed, but her spirit will always be with us.
Our prayers and thoughts are with all of the Benz family and we wish you strength in this difficult time.
With love,
The Sukawaty Family

Dear Peggy, Tom, Michael and your brothers
We were so sad to hear about Kathleen. All our thoughts are with you. May you find all the courage needed to go through this horrible time.
Isabelle, Mark, Graham, Melanie and William Tilden

Dear Benz Family,
Words cannot express the sadness we feel for the loss in your family.
We are thinking and praying for you all during this very difficult time.
Love
Vanessa, Brendan and Maya
Petrie-Daley

Peggy and Tom and Kathleen's brothers...all the Benz and Glah families
Our deepest sympathies to all of you on your tragic loss of such a beautiful, talented and vibrant young lady.  Our thoughts, our prayers and our love go out to you...that somehow you can find at least perpetual moments of comfort from having shared with Kathleen such beautiful times, sadly for far too short a time. Again, our condolences...
Carol and Frank Krakowski, MD

To The Benz Family
It was with much sadness that we learned of Kathleen's untimely death.  We have very fond memories of both her and the entire Benz family dating back to our days in London.  May the times and joys you shared with Kathleen comfort you in this time of loss.  
John & Teri Petrie

Dearest Benz family,
The Leader family is sorrowed and stunned by this dreadful news.  Zach, Alice, Nick and Max send their love to each one of you.  Our children have grown up together.  We never expected this.  We are heartsick.
Our thoughts and love,
Zach, Alice, Nick and Max

Peggy,Tom & boys!
Kathleen has touch so many people in so many ways.  She will never be forgotten.  Her kindness, her smile and of course her cute giggle, will always remain with us in our memories! We are so sadden by death, but we know that there is another angel in heaven today by the name of Kathleen!
Always in our prayers
Dan & Luann and family

So saddened to hear the news of your loss. Girly's gorgeous smile and contagious laugh will remain with us forever. Thinking of you all and keeping you in my prayers.
Love,
Paige Moriarty

To Tom, Peggy and family
I was truly shocked and saddened to learn of Kathleen's tragic death.  It's many years now since I last saw her, and hard to believe she was 25, but I shall always think of her as your special flame haired princess ....
May you all be comforted by your close family bond and your enduring faith, and I send you all my love and deepest sympathies.
Kathryn Blyghton

Dear Tom, Peggy and all the family,
Our deepest and sincere condolences to you and all the family.  Our prayers and thoughts are with you at the very difficult time. May your beautiful daughter rest in peace.
With our love.
Moira & Mike Spilsbury.

Impossible to express my shock and grief at the news.  I remember her for so many years as a bright, cheerful girl, with the hair, personality, and smile that brought the sun into each day!  While grateful for the interaction I did have, I am so terribly angry for the loss to her parents, family, and friends.  she was a giving person and was such fun to be around.  It is against nature for the promise to be cut short.  I send my love to all the Benz family and am thinking of you and sharing your grief.  I can only hope that the happy memories of times shared and the love of those around you will help you through this terrible time.
Suzanne Brooks

Dear Kathleen's family, your pain is our pain and my prayers of patience for the surviving are with you.
Kathleen's effervescent charm touches many hearts even today and will undoubtedly continue to do so forever.
Love,
Minoo (SFS '07)

It is so incredibly sad to hear this news. Kathleen was extraordinary - I have met few people as warm and compassionate as she was. Her smile was absolutely contagious! My heart goes out to her family. Kathleen will always be in my thoughts and prayers.
~ Emily Mihalik

Mr. and Mrs. Benz, Tommy, Chris, Patrick, Michael, and Kevin,
Words can not begin to express how sorry we were to hear of the loss of your sweet daughter Kathleen. We send our love and support during this incredibly difficult time.
With love and prayers,
Liz McGinn DiDomenico & Family

Peggy, Tom and boys,
We offer you our deepest sympathies and blessings during this time.  We were deeply saddened to hear the news and extend to you any support that you should need.  Kathleen was a warm and caring friend and touched so many hearts.  We are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers at this time.
Melissa, Steve, Kristin and Amelia Meadows

Kathleen was a dear friend of ours from Georgetown.  In fact, she was one of the first people we ever met there, as she was part of our freshman orientation group.  After that, we have many happy memories of retreats and 8pm mass with Kathleen, as well as just having fun, celebrating birthdays and holidays, and growing together over our four years.  Kathleen was always kind, fun, thoughtful, and a model of how to live out her Catholic faith.  We are especially honored that she sang at our wedding.  We will always love her and miss her very much.
Nichole and Joe Saboe

To the Benz Family:
I had the good fortune to meet Kathleen on the Spiritual Refreshment retreat our first year at Georgetown. Our paths continued to cross throughout our four years, most frequently at the 8 PM Mass we both loved so much. One of our favorite songs at that Mass was "We are One Body." Listening to it after I heard of Kathleen's passing, I was struck by one particular verse:

"I have come, your Savior, that you might have life,
through the tears and sorrow, through the toils and strife.
Listen when I call you, for I know your need,
come to me, your shepherd, for my flock I feed."

I cannot think of anyone who is a more certain entrant to heaven than Kathleen - I know that she is truly enjoying her eternal life. While it is hard for those left behind, this song reminds me that we are all being watched and protected, even thorough the "tears and sorrow". My thoughts and prayers are with you and all who loved Kathleen.
Jillian Duran
Georgetown College '07

To Kathleen's Family:
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter. I didn't know her, but I'm from the Kenai Peninsula, and heard about the accident on Tuesday. I've had both family and friends injured or lose their lives on the same highway, and I have the utmost sympathy for your pain and shock right now.
Please know that so many in this community are sending thoughts and prayers to your family; our hearts are with you.

Dear Benz Family,
We are so sorry for your loss.  You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Alex and Amanda Antes

To the Benz Family, We are so very sorry to hear about your tremendous loss.  You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Joanne and Stephen Ascher

My heart and prayers are with each one of you.  Kathleen was a student with extraordinary gifts of mind and heart.  I knew her through many of the activities she was part of, especially the Catholic Daughters.
May her peace companion each one of you.
Sister Helen Scarry, RJM
Roman Catholic Chaplain

I am deeply saddened to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your entire family.
With deepest sympathy,
Farah Ghanim '00

I am deeply saddened by and so very sorry for your loss.  My thoughts and prayers are with you all. 
With Deepest Sympathy,
Marissa Krukowski

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this time of loss. Our hearts are heavy with the thought of your sadness and grief.  If there is anything I can do for your family please do not hesitate to think of us as we are at your disposal.
Chris, Lisa, Joey, Anthony, Paige, Filomena and Marcus Fulmer

Gary and I are so sorry for your loss.  Words cannot express what we wish to say at this time.  We are thinking of you and your family during this very difficult time and sincerely offer our condolences.  We hope you cherish the wonderful memories you have about Katherine for many years to come. 
Much love from
Gary, Kristin, Sarah and Anders Link and Linda Magnussen   

Peggie, Tom, and brothers Tom, Christopher, Patrick, Michael and Kevin,
I have never felt more the presence of a sweet, loving, gentle and compassionate angel in heaven watching over us still in this life, nor felt more the assurance that she is securing for each of us - especially for her family - a warm and eternal embrace.
Soren West (Sr)

Mr. and Mrs. Benz
I cannot find the words to tell you how incredibly sorry I am for your loss. Kathleen was the first person I met at ASL, and truly the most darling girl I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. My family and I will keep you and your boys in our hearts.
With Love,
Amanda and The Nielson Family

Dear Peggy and Family,
We are heartbroken to know you have suffered the terrible loss of your precious daughter, you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Al and Theresa Poysden

To Peggy, Tom and Family,
I was deeply saddened to hear of Kathleen's tragic passing.  Please accept my most heartfelt sympathies for your loss.  My thoughts are with you during this very difficult time.
Kathleen Mayer-Fearn

Dear Peggy and family,
I didn't know your daughter but if she was anything like her mother she had to be a Wonderful person. You probably don't remember me but we both went to SJA.
I am so sorry for your loss, I will keep you all in my prayers. Kathleen is  safe now, she's with God.
With much sadness,
Bobbi John McEvoy,
Columbia, Pa

Peggy, Tom, and boys,
Kathleen will live always in our memories as the bright, friendly, smiling, young lady she was. Our hearts are breaking for your loss.
Most fondly,
Pat, Eric, Alex and Scott Gadd

Dear Benz Family,
The Majors family offers our sincere condolences for the loss of your lovely daughter Kathleen.We have you in our thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Howard,Suzanne,Mark and Carolyn

Dear Peggy, Tom and boys,
We are so sad to hear of Kathleen's death.  What a beautiful daughter she was, in so many ways!  Close to God in life, we know she is close to Him now.  Our prayers and thoughts are with you every day.
Maryann and George Macdonald

Tom, Peggy, and your boys,
Words are of little consequence when tragedy such as this occurs. Although it has been many years since last we met and spoke, I have always had great respect for both you and Tom, and in turn, for the children who have blossomed into maturity, and now represent both of you.
I know that it will be your faith in God that helps you in this most difficult time, and I send the most heartfelt sympathy from Rhonda, Ian and myself, in your hour of grief.
With deepest regrets,
Alan Miller

My dear, dear friend Peggy,
 My words cannot express how sorry I am for your unbelievable loss.  I will always be here for you... 
Much love,
Kristin

TO TOM PEGGY AND SONS.PEGGY, AS I READ THE NEWSPAPER TODAY I WAS SO SHOCKED BY THE LOSS OF YOUR DAUGHTER KATHLEEN.LOSING A CHILD IS ALWAYS SO HARD AND PEGGY I AM SO SAD YOU HAVE TO GO THROUGH THIS. ALL WE CAN DO PRAY FOR YOUR FAMILY-I MAY ASKED I AM CONCERNED ABOUT YOUR MOTHER- SHE HAS BEEN SUCH A THOUGHTFUL AND KIND PERSON AND LOVED ALL YOUR FAMILY SO MUCH. PLEASE GIVE HER A MESSAGE THAT I WILL PRAY FOR HER ALSO. I TEXTED JOSH AND HE WAS SHOCKED- PLEASE TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND FEEL FREE TO CALL ME IF U NEED TO TALK . WE ARE ALL PRAYING SO HARD FOR YOU PEGGY- MY PHONE IS 7175752524 AND CALL IF YOU EVER WANT TO TALK.
FONDLY,
DEB GOTTSELIG SHAEFFER AND SONS JOSH AND JUSTIN.

Dear Peggy, Tom, Tommy, Chris, Pat, Mike and Kevin,
Our hearts ache for your loss of precious Kathleen. We send you our deepest sympathies, love and prayers.
JoAnn, Patrick, Christopher, Gregory and Patrick Copeland

Dear Tom, Peggy and Family, Words can't describe our sadness for you at the loss of Kathleen. It is heartbreaking and we are devastated for all of you.  You are in our thoughts and prayers and we are there for you.
With love,
Barry, Louise, Oscar and Jemima.

Dearest Peggy, Tom, Thomas, Patrick, Christopher, Michael and Kevin,

The untimely passing of beautiful Kathleen is a shock and a huge loss to all who've known and loved her.

We hope and pray that you will find strength and comfort in knowing what an amazing young woman she was and take pride in all that she had accomplished during her life.   You raised a wonderful person, who generously gave to others throughout her life, what an inspiration she was. 

She'll still be with you, looking out for you, just from a different place.

Love, hugs and prayers for you all,

Polli, Kent, Brent, Jessica and Mike Phippen

Dearest Peggy,
There are no words to express the sadness I feel for you and everyone at this dreadful time. Please know that I love you and am here when you are ready. My love to everyone. She was our radiant girl and a joy to all who knew her. You and she are forever in my heart. Sonja.

Dear Peggy, Tom, Tommy, Christopher, Patrick, Michael and Kevin,

 

It is with the greatest sadness and sympathy that our family mourns your heartbreaking loss.  Please know that I have a special place in my heart for your beloved Kathleen, for she was a true inspiration to me personally and to those of us with children in the SLD program at ASL.  As a parent, I appreciated how empowering it felt to know someone who not only was smart, but who knew how to speak up for herself, how to ask for help when she needed it and get it.  She was a wonderful role model.  Seeing her succeed in so many ways at ASL and Georgetown was a marvelous affirmation of all that our children are capable of achieving, regardless of one's learning challenges.  Though I never said it, Kathleen was my hero and forever will be. 

 

In a life cut short too soon, we pray you may find comfort and strength in knowing that Kathleen leaves behind a legacy that will live on.  For hers is the gift of hope, a timeless legacy that speaks to our dreams and aspirations and all that can be achieved through perseverance, personal advocacy, positive attitude and abiding faith. 

 

Our hearts and prayers are with you, your family and all who loved Kathleen. 

 
Ann, Mark, Jack and Elizabeth Lowey

Tommy and the Benz family.

I am so sorry for your loss.

Rob Turner and family

Dear Peggy, Tom, Tommy, Michael, Chris, Patrick, and Kevin,

There are no words to express our deep sorrow at your profound loss. Kathleen has touched so many with her sweetness, gentleness and love - truly one of life's rarest treasures. She is unforgettable, and her beauty and goodness will live in our hearts forever. You are in our daily prayers.

With love,
Liz, David, and Susan Feeley
Jess and Olivia Bennett
Kate, Mike, and Tom Agnew
John, Cherie, Nick, and Jack Feeley

We are deeply sorry for your loss.  Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

-Steven Kelly and Alicia Ferro

Peggy,
I'm a friend from your past; I was Linda Musser back then and we were at Lancaster Catholic High School together until you switched to the Academy.
I am so sorry for your loss! Your daughter surely is in the arms of Jesus- according to the obit she was a devoted Catholic Christian who lived out her Faith. Although she had joined the angels, I know that does not take away the profound ache in your heart. I will pray for you and your famile. God bless you, Peggy.
Linda Musser Greineder

Dear Michael and Benz Family,
I am so, so sorry for your immense loss. Kathleen was, and continues to be, an inspiration to all for the way she lived her faith, the way she loved others - who she was. I enjoyed every moment that we spent together at Georgetown, and I will miss her. Count on my thoughts and prayers for you during this difficult moment. With love,
Sarah Krokey

Dear Peggy, Tom and family,
We recall Kathleen's gentle and heart warming nature, her sense of humour and engaging smile. In any Girl Scout situation, her Benz wisdom was
on target.
    The golfers are off with very heavy hearts. From a headstone in Ireland:
            Death leaves a heartache no one can heal,
            Love leaves a memory no one can steal. 
    We send our love and prayers. Godspeed,
    Barbara, Bill, and Lauren Tierney and Sarah Tierney Wisnieski

Benz Family,

My deepest condolences on the passing of Kathleen. She was a kind and bright soul. You will all be in my thoughts and prayers.

Laura Cofino

To The Benz Family

There are no words to express our sadness.  Kathleen was a beautiful girl.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Lisa and Curt Brill

Tom, Peggy, Tom, Chris, Pat, Michael and Kevin,
We are deeply shocked and saddened by the loss of Kathleen.  You are all in our thoughts and prayers at this unbearably sad time.
Jane, Peter, Matt, Elizabeth and Carolyn Gaines

Dear Benz Family -

We offer our most heart-felt condolences.

Lina, Jack, Phil (ASL '03) & Emma Wood

Dear Tom, Peggy, Tommy, Christopher, Patrick, Michael, and Kevin,
Our family is shocked and saddened by the tragic loss of your precious Kathleen. She remains in our hearts that gentle, caring, and compassionate child we were privileged to have in our lives those years ago in London. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time.
All our love,
the McClelland Family

Peggy, Tom and family,
This is truly a tragedy.  Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Judy and Richard McGinnis

Peggy and Family,

We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your precious daughter.  Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. 

Phil and Mara DeKemper

My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I remember Kathleen so well as  a pupil in my class at Rosary School in London. She was such a delightful and kind child. May God bless her.

Sincerely,
Gerard Thompson

Dear Michael & family,
I was so shocked and sad to hear about Kathleen. Please know you and your family are in our prayers...
Laura Meissner ('04)

My heartfelt sympathies to the Benz family, and my thoughts and prayers especially for Kathleen's brother, Michael.  I did not know Kathleen, but I do remember Michael very well as one of my finest students in terms of academics and humanity.  Perhaps knowing that people from far and wide who have been touched by this family are coming together in support and sympathy will bring some comfort at this most difficult time. 
Karen E. Breiner-Sanders,
Associate Professor Emerita, Georgetown University, www.breinerk@georgetown.edu

Dear Benz Family -
We are so sad to hear about Kathleen. You have our endless love and support.
Keith and Natasha Robinson

We hold your family in our hearts. We have such fond memories of Kathleen from our ASL days. She and Caroline were the red heads of the Girl Scout Troop. Her sweet nature and gentle spirit were unforgettable.
Kaki, Kent, Caroline and Colin Grubbs

Tom, Peggy, Tommy, Christopher, Patrick, Michael and Kevin dears,
We are profoundly saddened by your loss of your dearest Kathleen.  You loved her so much and she loved you right back.  You are the most beautiful and loving family.  We pray for your peace.
Lovingly,
Pat and Marcie

To Kathleen's family:

Please know that I was the priest who was called in for Kathleen when she was at hospital in Homer and since then I have celebrated 4 Masses for her intention.

You too are in my prayers.

My sincere condolences to you all:
Fr. Andrew

Our friend Liz Baak told us of your heart breaking loss. Kathleen's contributions in this world have made an indelible difference. Our hearts go out to you today as you honor Kathleen. We write as parents who have also sent a child to heaven before us. Know that we will hold you in prayer as you journey through your grief.

Linda and Dennis Duff
Simsbury, Connecticut

Tommy & the whole Benz Family:
I'm so deeply saddened to learn of this news.  Please know that all of my thoughts and prayers are with you.  Please take good care of each other.
Best,
Matt Bijur

Peggy and Family,

We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your precious daughter.  Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. 

Phil and Mara DeKemper

Dear Peggy and family, our deepest condolences for your unbearable loss.  No words can express the sadness we all feel and we pray that the Lord give you the strength to go on with your lives.

Malette, Mikael, Francis and Stephanie Dahl

Dear Tom and Peggy, Tommy, Christopher, Patrick, Michael and Kevin.

I am so dreadfully sorry to hear of your heartbreaking loss.  I can only begin to imagine your pain and grief.  Please know my thoughts are with you at this terrible time.  With deepest sympathy to you all,

Stephanie Syers

Dear Peggy, Tom, and all the Benz boys
No words can even attempt to be of any comfort against the loss you are going through.
My heart, soul and prayers are with you all. May God bless your beautiful Kathleen.
With love, affection and everlasting friendship,
Donato Loscalzo

Kathleen was my camp councilor at ASL when I was four until I was seven. She was a very kind and generous person and was also very helpful. One day when I was five, I had a bad morning and I was very sad. When Kathleen saw my face, she knew something was wrong.  She asked me and I told her and she hugged me and told me how much fun we would have that day.  She told me everything we were going to do, which cheered me up. I didn't just have an okay day, I had a very fun day. She was one of the best camp councilors I would ever have. I hope God blesses your family and helps you like Kathleen helped me.

Love,
Darby Gillett , Age 10
New Hampshire

A Gaelic blessing to the dear Benz family.

Deep peace of the running wave to you,
Deep peace of the flowing wind to you,
Deep peace of the quiet earth to you,
Deep peace of the shining stars to you,
Deep peace of the gentle night to you;
the moon and stars pour their beaming light on you,
Deep peace of Christ,the light of the world,to you.

My deepest sympathy to all,
love ,Marie Meehan

Her life is changed, not ended....

Heartfelt condolences from the Midon Family.

I last spoke to Kathleen outside Healy Hall in August, 2007. She was in her element at Georgetown, so obviously happy to remain part of the community she came to love as a student. She radiated joy that day, just as she had every summer morning in London when she greeted the ASL summer campers and loaded them onto the bus. I feel fortunate to have known her. Cait and Darby recognized how lucky they were to have a role model like Kathleen.  Anyone who says empathy can't be taught obviously never saw Kathleen interact with these children. Her legacy of kindness endures, but what a void her absence creates, for Georgetown, her friends, but especially for you, her family. I came to Kathleen's funeral afraid to witness such profound grief. I left grateful to have witnessed such profound love. And still, my heart breaks for you all.

Kathy Gillett with love from Bill, Austin, Brendan, Cait and Darby

Dear Benz family,

I was greatly saddened to learn of the tragic loss of Kathleen. I will always remember her warm smile and cheerful presence from the time I spent with her through Mask and Bauble at Georgetown. Please know that you all are in my thoughts and prayers.

With sympathy,
Jess Thomas (COL 06)

Dear Michael and Family,

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.  Kathleen's loss is heartbreaking to us all.  May her memory give you strength. 

Inessa Mirkin (SFS '04)

Benz Family,
I'm so sorry to hear about Kathleen. I have such great memories of her from our days at ASL together and have always remembered her as such a warm, kind, and positive person. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Lauren Tierney

Dear Peggy & Tom
We are saddened to hear of the heartbreaking loss of your lovely Kathleen and cannot imagine your anguish. There are no words to comfort you at a time like this. Our thought, prayers and love are with you all.
The Bartko Family

Dear Peggy, Tom and boys,

My heart is filled with sadness at your loss. 
How fortunate I was to know Kathleen in her younger years. 
I know that Kathleen will be sadly missed and lovingly remembered.

My love and prayers to your family,

Frances Hall

I was saddened to learn of the death of Kathleen.  My husband & i were longtime friends of the Benz family.  I wish I had the right words to say how really sad I am for you.  Tom and Peggy were lovely parents and this tragedy is so difficult for all of you.  Thank God you have a strong faith in the Lord.  He will see you through. 
Sincerely, 
Mary Lou Hemmerly  ( my husband, Dr. Wm. Hemmerly passed away on Feb. 3. )

We were so sad to learn about the loss of your precious daughter.  Please accept our deepest sympathy.  We pray that our Heavenly Father, in his infinite wisdom and mercy, will grant you peace in the days and weeks to come.  We will hold you all in our hearts.

Jack and Sharon Kinsey and Family
Vilma Lee Reusch

To The Benz Family,

My sincere condolences to you all at the loss of your beautiful Kathleen.  She was one of the nicest ASL students I ever had the pleasure to know and work with here at ASL. She will be with you all in your hearts always.  You are in all our thoughts and prayers. 

Love,
Doreen Murphy (Byrne) ASL Athletics Secretary

Dear Tom, Peggy and boys,

We cannot begin to understand why. Kathleen was just the best there ever was. As Darby Gillett said in her message, "Kathleen was the greatest counselor she ever had", and she was certainly the best who ever worked with me at ASL.
All the Carter family are thinking of you all.

Bob and Doreen Carter and family.

To Peggy and Tom,

You remain in our prayers along with all of your family.  Our hearts are with you during this difficult time.  We will always remember Kathleen as that sweet, smiling red headed girl who was nice to everyone! 
With deepest sympathy,
Pam and Niels Vernegaard

Dear Peggy, Tom, Tommy, Christopher, Patrick, Michael and Kevin,

The Memorial Mass at Georgetown University yesterday was a profound tribute to your daughter and sister - a young woman whose life sang of God's glory.
We will always fondly remember Kathleen attending yet another event or performance in Annenberg Theater at ASL.  May Kathleen be encircled in the Lord's love and may all of you one day be comforted in his peace.

Our deepest condolences for your unbearable loss,
Jerry, Patty, Christopher and Claire Olszewski

To the Benz family,
I was so sad and shocked to hear about Kathleen. I'm thinking of you all so much and send you all my love.
Jackie Saleh

Michael and the rest of the Benz Family: 

I am so deeply sorry for your loss.  As a friend of Michael's from college, I know how fond he was of his sister and what a wonderful person she was.  I express my deepest sympathies to your family at this incredibly difficult time.

With love,
Liz Meltzer

We are so sorry to hear of the loss of Kathleen. She touched so many lives with her goodness.   She was indeed a reflection of you and a loss to the world. 
Our heartfelt condolences, 
The Leonard family

Peggy dear, 
There is not a day that goes by that I do not think of you.  You are the most devoted mother I know.  God bless you and give you strength to go on. 
Love you, 
Marcie

Our prayers to God ask for eternal salvation for Kathleen, peace and comfort for her family and friends.
Jim & Hildegard Charles
St. Thomas More Parish
Swiss Cottage, London

Dear Peggy and family
All the O'Neills send their deepest sympathy and heartfelt love to you at this so very sad time.
Here in NZ we have a candle lit for your beautiful Kathleen.
God Bless you and keep you comforted.
Much Love
Marianne Gilbert

Today on your special day, Amanda just happened to find a note you wrote us when we were leaving London in 2002
You put a picture of yourself with it.
Your smile is vibrant.  Happy Birthday Angel

Love The Sanchez

Dear Peggy & Tom,
Mother & Dad Balshi called me here in St. Paul the moment they heard of Kathleen's death.  We were shocked !  Shortly after, Mother & Dad forwarded the printed obituary and it has sat on my desk all summer,beckoning me to grieve and mourn and pray with you.  We only met the first two of your children before you moved to London, and now, looking at Kathleen's picture, she is the "beautiful image of her mother" with the same glowing smile we remember.  Who can comprehend the enormous sadness a parent feels in the loss of a loved child?  We have been holding all of you in our prayerful hearts from the first moment we learned of this family tragedy.  But, our Christian faith assures us that Kathleen now enjoys the eternal eucharistic embrace of our Risen Savior.  "May your tears be soon turned into dancing!"
Love & prayers,
Dr. Thomas & Mary Ann Balshi Okner 
12 Sunfish Lane St. Paul, MN 55118 
oknerMA@aol.com

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